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Adoptive Parents Kicked Me Out At 17 For Getting Pregnant. 20 Years Later....- Reddit Family
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Adoptive Parents Kicked Me Out At 17 For Getting Pregnant And Refusing To Keep My Baby. 20 Years Later, Their Biological Son Reached Out To Me.
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At 17, OP faced a devastating blow when her adoptive parents, Lorraine and James, disowned her after she became pregnant and refused to give up her baby. This happened after a challenging childhood marked by loss and abuse.
At four, OP's parents died in a car accident, leaving her in a state of confusion and fear. She was placed in foster care, moving between homes until she was finally adopted by Lorraine and James when she was five. Their initial warmth gave OP hope for a stable family life. However, it soon became clear that James, influenced by his military background, was overly strict and abusive. He placed immense pressure on OP, focusing on her academic performance and criticizing her for the smallest infractions. This pressure often resulted in physical abuse and verbal attacks, while Lorraine, who struggled with alcoholism, was unable to shield OP from James's anger.
Despite the harsh environment, OP found solace in her relationship with Harry, a classmate who treated her with kindness and respect. Their relationship became a bright spot in OP's life, but when OP discovered she was pregnant, fear of James's reaction consumed her. Harry and his family offered support, suggesting that OP should talk to Lorraine and James about the pregnancy. When they learned of the situation, Lorraine proposed adopting the baby, hoping to raise it alongside her own unborn child. OP, however, rejected this offer, unable to accept the idea of her child growing up in the same abusive environment she had endured.
James and Lorraine responded with anger, blaming OP for ruining their plans and accusing her of being selfish. They demanded that she leave their home immediately. With the support of Harry and his family, OP moved out and underwent a medical procedure to end the pregnancy. She continued her life with Harry's support, working hard to achieve academic success and eventually graduating with honors.
Years later, Matt, Lorraine and James's biological son, found OP on Facebook. Curious about his family's past, Matt reached out to OP, leading to an emotional conversation where OP shared her painful experiences. Matt was shocked and dismayed by his parents' actions and offered his apologies. He also assured OP that he would cut off financial support to Lorraine and James and invited OP to visit him and his family.
OP decided to block James and Lorraine from all communication channels, which stopped their angry messages. She and Harry have since developed a positive relationship with Matt and his family, enjoying visits and spending time with Matt's twins. This new connection has been a source of healing for OP, contrasting sharply with the pain of her past and providing her with a renewed sense of belonging and stability.
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Комментарии : 42   
@lilane259
@lilane259 Месяц назад
How refreshing to hear the story of a victim of abuse, who fortunately found the exact opposite of her abusers and had her happily ever after that she deserves!!
@harleyquinn5774
@harleyquinn5774 4 дня назад
Disowning your child releases them from all obligations to keep family secrets hidden.
@ChiCityLady
@ChiCityLady Месяц назад
The foster system really let this OP down. Adoptive families are supposed to be screened so foster kids don't end up in families with abuse and addiction. They should've never been allowed to adopt her or even foster her
@colleens1107
@colleens1107 Месяц назад
The dad is ex military and married to a woman. Trust me, they probably just looked to make sure OP could be taken care of financially. Plus Lorraine never called the police so James probably has a clean record. Foster kids are so numerous it’s impossible to make sure all get wonderful homes. Hell many never end up with a permanent home and age out.
@LovesGaming37
@LovesGaming37 27 дней назад
The foster system barely screens foster
@theresakruse1655
@theresakruse1655 23 дня назад
Abusive people adopt all the time. They only have to hide it long enough to pass the home study and until the judge signs off (a few months, usually).
@Red-jt6uu
@Red-jt6uu 18 дней назад
If this story is true, I’d imagine that either James or Lorraine had connections with CPS that they used to obtains child. It’s not unheard of for CPS to kidnap children from parents who are loving, but too poor to fight back so that they can take the kids for themselves or give them to a buddy that wants to adopt.
@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet
@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet 28 дней назад
Whoah whoah! "Disclosing family secrets"? She IS family, it's her secret to share too, and she kept it in the family.
@SheerLunaSea
@SheerLunaSea Месяц назад
20 years later, so Matt was only 20? Likely only halfway through college? If that? So probly not stable in a long term career yet? And they let him and his young wife adopt twins? Yea I doubt this story.
@dwyer1964
@dwyer1964 Месяц назад
Well she probs estimated approximately 20 years. So he could be in a steady job at 24.
@mikaeelmalik1724
@mikaeelmalik1724 Месяц назад
I know lot of people in there early 20s that are very stable, don't forget the trades
@maigrande-wang696
@maigrande-wang696 Месяц назад
Yep just assume every story involving twins is fake. Rare in real life, every other story on Reddit
@giulia6344
@giulia6344 27 дней назад
Yeah, I was thinking the same. This is BS. People think adoption just happens in a couple of months… riiiight!
@Iflie
@Iflie 21 день назад
Sounds like they are churchy people, they marry young and get kids to addopt through those channels.
@LovesGaming37
@LovesGaming37 27 дней назад
20 year old married and adopting twins? No way in hell is that real
@meganreilly9944
@meganreilly9944 13 дней назад
I think maybe the 20 years of after she graduated college, so maybe he's 24? Could be an estimation too
@zineguri8515
@zineguri8515 12 дней назад
@@meganreilly9944 how many 24 yr old men do you know that wants to adopt twins???
@TimBukTwo
@TimBukTwo Месяц назад
After living in a religious household I understand the anger at abortions displayed by her adoptive parents. Religious people are basically conditioned to believe an abortion is worse than literal murder/rape. I felt bad for Lorraine because I guarantee this broke what little remained in her head. Although I have to agree with her that I couldn’t leave my kid with a parent that cruel.
@remedyprey9505
@remedyprey9505 2 часа назад
Religious people believe abortion is murder, which it is. Hell even people who are not religious believe it's murder.
@geraldineekhator5428
@geraldineekhator5428 4 дня назад
Yes she had poorly formed people raising her. If she had better people she might not have decided to have an abortion. Many women have babies and get through college with Suma Cum Laude! I wonder if the doctor visit didn’t make her infertile to have more children. Many women don’t keep their marriage loving and long lasting after abortion so this is a unique situation. Such a shame for how she was treated and for her decision.
@remedyprey9505
@remedyprey9505 2 часа назад
The fact that the girl got an abortion automatically makes her worse than her abusers. I think it's worst murder a child in the womb then being abused. And this is coming from someone who has been abused from the majority of her childhood.
@LovesGaming37
@LovesGaming37 27 дней назад
That's why sex education is a very needed thing for young teens
@leanzedeacon6558
@leanzedeacon6558 26 дней назад
The kids who’s parents that were too strict/sheltered with them for any information, drugs, sex, etc. They always end up with problems in their life(teen pregnancy as an example).🙁
@talkytabby2878
@talkytabby2878 Месяц назад
Please get to the important parts oh my god 95% of this couldve been cut out
@blackmagician7645
@blackmagician7645 Месяц назад
I mean. The option for other adoptions listings was on the table too. There are many people looking to be parents that are on long waiting lists. Why deny another loving home possibility?
@sarahnelson8836
@sarahnelson8836 Месяц назад
The parents would have sued for custody. Adoption is only an option if someone in the family doesn’t want the kid
@Slw1111
@Slw1111 25 дней назад
No one is on a waiting list. The US alone has nearly half a million children waiting to be adopted from the foster care system.
@remedyprey9505
@remedyprey9505 2 часа назад
​@@Slw1111that is simply not true, there are between 1 to 2 million people on a waiting list to adopt a child, a simple Google search can easily prove you wrong
@remeokits
@remeokits 2 дня назад
I dont believe this one.
@lesleayschofield9384
@lesleayschofield9384 Месяц назад
I love listening in to these storys. They are amazing ❤
@tiffa808
@tiffa808 16 дней назад
I'm hungry...😢😢😢
@Laudon1228
@Laudon1228 23 дня назад
These types of videos are ball fake.
@lesleayschofield9384
@lesleayschofield9384 Месяц назад
Hi your cakes look amazing and yummy. I love the way you make them ❤
@BobWilliams-j2l
@BobWilliams-j2l 12 дней назад
Every single story posted to this channel is fake. Every single one.
@user-iq6we8wb6r
@user-iq6we8wb6r Месяц назад
Wait but Loren always cared for you wtf
@Hal_142
@Hal_142 Месяц назад
no she didnt. did you not see the video past the first two minutes?
@mariaj6551
@mariaj6551 Месяц назад
@@Hal_142 Exactly! She and James guilt tripped her and kicked her out when OP didn't want to give up her baby to them. Not to mention, they threatened to burn her stuff once she left. Manipulative and abusive.
@smsff7
@smsff7 Месяц назад
@@mariaj6551 He was also abusive AF to her and she was not even able to stand up for herself.
@tanikquamays3668
@tanikquamays3668 28 дней назад
Its there fault why she got pregnant
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