Afraid to Mess Up My Kids! 

“This is not the age for autonomy, this is the age for interdependence”, “surrender to the child’s needs”… I LOVED this. This WHOLE video was an AHA moment for me, thanks Dr. 🙏🤍

I am so happy you started this podcast! Maybe into a future video you can explain how parents should deal with heavy emotions, fury of their children after they take them from kindergarten. I know the theory but having 2 children to take in the same time is a struggle because they fight for my attention, they want to talk in the same time and if one feels he is not listened, he starts a tantrum on the streets. I try to learn them to take turns. How shall I organize? I feel that I m not organized, I don't know to approach this situation.

Yes! When we meet our children’s needs, It’s less work! Everyone sleeps better! Everyone feels better! ❤️❤️❤️

Amazing insight into parenting, real life teaching. So glad you are doing this podcasts. Thank you Dr Shefali.

Love it! It’s exactly what a parent needs

I would love to hear you and parents talk about the older kids as well (ages 20-24). I feel like that would be an amazing and absolutely helpful topic.

I am so glad you start these podcast.

I love this episode, really helped me connect with what is really important - connection!

Hi Dr. Shafali I’m glad more are talking about the importance of this with our children. I have 5 ranging from oldest 31 to youngest 10. I have always approached going to my child at night as soon as I heard. I also with 3 girls needed me more to sleep along side them as they fell asleep from birth. I breastfed all my children on demand. This is something I felt innately to do as a mother even though no one around me practiced this or flowing with nature. I did so without sharing that with others as they had the mindset of the “western culture” belief. I felt a more stronger pull towards nature and my heritage over going along with Western culture. It was hard at times to stand alone but I’m glad I did bc of what is being said about this area for our children. I can say that my girls have very strong wills, speak for themselves and follow their own paths. The men felt very loved as well. Thank you❤

Thank you for the podcast ❤

Dr. Shefali skillfully guided the conversation, leaving me with goosebumps. Her experience and confidence shine through. Truly beautiful inside and out.

This is wonderful. Thank you Dr Shefali! My 13 year old has had periods of sleeping in his own room but now he always wants to sleep with one of us. And we are just going with it .

So excited for your new podcast! As one of your coaches, it makes us better coaches and individuals to watch you do your thing! Love your message and energy. Thank you for everything you do ❤

God bless your patience Dr. Shefali! Thank you for all you do. I love your work and wisdom whole heartedly. ❤️

such great advice, this is so true, our western culture is so quick to cut the cords but the key to conscious parenting is to re connect and surrender

Dr.Shefali is so wise. Made me cry.

Love it!! I'm so happy about the new podcast!! I love how organic it is! Your work has been a way of life for me and my kids. I thank you and they thank you. Everything is not always perfect, its an ebb and flow for sure as with all of life's moments, but what I know is that its healthy, its authentic and balanced.

So helpful! ❤ 🙏

This is evolutionary wisdom for Western parents❤️

Hello ! If mom sleeps with children, then what about the father ? What about the couple ? Don”t you think their relationship is going to be affected ? Thank you

The key to what she said is parents have their own agendas. This is mean they have expectations and it lead them to frustration later. I don’t have kids and I think raising children is so damn hard and most people think they should have two , three children to fill up their own needs and happiness. I honestly don’t get it as I see challenges more than happiness in parenting. 😅

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I think dad could sleep beside the child also for that connection. Dad's can have that maternal energy too. Making a pregnant woman do that seems a little cruel.

I’m glad I don’t have kids. 😬😅