Addressing "that tweet" & the deadbeat that led to it 

Everyday it becomes more evident that there are women who uphold incredibly violent attitudes towards other women and children. I'm happy you stood your ground and that there were many other women who came out in support of you and your daughter.

Silence really protects men! Talk my sister, when you’re tired we will talk on your behalf 🤣 I’m glad we were able to help and that our daughter is going to get what she deserves ❤️

I’m glad you wrote that tweet it was the beginning of your healing journey. We normalise nonsense and deadbeats thrive on it. We all want good education for our kids imagine saying you’re bankrupt and I must understand when you were not taking care of her since birth hayi suka. I had to stop going through the comments on twitter people made me angry. I’m happy you’re ok and your daughter is ok as well. No one chooses to raise a child alone and because women don’t take these men to court this thing won’t stop. It’s sad he doesn’t see her as his but it’s ok, my husband and a close friend of mine are a product of the rejected kids and it hurts and it hurts me to see such. God bless you and your family

People speak from a place of ignorance. Keep your head up. You’re doing so well Mama❤️✨

Never applogise for crying or expressing how you feel. Break when you need to then dust yourself off and pick up that crown! ❤

Maaaaaan Mandy. This life is not easy, we don't ask to be dealt what we are. I won't even speak on the deadbeat, but you - you are doing the very best for your children and it will absolutely pay off. Do what you must and never let anyone silence you. This is for your kids.

The responses to that Tweet were horrifying. As for "take her to a school YOU can afford", I was thinking, "Haibo, njani? Aren't we supposed to say a school that both her parents can jointly afford?" Even the women who encouraged you to just change schools, pay and leave him alone...NJANI?! My heart went out to you when I read it because I could imagine the emotional torture you went through just to send that message to him. I hope you have the strength to see the court process through and that the law does right by Alwande. Love and light to you and the babies, mommy.

Oh my gosh, I'm not on Twitter and I saw that on FB and I didn't know that was you. I am glad you are standing your ground and you are right, men (most of the time) bank on our silence that is why they get away with so many horrendous things. I'm sorry, you had to go through something like this but strength and light to you sis, you're gonna be okay. 🙏🙏🙏

I admire your courage. You did well outing him. Deadbeats, like abusers thrive in our silence, that's why they are arrogant and threaten us. They know that as long as we stay quiet and carry the burden, they are protected. I hope you never delete the delete, you've started sparking a conversation (movement even) we've been avoiding as society. You are a great mom, don't ever forget that❤️.

I saw the tweet and i felt your pain through it, i took a screen shot wanted to check you out on RU-vid. The comments on that tweet were making me soo angry and the fact that woman were also in support of the deadbeat. I cant imagine what you going though, especially your daughter. Much love ❤ to you both. And NB dont delete the tweet.

At the end of the day he is a deadbeat and now the world knows. Keep your head up Mandy

That editor deserves a space or a corner in hell. I almost responded to that post and i held back. As for my male bestie im gonna come for him and he knows it. His loyal friends must read this and tell him your friend says she will continue calling you out for being a dead beat dad but kind to everyone else. Every meeting, every reunion, every event, i will call him out.. Call a child her and other kids his shame makes him a horrible person all together.you have done great so far and dont be silent❤️

😭😭😭😭💞💞💞💞💞 I am just watching this and crying nonstop, you are the best mommy your kids are blessed to have you as a mother

I can’t even believe people found comfort in bullying an innocent hardworking mother who was standing up for her child 🧒 and calling out a reckless man . Anyway Nna I love and support you so much ❤️🤗. Your the best mom and we as the viewers can see that

Girl, that editor shocked me to the core. Ungcolile la mfazi shem. Stay strong Mandy, you are giving voice to women that are voiceless!

Yoh i am pissed!!! The nerve! “My boys” WHAT THE HELL

Hai guys I feel like I’ve been living under a rock. I missed so many updates 😭 I’m so glad you’re on a better journey bandla. 🙏🏿❤️

I salute you! Keep your head up Mama! Your little girl will love and respect you forever for fighting for her. I'm so glad you found a community that showed you the kindness you deserve!

Dealing with a deadbeat hurts. 😞 it does. I’m experiencing it too. But we are moving on

Speak mommy... Speak mommy.. Uyi mbokodo wena... Your children are lucky to have you.. You are not being messy but fighting for what your children deserve 💞

Your first line of over the years I've learnt that people bank on our silence🔥 😍 I had to take a pause and analyse.

I am 100% behind you with the decision you made about taking the deadbeat to court. I pray God gives you strength and peace during these trying times.

You're a mom wena Mandy❤❤.And good luck on your upcoming court case may Lord's be with you and your babies.

I can relate. Your doing an amazing job with your children 💜. Life will go much smoother for you once you start receiving your Child support. Nobody holds dead beats accountable but the law sure will!

Be strong for yourself and your kids. Keep pushing dear. I'm almost 32 years old with no kids and I'm so invested in this topic. People really out here dealing with the worst. Stay strong single parents, primary care givers and single moms without support.

Not me binge watching your content 🥺I love you so much. Also, you’re so pretty 🥰😍🥰

You're a strong mommy. All the best for Monday. When you finish, go back to the other deadbeat because he's also paying peanuts.lol. But seriously, you have encouraged my cousin to go to court also!

Never speak sharing your journey, never stop protecting your kids. I am 100% with you, nothing good has ever come out of silence. I'm officially a new subbie

It’s true they lack accountability but trust me God sees all. His word says one who fails to provide for his family is worse than an unbeliever. God will see you and your little ones through keep it pushing honey! I stand behind you 💚💚💚

Oh Mandy😥😥😥😥every day you discuss deadbeats I realise this is me 💔💔💔 this what my mother went through and I'm dealing with a deadbeat without my mother 💔💔💔 deadbeats don't care at all I'm actually done with contacting my father... He is none existent to me!!! My father said to me all that your baby daddy said to your daughter and I still went back to fixing things but naaah I'm old enough to live without him and I will let him be!!!

I'm glad you are doing this for your daughter and I will forever be proud of you❤️❤️❤️ you are a very strong woman and never doubt that❤️❤️❤️

Saw what transpired on Twitter mama, please fight for your kids. All the best,♥️♥️♥️

Hey from the UK! I just want to say your channel gives me life! I’m 23 single parenting a 3 year old boy and it’s not been easy at all, I had grown accustomed to keeping quiet and just being accepting of everything for my own peace but you put things into perspective and helped me have more confidence in being upfront with my bd and I massively appreciate it!🤍

Your baby daddies should be grateful to have you because you're soooo reasonable & understanding!!

Ukujwayela kabi u K.Z.S - that woman is generally out of touch with reality 🙄 loved what Lungelo did for you on that space, hope you feel better Babe 💖

You will not be silenced!!! We’ve got your back babe😘

Yho this is so crazy that people would want to protect deadbeats. I’m sure you were so broken and hurt by this and I’m so sorry for the backlash you received. I’m glad that people came out with love and support for you. I’m glad that the good came out from it❤️. May you and your daughter find healing. I’m so glad that you have taken the decision to take him to court. All the best mama❤️

I have just watched probably 24 hours in videos. Every and every ad. I was raised by a single mom, she gives us her best. I have more compassion now, I want to give her the world ❤ May your God and ancestors always provide for you in ways that don’t make sense

Makhosazana is a big bird!!! I'm sorry Mandy, I hope you get the courage to take this man to court & get your daughter what is rightfully hers & that he's legally stopped from financially abusing you. Sending you love❤

Im glad the outcome was amazing, you doing well mommy.sending love and hugs ❤️

Aww mommy ! God really blessed you with support when you needed

All the best with Monday. And thoughts & prayers your way, for strength and courage 🕯❤.

I always say so proud of you a great mother ❤

All the best for Monday mommy ♥️

May God bless you Mommy and give you strength 🥺 ❤️you will be okay 🤞.

Just here to say, have a great day Mommy. You're crushing it! xx

You are a strong woman indeed.God will surely bless you and your children.

Sisters, have you tried the court? Please do and have patient for it. If he doesn't want a relationship he must pay financially. He can't run from his responsibility

I know I'm late to this video, but my daughter hasn't seen her father's side of the family in 6 years going to 7 all because I took their son to court. So yes women enable men to be deadbeats because in my case it's the grandmother and the aunts that made the decision to write my daughter off.

Seeing you cry,made me cry 😓 And this is so old lol ♥️♥️♥️

I plead you under the blood of Jesus! I am praying for you and for your situation to change for the better.

You’re doing your very best to be a good mom and it’s so beautiful to watch❤️

Hey my Supermom you simply the best most amazing mum to our Princesses greatest ever and you truly blessed big big love from the Govenders in KZN

Divorcing can't be that simple, let the men step up, there is no need to divorce them, let them just do right by their kids

Maye umuhle Amanda. Haibo sis 🥰❤🌼

Curro has good 2nd hand shop, my son when he started grade 8 I only bought, 1 short, pants, jersey, blazer and socks everything else like extra pants, shorts, ties, etc I bought in their 2nd shops or FB market.... And she grows make use of this information their 2nd hands are always in great condition. My son is grade 10 now 15 years last I bought new uniform was grade 8... I only buy new socks.

I salute you for wanting the best for your kids keep it up mommy💞👌

Yheeeey ngoba amanye amadoda , they'll never make it in heaven 🤞 You are the best mom❤️

I'm so proud of you sisi❤

You doing well Mom 💕🌸

Yoh I decided to go to court after 4 years . My case is worse my baby daddy chose to be a parent to a dog 🐕 a whole dog guys🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Notification gang❤️💯

Nx!!!! I am pissed, how can he say that as for the rest in Siswati we say "ungaboyihleka inkawu utayitala".

Which editor is this ? So that I can stop buying the magazine with immediate effect?

It was the Editor for me…. I’m still so shocked!

Good for you honey. Take him to court

I wish you’d delete the tweet. It has her personal information plus the school’s address. For her safety eish

I loooove it here❤️❤️❤️

Wow, I am shocked 😳 I am so sorry 😢

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Some women have a nerve yoh!

Shuu this man could he not have said something else I mean for 13 years you never asked him for money weather u take ur daughter to the most expensive or cheapest school he still needs to take responsibility... my dad kinda treated me that way his kids in marriage wore treated as if they more important and my mom didn't have to tell me i saw it myself and it really hurt me I'm so glad ur daughter is getting therapy ❤

me watching every video plss dont mind me

For 13 years you did this on your own and you didn’t even ask for that when in reality he owes you THAT and then some

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He calls her "her". She calls him "him". They are equal now. The lesson is to take children to schools we can afford. Good education is not only in the most expensive private schools.

do you take responsibility for the fact that YOU were having sex irresponsibly, that YOU opted to have a baby (twice) by men who were not your husband. That you chose to have kids that according to YOU, you cant afford and now want assistance from the dad?? I'm on your side and love your channel but i agree with the editor. you have made a brand by being a victim for a scenario YOU created..Please make a long video advising other women how NOT to end up like you...sex and parenthood are two totally different things #