Love your videos LadyMocha, hate to say it but you are 100% on the money with this one. I had to learn the hard way. Was giving my husband a hard time for foolishness and he booted my ass. Lol. After going through that mess and fighting back for my husband.... we came back together. You are so right, cause my ass became boot camp trained! Straight as a whistle! Can't lie, some of us women are spoiled rotten and don't know the great man that we have by our side until we see another woman in our spot.
It takes a real woman to even admit to that! You know we have a hard time telling ourselves the truth. Me being stubborn has costed me many ways in my marriage, but the important thing is that we have learned. So many women have lied to themselves and wonder why they constantly keep ending up in the same situation. It becomes a revolving door. I respect your honesty a 100%!!!
Queen, Your dropping some POWERFUL WISDOM to the youth and the ADULTS, FOR REAL!!!!! These are words that needs to b e spoken. Your absolutely RIGHT, we can't be so fast to give up on our CHILDREN or MARRIAGES!!! My Hope is people are Hearing what your saying, not just Listening, because it's a difference. Your dialog is to the Men for awareness, but to the women as well. If your up on this Elders platform, in your feelings and the truth hurts, then she's speaking TO YOU! Don't sit back and attack, sit back and check yourself, reevaluate yourself, because what she's saying NEEDS to be said. Ask yourself the questions, Do I do this, do I ack like this, do I carry myself like this, and why I do this/ that, how did I become this way??? Can I do better, can I be better??? Answer is YES, but before I do, I have to go within myself and research and check myself. LOVE yourself first, in order to LOVE and receive love from someone else. Peace💜
Good morning I have just started listening to u and I love so far everything ur speaking on and,us men need to be blasted to cause we all need to hear the truth.
I was in the EXACT same spot. I'm in all kinds of debt proving for my ex wife AND her kids. She fooled around with a bunch of guys and acted innocent 😇. I've since moved on and I'm much better. A reset of the mind is needed. You'll be ok in time. A woman will suddenly want a man when another woman shows interest in that man.
She is preaching the truth, especially the part about how women, no matter how they try to come off or what profession they are in or how small their clothes are, want to be "wanted" or loved. Hell, look at all of these ex-pornstars and escorts (Superhead, Mia-Khalifa, Jasmine Cashmere, etc) who are now married or in relationships. Men, we do have the advantage and we need to start correcting and controlling the market.
Your husband is blessed to have a queen like you at his side through it all! I pray to the Most High that I can be blessed with a woman like you and that my marriage can be as successful as yours! We have been taught to hate and compete with each other in the bondage of slavery. It's nice to know that there are sisters out here that still love us and support us; and are willing to teach other sisters to do the same. SALUTE
I wish people could respect themselves and stop settling if a person only coming back because they see you with someone else that's not always a good thing some people don't want to be with the person but they don't want anyone else to be with the person either they just want to block your life. if you leave don't think you can always come back because sometimes the person coming in ends up being a better fit. And they forget all about you.
What if its reverse and im raising our son on my own and we cant get along for shit iv tried to give a chance after chance to be in his sons life and still 9months now nothing we dont even talk because im just tired of being disrespected and used...Lady Moca
The very fact that a weak woman was waiting on someone to fail meant they already lost and failed first. Because they already made the CHOICE to leave and do better, vs stay with a dead beat woman. The Woman failed, because she was never worth proving anything to. The man proved it to himself, that she never mattered in the first place
LadyMocha U R GIVING THE WRONG ADVICE OUT TO THESE MEN BASICALLY U R TELLING THEM TO PLAY GAMES &ANY MAN THAT WILL DO THIS DUMB ASS SHITT. WILL NOT GET POSITIVE RESULTS smh
Your knowledge is refreshing I'm a man in a relationship with a woman with 3 grown son's still home I can't stress enough of my myself I'm messed up could you give a brother some incite I feel lost I'm single an son is grown an doing well I feel lost an broken any advice please
The death of many relationships is money. Comparing what you have to others who have more is a miserable way to live. Women STOP - it will ruin your life.
she telling the truth. I try that trick. This chick havent talk to me in months. Heard about me and a nother chick. She confronted the chick with a box cutter. The female that i was dating told me 3 days later I ask her about it and she said it wasnt about me. she said that chick seen me with you before and we talk and said hi to each otherbefore its not about you it was about her. lol. But she wanted to get back together.
LadyMocha. yes and you know why she was mad at me. she sees me as a successful black man.probably the average simp see me standing on his own two and didnt need a women learn how to cook from a chef in my family have a house 2 cars working on new own bussiness and wanted to shack up together with in just 3 months of us being together. she said it just .she feels im her soulmate. its like she knew me for 10years already. so i think she figure that if she to stop giving me sex was going to make me commit. she was wrong. i hate women who play games especially when they know youre doing nothing wrong.
that term relationship is the problem mainly because most females dont know the meaning of the word or how to apply it. Every woman wants a relationship nowadays but dont wanna be friends. its confusion from the door and a catch twenty2 for a good man. they need to do better like you said
Miss Mocha: You kick real talk but would it be safe to say while I understand the logic behind it , would it be fair to lead the other woman on? The world doesn't need anymore deception. You reap what you see so I would say just move on. Keep rising, that's the greatest medicine. Oh yeah... people need to stop comparing their lives to other people's life and learn to be content. We need to cultivate the attitude of gratitude. Miss Mocha I didn't listen to the whole message. You right though, just move on.
Alisha Gomes nope, notice I did mention don't lead the next woman on either, but some of these women are so desperate, they don't mind playing the game to make the,wife jealous, but he must be honest and tell her that.
