It’s funny how you might be searching for your purpose and yet everyday you encourage us as young mothers to get up and get things done despite our situations❤😂😂😂…
@@TheMillennialMom1 its extremely difficult to do that... How im always fasting and praying about other peoples problems that they share with me but should a stone hit me sana i cry,cry,cry,cry and cry. I hardly pray for me
Milanis dad should control the situation with his wife thats the only way and it's true you don't have to make peace with her it seems she blames the wrong party her husband is her only business.I can relate co-parenting you mostly hold your tongue coz of your baby
Me too.. I was like oh my god not this time.. Because m a single mother of 2..raising my kids by myself.. I know the struggle of raising kids alone.. But one thing I know God is well able to take u through this hard journey.. On my side my first 1 is graduated at varsity n working at the bank now helping me to raise the young man.. All the best sis.. God will make a way.. ♥️♥️♥️
@@TheMillennialMom1 Dear Big Sis Mandy I have always watched your vlogs for the past year or so but I don’t comment as much. But I do like the videos of course😂, it’s a pity that I am in Botswana so ADs don’t appear on my side of RU-vid. I am just a typical 2000’s baby😂 and fairly new into corporate but old enough to know that it all goes down. Over the months I have consumed your content and got to learn that If I have to sacrifice my voice "to keep the peace" it's no longer peaceful but I am instead internalizing the chaos. I do relate to Alwande and Milani because I was raised by a single mom and a father that comes and goes and I am actually so glad that you are the OG mom that documents every moment in your children’s life because trust me, they will need the reference.Sometimes I look back and wish I had the same because one thing about fathers, they will deny and not take accountability of their actions. I read somewhere that “butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings” and I wanted to assure you that it’s okay to rest during the storms of life and let things be and just literally watch this season of your life unfold before your eyes. Is it going to be all roses and pretty? No but God assured us in Joel 2 vs 25 that he will restore the years that the locusts have stolen and I trust that he will do so over and abundantly because he is a God of restoration and resurrection. He is the same God that goes on to say in Isaiah that his plans for us are to prosper us and not to harm us. On days where you feel like you're hanging on by a thread, it better be the hem of His garment. I love you ❤️
@@TheMillennialMom1 Dear Big Sis Mandy I have always watched your vlogs for the past year or so but I don’t comment as much. But I do like the videos of course😂, it’s a pity that I am in Botswana so ADs don’t appear on my side of RU-vid. I am just a typical 2000’s baby😂 and fairly new into corporate but old enough to know that it all goes down. Over the months I have consumed your content and got to learn that If I have to sacrifice my voice "to keep the peace" it's no longer peaceful but I am instead internalizing the chaos. I do relate to Alwande and Milani because I was raised by a single mom and a father that comes and goes and I am actually so glad that you are the OG mom that documented every moment in your children’s life because trust me, they will need the reference.Sometimes I look back and wish I had the same because one thing about fathers, they will deny and not take accountability of their actions. I read somewhere that “butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings” and I wanted to assure you that it’s okay to rest during the storms of life and let things be and just literally watch this season of your life unfold before your eyes. Is it going to be all roses and pretty? No but God assured us in Joel 2 vs 25 that he will restore the years that the locusts have stolen and I trust that he will do so over and abundantly because he is a God of restoration and resurrection. He is the same God that goes on to say in Isaiah that his plans for us are to prosper us and not to harm us. On days where you feel like you're hanging on by a thread, it better be the hem of His garment. I love you ❤️
Asoze. The next time she comes to your house or contacts you, get a restraining order against her. Regardless of how Milani was conceived, you don’t deserve abuse. Uyageza la sisi. She must fight with her man.
This has been my chat babe. People think I deserve all this because of how the child was conceived. People have been excusing her behaviour for 4 years now. Yhuu ah ah
@@TheMillennialMom1 Well, here’s a stranger reassuring you that you don’t deserve this AT ALL. I know you’re tired of fighting. But you need to advocate for yourself if she does it again. This is abuse, and nothing justifies abuse. Take care sisi, praying for you.❤️
I love you so much I ve learned a lot from you you are the best mummy ever please take care of yourself at anytime if you feel like your life is in danger call the police ❤❤❤❤
I'm also a freelancer. My previous job was with an international company. They let me go cuz I recently got into a horrible accident(got burnt) and couldn't work. I've been wanting to start a channel for the longest time. think I'm just really gonna do it. I'm so tired if this up and down unemployment.
I was so happy for Milani in that preparation for Pyjama Day at school vlog because her dad showed up by making provision that I didn't even think of the cost of all this to you, Mandy. So sorry❤ Bringing friends to your home is completely uncalled for, provocation of the highest order! I'm so proud of you for not reacting negatively, but please call the police next time. Ladies, we need to decentre men from our lives. Running around confronting people when the problem "comes home to you" is not it!
Mandy let Milani's dad figure it out on his own, don't push or play part in him being a parent let him figure it out nje.Just don't get involved,set uncomfortable boundaries and stick by them for your own sanity.As for the wife hurt people hurt others sisi,and the society we grow in and that groomed us as women is the reason why she is behaving this way😢😢😢😢
Hahaha, yaphela into yakho no Rapelang,😂😂😂 kill me again. Lol, I remember when I left my corporate job after 3 months of hell, I went by the Spar in Morningside and bought a bag of biltong and happily drove home at around 10am. The peace in my heart when I parked my car at home. God's got your back, gal!
Please remember that when you click on the ad we bump the cheese up. You don't have to look through it, just click when it done playing, then get back to the video. Also @Amanda I remember you saying that RU-vid doesn't pay you much anymore. They've become strict on their laws when it comes to showing kids on your channel. If a child appears on the channel then it has to be marked as made for kids so that the content appears on the kids platform where only children can access the content. They can even sue you as time goes on cuz it's seen as continuous violation on your channel.
Oh Mandy, corporate is just something else. Chances are, the lady who is beefing with you was likely beefing with other co-workers too. It’s just sad that a company will lose good talent because of people who don’t know how to regulate their emotions.
Amanda, you needed to assure Alwande when you took her home the way you did. You didn't just send her home. You showed her that you were willing to pack up everything for her even if it meant leaving her behind eventually. God was showing you that you needed to be clear in your thinking and conscience to prepare you for your next level up. Trying to fix things while your baby was with you was going to put you in a position where you would not be free in your mind and heart to take on the next risk you need to take to enter your next level. I don't know if I'm making sense lol. Everything is happen the way it needed to. You wouldn't have been able to do what you need to do next had you been back home.
You mentioned hair and I think if you started a hair salon, sold hair from there also, it would do so well because of your energy. You can use your skills and influence for marketing and that already puts you at such a huge advantage. I have always seen you as your own boss. Maybe this is God's redirection.
@@Nonkosi_M778 like can we please. I feel like we just need a group as moms where we can just cry. I want to so badly talk about all the things I've been put through the way Amanda does, but I lack the courage. My fear is if I don't let it out I may not make it.
Hi Mandy, a lot of us pray for your kind of bravery ❤ we are existing in spaces we know we should exit because of fear of the unknown, your ability to leave things that are not for you is so commendable, love and light mama❤
Sana! You have been going through it🤦🏽♀️ Mna ke I chose peace sana over that co-parenting drama and guess what, labhuti came back when my child was older and literally maybe a year later, my son passed away. I am just sharing so you know you are not alone sana. You will come out of it stronger 🫂
I'm sorry about your job Mandy hopefully the universe comes through for you❤ Corporate is definitely not for the firm and strong minded girlies, I've seen colleagues experience the exact same thing so its not just you
I pray God gives you the job you always wanted according to God's Will with the best collegues and working environment.❤❤❤❤. Sending you lots of love and hugs
Document all the things she is doing so that you can present them to the cops because clearly Milani's dad doesn't have a backbone and would never have one. Pull a Karen and have her arrested ayochazela ama-26 ejele yonke lento afuna ukuyisho
Please Amanda I don't think it's even safe to take Milani to his side of family if his wife is behaving like that...Some people are so evil and darkhearted my sister 😭😭😭
Amanda she got a restraining order against you, right? It works both ways kaloku rhaaaaa harassing you in your own home...who the hell does she think she is. Call police on her, get her arrested yhini le Andifuni nix ngawe Please guys lets watch all the adds for our Mandy like the video also please guys. Love you Mandy❤
Life is full of ups and downs. Lean on Jesus, pray about everything, read your Bible. You will be comforted, strengthend, receive guidance and help from God. I am praying for you. Lots of love from 🇰🇪
Mandy fight for yourself and your children my darling and don't apologize for that. That woman shouldn't have come to your home and disturb the peace you've worked so hard for, next time you must let her know that you will call the police so they know that she has violated her own protection order! Don't apologize for that too, people will push you to the point of no return and then call you evil when you retaliate... good on you Mandy for standing up for yourself against lamlunkanzi 😃😍👏
it's time to go back, let all your videos play even if I'm not watching and let those ads roll, "my little contribution"....God will definitely come through Mandy.
Somebody once said listening to your body when you don’t feel like doing anything, that is showing up for yourself so don’t be hard on yourself. Try and forgive yourself for having a baby with someone you didn’t get to know very well. Please be kind and good to yourself. Love and light to you and the babies♥️
Surrender to God my love. He will be with you in the storm, they were not meant to harm us (the storms), but to bring us closer to God. He will give you peace that surpasses understanding.
I clicked so fast when I saw a video from you, then I read the title😢😢 I swear though, it's like our lives are the same. You're gonna make it though. We don't skip ads here
I hear you on the bill thing and going out with a group of friends. Personally I have been labeled stingy because I did not wanna split the bill equally when I have been drinking savanna and others were ordering champagnes and cocktails and am okay with being the stingy one lol Anyway everything will work out in time ❤️❤️
Oh dear! I'm so sorry this is happening. You've said something so profound, though, and I'd like to challenge you to always remember it, "God didn't bring you this far to leave you here." I'm praying for you, order shall be restored sooner than you expect it. All of my love ❤
The caption just made me to let the video play just for the ads to play will watch and download the video later 💔💔💔💔😭😭Ohw Mandy mama God is always faithful kuzodlula🙏🙏
Just look at the Sadikis situation, the beginning of the year their kitchen flooded, the lost the other side of their church and nowwww their home burns down to ashes! So what are we supposed to say to God as bana ba gagwe?
Sis Manda. I am watching this as a 29 year old, unemployed mother of 1, pregnant with baby number. My heart sank the minute you mentioned that you are unemployed, thinking that you just moved back to Joburg because you were requested to report to the office more frequently 😢. Love n light to you sis. I am glad that you chose mental wellbeing rather than taking emotional abuse from managers.
im watching this on my person pc, playing on my phone, and will also watch on my tv.... please guyz let's push Amanda to reach more viewers... Amanda, i am happy that you are able to talk about this as it is an indication yokba uright..
Lisssssttttteeeeeen 2024 must just end hle. 😢...kuningi. Everything your going through is my current situation. Love and light to you ❤❤❤. You are amazing 👏 keep pushing mama.
Mandy sisi, you will not get admitted at a mental institution. Trust me when I say a lot of us are going through similar situations as yours if not worse. Trust God🙏🏾
Oh no Manda..... One thing I know about God is that he will never leave u nor forsake u..... I recently got retrenched with five kids to feed and I know he will supply all of my needs.... Hlala e thembeni Sisi ❤
Let her start that Podcast we will drag her till the bitter end... What kind of a woman is she,if she really loves that man she should let that man be in his daughters life...
Sending continued peace and comfort your way. I’m an American living in Georgia (by way of New York) and when I tell you working for white women has to be the least of my favorite things…. They will smile in your face and will tell all sorts of tales behind your back. And don’t stick up for yourself…. They will use those white tears to make you seem aggressive and bully like when in reality those are the traits they possess in the workplace. Some can be cool but I use the word “some” very lightly….. Sidneote: I swear you should start your own consulting or boutique agency. Especially geared towards influencers…..
Nobody thrives like you!! God, the universe, and your ancestors will make sure you're fine. We love you sweetheart❤❤ thank you for allowing us to see the good, the bad the ups and the downs 😅😢 i pray that God blesses you abundantly 😘🥰
The way your faith is unshaken in all of things you go through, I need to inhale all that grace. It’s so beautiful to see you navigating motherhood and career in such a graceful manner. Love you so much! ❤
Amanda life is filled with ups and downs doll please know one thing alot of woman look up to you we see ourselves in your. Your platform is valid you are valid sis yoooh I am not a mother but girl I watch your uploads like I am a mother. We love you hold on sis
You know the workplace is something else 💔. They wanted you to work FOR FREE? My jaw literally dropped!! Mandy I’m so sorry sisi. I’m praying with you regarding your purpose and the steps you need to take in order to reach get/create something that will fulfil and bring you a good income with peacefulness.
Oh Mandy I can see through your eyes how much you are hurt and disappointed by Milani's dad situation and you did say that you don't want to put your hopes high. But all will be good mamma hang in there but not for too long, its one of thosr seasons. ❤❤❤ I'd also advise you go to police station and get your protection order just for incase. Don't wait for another incident because you will never know what the devil is plotting against you. Love and Light to you mama ❤❤❤❤💐💐💐💐
I have actually recently experienced that. I was interviewed by a vanilla woman, and she kept on asking my reasons for leaving- she was over asking about it. Haibo, she kept on saying why don't I look for work internally where I am. She was so hostile, and it was the HR woman, the line manager was not even there! The pits. The more I give them a chance the more they prove me right. Strength to you sis Amanada!
I love how you’ve been doing solo dates lately. Those are truly a need. ❤ And also I love how calm you are about your job issue. Now that’s another level of making peace with things that no longer serve you. Funny enough , mine is black and so vile 😂 Thank you so much for sharing. ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️everything will go accordingly mama. Don’t worry, I’m so sorry for all you had to go through, praying it gets better at some point. Sending you love, light and peace
My former colleague would always say ‘there’s life after beep’ so Mandy there’s life after your former employer. And for the fact that you feel light means that God has your back and a heavy plan for you. So relax you got this mama
The day Milani becomes a teenager she will do to her what she’s doing to you now. The target is definitely not you, she knew about you before you became pregnant and was barely bothered then as soon as Milani came into the picture she felt threatened. That lady has serious beef with a 4 year old and it’s disturbing. When she said to you that her husband must choose between her and HIS child? 🚩. A meeting between the 3 of you is needed. Girl has misplaced hurt/anger and kumele abhodle, allow it, sympathise and find a way forward. I keep thinking of the vlog you made saying “owami umntwana ubethini” when you realised small kids talk about their dads at school. Pray about it and let God guide you ❤
You are kind and you want protect everyone but your safety and Milani’s is the priority. There’s a restraining order and she’s breaking it, please call the police next time. It doesn’t make you a bad person or evil, just a single woman protecting herself and child. Sending love and hugs.
Hearing you speak about the hardships of your co-parenting hurts to the core. I dont have kids but my partner does, and every time and again we sit down and include the kids in our finances and my partners plans in general. I grew up without a father and watching my man do his part in those kids lives gives me peace of my own. I hope that woman is proud of her evil intentions, God will deal with her and as for the father yena life will oneday humble him.
My sister i feel you on the DB Trauma, im going through it too with my ex-. Im in the same boat between choosing is it worth the trauma with BD and being unemployed at my big age of 37. Yoh i wish i was there we were gonne beat that lady with friends and all shame, the only way to deal with her is to get a restraining order against her and BD and Call cops immediately if she shows up. Inform your security to call you if there is visitors before letting her/them in so that she cant just rock up at your house, also with your fasting put her on the altar where God can take revenge because she is playing dirty and could be using muthi on you, you never know people are crazy out there. Love you lots and everything will be okay
Definitely watching the Ads for you Sis Mandy, sending virtual Hugs 💕. You will come out at the end stronger and as always thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Hi Mandy, I love love you and your content, silent subscriber here. ❤ Anyway listening to you talk about your co-parenting situation and it's challenges, my thoughts went to Milani that you please pray hardest that this lady doesn't ever treat your child ugly in her presence or wish anything bad over her. I'm a stomg believer that people don't only loya with muthi but with their hearts and lips too. To always pray over your babies, I'm not saying that you don't. For God to always lead you in your life and that situation too.
Bless her soul, she forgets she's a mom as well and at this point she can't wish Milani away because she's a part of her life. It's tough being in your situation and it's tough being in hers as well 😪, but for her sake she needs to choose her peace and sanity because it's all gone down her head. Why is she even invading your space like that?? I am biased yes haha but if we're being honest, WHEN Milanis dad still chooses and continues to be in his child's life, she must just remember that he's a package deal. At this point we're over being shocked that a child exists, I mean she's 4 years old. Ke life.
I'm so sorry about losing your job😢 if anything now you'll have more time to build your brand❤ One of the things I'm grateful about having an absent dad is the fact that my mom never had to deal with BD drama😂.So sorry Amanda
Haybo Amanda, wazekudelela lomfazi ukuthi ade eze kwakho, you should've called the police, Also Milani's father should be putting a stop to all this drama, but akuve eslow amadoda🙆♀ you are really not safe ngempela, i'm so sorry sis. We are going to watch the adds babes, Love and light 💡❤❤❤
If there is one muscle that God and your ancestors have you constantly exercising it’s your “FAITH” in yourself and in them. They have built your spirit and not your flesh that’s why you never have fear when shit hits the ceiling because your spirit gets stronger and stronger with each experience . Spirit is energy it can never be destroyed, only transformed. You are doing so well! Well done chosen one🕯️📿✨
This! 🥹 she indeed is a chosen one and man it’s beautiful to watch but on the other side I want to give her one long hug because we deeply get her. God and her Ancestors trust in her so much and they sure keep on cementing her firm in faith. 😅 Andiheki ndiyabona 😂 she’ll be good though, really good futhi. ❤️
I started watching you recently and I have now just subscribed. I really enjoy how transparent and real you are❤You are doing well and I also love how you love your kids😊
