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thanks Ben!

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yeah its def not natural what they are doing and involves some kind of hrt hacking. I mean look at how they get touched, not very enojyable looking!

I'm corious : what do you mean with "hormone cycling"? . I often heard that pre-op trans women can't get an erection once they're on hormones. Has it to do something with that?

@@alirezamodares5797 I don't know what the girls in porn do most pre op trans women on HRT don't produce many sperm cells and less/no ejaculate then men. The fluid is usually clear. The girls in porn cum a lot more and theirs often looks like men's ejaculate so they are doing something most trans women don't do to achieve that. As well as the erection thing, that's also true, can be difficult or impossible to achieve on HRT depending on the person.

@@alirezamodares5797 i means going off hormones to get a T boost and then going back on it later.

@@AshleyxAdamson how feeling at sex as a trans women? Do you feel better than a man or trans mtf orgasm is better? Plzzz ans

Same!

Sounds very familiar. The need for mental and emotional connection is at the core of it all for me. Also a significant factor in why I identify as non-binary. I put it right in my dating profiles that I am sapiosexual and demi sexual.

Most womans, T and CIS, (and the majority of men as well) actualy do prefear it in an emotional way before getting on to the subject, at least past 20s, those things tend to increse with age as well, it is strange to me why there are not more information about the emotional needs. P clips are more an emergency for people who hawe urgent needs because of a mild addiction or just mental lonliness and it is extremely important to distinguish between that artifcial world and the real world since things obviously does not work in the same way in the real world as it does in a videoclip. They really should talk more about this to kids in scool as well as older people in tose days where the internet often are the very first contact one hawe with this type of things whan kids (or elederly people) are serching for information they will tick on the things that give most mental thrills and excitement, not on long booring textlines. That does probably blur out the lines between reality and fantasies i think. (I am sorry for my horrible english, it is not my native language)

@@KymGedinski-wp6iv Yea, me too. I don't think that's really changed.

Lesbians are straight women just scared of asking men out. Once you get yo pussy stretched by a man you straight.

Hmm... I might be a lesbian too. I've been assuming that I needed to date men, because I have a relatively passive personality and need to be pursued and "treated like the girl in the relationship", but I suppose that doesn't take women off the table

Are you trans too? I'm just starting out on My journey.

Me too, wish I discovered my true sexuality at a young age

I wish I was brave enough to come out mtf

thanks Madeline!

Glad you enjoyed it

OH HAI Avery!!! Lovely to see you here, thanks for sharing your perspective :)

Yeah, I think if I did porn I'd do camming, that could be fun cause its in my own terms. But yeah it's a lot.

glad you appreciate it!

Feeling attacked? Lol

@@shoeonhead just a smiiiidge XD

recorded the same day :)

it often starts off as a fetish... a safe space.

But attacking them for seeing for seeing you as a fetish will only make them see you as just that... You'll stop their growth. You also need to understand that the desires to explore and enjoy your penis is normal... But, that puts men in an extermy vulnerable position... The most vulnerable position we'll ever be in. You need to encourage it... Be a fetish. By being his fetish... You'll get what you want. Otherwise, you risk him no longer willing to confide in you.

thats why doing adult work always backfires on those people. see what they conflate is sexual desire for intimacy. they get it from no one so they will look for it and accept it from anyone. But deep down everyone still wants someone to love them. But its hard to love someone that has been ran though so many times it cant be special anymore. Having a high sex drive i absolutely sympathize and fully understand the 'initial' desire to get into that stuff but it also leaves them emotionally destroyed in the end. Its better to obstain and hold that sexual energy and FULLY RELEASE it once you have those people that are really there for you as a partner who will not only pipe you down but provide all that other stuff too. which a quick romp will never achieve. it's too shallow. There are very very very few cases where people come out the other end saying yup im glad i went down that road just because the validation of people thinking i was hot was a nice feeling. Still left a crater in them no matter how many times they got filled up ironically.

@@guitarman0365 to clarify: by being a fetish--I meant in the proper time.

​@@ghostface4404 To be extremely blunt: NO. Dating men who are obsessed with trans women's penises always ends up with us as trans women getting our boundaries forcibly pushed back--first it's "I promise I just want to touch your penis a little", then when they get that they'll go "actually I want to suck you off", if you give in, in due time it will then be "actually I really want you to top me, PLEASEEEEEE". The man will push, whine, cry, do everything in his power to overpower the trans woman's OWN HARD LIMITS sexually. He won't accept "no" for an answer. Why would he? He's SO CLOSE to getting his fetish fulfilled! If he just pushes, treats her like garbage *just a little more*, maybe he can get his fill of gurld!ck. What, she cried after he gave her a BJ? Who cares! He got to suck a gurld!ck! She says topping sets off her dysphoria and she hates it? Who cares! He wants that gurld!ck in his arse and he'll guilt her until he gets it! And then what happens when this so called devoted and romantic man comes face to face with the reality that his beloved fetish object likely won't be there forever? That the gurld!ck has an execution date, and there's NOT going to be a last minute call from the governor to save it. I'll tell you what usually happens: He leaves her, or he starts cheating with trans escorts. Or sex stops entirely because he's just not attracted to her as a woman like any other, her whole value to him sexually was because of her penis. The men who treat trans women like a fetish deserve NOTHING, not even the tiniest crumb of gurld!ck. Thankfully most trans women understand this and treat fetishizers like the nuisances they are. There's a reason why the term "chaser" gets so much use in the trans community, it's not only a descriptor but a warning to other trans women to avoid these guys. Those of us who don't accept being treated as fetish material can and do find love with men and women who find us attractive in our entirety, and with men and women who accept and understand our limits with regards to not touching our penis in certain ways (or AT ALL). They understand what dysphoria is, and treat us like actual individuals with our own preferences and hard limits, and they RESPECT that. The men who see us as nothing but an exotic d!ck to explore will just have to pay for an escort if they want to treat a trans woman like a fetish.

you wont lose your size if you keep using it!

Are you bi?

Thank you Justin!

Wish I knew you

Your sex drive's gone?

Do as much research as you can about that surgery. A lot of people end up regretting it

Tucking. For adams apple it's all about posture.

Hey

Not weird, just your style

yeah thats how i feel too ! im not on hormones but have definitely found that mental stimulation makes for a much more exciting experience. idk how to describe it exactly - i can get off really easily (or rather, ejaculate), but for me to really be into it (i guess, experience an orgasm) it takes a lot more foreplay, mood setting, and mental prep. also, literotica and whatnot tends to cater to that emotional connection way more than like, porn videos do 99% of the time