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Imagine if the 'Husband' runs into the Glasses Guy from the Kid Extortion Video who said :"Come, let's have some fun!" to the Bully. Maybe he'll say:"Bro, do you want me to give you a Black Eye to match the one that you gave your wife?" 😂
Wtf are you sure? Because what he said is kinda sexist. Hes telling him that he is only useful to make money. It's like telling a woman she is only useful to make food in the kitchen. That's disgusting
@@kyrak.4143 im not really sure he really meant that since in that situation he was defending a women. Its like he meant that "make money" is his hands should be use to work hard for make a living for his wife, so he could take a good care of her. Not to beat her. That's just my opinion,tho.
@@kyrak.4143 no one:….., still no one:….., shitty feminist who has to make everything fucking stupid: what he said is sexist. Please find a rock and stay under it.
@@lambsauce8937 If someone is hitting their wife, it's safe to assume they're a violent person and you never know what they might do. If that was a real situation, he could've had knife or something. So they were risking their lives in helping Kai Xin
When it happen in real, it's difficult to take decision on such situation as a stranger. No one wants to involve in situation like this. The best thing is to call the police instead of dealing individually.
@@mboihk3796 that's what he SHOULD have done, not ignoring her & just keep walking. I don't understand the point of ur comment at all. The other people after him actually tried to call the police & at the same time protecting her from being dragged by the man. Isn't that the right thing to do??
@@resurgingflame True, but it's much different when it's happening irl. It's a very stressful situation and people perform under stress differently. Maybe he panicked and didn't know what to do. They were trying to explain why that man did that.
“I beat you because I love you” Abusive people what are these excuses? If you love that person, you would let them go if you really cared about them instead of hurting them.
Ikr, it’s fucked up.. But it’s always the “i beat you to teach you so you don’t make the same mistakes again because I care about you” bs.. Scolding excuses they say..🙄
@@lonelyberg1808 do you really think that only women can be victim of violence? If you really think so you need get some education because women are not the only victims of violence and rape it can also happen to men stop being sexist
imagine if it was a real situation and being ignored like this, how can these people live knowing they left someone to die in the hands of an abuser even though they could've helped, i wouldn't be able to sleep tbh edit: i know how dangerous it can be assisting someone in this scenario, i just pictured myself in that situation seeking for help like her but getting ignored and thought about how those people who had the chance to help felt not being able to do something out of fear or whatever. so i kept wondering, did they feel guilty? or just chose not to help because it's none of their business? idk, some people are just egocentric
Some people don’t want to be involved because of the after-ramifications. You might need to go to court, get fined somehow, and the worst part is, you might get followed by the abuser in some way. Don’t judge people without being in that situation yourself, it’s scary sometimes
Sometimes even as passerbys, we gotta think about how we approach a situation. Arguing with an actual abuser may provoke them even more and the victim may be harmed even more at home. But each situation is unique, it may require immediate response or strategy. Really hard to say and not a black and white situation. But comfort to the victim is always helpful.
But you know some girls/women like this situation No matter how we care about them they choose her husband/boyfriend again In my country , some women post their scare that was cause by her husband on sns People cmt under their posts like we will help if she want to sue him Fighting . Etc... But a few days later she deleted the previous post and post new photo with her husband smiling face with caption " this is our couple case , why some people interested in us'' That's why people don't interested in them
I was a witness of domestic abuse. A man was hitting and screaming at his wife in the middle of a busy street. It was in late evening, when everyone was coming back home from work, but everyone chose to ignore it, especially young men that could easily prevent the situation. My friend tried to convince me that it isn't our place and that that man was so aggressive, he could easily knock me out. But I still chose to speak up. You know the whole "be scarier than the thing that scares you"? I think I just went by that logic, when defending the lady, hiding her behind me, and saying to the man to leave. I remember him aggressively yelling at me and asking my age for some reason, maybe so he could weigh the idea of hitting me if I said that I'm an adult (I look young for my age and I'm short also). He tried to dismiss my actions by saying "she's my wife" like she's his property some kind of possession What really made me sick to my stomach was seeing him cursing his wife and then apologizing and trying to kiss her, when she was clearly distressed and begging him to leave. It was when he left after saying that she's nothing without him, I found out that she's pregnant (it was late in the evening and winter, so I just thought that it was the clothes) Yes, that monster hit his pregnant wife. And you know for what? For having pregnancy cravings. She wanted chicken but he wanted fish. That was the whole reason for him to lay a hand on her. Me and my friend, who before tried to talk me out of altercation, stayed with her, walked her to her friends house (I asked multiple times did her husband knew where this friend lived and she said that she moved last week so he doesn't know this new address, unfortunately her parents live in the other side of the country) My friend said that it was still pointless because “she clearly will go back to him” When I finally got home, I just went to my room, closed the door And cried This isn't my first time preventing domestic abuse and I shouldn't be this overwhelmed and crying after each situation but still Edit: Thank you for your encouraging words but honestly I didn't do anything heroic, I think you'd try to do the same The reason why I shared my experience is to explain that thought the outcome was somewhat positive it can leave a mental scar (I had nightmares after that situation and became really cautious of men in general, especially considering I'm a girl myself) So I advise people to step up in groups, not alone because it's really scary to face an extremely abusive and aggressive person, I just got lucky, because that man could've hit me in the nose or give a black eye like he did to his pregnant wife I forgot to mention that while I was arguing with the man to leave his wife alone, my friend tried to call the police multiple times but the line was busy despite her calling for twenty minutes
At least u helped her! U did ur natural duty ....now we can just hope for her safety...dw lets hope shes fine...if u ever get a lovely wife consider her feeling ok? But dont get someone...who doesn't care bout u...
Thank you so much for doing this. It's people like you who are willing to stand up to defend what's right that makes the world such a better place! Your act of kindness plants seeds in people's hearts, and they'll only inspire and grow.
You love that? Are you male or female may I ask? Because what he said is kinda sexist. Hes telling him that he is only useful to make money. It's like telling a woman she is only useful to make food in the kitchen. That's disgusting
'I beat you because I love you.' No partner, child, mother, father should ever hear this in their life or be victim to abuse. We with voices must speak for those who cannot. Physical, sexual, emotional abuse victims need advocates! We who can must fight for and protect them!
@@ferdychanani.lov.1864 i am sorry if you have to deal with any sort of abuse from anyone. it is completely unacceptable even if people call it ‘discipline’. if someone wants to discipline you, they should do it in a way that won’t harm you, physically or emotionally. you may feel like your parents r just trying to hurt you, but they might not b. good parents will make sure that their children know what is good and bad for them, and some of them think that by punishing them, they will learn a lesson. a mother or a father will go so far to keep their children safe, that they might not even realise they r hurting you. a lot of the time, they don’t mean to and they just want to protect you from bad things in the world. you might not agree with me on this, but deep down your parents do love you. i do not think, though, that punishing your children emotionally, physically or verbally is right. most of the time, it will not do anything, it will just scare the children as they fear for the consequences they might face from their parents. we all make mistakes, and sometimes it is not our fault, so it is not fair to be punished for them. i hope your parents will learn this, and you can stop hurting. i wish you the best, and i hope life gets better for you. 💗
@@ok-pg5by thank you..... my parents are good as person but their parenting is toxic :(. I think it's a cycle parent's what they are is okay for their kid. But sometimes they may end up hurting their child. I can't change but i hope i can break this cycle of abusing. My parents have beaten a few times i think they are emotional abuser than physical abuser...i hope every child gets the treatment beacause its very unbearable when our own family hurts us :(
@@ferdychanani.lov.1864 you r very welcome. i completely agree with you, and i am sry you r treated this way. i rly hope things can improve, and this will soon stop. you do not deserve this, but remember to always stay strong, and someday you can get far in life.💗💗💗
@@purdyprincess it’s their things you can buy I don’t know if they sell them yet but you tubers can make custom enojis and pics for their fans and themselves to use
The best part of this video is “ Control your hands. Your hands are to make money, not to beat her “ . I honestly am speechless of how kind and knowledgeable that man is. Whoever this man is, I applaud you especially for going up to him again and speaking to him calmly like adults should do. Thank you so much for noticing this was a wrong situation and for sticking up for someone that you don’t know one bit. ❤️
For the people who say that these people „ignoring“ her are bad people, thats not the case, a lot of people would naturally react like that because its a flight or fight response, especially if this dude approaches them with such aggressive behavior
So you're fine with your family members getting a good beat-up in the middle of a street where no one intervenes? Can't they at least "learn" how to contact the police (even kids know what "police" means but these types of ppl don't apparently 😶), or are they just making excuses to move on to their own lives? And what, they're scared that the abuser would know about their phone conversation with the police? Easy, just go a few meters away and then call the damn police! 😮💨🤷
As one who witnessed domestic violence growing up, what those people who stopped to help her did was very commendable. Not only did they put their safety at risk but they also risked their lives because some of this situations end up being deadly.
I'm proud of the people who help her, even she's stranger. In my country if this happens, People would just record it and make it viral so the cops are the one who deal with it.
To all those facing this issue: When you love something, you want it to grow and flourish. There is no way that beating would make it flourish. "I beat you because i love you" is impossible. Love yourself like you would love your child or your pet.
I once saw a situation of domestic violence on the street, a man hitting and screaming at his wife. A group of students were passing by near the situation and three cops on their motorcycles were passing by too, so the students told the cops what was happening and asked them to help the woman. The police talked to the husband and after a few minutes, the cops just left leaving the woman afraid and with the man. I was so angry, the police did nothing. Then the man and his wife just left.
Me parte el alma cuando veo que hay algunos que no hacen nada 😭💔 aunque por otro lado se comprende el miedo de que el sujeto les pegue por defender, y prefieren evitar los problemas
Wow it makes me so happy how the people seriously tried to protect her and helped her finding a way to solve the problem. I hope no one has to go through this.
Cada ves que veo un vídeo de ellos me dan unas tremendas ganas de llorar, me emociona mucho el valor de las personas que alzan la voz y no se quedan calladas, se que no me entenderán pero igualmente lo quería decir, amo mucho sus videos de verdad los felicito, me muero por qué lean mi comentario y si no pues ni modo jejeje ❤️❤️❤️
Is your friend okay? In China we have a saying: Domestic violence only happens 0 times or infinite times. Never in between. I really hope your friend gets the help she needs!
I knowww. It doesn’t help anything like id rather they walk by and just give a nasty facial expression. At least show some disagreement to what the “husband” was doing
Don’t worry, you will probably do the same if met with a situation like this. YIU never know what you would do until you are placed head first into the situation, so don’t make any assumptions
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This happens all to often to women all around the world and this is so sad to see many who do nothing to help women who suffer at the hands of their husbands . No man has the right to beat his wife and there are laws all around the world to prevent this now . How would the people who did nothing feel if this woman was badly hurt or even killed . My thanks to those who did step up to help her to stop him , from taking her back home where she might have been badly hurt . I wish all women around the world a Happy Women s day !!!!!! Please stay safe my friends . Your friend from Canada .
@@nengyang5664 Thank you so much for taking the time to read my comments and for taking the time to reply . Yes women can abuse a man as well my dear friend . men and women should be good to one another . Your friend from Canada. . Please stay safe and all my best to you and your fine family !!!!!!!
@@nengyang5664 no one said all women were victims🙄and when do you ever see a woman chasing down a man and controlling him, just admit that rarely ever happens if not at all
@Paul it’s about being a decent human being and helping somebody in need. You also have to understand that police, especially in different countries, operate differently and handle situations like these in possibly not the best way 🤷🏻♀️
can i just say the actress is so talented and so great at what she does, props to the guy actors each time too bc that’s brave. n the people who risk their safety to help out
É tão bom ver gente com noçao e que ajudam o próximo. O homem que falou isso tem razão "A violência doméstica não acontece só uma vez" é preciso encorajar essas vítimas que sofrem com violência doméstica e não culpá- las por algo que elas não tem culpa porque a muita coisa envolvida. Adoro os seus vídeos canal top
sisi concordo é muito bem ver que algumas pessoas ainda tem o senso de ajudar e é muito triste saber que isso realmente existe e acontece frequentemente e nos não podemos ajudar mas tentamos fazer o máximo possível...(quer amigar sei que não tem anda aver mas vai né) ksksm
Que bueno que la defiendan 🥰 Esto me hizo recordar el: 8 de Marzo (Dia Internacional De La Mujer) Solo quería comentar que en esta fecha NO es para celebrar o festejar si no para conmemorar la lucha de las mujeres por la equidad de Género ♀️=♂️ Decía una frase: No me digas FELIZ DIA levántate y lucha conmigo por la IGUALDAD de género
