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@EntrepreneursInCars
@EntrepreneursInCars 4 месяца назад
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@JJtheUtahRealtor
@JJtheUtahRealtor 4 месяца назад
I found myself in a similar situation about 3 years ago. I think I made the best decision by staying with her. Beautiful women with traditional values and low body count are extremely rare, and next to impossible to replace. If having kids is going to be part of your life's journey. Then I don't think it's a bad call to hold on to a woman who checks all the right boxes. The trick is identifying these women, and being aware things could change in the future.
@nelsonhibbert5267
@nelsonhibbert5267 4 месяца назад
Have you asked her if she used to be a man?
@a.c.slater573
@a.c.slater573 4 месяца назад
Ok so I’m at a crossed roads, known this girl 6 years, together for half of that, we broke up in January because she wanted kids and I didn’t (not yet). We are both 35, my business has taken off I have enough money and pipeline of work to be comfortable and raise a kid. I do love this girl she would be a great mother. Only down side is she had a slight promiscuous past 15 years ago. However she has been loyal and showing me I’m her best for 6 years now. I’m conflicted but I’m ready to have kids.
@Agentmpz919
@Agentmpz919 3 месяца назад
what is considered a low body count?
@longdong3889
@longdong3889 2 месяца назад
​@@Agentmpz919up to you. I figure if its lower than mine I'm interested. If you are in a small town it could be extra awkward lol
@JJtheUtahRealtor
@JJtheUtahRealtor 2 месяца назад
@@Agentmpz919 for me personally 3 maybe 4. More than that usually gets dicey.
@Son-of-Krypton
@Son-of-Krypton 4 месяца назад
Women feelings are like a constant moving target…..good luck trying to reason with them 🙄
@alansantos6142
@alansantos6142 4 месяца назад
You are in no obligation to reason bs, there are some women worth to reason with. The feelings of constant target is all to test you and I say LET THEM. What's there to lose if you're in your masculine frame and don't let bs get to you. But in this video, clearly the woman is in pressure of children, it's really a hard decision for her as well with age limit approaching and all. It's really natural to feel that way being bitter about it, just don't let it affect your game, simple.
@JohnDoe-qz3qi
@JohnDoe-qz3qi 4 месяца назад
Just focus on YOUR needs! Her ”feelings” will make your life harder or miserable.
@allahakbar7836
@allahakbar7836 4 месяца назад
💯
@dugnice
@dugnice 4 месяца назад
The guy should just let the woman go. He clearly isn't ready to settle into the life that the woman wants with him.
@our.secret1130
@our.secret1130 4 месяца назад
wtf this is awful advice for a healthy relationship
@herbigp
@herbigp 4 месяца назад
Her feelings will change much more
@kimmorrison9169
@kimmorrison9169 4 месяца назад
This I agree with. I’ve got 48 yrs of marriage under my belt (same woman) I have not changed a lick but my wife? She’s CHANGED!
@SteveHofsaess
@SteveHofsaess 4 месяца назад
What are the odds that we can have a video about an average person making $70 k yearly, a person that does not make it rain, somebody that is not a .0001% person. All his clients make 3 billion yearly, but this is not reality.
@angloajax5482
@angloajax5482 4 месяца назад
I'm not buying the whole 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' idealology either. Working hard and making the right decisions rarely makes you millions. Doesn't mean you should give up, just that most people are facing a different reality to what is being presented here.
@susanhaines7358
@susanhaines7358 4 месяца назад
FACTS 😂😂😂 social media is interesting but it is NOT the real world
@matthieu4792
@matthieu4792 4 месяца назад
To be fair to both of you, just lay down the facts. You're in the pivotal position of your career, which you need to focus on and push through. Having a kid and family will slow you down, and you may lose focus on your goals. Just be upfront with her about your goals and where you want to be in the next 5 to 10 years, and if she's down for the ride, great, but if not then no hard feelings and just be respectful that you don't want to waste her time if your paths don't align. Simple enough, but just remember, brother, no one is coming to save you if you fail. Just remember that, my friend.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa 4 месяца назад
If having a great girl next to him is important for OP, he should at least CONSIDER toning down a little bit on his career, so that he can meet his girl's expectations (after a mutual conversation that is). If she can wait for a bit more and you can also accelerate things too, then you will meet somewhere in the middle. If OP will completely ignore her needs, then he shouldn't be surprised when she walks away. Replacing a girl like that later, when you are older - might be a huge challenge, money might not help. I would consider going for a compromise, since losing her will be a massive loss.
@matthieu4792
@matthieu4792 4 месяца назад
@MatiKosa You pretty much re-worded what I previously stated, but I will say that your middle part is incorrect for sure. If he is well established and has his life in order and is financially secured, he can most definitely find another partner at an older age. In the end, women do care about money because they correlate that with security.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa 4 месяца назад
@@matthieu4792 What you don't take into account is that he might not be as attractive in the future as he is now. Also, women might get more and more demanding + we have a demographic depression, meaning that with each year there will be less and less girls to choose from. You assume everything will be fine and on track. If things will go south, you may find yourself in a very tough spot. The rest is priorities. If you value your career over everything, love included - then sure. Else I wouldn't say it's a decision you won't regret, because with a decent likelihood - you will, but then you will be past the point of no return.
@matthieu4792
@matthieu4792 4 месяца назад
@MatiKosa I really don't think you understand the different dynamics of a man vs. woman. Clearly, you never heard that men age like fine wine and women age like milk. As far as priorities go, men have to be the provider and the protector in order to find a partner, and that is expected of him. Whereas a woman can come into a man's life and not have to contribute anything.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa 4 месяца назад
@@matthieu4792 Of course I did hear about that. It's just that it doesn't seem to be entirely true as everyone thinks. In conservative and poor countries, the average age diff between men and women is high. The more financially independent women become (western countries), the less she they be dependent on men. Which means that older age loses its biggest advantage - finances. So there goes the provider role. The protector role? Maybe, but women already get plenty of priviliges. Sure, there are still women with daddy issues, but just go and ask around what kind of age a 25 yo girl is looking for: it will be typically 25-30, sometimes till 32, maybe 34-35. Hardly ever more than that. Good luck pulling a 25yo when you will be 35+ and your name isn't Brad Pitt. I wish you all the best mate, but reality check can be quite brutal.
@tcgrizz59
@tcgrizz59 4 месяца назад
Good answer. I was afraid you would say otherwise. This lady sounds like a keeper.
@Buildingexcellence11
@Buildingexcellence11 4 месяца назад
You find a winner. You keep em. It’s a needle in a needle stack out there
@CruceEntertainment
@CruceEntertainment 4 месяца назад
People change. One day they are a winner, next they are not.
@Buildingexcellence11
@Buildingexcellence11 4 месяца назад
@@CruceEntertainment then let em go. Everyone in your life should be under constant evaluation
@rjkubr
@rjkubr 4 месяца назад
You are a listener of Better Bachelor???
@Buildingexcellence11
@Buildingexcellence11 4 месяца назад
@@rjkubr occasionally
@0000FFz
@0000FFz 4 месяца назад
Just say you have nothing going for you
@telebiopic
@telebiopic 4 месяца назад
Great advice. The man doesn’t know what he’s got, till he looses it.
@MatiKosa
@MatiKosa 4 месяца назад
Exactly. He should go for a compromise.
@kristinej.4182
@kristinej.4182 4 месяца назад
Well said! The grass is rarely greener on the other side of the fence.
@pescatoralpursuit1726
@pescatoralpursuit1726 4 месяца назад
He has options
@marksandoval5361
@marksandoval5361 4 месяца назад
Most people only want 1 or 2 kids. Women should ideally have their last child by the age of 35, the start of geriatric pregnancy. Let's say she has a kid at 33 and another at 35. If she's 27, you could wait to have kids for about 6 years. I would keep her but wait to have kids. A good woman is hard to find.
@686tobias
@686tobias 4 месяца назад
You should not plan like that. Becoming pregnant over the age of 30 is hard work and takes a lot of time. 90 % of the eggs are already gone. If she took the pill for a while the fertility drops further. The perfect age for a pregnancy is 24,8 years (age of the woman). The further you move away from that age the more issues you will experience. So I would, to stay in your frame, start to try to become pregnant when she is 30.
@testymann5045
@testymann5045 4 месяца назад
37 is the start of higher risk not 35.
@686tobias
@686tobias 4 месяца назад
My point is not the risk but the time it takes until she becomes pregnant. At 35 it can take years…
@nelsonhibbert5267
@nelsonhibbert5267 4 месяца назад
@@686tobias 24,800 years? She'll be shooting out special cases all over the place.
@Ruach77
@Ruach77 4 месяца назад
She sounds like a good woman and there are a lot of 304's out there. If you can't commit to her and her clock is ticking, then let her go. She deserves a chance with someone else.
@tampablackwing
@tampablackwing 2 месяца назад
Much respect. I just did this and it's brutally hard on a man because the risk is you in fact do not find another like her. But, she deserves commitment and her prime dating years are numbered far earlier than ours.
@miamihurricaner5911
@miamihurricaner5911 4 месяца назад
Women to sleep with-dime a dozen. Keeper to start a family and life with-priceless. Totally agree with Rich’s balanced advice. Not an easy decision.
@dugnice
@dugnice 4 месяца назад
Seems like an easy decision to me. If the guy isn't ready to settle into the life that the woman wants with him, he should explain it to her, pretty much the same way he explained it to Rich, although I would recommend that he encourage her to move on, since it's possible that he may never want kids. If she's willing to stay with him and take the gamble that he might not ever want children, then great she'll be staying at her own risk. If she isn't willing to stay, then great he can enjoy his life without feeling guilty about stringing her along with false hope. 🤷🏻‍♂️
@recoveryrider6183
@recoveryrider6183 4 месяца назад
I agree with you Ritch and most commenters here. If she checks enough boxes and is genuine then be content. I walked away from my high school sweetheart because I was selfish and figured I could have a good time and find another one who would be like the last. It didn't work, besides being a bad picker, most of them are broken people with baggage and an inability to pair bond. Decades later I still haven't found that one that comes close to the one I left.
@jerrymauro8873
@jerrymauro8873 4 месяца назад
I’m with you friend. I did the exact same thing. I left my high school sweetheart to play the field. My high school girl was a keeper and I regret to this day letting her go
@yellowquantum4240
@yellowquantum4240 4 месяца назад
Imaginary dude it seems! If he is real his life is a math book. I am little older than Rich had the wives, Lambo , 911 Porsche now have 2 hotels . Living solo glad I went through the phases. Life grateful!!!
@kurtgraham9495
@kurtgraham9495 4 месяца назад
Leave her. Womens ability at chameleon is frightening. My mate taught a chick for 7 years until she got her black belt and started dating him. She quit karate as soon as they dated. She said..i never liked karate, i just did it to get to you... 7 fkng years she did what she hated to get to him. 7 years......
@kaiman9474
@kaiman9474 4 месяца назад
You telling me she got ass beatings for 7 years in a hobby she hated for his sake and he got mad n left? It's psychotic to like fake an entire part of your personality too but idk I need something for 7 years of ass beatings. 😂😂😂
@user-sn1se8kh7z
@user-sn1se8kh7z 4 месяца назад
I left a good girl for options. It was a mistake.
@stevegrantland1201
@stevegrantland1201 4 месяца назад
Focus on your needs. The woman in your life will doggedly try to eliminate any of your focus on your own needs (betasization by 1,000 cuts) and will seek to dominate and control your every thought and action. As soon as she gets your complete compliance to her every emotional whim, she will look for other men who are competent and master of their own life's to secretly spend time with and explore to see if monkey branching over to one of them is possible. When so, she will then leave you broken emotionally, psychologically and financially. Her closest girlfriends, who may have been kind to you, will gleefully encourage her and help her do this. She doesn't just want children, along with them a home will be necessary along with much remodeling ("updating" is their word) to remove the inadequacies she will find and create. He will no longer be able to travel because she will threaten to label him as a poor father figure who is not "there" for his kids. Sharing of accounts and all property will be required to be deemed an upright man in the modern world. MAINTAIN FRAME, ALWAYS MAINTAIN FRAME!! NEVER ALLOW ANY DISRESPECT OF ANY KIND.
@Mr-Clark
@Mr-Clark 4 месяца назад
Men: Should I hurt her? Women: How do I hurt him more?
@gc4644
@gc4644 4 месяца назад
He needs to keep her, she sounds like a one in a million..
@StopSignals
@StopSignals 4 месяца назад
Come on! Two years of demo mode and he bought it! Now give her a child or even two and you are on the hook for the rest of your life, and she receives support without working a single day in her life.
@denveroidaslt4634
@denveroidaslt4634 3 месяца назад
Have you ever saw Rich Cooper with hot girl? EVER??? 😊😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MilesLambos-ef1nt
@MilesLambos-ef1nt 4 месяца назад
Damn but here's the thing though, you won't get the same woman twice. So he's in a predicament
@StudSupreme
@StudSupreme 4 месяца назад
If he decides to marry her, he needs a lawyer to create an ironclad prenup. If she refuses to sign, WALK.
@marriagepartnersministry5942
@marriagepartnersministry5942 4 месяца назад
She's on her best behavior still considering his wealth and social circles. Dint get legally bound up with her
@InvincibleExtremes
@InvincibleExtremes 4 месяца назад
her feelings aren't real, and you should never take them at face value
@NeanderthalNatty
@NeanderthalNatty 4 месяца назад
Banging a bunch of girls gets old quick and high quality women are few and far between
@Kookbandit
@Kookbandit 4 месяца назад
Have a baby, girls like her are rare. If you are as successful as you describe you've got the resources
@genxmurse7019
@genxmurse7019 4 месяца назад
I have to disagree on this... It seems like a long over-due serious conversation is in order with that woman. The guy admitted that he was already getting bored with her and looking at other women. She wants children; he doesn't. So; unless she's on the same page, why keep her around? It's better to show respect & let her go, so she can find what she's looking for. Meanwhile, he can go pursue his fire. Be a better person. Don't be a d***head Chad!
@Bob31415
@Bob31415 4 месяца назад
My advice: Keep her and have kids *now* . She sounds like she would be a very good mom. The guy sounds a little like he takes her for granted.
@victorwong6976
@victorwong6976 4 месяца назад
He sounds like he has a good thing. I’m happy for him and think he should stick with her. The grass is greener where you water it.
@jwill9877
@jwill9877 4 месяца назад
She sounds like a good girl but he wabts a little strange on the side. Get some strange. Just dont catch feelings or have full on affiar. The girl seems good and will be hard to replace. She will stick around if he doesnt make her look bad
@sabrinazakrowski1399
@sabrinazakrowski1399 2 дня назад
What if it gets around that he's fooling around to people she knows, which is a recipe for public or social shame, humiliation, or embarrassment, gets a side floozy pregnant, or gives her a disease he picked up off some floozy?
@jwill9877
@jwill9877 2 дня назад
@@sabrinazakrowski1399 that's making her look bad. That's low value behavior. She should leave
@sabrinazakrowski1399
@sabrinazakrowski1399 2 дня назад
@@jwill9877 if i had to rate those negatives in terms how just bad they really are, I would give public or social shame, humiliation or embarrassment a -3 An outside kid, a -7 A bacterial STD a -10. While bacterial STDs are curable upon discovery with antibiotics, some are becoming drug resistant, some can be asymptomatic until they progress to a late enough stage to impair or ruin fertility, and you can die from untreated syphilis A permanent viral STD like herpes or AIDS that will ruin her for life a -103 Even though your cheating caused her to catch it, she will be looked down upon as though she was a dirty whore and AIDS is expensive as hell to manage with still no cure and will eventually kill you
@sabrinazakrowski1399
@sabrinazakrowski1399 2 дня назад
@@jwill9877 would it be a fair argument then, to say that these are the risks and potential consequences of making the choice to cheat in the first place? In a way, it's a lot like developing alcoholism, not everyone who drinks may necessarily become an alcoholic, but all alcoholics get the start down that road by taking that first drink.
@junetaylor8396
@junetaylor8396 4 месяца назад
If she is smart, and it sounds like she is, she has already made plans to move on.
@susanhaines7358
@susanhaines7358 4 месяца назад
I laughed at this too. Like she is property with no brain or foresight. Smh
@MyObsessionWithArt
@MyObsessionWithArt 4 месяца назад
For the first time, I am quite impressed with the answer and advice that he is offering. I guess he is not as shallow as I thought
@our.secret1130
@our.secret1130 4 месяца назад
Yeah this was a refreshing video
@JoeGuapo
@JoeGuapo 4 месяца назад
I felt this 😂 I’m 26 years old with a 23 yr old who’s submissive as hell & wants kids soon cooks and cleans.. I want variety as well but don’t want to hurt her she’s amazing
@pinksupremacy6076
@pinksupremacy6076 4 месяца назад
Everyone I've talked to wished that they would have started having kids earlier in life. Just saying.
@joffrecueva4961
@joffrecueva4961 4 месяца назад
Dude
@Grayslakegunner
@Grayslakegunner 4 месяца назад
Lol I think everyone has great points. This may be one of those 50/50 situations. I'm inclined to be totally honest with her about exactly how you feel. Her response could really surprise us. But one thing it does is give her a choice for the future. That is all anyone can ask for. It's also her life and future. If she wants to stay with you and you decide to have sex with someone else for fun, then she has gone into the situation with eyes wide open. I would add that you should get a prenup however. Protect yourself if you stay with her. It's a great situation to be in though. I'm jealous. Lol 😂
@avenger4027
@avenger4027 4 месяца назад
My advice... To hell with variety. Women like the one you're describing are too precious.
@paulinekariuki9744
@paulinekariuki9744 2 месяца назад
​@@avenger4027true
@TaraBaklund
@TaraBaklund 4 месяца назад
Wise advise.
@DanielEarl
@DanielEarl 4 месяца назад
Either way, i think he should be honest with her that he doesn't want kids at the moment. Not because "it's the right thing to do", or "to communicate" but because a guy with solid frame is his own judge and isn't worried about upsetting others. If she is really invested in him as her best option, then she will most likely go with it, even though she may not be crazy about putting off having children. And if not, well, she was never his, it was just his turn.
@pollcrazy
@pollcrazy 4 месяца назад
Sacrifice for a woman and you'll lose twice.
@baw-mq4bt
@baw-mq4bt 4 месяца назад
LONG LIVE GONZALO LIRA!!!
@puppyupper4565
@puppyupper4565 4 месяца назад
a little late for that
@avenger4027
@avenger4027 4 месяца назад
He died like he lived; messing with things he did not understand.
@nelsonhibbert5267
@nelsonhibbert5267 4 месяца назад
LONG LIVE FLASH!
@chiron6699
@chiron6699 4 месяца назад
Gonzo wasn't the sharpest tool in the box??
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds 3 месяца назад
I think this is a topic where Rich's perspective is limited by living in the West. The question came from a guy who is a digital nomad traveling the world, so he has access to much more traditional feminine women in other countries. Dating with an age gap is also much easier as a western guy traveling abroad. In that context, replacing a good woman is not nearly as difficult as Rich made it sound. (My POV as a digital nomad myself)
@jaya8729
@jaya8729 2 месяца назад
Exactly
@regismedeiros1141
@regismedeiros1141 4 месяца назад
Great advice. Better a good girl at your age. Then a ou promiscuous girl with a huge body count, and these days that is the norm
@Dudes100
@Dudes100 4 месяца назад
1. Good women are not easy to find. 2. I would find a family-oriented country with affordable living and have kids there as soon as possible. Russia has a superb kindergarten system, and high quality public education. LGBT is illegal. 3. Don’t have kids anywhere in the Americas, Africa, Europe, anglo countries.
@James-cn8lo
@James-cn8lo 4 месяца назад
Russia is in Europe
@SpoilerAlert100
@SpoilerAlert100 4 месяца назад
@@James-cn8lo Eurasia
@vesebeteg1
@vesebeteg1 4 месяца назад
If you can describe your situation this properly, you don't need to be advised.
@allenroy9250
@allenroy9250 4 месяца назад
I'm surprised you said that thing about being an old tired dad . If one is pursuing excellence then I would presume physical excellence is part of that regardless of age . I posit that one should strive to be a specimen of a man well into advanced Years.
@leonznidarcic
@leonznidarcic 4 месяца назад
Sounds as a too good of a relationship to ruin for worse. Specialy for this times. People burnout at this jobs to....
@joeykunz
@joeykunz 4 месяца назад
Have kids, you won’t regret it. I wish I had before 30
@bobdobalina8910
@bobdobalina8910 4 месяца назад
REMEMBER A Bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Hard to find/replace what you already have down the road. Relationships are all about compromise, to an extent, they have their ups and downs, what you need to understand is that should you walk away from someone as you describe, is that it would be considered a FAILURE on your part. Relationships, good ones, take work. You can do what you want, and still have her. Her "feelings" should take a back seat, as they will always change.
@JC-gw3yo
@JC-gw3yo 4 месяца назад
Let me tell you my experience guys. I am 69, and was to married to a beautiful Dutch Christian woman for 39 years, until she died from cancer. She was my 2nd girl out of college. She stuck with me through thick and thin and beautiful babies. She helped make me who I am today. After dating now for 6 years, nobody has come close to her. If you get a good loyal woman, hang on to her. They are as rare as hens teeth..
@jamesavery9584
@jamesavery9584 4 месяца назад
“If I was 35 and she was 25…” That’s your answer right there, bro.
@michaelmcqueen4514
@michaelmcqueen4514 4 месяца назад
It's a difficult question, but that was the perfect answer. 100% agree.
@CorruptionDee
@CorruptionDee 4 месяца назад
As a man, I completely understand the desire for variety, especially if you're capable of it. As men, we know that we have to earn the ability to attract multiple women. Having said that, I believe this need for variety is best suited for single men. I am vehemently against cheating on either side, so I will not criticize women for being "304s" while giving men a pass, even if it is slightly different. Speaking as a man in my early forties who has gone through an ugly divorce in the past and now has four kids, I can tell you for a fact that finding a truly good woman who is loyal, attractive, submissive, and willing to do anything to please you in the bedroom is a rare gem. If you can find that kind of woman, I advise you to forget about this desire for variety because the variety will likely never bring you a woman of that caliber again.
@Dru2maBoii
@Dru2maBoii 4 месяца назад
Truth is, you can't have it all. Some things have to be sacrificed for others...🤷🏽‍♂️
@Grayslakegunner
@Grayslakegunner 4 месяца назад
That is true. Once you make a choice, other choices then disappear. That is why making smart decisions is so important.
@Dru2maBoii
@Dru2maBoii 4 месяца назад
@@Grayslakegunner exactly.
@crunkdragon3
@crunkdragon3 4 месяца назад
Also keep in mind that women are highly motivated to be "a good woman" before marriage and kids. Of course she wants kids with you. Your bank account is stacked. As soon as you knock her up and get married, she lost her motivation and has you hooked and bagged. If she truly loves you, then she can wait for kids. However, Rich is right. Finding a good woman isn't easy. I'm just still skeptical. Women know how to play the long game. In the same breath, the older you get, the more you value the relationships you have in your life and the more you will value family.
@sabrinazakrowski1399
@sabrinazakrowski1399 2 дня назад
Unfortunately, biology puts limits on how patient a woman can afford to be if she really wants to be a mom. In regard to natural fertility, men have more time than we do and can better afford to push parenthood further down the road than we can. This couple is in their late 20s. He wants a few more years before contemplating fatherhood, which he can physically do with few or no issues. For her, from a purely physical and biological perspective, it's getting close to now or never. So where he's stuck is do I have kids a few years sooner than I have envisioned, or do I stop squandering her remaining fertile years and let her go to find somebody else who is ready for a family.
@randyscrafts8575
@randyscrafts8575 4 месяца назад
My advice for this is, when doing the nasty, ask her if she feels it. And there ya go. You are showing her your concern for her feelings and most importantly, your needs are being met.
@ndhtyu
@ndhtyu 29 дней назад
Simple and to the point. This is the only feeling from his woman a man should be worried about!
@leroy9147
@leroy9147 4 месяца назад
Could find someone better guranteed gonna find someone worse first
@Grayslakegunner
@Grayslakegunner 4 месяца назад
The voice of experience. Lol
@adriancanestra6910
@adriancanestra6910 4 месяца назад
Keep her...Good women are so hard to find.
@paulinekariuki9744
@paulinekariuki9744 2 месяца назад
The good thing is that some of us still exist
@saturn580
@saturn580 4 месяца назад
Essentially, dude has to choose between enjoying multiple partners or keeping a quality woman. Either way, he's making a sacrifice. The most important thing is to be honest with himself about what he wants in life and own whichever decision he makes to avoid resentment and regret. If his girl is everything dude claims she is, he might have no idea how lucky he is. Enjoying multiple sexual partners might seem appealing from a distance, but that gold could lose its luster real fast once he starts spending time with typical western women.
@Sergeantcruz1216
@Sergeantcruz1216 4 месяца назад
Unfortunately, our brains are designed to think in the moment. It's evolution. Someday we will be able to evolve to think in all three areas at the same time, past, present, and future. Without a past, you have no future. Without good present situational awareness, you also have no future. Perfection is an illusion. There are no guarenteed promises of success for choices made. Life can be a roll of the dice. You are responsibile to do your best to improve your odds when making critical decisions. Mistakes can also be tools for learning. If this chick is so awesome, tie the knot but absolutely get a pre-nup and cover your bases. Life is like chess. Sometimes when you lose you win. Sometimes when you win you lose. Life is short and tomorrow is not even a guarentee. Entrepreneurships are awesome but will never truly satisfy all human needs. Needs change over time. Time is priceless and short, but additional time can never purchased. Think your way through your decisions. Competely emotionalizing your decisions usually ends in tragety. Being and acting like a robot is not good either. The key to life is knowing when to balance.
@ndhtyu
@ndhtyu 29 дней назад
word salad
@starguy2718
@starguy2718 4 месяца назад
The Bible tells us that a good woman is worth her weight in rubies... if she's really that way, then find a way to make it work.
@costafilh0
@costafilh0 4 месяца назад
I would tell her “if you are ok with the possibility to have kids or not in 10 years, maybe we are compatible”. She will have to choose whether it is more important to have a child now or to keep you close. Most women will only choose to have a child now if they don't believe their partner is that good.
@matthewknafel8227
@matthewknafel8227 4 месяца назад
Your relationship advice is spot on. Same type of advice I got from my Great Grandfather, Grandpa, and Dad, but more blue collar from them. I'm 40, happily married for 10 years.
@chrispalazzolo431
@chrispalazzolo431 4 месяца назад
Problem is we’re pushing overly selfish narratives…..its really not whats best for “you” at the end of lonely folks days overly selfish = unhappiness/loneliness
@ndhtyu
@ndhtyu 29 дней назад
Nah, we men are used to be lonely, moreover, we men should be "selfish" or the woman will learn to despise you over time. Any healthy society knows this simple fact!
@karaoke888
@karaoke888 4 месяца назад
Stay on your purpose and grind!
@randomargument972
@randomargument972 3 месяца назад
Advice: If she makes YOU happy, yes. If you must make her happy, no. Think about it if she'd divorce you. If she would leave relationship just because you don't want kids (you can test her and lie), would she still stay with you? Under which conditions would she leave you? Is it ride or die, for rich and poor? Or she would divorce you anyway in 8 years to take half your stuff?
@patrickknight9123
@patrickknight9123 4 месяца назад
Right on. Good women are HARD to find. Sounds like you see you have one. Unless you have NO intentions of a family/kids what are you concerned about? I know 100 guys who wish they had your story. So many guys either cannot recognize a good thing or don’t get the option. If she’s in your frame, I’d say do what your mind is telling you.
@a.c.slater573
@a.c.slater573 4 месяца назад
Ok so I’m at a crossed roads, known this girl 6 years, together for half of that, we broke up in January because she wanted kids and I didn’t (not yet, my business wasn’t financially stable enough). We are both 35, my business has taken off I have enough money and pipeline of work to be comfortable and raise a kid. I do love this girl she would be a great mother. Only down side is she had a slight promiscuous past 15 years ago. However she has been loyal and showing me I’m her best for 6 years now. I’m conflicted but I’m ready to have kids. Should I get back with her and put a baby inside?
@landedzentry
@landedzentry 3 месяца назад
I walked away from a great girl when I was 24. I never found anyone that got close. The one I eventually partnered was an epic fail. Richard is wrong - your odds on finding another are zero in my opinion, as you can reasonably expect to long term test out only 5 out of a sea of psychotic, media programmed 304s. Have the children and thank your lucky stars. I'm 66.
@jasonbuksh2958
@jasonbuksh2958 4 месяца назад
If you don’t want kids don’t let her pull you into it. There will be others
@angloajax5482
@angloajax5482 4 месяца назад
If there's any doubt there's doubt... Making a decision to marry and have kids should be an obvious one. Being with someone 2 1/2 years is not a long time and you shouldn't feel pressurised. Put yourself first for a while and reassess in the future. Also if you do have kids / marriage and then stray she'll take you to the cleaners.
@farronvanover
@farronvanover 4 месяца назад
When I use to be on dating sites and apps, I would see women post that they’re “looking for a man that can keep up” That meaning in bedroom? Keep up with her bills? Keep up with her kids? Just curious..
@tracymcgrady4867
@tracymcgrady4867 4 месяца назад
Sounds similar to "if you cant handle my worst.."
@MikeG82
@MikeG82 4 месяца назад
They want you to keep up with everything, they want it all
@gugy68
@gugy68 4 месяца назад
Just focus on your life and take your time to find a mate for life is that's what you are after. No hurry.
@russellbutler836
@russellbutler836 4 месяца назад
another thing to think about with respect to age at fatherhood is sperm quality - as you get older your sperm suffers damage and gets lower quality especially if you drink and smoke, odds of producing a down syndrome or autistic baby go up substantially. this can be somewhat offset by marrying a younger woman, but not entirely.
@relaxbebe
@relaxbebe 3 месяца назад
Leave her, break her but do not keep it around. You will make her miserable because she wants kids and you don’t want that. Do not be selfish and take away her opportunity to be a mom! Disgusting this advice of keep her around like a toy to use
@AshleyJones-gr7po
@AshleyJones-gr7po 3 месяца назад
Unreal that you didn't advise him to speak to a lawyer and get some sort of agreement drawn up. If he gets her pregnant, she's highly incentivized to do the wrong thing knowing his income.
@hpholland
@hpholland 3 месяца назад
East test for our young man: if she just got some outfits, some wigs, some good roleplay? If that’s not enough for variety, then you don’t really love her.
@robparkinson8085
@robparkinson8085 4 месяца назад
Remember…women reserve the right to change their mind when ever they want, and believe me, she will eventually….there goes your $$millions!
@mco4972
@mco4972 4 месяца назад
Of course she wants kids. The guy makes 1 million a year in his 20s...
@ov868
@ov868 3 месяца назад
Classic case of you don't know what you have until you've lost it. We don't get that many chances to find a love in this life.
@MarinaM-o6p
@MarinaM-o6p 4 месяца назад
MISTER …YOU ARE TEACHING MEN TO BE ABUSIVE ….AND YOU KNOW THIS …..
@JoHart-q2x
@JoHart-q2x 2 месяца назад
Cant be faithful, just stay single🤔 tell her you cant keep it in your pants and let her be free to find a good man.
@SpenceCurry
@SpenceCurry 2 месяца назад
Feelings are overrated. Do not give your feelings the wheel. You will hit the ditch
@21Pogon
@21Pogon 4 месяца назад
I am in a similar situation, 29 y.o. with an amazing girl of 5 years same age as me. Only that her and I are building up together financially, and we aren’t on topic of kids yet for that very reason. However, she wishes to live in an affordable home which is a plus, and I have some business ideas I would like to start but I realize that with a house in the future at about 32-34 she might very likely approach me on the topic of kids. All of that might slow me down a bit from doing what I wish I could, or buying that fast toy later than I desire, but if she is as good as the guy that described in the video - than i believe it is worth it to keep her around and address her needs/wants if they make sense. Because women/girls like these are difficult to find today. I am happy to devote some of my effort to mine when she is like that, it’s rare and she deserves to be happy with me too, not just me.
@susanhaines7358
@susanhaines7358 4 месяца назад
I think most women do not want bastard children. The marriage talk will come up before kids.
@21Pogon
@21Pogon 4 месяца назад
@@susanhaines7358 I agree, marriage talk will always be ahead of kid discussion. As a woman you explained it.
@susanhaines7358
@susanhaines7358 4 месяца назад
Well i have learned how babies are made... he already doesnt like her and will hate her if she gets pregnant. She is messing with being a single mom. All her eggs are in one basket and the basket is on fire
@Nathanleec63
@Nathanleec63 5 дней назад
Got to go to the dentist tomorrow around the corner from a girl i blew off last week. Pray for my car 😂
@beyondthematrix4443
@beyondthematrix4443 4 месяца назад
If u stop focusing on yourself she will focus on something or someone else . Keep her thirsty for u brother
@EnamAzed
@EnamAzed 4 месяца назад
When Rich says “ My brothers, listen to me…” I just stop everything I’m doing and listen the fuck up.
@CW-pu4yb
@CW-pu4yb 3 месяца назад
If she thinks you are her best option, she will stay with you! 🤷
@cynicalsayonara7169
@cynicalsayonara7169 4 месяца назад
Has a bit more than 1 million a year... sorry boss, I can't relate.
@pescatoralpursuit1726
@pescatoralpursuit1726 4 месяца назад
He's not ready to settle down. Why are you going to tie him down?
@Kevin-it3um
@Kevin-it3um 4 месяца назад
Why not have kids and buy a home base property somewhere, this will not stop you from still doing some travel and networking. Sure you will be doing less travel, but you get a family and will keep a great wife. It isn't hard to travel when you are older, but it does get harder to have kids.
@stevenlightfoot6479
@stevenlightfoot6479 4 месяца назад
Rich is giving good solid advice here.
@docjoe999
@docjoe999 4 месяца назад
First off, Rich, that line about "most Western women aren't the greatest" and your facial expression led me to clapping out with a belly laugh. That was a great line. Before I get to my opinion, I should point out that one in 36 births now is an autistic child, and divorce rates hit 80% when you have an autistic child. 50% of my father's grandchildren were born autistic. Some doctors are pretreating women to prevent autism and claim rates as way less than 1%. The treatments are often simple but this is going to be a huge thing, a business certain to explode. My brother was in this situation as well as famous investor Jim Rogers in that they needed to see the world first before they could enjoy being a father and after exploring, both went all in. There is a slogan the woman picks the man, and the man picks the time and it is not your time. At 28 years old, you may like your woman and she may be great, but you really do not know what the best is. Every time I found a woman who I thought could not be topped, one would come along and be better. Yes, there were horrible dates in between, but I eventually always found great women/wife material (but not in the West, Rich, LOL). So I think you can do better than what you have now, and it is not your time. Explore the world and get that out of your system. Just know that to find better you should expect many horrible dates in the future, but even with that, I think you need those horrible dates to learn what really are your no go zones. You have no go zones that probably have not come up in your life yet.
@duanedahl8856
@duanedahl8856 4 месяца назад
No rush for kids anymore...I was a mediocre dad, and never got my projects exactly where I wanted. Ended up having to be brutally honest and tell myself I never really wanted kids...the you significant other can't deal with that, the move on.
@GBU61
@GBU61 4 месяца назад
I am in my 60s. Women as described by this man are indeed rare, especially as he ages. If a man is lucky, he may meet a few women that he can be happy with. The odds are that great. So if she is a keeper, and it was me, I probably lock her down. Will there be temptations and opportunities? Of course but if we are being honest, those can be acted upon without disrupting the status quo at home. What I have learned is for women, it is more about lifestyle than love. If he can offer her a lifestyle her friends envy, she will probably look the other way with your indiscretions. Depending on where he sees his life, if he wants children down the road, then this type of woman will be beneficial.
@johnhernandez1235
@johnhernandez1235 4 месяца назад
Rich agree with your point of view, a lot of wisdom. As an older guy and lived like you have, a good woman as described is very hard to come by.
@mariovillegas9920
@mariovillegas9920 4 месяца назад
I fucking knew things would start to change!!!! Good job fellas!
@UlilangMatapang
@UlilangMatapang 4 месяца назад
I would say you can ask a fisherman almost about anything.
@makenocommento-kj4gq
@makenocommento-kj4gq 4 месяца назад
Sounds like a reasonable good woman brother, keep her around, continue the open dialogue
@timvibes
@timvibes 4 месяца назад
She's accepted she's not the prize and not the one with leverage. Good for him.
@AlexRamirez-fj4dj
@AlexRamirez-fj4dj 4 месяца назад
She is a keeper. Considering how hard to find a decent girl in the west i would keep her.
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