I came out with nothing in my marriage and without working, but after coming out i saw God's hands upon my life ,he provided ,sometimes u hv take a painful decision n come out atleast you are coming out with self respect
today its like you're talking to me madam speaker coz even his finances he doesnt involve me im so deppressed im praying everyday for God to help me and find a job
Sibongile I hear you sis😍😍😍😍 I also wish that kind of love to every girl. I am currently there and I have never been this relaxed... I hope you're still with him.
Great discussion sesi. I'd rather choose someone who's phone I don't need to raid honestly. But I have been with guys whose phones I raided, found what I was suspecting and left. The reason we raid the phones is because there is suspicion, and you need confirmation before you take some drastic steps.
I also have a very strong character and it scares a lot of men, but when I met my husband he wasn't intimidated by me at all. He embraces everything about me and he encourages me to be true to myself. Women with strong characters need strong men to be vulnerable with.
Haibo 😯😯😯. The caller who spoke about being a student nurse at that time and infections. She just made me realize that I was actually going through the same thing and I didn't know. I would go to the doctor and be given anti-biotics. Few weeks/months later I would go through the same thing again and I even told myself that I am sensitive to the public toilets hence I suffered a lot from bladder infections. Kanti it was worse than that, Jerusalem!!!!😪😪😏
I love @Bontle's laugh and role of being a private investigator 😅 l'm glad she's out of it and she's now laughing about it. All the best for future Bontle.
I thank God for teaching me self love at the younger age. And I’m not gonna be apologetic about it. We love you madam speaker and everyone who shared their stories and thoughts ❤❤
Powerful words Sis Mbali. Madam I support Pastor I usually tell ppl that if U get in a relationship tell the patent your value & what U want in a relationship taking it from there it’s either it will or not work.
1:33:00 💯 be yourself! People like to project their own ideals for us. She totally missed that you have a man already. And there are men who want people just like you/independent strong women. Like you said, God has created us so differently we don’t need to blanket anyone into categories or think we know how people should be in order to fit our own narratives.
When your gut tells you to go thru it,just do it just for control & make an informed decision whether,you walk away or you confront,whatever the outcome
Abafazi ngiyayizonda lento ethi ma ukhulume ukuthi uyajolelwa kuthwe at least he comes back home yooh this thing this saying is soo deamining to love to marriege to relationships you know
Also women get scared to leave is the societal pressure that "intombazane ayitshintshi abafana"so gals stick around to prove "they last in relationships".
Many things that are killing us we really don't know who we are we are carrying our child hood trauma ,we fall in love with people who are caring their own child hood trauma as well we we are coming is trauma to all of us we really don't know who we are we are trying to find our selves while we hurting one another...we hardly know our inner selves
im catching feelings,im currently not in talking terms with my husband,he has passwords in all apps and he doesn't see anything wrong,l already know that this relationship is over coz he doesn't want to change my problem is that im currently unemployed so now l have to stay in this toxic environment for the sake of kids,im living a sad life and l cant wait to leave
I'm in the same situation, but I changed my passwords when I realized that he changed his pin but has access to mine. [He asked me to go through his WhatsApp for a message someone sent to him that was meant for me. He forgot that he changed his password and he locked his WhatsApp]. Then I started noticing that he is going through my phone @ night while i was sleeping. That's why I changed my password and removed his finger print from my biometrics. He's not on speaking terms with me for 2 years now. I'm filing for devorce, but he is trying to drag it.
If you are trying to open all those apps then you are bored and have too much time on your hands, get a job or Hobbie. Apply at the police station, they need those detective skills.
I couldn't even raid the phone because it was almost always upside down or locked! But his behaviour of shifting when a call came or speaking in riddles sold him! I eventually left because I realised he had sold his soul to the devil and was about to sacrifice me! We should be free with our phones, unless we're hiding something!
Yoooh I found out dat my ex husband was cheating with more than 10 girls on tinder and he was telling them that he is single 😅 ended things with him same day after finding out.
What a sad story from sies Dora but anyways who was supposed to die 😢cause Dora also suffered tremendously.The cause of the man's death is his wife's infidelity.All the best in life Dora,thanks madam speaker ❤
Majority of the time its the men who dont want to "protect" their phones from their partners. So much so they dont even mind not going through ours and thats because they know most women have nothing like they have to hide. So bloody disrespectful because thats where ull know the kind of partner you are dealing with, when u go through the phone and realize how many "loves" he has and all those good morning my baby texts he be sending to other women. If a man wants to play please let him go play in peace . or snoop early and decide whether this nonsense is what u want to live with for the rest of your married life
Mina my husband the phone is always on his hand he does not put her phone even when he goes to the toilet he took along his phone.secondly his phone has pin code so i don't know what is hiding
Unpopular opinion , How are we normalizing sharing and trust in the relationship. Are you destined to police this relationship ?. As much as we talk about vulnerability and openness. How do you guys as a couple foster that culture in your relationship, is there more important question
Do you want your husband to view the private conversations you have with your friends and family that trust you with conversations? What kind of friend are you? Yes people cheat, with or without phones. Whats next, you want access ti thier work phone and laptops? You gonna install hidden cameras and trackers? Rather be single than be an unpaid detective.
today its like you're talking to me madam speaker coz even his finances he doesnt involve me im so deppressed im praying everyday for God to help me and find a job
