A Story of Seduction || Are You A Seductress?

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Good morning! Welcome to Mornings with Michelle. This is a gentle space to relax and soak in bright conversations around faith and restoration. Today we talk about life as a seductress as illustrated in the Bible. Enjoy a beverage, cozy up, and let's connect with the Kingdom of God.
If you would like to be in the Kingdom of God as well as have eternal life, I invite you to pray this prayer sincerely. Pray this prayer unto the Lord with all of your heart as His child, giving your life over to Him to receive the benefits of being in the kingdom of God.
“Dear Lord Jesus, I know that I am a sinner, living my life the way that I pleased. Today I turn from my old ways and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe You are the Son of God. I believe You died for all of my sins and rose from the dead because you love me. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life today. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. I want to be a citizen in the Kingdom of God. Make Yourself known to me today.” - In Jesus’ name Amen!
Welcome to God's family! Be forever blessed!
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@KarineAlourde Год назад

I love this 1940-50s look 😍😍 the blue matched your skin tone so well. But this message was so important. You delivered this truth so gracefully ❤

@morningswithmichelle 10 месяцев назад

Thank you my loveeee

@MissssTai Год назад

Woow this was so triggering. The Holy Spirit convicted me about my immodest dressing and hyper sexual behaviour in clubs etc. I was very broken and just wanted to be desired and loved. The source was my fear of abandonment but Jesus is truly a redeemer ❤

@cherishisgrace Год назад

I’m so glad you spoke on this because I almost gave into the worldly ways of what clothes are acceptable! I have always dressed conservatively after I ran track and would always be told I dressed like a grandma because I didn’t show my body (the statement in itself is a mess). Something I learned when I ran track is you don’t walk around in workout or revealing clothes, we were required to keep our joggers on until we hit the track, and in practice our t shirt had to be structured to where it cover us in tights and that is something I will keep with me. I have been celibate for over a year and I am so proud of myself, because I use to be one of those women who would give a man everything in the hopes they would date me (and no they were not married or in a relationship, I don’t play those games). I finally saw the power of no, when I tell you men will disappear when you don’t want to oblige them sexually, it’s like a magician. When I tell you, I haven’t been insulted so much in my life because I don’t want to have sex is amazing.

@francescalatzer6690 Год назад

I wish I had understood this years ago! You look so beautiful btw! 🤍

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

It's all a journey my love. Thank you!!

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

I’ve seen people get their space and they do use it at a seductive trap, I don’t feel like they do it on purpose I feel like it’s to try to play house so they can have the man over as much as possible trying to cook for him, have a comfy bed, have a nice big tv etc etc some people buy things specifically for others I remember I would want a cute ash tray or rolling tray for my friends because they smoked weed or cute shot glasses ( 🤦🏽‍♀️ I never smoked or drank in my life ) all this for validation from people who hardly LIKE me smh !! I was so lost I love videos like this because they allow us to look back and see the growth and show compassion for those who may still be there

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

Yes my dear! Sooooo true. I like those examples you gave. It's beautiful that you have moved past that now. Thank you for sharing!

@diffe7819 Год назад

As a young girl, I attract a lot of Men, some as good and some are bad. I smile alot naturally and I have a great energy, thanks to women like you I listen to. These men are way older than me, sometimes when I go to seminars or conference to learn. God has helped me that I've always kept straight boundaries and nothing would make me compromise. Some are married yet they have thoughts of establishing relationship with me, then I say to myself, if I was married, would I want my husband to have a girlfriend outside our marriage??, The answer is clear. So what I do is to flee like the Bible says. I'm happy that am on this journey to becoming the person God has created me to be, though it's challenging because I want to succeed in career wise too and some of them wants to help me in exchange of my body. God knows I know the kind of man I want to be with in the future and I'm ready to wait and prepare myself for myself, my future husband and my future children. Thank you so much Ma 💖

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

I had a male friend that told me someone was begging for sex without begging and I asked what that looked like, and he said she kept pushing her body on his and he could feel her getting annoyed and offended because he didn’t jump on the opportunity, I asked why not sleep with her? He said the desperation made him feel like it was a set up or there was something wrong with her so he wasn’t comfortable, men are usually the ones who try to coerce women into sex not the other way around.

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

Facts! It's super sad because the girl has something broken on the inside. He did her a favor though.

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

fashion nova clothes is not only “sexy” but it’s cheaply made the material is very thin like halloween costume material, it’s horrible. It’s perfect for the instagram aesthetic though, I’ve been seeing the new trend of literally having your back crack out (I’m assuming it’s the equivalent to cleavage or side boob/ under boob) when I was younger I didn’t understand why people cared what other people thought, now that I’m older I saw a young girl in target with her thong showing and some loose pants, and it pained me. I wanted to tell her to cover up from 100% a place of love but I wouldn’t dare because I’m a chicken and I don’t want her to think I’m a prude or judging her in a bad way, I was genuinely concerned on other creepy adult men being around her. I prayed for her the same night

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

Yes you're right. Its cheap all the way around .And it is so unfortunate because truly these trends do nothing but hurt our girls. It's wonderful that you prayed for her though!

@Nomvula26 Год назад

Oh wow, I was reading this scripture recently and studied it from a woman’s perspective as well. Wow, thank you Dr Daf, you look so beautiful as usual 😘

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

Wow God is so cool! Thank you my dear

@EarCandyAsmr Год назад

this reminds me of Megan Good in the movie think like a man, she was so beautiful but over sexualized and since she was so illusioned to be loved she allowed men to use her for her body

@monicasunyai3459 Год назад

Loved this message 😭, I have a follow up question, what is the difference between this, “being a seductress “ and “being feminine” let’s say like the example you gave about decorating your home to where it feel like heaven for a man, or lets say being sexy on dates, thanks you as always for sharing ❤️❤️

@thokokadewere8178 Год назад

I struggled with this in the past, and settled on "intention and discernment". That is to say that, when I want to dress a certain way, I need to discern why I want to dress that particular way. Is it because I want to be noticed? Am I wearing something with a low cleavage because I want people to see that and be enticed? Do I want to attract people and attention to myself? Or am I wearing that because I genuinely feel like it's a great choice and it makes me feel good about myself? In that same line, I also think is this clothing option appropriate for where I'm going and who I'm meeting/ the crowd that is there? Cos there's times I genuinely love something, but if I'm meeting a guy, even if it's a friend, they may think I'm being flirtatious and I don't want that. Sometimes a dress that may work for a party may be too sexy for a hangout. That's where discernment comes in. Same thing with your house. You may be into scents and perfumes and certain materials or decor pieces and that's okay, but if you go out of your way to decorate your house a certain way because someone is coming over and you need to impress them (i.e. intention), then you may need to watch yourself and step back. Also, you may need to discern what energy your house gives off, and if that's an energy you want to share with a potential spouse at that point in your relationship. If your home is cosy, for example, do you want to get cosy with that person at that stage of your connection? Is it safe and wise for you to do so? You may talk to friends and family who come over to your house to find out what energy your house gives off, and see if that's the message you want to give off to your guests, or if you need to make some alterations. This takes a lot of self awareness and grace. Most times we do things because a certain part of us wants to be seen. The thing is we mistake it for wanting to be seen "by others", when really we just need to see that part of ourselves. If you want others to think you're beautiful, it's because YOU don't feel beautiful and you need to do some inner work and find out why that is so so that you don't operate from that insecurity. I hope this helps you. It's been a game changer for me❤

@MisshoneyB Год назад

Hello sorry I didn’t watch the entire video. My whole life I have always been the awkward girl so I never used the whole seduction technique on anyone. But I believe there’s always an empowering way to use seduction to your advantage. Just like there’s a disempowering side of dark femininity there’s an empowering side to it. But that’s just my opinion

@cherylrodgers3889 Год назад

This has blessed me and reminded me where Jesus has brought me out of.

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

I am grateful! God is soo good! Thank you for watching love!

@onekayahu8608 Год назад

Shalom and blessings to you. This was a very good video and story for lots to be able to heal from. I definitely know in my younger days of dating I’ve used my assets to seduce and had to go through repentance as well. Now in my mid 40s and married I’m so aware of what that looks like and try to prepare my daughters to be modest. I know very closely an older woman who’s dealing with the same destructive habits. She’s seeing one man who’s not able to please her in the bedroom and has decided to go outside of the relationship to find pleasure with someone else. I’ve tried speaking to this woman but she doesn’t think she’s doing anything wrong because she said “I’m not married “. And she said she’s enjoying herself. I’ve decided to just leave her to God. She used to be a devout Christian and still acts like she’s one but I know her secrets. I’ve been very worried about where this will end up spiritually and even how this can be dangerous for the parties involved. All I can do is pray for her. Thank you my dear. Always like your videos ❤

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

Thank you honey. Your prayers will go a long way, although it may not seem like it... it's doing something. Thank you for watching!

@eniolabby Год назад

love how your messages ways come from a place of genuine love and they have so much substance, wish I heard this 5 years ago. Ty ❤ how do we move on and heal after we have this realisation though

@triseanclarke478 Год назад

This was so enlightening, thank you Michelle.

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

You're so welcome love! Thank you watching!

@panyinvee1508 Год назад

Hello Dr Michelle🥰, you never cease to deliver messages on real life challenges and topics that are not even spoken about. The Holy Spirit saved me from this calculated schemes 5 years ago when I decided to have a personal relationship with my Father in Heaven as I never had one on earth. Thanks be to God , he has brought great Mentors in life and I am now in a beautiful Godly relationship with a man who treats me like a goddess when I decided to do relationship the right way that the Bible teaches Us. Your channel is a Divine Blessing , love you and your work 💗💗💗

@morningswithmichelle Год назад

God is so wonderful. I am thankful He revealed Himself to you as Father and blessed you in a tremendous way. Blessings and love to you honey. Thank you for your support!