A NARCISSIST'S WORST NIGHTMARE 

Please don’t attempt to expose/win against/destroy a narcisist unless you know Exactly what you are doing. Just move away from them and patiently watch them destroying their own life…

The worst thing that you can do 2 a narcissist is to be happy in life

After many years I finally blocked my ex. Our children are old enough now that I don’t need to speak to her. She was still hoovering, manipulating, and showing me just how selfish, entitled and delusional she is. Im done. Now after 22 years I can start healing and start a new life.

My worse nightmare IS THE NARC.🤯

So essentially how you are made to feel being around them for lengths of time, is how they feel on the daily. Another form of projection on a deeper level.

Once you leave never go back

But yet narcissists love to make you feel irrelevant.

Or how about if a narcissist is stuck in a room with all their ex's? They will know they have compared notes that they see who the narcissist really is and they will see the collateral damage this person has done. Sort of like storming, Frankenstein's Castle, and going after the monster.

In my opinion you are much more knowledgeable than most professionals, there is nothing like actual experience!❤❤❤❤😂

Wen the whole bag a lies not workin na more

Thanks. a narcissist is a five-year-old child who is afraid that he will disappear from the attention of his parents, they could not become adults.

I will never be treated like that again

make people around him happy, without him. never talk to him.

It’s sick how somebody wants so much time and energy on them .., when they don’t see or hear you .. and they make sure you know it !

They make their victims think that they’re the narc and the narcissist is the victim …that’s the biggest struggle narc victims mentally struggle with…I still question if I’m a narcissist even though I know I wouldn’t ask myself that if I was

This video was very interesting made me realize that I can live somewhere else n still be a father

A piece of paper doesn't make someone an expect. Life experience does. You're an expert! As far as narcissistic, they need people around them to people,please and feed their ego. While they treat you like a door mat. Narcissiam, is a disease. The twist is, they don't get sick from this disease, you do !

I moved away for good. All of a sudden my narc friend didn't have his reliable supply anymore. When we contacted a couple of years later, he went through the "Narc Collapse" thing. I see it clearly now. This video sums up that phenomenon very well.

Well according to this video then I was my Narcissist worst nightmare.I remained totally unbothered 7 months.She tried to suck me back in right before she went to court and got hit with 18 months.May God have Mercy on her soul

Grey rock forever. Move on.

Lol, my idea of heaven is exactly what a narcs worst nightmare is.... lmfao!!! If i can remain invisible to the world as an observer... that's just so freeing. I like being the fact that I am irrelevant. Space dust. There is a spiritual cleansing experience in just not caring if others see you or not. Narcs CANNOT FATHOM THIS. 😊

YES, and how to become and to stay a full blown, florishing and happy human being if you are surrounded only by those creatures? Thank You!!:))!!👍🌺💐🌷🎁🌈⚓!!

Even if they do know how you feel, they really just don't care.

They are so fixed in their beliefs that they would either feel as victim or as “know it all “ and devalue anything you may confront them with. I had two serious relationships , one was speech pathologist and other with an RN , and both turned out to be my worst nightmares . Is there some study showing that these narcissists may gravitate towards such professions to feel needed ?

No, say whatever you need to say and go!!!

Good video of priceless shared experiences. Perhaps even in a room with some attention, the narcissists insatiable need will still feel lack. Living in a mental world that is unable to be comprehended by people with any empathy, any compassion, any true ability to have positive relationship impact. I know this from observation. Any short respite of supply satisfaction is extinguished at the next thought of lack. And number one lack is the consistent revolving door of supply people. Even with designer everything, validation automobiles, even a unhealthy obsession with cleanliness. Bear with me, I'm a clean nut, heck I even subscribe to a channel on cleaning. But life's amenities are meant to be used, cleaning can wait till the next day or the next. It will get done. Point is obsessive compulsion. Maybe they are trying to "claan" the internal filth away through external means. You have to live their way or you are passive aggressively less than. The longer you subjugate yourself, the longer the deprogramming will take. But once you reach that pinnacle moment where your idolization becomes utter non returnable disgust, you have now reassure control of your life. They didn't kill being kind, they didn't kill patience, they didn't kill empathy for someone I dont even know or met. Ive thought how would I feel if they were physically hurt or passed away. I would feel bad....at a distance. Thank goodness she didn't steal me. ( sry...had a rant spurt )

Thats sad but they treat us 😔 awful

Seriously though I work with a guy I thought we were friends everyone told me he was a narcissist but yeah it’s mind blowing to realize this is exactly what he does to me and my coworkers I decided I’m just going to ignore him from now on

Thank you for posting another great video. I really appreciate how well you explain things.

Another valuable video!! Thank you so much. Love learning from your channel

Obviously it’s much worse to be in a relationship with somebody who’s this way but this happens at work iv had friends like this and girlfriends like this it’s sad so many people are this way

I think it would be extremely disturbing to anyone to be around a bunch of people who couldn’t hear or see you- Have you ever been shunned? But I know what you mean…. For a narcissist that would be like being in a room full of food you couldn’t eat.

Thier in constant crisis mode 😂 good !

I love the examples you use to help us learn. They are so very helpful.

I wonder if narcissists would ever have the desire to change their ways if they actually knew what they really looked like to the normal person…like how we describe them..the way they are..if they knew how moronic they really look by being themselves

You vidéos are hyghli interesting and helpful!!!!🤗thank you..🙂👍❣️

7:48 🙂very good & helpful talk!

Thank you for another great video!! Very valuable insight ♡♡ Maybe you would be able to make a video about stonewalling?

I would like to know your personal story. What happened that made you wake up and not take it anymore? What are some things in a narcissist relationship that you thought ‘that’s weird!’

They are soon bored

My ex GF had what I would call, social anxiety, where she would be triggered in a social setting. I think it was because she was not being paid attention to. In retrospect, I should have stayed right by her side to make sure she would be getting attention at least from me. I would forget, because sometimes at a party there are moments when you are alone and not talking to anyone. I always had to be on my toes to makes sure she was okay. She would, in instant, angrily walk right out and walk home, it happened a bunch of times. Just getting her to go was hard. What are they serving, who will be there, how long will it be? It was endless controlling stuff, and then, often a meltdown/tantrum of epic proportions, her sleeping on the couch, as if it was my fault.

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I love him but theres nothing i can do ! Its sad

You talked a little about Narcissistic collapse, but how is that different than Narcissistic injury? I outed my exe's affair to his brother. Things went downhill after that.

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