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I'm a moff and now I got a whole outfit the vets with their capes try to light me and I just the no emote they can't take it they kept following me around bugging like the MOFF THEY ARE INSIDE LOL
@@wherethewatermeetstheshade NAH you're just projecting. A single selfish vet doesn't make all the vets selfish. I dont wanna argue but I'm just pointing out that your logic is close minded and flawed so please try to be a little bit nicer
Yeah but... i was a moth and i made friends by actually using my words. im not going to waste my candles to add someone i might not even like. Actually, recently i added a veteran that ended up being a waste of oxygen, truly a garbage human. So you never know.
I get that people usually decline friend requests by moth because they're never online after that...but in some cases they do stay after Eden and I like watching them evolve 😂 like how they change their outfit over time
The only reason I hesitate to accept newer players or moths is that I have way too many people who quit. Then I have to block them because unfriending isn't an option... TGC please make unfriending an option I'd literally accept everyone
Exactly!! Everytime a moth wants to friend me I'd hesitate and I won't be friends with them bc i know they'll quit And yes tgc should make unfriending an option tbh it's more kind than blocking
Personally I’m (almost) a 4 years old sky user, I would call myself a vet. I never once in my life rejected a friend request, be veterans or moths. Actually, when I see they are a moth, I only decline to give *my* candle, you guys are all so cute after all. (+ I wouldn’t steal from the new players, I have values, godammit 😭) So I really can’t comprehend this « they won’t join back » type of thinking. Life goes on, and it doesn’t matter if you block them or not, you still have the memory of them and that’s what counts. Don’t restrain yourself from making potential (and amazing) friends because you’re scared of the futur, if we thought like this all the time…we would never make any friends.
same. honestly it's pretty ironic how ppl hesitate to make friends bcs they dont want to waste candles, when the point of the game is to make friends.. not their fault at all since grinding is hard but tgc should do something about this
that's literally my thought, too. I love moths, i'd love to guide them through maps, i also hope that they can stay longer to understand the gameplay, but if they don't, it's ok for us to move on, i believe there're many newbie out there need our help. I helped a moth this Monday and seems like they enjoyed the game, I'm very glad to see them online everyday, felt like a proud parent lol
I never rejected a friend request too... One of my best friends in the game is the one who helped me when I was a moth suffering in Golden wasteland, if he had rejected me back there, maybe everything would be different now and maybe I would have given up on the game :(
I reject moths at all times, because even if its been one and a half year of me playing Sky I’m still in between the moth society and veteran society- plus the moths that I accept friendship with disappear a second later- aand it’s also time consuming trying to guide moths everywhere
@@MommyToldMeImSpecial sure i understand, but at the end of the day i talk to none of them as i prefer solo and ended up blocking them anyway. would be better to say no in the first place imo haha
It may seem like "players only care about you if you look cool", but for me having non-moth cosmetics is an indication that they've been playing the game for a while and so will more likely continue to play. I usually accept unless I'm in a hurry, but most of the moth stars are inactive and I ended up blocking some to make space in the constellation.
It's basically a clothing=status symbol but not necessarily of an "I'm wealthy and rich" type deal, but moreso a "I've been playing the game for a long time, I know what I am doing" type deal
I am one month in, and yeahh. It feels rude to reject for me. Problem is most have a different time zone, so I either have to be up at horrible hours, or just nit see them.
I always accept everyone, moth or veteran... When I didn't have a chat with them and they just randomly friend me I name them what they are, and the number of times it happened I have 65 random moths (without counting the ones that I helped and become good / quited the game / asked me to name them smt else) And 3 veterans :3
I'm a moth and I just add everyone. Got rejected by some but mostly they accept. I play solo and not gonna bother people, I just want daily lighter buddies so I can afford outfits 🤣
I am the complete opposite of you! 😭 I do not accept anyone anymore, moth or veteran. I have all the friends I need and more, and I feel content. I do not want my constellation to fill with people who will never pay any mind to my existence. In addition, I have played Sky for over 2 years, so I’ve had my fair share of friends and interactions by this point ^^
I always accept any player veteran or moth, but then they leave me and i leave them too, bc im to shy to join them, so yeah its hard being too shy in sky hahah
Same for me. I'm so scared I lost out on a cool new friend because I got so anxious and disappeared as they were chatting with me. Or because of anything I might have said or done. ;;×;;
You should do a "golddigger" edition of this 😂 you go as a "new player" trying to friend everyone. And after they reject or accept you, you do the big reveal.
To be very honest, I'm somehow tired of helping them. I used to give a hand to them and it had been my pleasure to see them grow and learn(still I help them sometimes), but I also wanted to take a rest for myself and I also needed my own space as I'm kinda solo player. I adore every moth and I do care, but I don't wanna push myself too. Besides moths are easy to quit and I end up blocking them after waiting them for months or years to come back. They never did. It makes me exhausting and...kinda feel bad. And for the most part, rejecting friend quest doesn't make you become a bad player or smth but it does make you LOOK LIKE a bad one. I'm seriously sick of this bcs some veteran mocked me like I'm such a bad player who ignores poor moth kids when a moth randomly picked me up and I rejected them. Like, please, rejecting is also an option.
I am a moth (or about 1 month of playing) and I already knew about this feeling. After my first time going through eden, an old player friended me after helping me through it. I was inspired by this, he was the only friend I had. So after learning a lot about the game in 2 weeks, I started helping moths, but they.... were not so nice... or sort of. I havent helped that many, or maybe around 20 of them. 2 of the moths I have helped (accidentally?) led the krills to my hiding spot and it killed me, 5-6 of them ignore me after I helped them going through the entire eden. Most of them have quit, 1 of them stayed and it was a fake moth (bruh)
@@Lilia·Liuu you have to remember that this is a free and family friendly game. some of those moths might have been kiddos that don't really know any better.
the only reason people quit sky is they have no reason to come back to the game to play everyday, you can be that reason they want to play simply by becoming friends with them. it is the point of the game after all, and even if the friendship is temporary, thats fine, thats how a lot of friendships are in real life
Sadly no, i also thought maybe they needed friends to play with (Which is something I didnt have) So I accepted, have a chat, name them, tell them a story, promise them... yet they still... quit
When I was a moth I friended a person that had been playing since gratitude. She accepted and we unlocked chat. I told her I was new and didn’t know what to do so she taught me quite a few things. Her and I still play together and she’s watched me evolve over the past few months. I no longer classify myself as a moth but nor do I call myself a veteran, im simply a connoisseur lol. That friend used to help me around and now I help her with her dailies and candle runs when she isn’t in a good mood. I love sky so much and all the friends I’ve made along the way lmao
I never felt so judged until I joined Sky and someone tried to lit my candle, and then when they did and saw I was a moth with barely any accessories, ran away. I felt poor in that moment let me just say :(
One of the things ive learnt is, most veterans will accept and guide you if youre a moth that knows the basic stuff. Once, i dressed up as a moth cause i miss the feeling of new to the game where everything is a first time to me. And i did the trials but then i met two veterans in earth trial and they instantly befriended me after i light them up. After we finished all the trials, i changed to my usual fit just to see their reaction lmao. And lets just say they werent expecting it. Oh and i just finished eden run at the time and was lazy to pick up those wl so i only have like 4 stars
my guidelines for friending are: - friend anyone ive spent more than 10 mins with - avoid insta requests the only time i really accept insta requests are when it's a 'butterfly' player (players that have a handful of cosmetics, look like theyve gone to eden once or twice, and have been playing for more than a week). theyre the most likely to consistently play for more than a couple months. i've friended veteran players specifically by asking for 'daily light' friends, ive friended them in the wild, and ive friended moths. veterans dont have much to do, so oftentimes theyll barely ever log on lol. there's a giant surge in them when there's fancy events, but otherwise, they 'quit' about as regularly as moths do
@@Nothing..-590 You have the greatest drive. You are going to amass so many candles, and be advanced in no time. I did/do the same and can chill while everyone else panic runs for TS XD
What you're missing with this, is that offering friendship immediately after lighting isn't a very natural way to make friends. It feels very non-personal, as friending just because or because of your looks. I tend to accept anyone, as long as we played together for a bit. And, personally, i find immediately-friending moths a big no-no, because they tend to be an annoying kind of person. I'm more likely to accept a fancy-looking player under these conditions only because i can be mildly sure that they won't stop playing in a week and know how to light friends in conste. You'll probably get a name like "gw simp 6" though
I mean when you were a moth I think you would have done the same or at least that's what most moths do the reason can be anything like asking for help, looks, simping, genuinely wanna play etc etc...
@@poisoncrisp and I don't understand people saying this and generalizing it for all " moths " but fyi most moths doesn't know that there is a chatting option in the game, sometimes some doesn't even know that it's a multiplayer game so I'm not saying that they don't befriend you for look or whatever but looks are always not the reason for every moth plus they are just curious about the game and not all moths are " simps ". you also started the game at some point too i wonder if other vets/players around you said the same for you or they helped you ? :0
I'm tbh a person, that won't take candles immediately. Only after I talked with them for a bit, to make sure, they're not being really weird. Everytime I took a candle from a player, without vibing with emotes or talking a bit first, it turned out to be someone, that will only go on my nerves. Heck, even two days ago I took a candle, that someone gave after seeing my character. He sat on a bench with me and immediately said "you're a lovely ikeman" and I made it clear at some point, that I'm not a guy, though my character looked like one. Later on, like not even 30 minutes later, he told me his age, which was 15 and asked me, if i'm 18, because he has a thing for 18 year olds. I had a friend with me and she was reading what I said and was constantly confused about what was going on. Coz I told him "I'm honestly happy that I'm older then your taste." He constantly talked inappropriate with me and I didn't appreciated it, at all. But my friend at least was having fun with my blunt honesty. I know it's not with all players like this, but that stuff happened so often with me, that I simply decided to not take candles lightly anymore. At least not, when they light me up and immediately give me a candle, without first chilling, vibing or stuff.
yesterday i went into the eye of eden for the first time, another player helped me through the whole thing, reviving me and stuff. i wish i friended them they where so cool
I reject everybody because I'm very introverted and I don't like to speak with other people, especially strangers, but in general, the only ones who try to befriend me are always moths. There was only one time when a veteran made a request, during the Trial of Fire, and I accepted only because they were dressed as a moth and they were struggling to finish. Most of the time I refuse to even light other players: I do it only during Shards, Eden or when I see somebody who's losing lights, and if I lit a player by mistake I change the server immediately. Yeah, I'm a strange player...
No you’re alright. I know people who don’t talk or join tables at all, but they still like to go on adventures or occasionally visit to emote hello. It’s up to you how you want to play, and if that excludes talking to people, play the way you want. It’s no hurt to anyone that you prefer to be silent and just enjoy alone time or lack of talking. And rejecting the chat option is your own choice, anyone who faults you doesn’t deserve you.
Im the opposite, I love joining chat tables, lighting people, and accepting all friends requests because im introverted and would never do anything even close to that irl. I'm in a big friend group, and everyone is nice and fun to be around! And when we all play together, we get a little bit of chaotic silliness that spices things up every now and then. Now, the whole reason I didn't download it sooner was solely because the bio said it was a social game, but if you ever wanna try out the social part of the game, take it from me, its a fun experience! I've never met a creep, or a rude person before
@@HappyXID it's okay, I still love this game🙂... except when I try to go through the 4 player doors in Vault without using glitches 😆 Who knows... maybe one day I'll give the social part a second chance
Im actually surprised people decline people on Sky 😳 As a veteran, I accept every request whether they're moths or not. (And somehow I still have no friends to play with 😭) I get not accepting moths cause they'll likely quit- me personally, I just block them if they quit
@Дилзода We sure can! Im not on as often but I'll definitely be your friend >:D Gimme your user or something- I play on switch, are you on switch too or mobile?
I tested moths for two simple reasons that I've learned over time: Hackers and bad people. - If they have a strange movement that is cut, I am suspicious thinking that it is a hacker and I do not accept it. - If they insist EXCESSIVELY (I mistrust) - If they walk crouched ("Broken legs") - If they look like moths but with some paid or highly desired roast season item (they are usually hackers too) - If they spam bonks or candles. - If they insist that I sit at a table with their bonk I was almost hacked and I won't go through the same fear of losing real payment items and friends.
If TGC finally adds an “unfriend” option, maybe I’ll add more friends but at the moment, my constellation is packed because i tend to do qr code exchanges quite often for group cr-ing or trial running.
Yeah lmao. When I first joined, (like a month ago, I'm still a new player) I was really worried people were gonna make fun of me or treat me differently because I didn't have any of the fancy accesories that, at the time, I had no idea how to get. But then I eventually realized most people didn't care if I was a young moth and would still be happy to help. I think most players are happy to help out moths, but they also have their own prejudices (that might sometimes be correct) that a newer player may not know what they're doing and as such, friending them has no meaning; meanwhike vets who have played longer will know what they're doing, they friend you for a reason.
Be honest that guy with the hair of grateful shell collector, fire prophet's pants and white cape is one of the icon skykid of wasteland lobby. Literally everytime you enter the lobby you will see at least one of them
Long term moth here, have had the game about 2 years but never really could get into it. 😂 I definitely look like style #2. The "advanced" moth. We definitely appreciate friends. 💙 Slowly working my way towards ikejou because I finally made a veteran friend that will candle run with me more than once ever. And they helped me finish getting the forbidden krill land spirits. 🌸☁️
La gente deberia aceptar más a las polillas, aveces solo buscan ayuda. No soy un jugador veterano, debo llevar unas 2 semanas para la fecha de este video y podría considerarme "una polilla". Como en realidad no me importa mucho hacer amigos o no, nunca me ha afectado esto para jugar y suelo farmear solo. He tenido 2 experiencias bonitas a lo largo de estas 2 semanas. 1- Un jugador más experimentado me ayudo a afrontar un desafío de agua, fue muy amable y me guio, la sensación de alegría en su momento no se lo puedo quitar, fue un bonito gesto :) cuando solo llevaba como 3 dias de juego. 2- Una polilla se me acerco y me pidió amistad, necesitaba ayuda para pasar un nivel (el paramo dorado) debido a que le daba miedo. Al final resulto que solo era un niño de 10 años que le tenia miedo a los dragones oscuros. Tanto como jugador que fue ayudado y que ayudo a otro jugador, ambas experiencias fueron curiosas y bonitas :)
Ya pasaron 4 meses. ¿Cómo te va con el juego? Yo apenas llevo jugando un poco menos de un mes. Y si se siente un poco feo que los jugadores te traten diferente por llevar menos tiempo jugando (no que todos los jugadores sean así, la mayoría son muy lindos y amigables). Al mismo tiempo, sí entiendo lo que dicen. Muchas de las polillas que he ayudado no regresan después de unos cuantos días. Pero si me da un poco de pena.
A mi también me dan ternura las polillas atrapadas en el páramo dorado. A mí también me daban miedo al principio y fué un jugador veterano (que desafortunadamente nunca llegé a añadir como amigo) que me mostró todos los sitios de luz alada. Él y otros veteranos me ayudaron a superar mi miedo y me gustaría hacer los mismo por las otras polillas.
Yeah, actually it's kinda understandable, sometimes I help moths doing Eden, of course rarely. Helping moths is kinda a difficult pasta, because it's like they are not aware of their situation and no matter how are you trying to help them, they don't even know what they are doing, because they are new. When I was new, I asked for help on the discord server, they told me everything about the game, they enlightened me, so we had a mutual understanding of the situation. They were helping me in eden and taught me stuff, like how to get cosmetics in the game, what is "home constellation" etc... If someone's not aware of their situation, the other person can lose their winged lights. In one cruel word, moths are pain to struggle with and most of the times it's just doesn't worth it.
This is so real. After three years of playing I have had no issue friending people. Most of them woud accept my candle without even talking, and of course some rejected. But recently I have decided to play as a moth, I literally have two winged lights and dress up full moth. People would not accept my friendship even after using advanced emotes and proving that I am indeed a veteran. So weird. I myself used to reject any friend candle because my constellation is full, but after my experience as a moth, I will never reject a friend candle.
There are so many players I would love to be friend with, but it's precisely because I know a lot of them have good reasons to decline that I never request and rather wait for them to request if they want to. I accept everyone, I'm willing to socialize 😆
I usually like to accept friend requests. When it comes to moths, I tend to immediately run in panic thinking they would friend me. If they mange to get their friend request, then I'll accept it. *D e f e a t e d*
moths are cute and all, but I reject them because there is a chance that they will start to follow u and teleport to you and I am not very sociable person and need my space :0 they often call you to chat space and ask you to help in game, ofc I don’t mind help any people sometimes but I don’t wanna do it all the time and become moth teacher… so guys please don’t think that people who reject moths are bad also many moths die in several days ahaha😭 but no hate for moths ofc, just guiding etc is not mine
Man sad truth… from experience when I started playing..as f2p(not anymore though) As for me…I always act shocked everytime someone wants to add me as a friend 😆 it makes me so happy 🤧
Personally even when I was a moth I did not want to add people at all, if we did not have a talk or something before. I still don't add people because I don't wanna get in those "awkward moments" it does not always depend on the style.
:/ man when I was a moth I would be so afraid when I met veterans lmao now me and my friend play with a moth almost everyday now lol it's fun seeing how far they evolve and I get to show them places of passed seasons :) plus now idk if I'm a veteran yet but it's nice helping them out and fun to talk to them and explain how the chat works lol
I almost never reject requests because everyone deserves a chance, i might unadd some if me and them dont talk/hang out at all The funniest thing is when they reject you.. FROM EVEN SEEING WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE
I was a moth and added someone, they became my sky mom, her name was jin, she helped me candle run, i had another close friend called maine, we used to csndle run. I didnt quit like i normally saw moths did. I dont wanna add random strangers untill ive decided i know who they are kinda.
I've done my fair share of adopting moths. Plenty have disappeared within days, even after lots of effort put in. A couple stuck around for a while, couple months. I had a close friendship forming with one and maxed out the tree. But then they just stopped coming on. Other persons I hung out with slot also stopped coming on. I'm currently solo most days. Maybe I'll have some small talk once every 2 weeks with people I friended, if we server merge. But yeah, I'm lonely, but also don't like the people I start to grow attached to disappearing without warning. I try to keep track of the lights sometimes to see who has been gone long enough for the light I gifted to expire. Cause yeah, it does that. Happened with an alt I don't use. About a month I think. If I'm watching closely, I'll perma block after 1 week no gift, if not very attached. Or no warning message seen for absence. I'll also be checking outfit to see if they've blocked me first.
As a moth (I still play after Eden yes), I used to get scared when people came rushing to me with candles- until my friend explained and yeah I don’t really add everyone because I don’t play often
I've played Sky for almost over 4 years and I still don't have many friends to this day because people have rejected me so much and after that I just gave up trying to friend people. Even as a veteran with a lot of cosmetics, other vets or even moths just don't accept friend requests and I can't see why. I mean like the more friends you have the more hearts you get, plus you get a new person to play with! I've never rejected a friend request in my life and I don't regret it. I understand that you might not want to friend moths because they might just quit playing after Eden, but if that does happen you can just unfriend them... idk just my thoughts lol.
Constellation only shows around 70 players. Sounds like a lot, but you'll get there. when you reach that limit, adding new people means some of those friends won't be seen. You have to block to reshow them. People resort to rotational blocking. It takes ages if you have a hoard. Only those in faves won't hide and need rotation. But you have a limit to the amount of fave constellations you can have.
I personally just keep favs for my actual friends, and the rest of my constellation for lighting. I personally never block, I like the chaos of leaving and reopening home 4 or 5 times just to keep refreshing so I can light everyone back xD Some people want to make sure they light everyone so they'll block inactive players since you can't unfriend and honestly, refreshing the constellation is such a hassle, especially if you're trying to tp to someone and that someone is being hidden. Me? I enjoy getting 6 hearts a day from light alone, even if I don't actually NEED hearts since I have 100% on all constellations... I friend anyone and everyone, especially if I see someone struggling. I love helping out ^^
man I wish I was an moth again. Bad thing about showing cosmetics is it feels like people always have high expectations from the very start. I feel better socialising as a moth
People act as if they weren’t moths once too. 🤦🏻♀️ I’ve been playing for like 4 weeks and it’s so silly to me that a game that is supposed to be like a community and to help others, ends up being about status of some kind for some. I am forever greatful for the Vets that helped me starting, still learning many things they still teach me lots but I was totally lost in the beginning. The game makes it so that you need help from others! They don’t give almost any instructions or descriptions…
I tried learning the ropes of the game on my own before getting into interacting with people, still i always have these akward moments where i join a friend and just stand idly because "i don't know if you want to go somewhere and maybe i want to go in a completely different side"
Never rejected friend requests. But recently met a moth and burnt the darkness "together" then they ran away whilst I became black and lost wings. They just left me there and went home... I was sad
I laughed the first time u did pleading child emote and the person is like nope 🙅🏽♂️ lol But I get what a lot of people are saying in the comments I use to not accept moths cuz some ppl are just trying the game and won’t be here long term. But nowadays I accept any and everyone. My friend list is beyond full.
I only friend friends of friends because I joined for friends I already know - But for strangers I only friend veterans I tried to help a moth ONCE and discovered I just didn’t have the patience😭
I just returned to Sky this year, I've played it before in 2021 but had to stop bcs of school and other stuff. So as of now, I had collected 128 WL's and I haven't gone to eden since my first. So when I tried befriending everyone, especially the veterans, they would call me out multiple times to stop pretending to be a moth, some even accuse me of hacking😭😭. While my sky kid is not a moth, but I am. MY SKILLS ARE THAT OF A MOTH 😭😭😭
i imagined a scenario where u look like a moth and try to befriend someone - as they refuse,u go to wear a cape that was available 10 seasons ago as an unique item with a season pass, and then try to befriend.
Oh, I accept anyone, and I give light every day even though no one gives it back to me, more than a few, it doesn't really matter if I've known him three seconds ago or the clothes 🙃🙃
I have met so many wonderful players in my time on Sky!! I'm definitely not a moth or a veteran, more like an intermediate but I still love the game with my whole heart and enjoy those who befriend me! moth or not!
I have a hard time saying no to friend offers, and almost always accept. Moths are my greatest weakness. I'm also a ikemen, so you can see my dilemma 🤣
As a moth, i'll just try to do codes before candles.. cause im poor. I'll just usher someone to a chair shared space or the cafe heh... it doesn’t always work 😢 Veterans are scary sometimes cause their outfits are so well done.