After Love - Newlyweds - S1 E2 - The Black Love Doc After Show 

@StarZoom You've missed the point!!!

@StarZoom 🤦🏾‍♀️....But this is about BLACK love...

Amen!

Absolutely

StarZoom You are missing the entire point. Black people need to see positive images of black couples because this country REFUSES to show it to imply that it does not exist. We see more interracial marriages in the media when they only account for 10% of all married couples for black people.

God can do all things but fail.👍

When you're equally yoked you'll definitely know that God has his hand in it. He approves versus the relationship you're trying to force an image of perfection from.

Yes. We must make sure that we seek God first. Make sure you actually listen to God's guidance and not just go with your carnal feelings and emotions.

Best statement in the entire convo. 🙌

Yassss!

Totally. I wasn't sure that I wanted to be married ( due to cynicism) but every time I watch this show I m reminded of the beauty in marriage, and having a partner in life to love, fight for and do great things. So grateful for it and the hope it inspires ❤️

@@ayeeshahm9078 Sameeee for me!

It's encouraging, it gives us hope. That a good solid Godly foundation marriage can happen and does exist.

This show is great but I still feel BW should expand their dating options because the numbers don't workout for BW.

m Johnson agree there are men from other races & cultures who will love a bw we don’t have to wait for something that isn’t going to happen or didn’t happen for most of us I moved on I also encourage other bw to do the same waiting for B.A.M to act right was a waste of time for me

I said the same thing

He seem perfect for her😊

Me three! You can see the love in his eyes

Yeah you can tell he’s really into her

It’s called the meal ticket gaze.

Girl yes, I'm over here like Lawd Jesus 😩🙌🏾😂

Ain't this the truth. He looks even better here than he did in the actual episode.

@L G I didn't realise admiring another persons attributes was wrong (especially as there is a 99% chance that you will never meet them)?

They are a cute couple

I never understood the attraction to the lighter skin, curly hair dudes. Give me chocolate and a bald head or close cut any day. 😆 Just goes to show . . . "To each their own."

True, and He is The most important part of any relationship. Most often these days the reason pple don't last is because we keep excluding God

@@akyiaaantwi5504 preach

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Love this!!

@@rondas7772 Nope, it felt right. I was never the woman who felt the need to be married. I truly enjoyed being single and never felt pressure from my family or friends. Once I got engaged, then pressure came for the actually date from his and my friends. It was another 3 years before we got married because of me. I had to do some work on myself before becoming a wife. I was not getting married for the sake of just being a Mrs. Its been 6 years and we're going strong.

I am sure it’s all maturity and sensible!!!

I didn't get married until I was 63 and my wife was 52.When I met her online in 2016 she was 4,567 miles away.We have been married for 1 year.

#thatpart

Absolutely she’s the creator!

Did she mention where her husband the other co-host is?

Kakkisimban well it would be dumb if she showed up on her own tv show with no prep but I get what you are saying she's great

Kakkisimban and she makes it look effortless

Right me too!

Girl, you can say that again. It’s so wonderful to see relationships that are not perfect but man, you can see these people are really down for each other. Like they really care about each other and are intentional about growing together. These shows are changing lives, black lives especially.

Mo mo tu bu bi bi bi hi Dr yo mo bhi

Mine too! I'm also 41.

@@nefertariroyston2832 I'm in search of a new emergency contact. LOL

😂😂

Truth...Pray as well.

@@reikomyles1495 Amen to that as well.

Exactly

Phyllis Parris-Borum well said I LOVE that working on yourself so you can show up better in the marriage. You cannot pour abundance from an empty cup

Amen!

The only way!💙💙

Amen

Charlie Hinds each to their own whatever works for the two people

Good point about trusting... basically before living together...#Goals

Good job I found it hard to put into words💕

@Valarie Cole...Well Said

Valerie Cole Very well said! I agree 1000%

I did 3 weeks abroad, Africa and Europe and we were not rich. You can absolutely have that

@@FreedomofSpeech865 I am soooooooo glad you made this comment!!I hate the assumption that only the rich can travel. I have a few stamps in my passport and I am nowhere near rich!!And the few places I've been it seems like the celebrities and socialites are just not getting hip.Like I been went to Paris I been went to Dubai.But ok🤷🏾‍♀️ Is it easier if you're rich of course but it just takes a little more planning but it is definitely doable

Right, I was like dammmmm a month is nice

Congratulations!

Rina S thank you so much 😊!

@Jack Ripper thanks 😊

Awww congratulations sis!! May God bless, fortify and seal your union for eternity!!

It is a little worse in a relationship that is not working.

@@FreedomofSpeech865 yes. Its like you are alone but not alone. Something has got to give.....

2021 is here how is isolation for you

Me t🤲🙏

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Karin Baptiste 😁Action>>>>reaction 😂

Try PG County and Anne Arundel.. Columbia, Silver Spring, and Upper Marlboro MD

Whereabouts in the DMV?

This whole comment thread! Lol😂❤

LMAOOOOO, i just love good and beautiful homes, and I couldn't stop looking 🤣🤣🤣

I was looking too! 🤣

You should watch shows on HGTV like flip or flop. Home Town, Property Brothers, Fixer Upper, Hidden Potential, etc

Amen

That's beautiful brother.

Poetry is beautiful and it certainly has it's place in building a good relationship. But as the old cliche goes, action speaks louder than words. Not only WE should tell each other what's on our minds, but SHOW the love, appreciation, respect, trust, kindness etc...Be a hearer, a doer, and a teller of God's word.

@@reikomyles1495 saying something off the top of your head is telling....taking the time to craft a poem requires real effort and is unequivocally doing. Never has there been an instance that I took the time to structure my thoughts and write them down with rhythm has the receiver interpreted my actions otherwise.

@@charles6724 God has given you an artistic ability of poetry, that's beautiful. Poetry of love is like a song and the voice of the poet is the instrument. Yes, I agree with you, it takes time, effort to express, process your thoughts, create and make words that flow harmoniously and emotionally. I feel you. Like you mentioned, about the book of Song of Solomon, it is indeed one of the best love poetry ever composed. Yet, King Solomon was a married man of 700 wives and 300 concubines. When we know God commands that we should be married to ONE spouse. We also know, there are men and women in this world that can spew charming words of flattery, and play all kinds of games. However, they don't have a ounce of sincere Godly love in their hearts. That's what I trying to communicate. And if I came of as offensive, please accept my humble apologies. May God continue to bless you and yours.

@@reikomyles1495 No apology needed, I wasn't offended. Have you actually read Song of Solomon??? Much of it is written in the female voice, and I don't see how the part about how many wives he had is relevant. At the end of the day, you can sit here and say that men don't need to write words to express themselves because its better to do actions. Actually SHE determines what is best. I'm not a John Gray worshiper, but in his book Men are from Mars Women Are from Venus, the concept of love languages is real. For some women, words of affirmation is their love language and if you can express yourself and affirm her, you are not communicating properly that you love her. And even those for whom words of affirmation is not number one, most can appreciate a man who will express his love for her pen to paper. We live in a world where men are socialized not to be too vulnerable with expressing their feelings in this way, and its a shame. I would go out on a limb and say if men asked their woman would they appreciate it, an overwhelming majority would say yes regardless of (his artistic skill set) her love language and notwithstanding the need to meet her number one love language whatever it is. Brothers, give the lady what she wants....and ladies do what it do to compel him to put pen to paper. Blessings.

Their original interview was a bit uncomfortable to watch. She seemed controlling. And he seemed very emotional. Not a good combination. But they are young and I really hope they make it work.

BlueWave seeing yourself from afar is a very healthy tool, it seems. Self awareness

Yes, I was thinking that too

He definitely does

Damn it, I said the same thing. He is boyishly handsome

Yessss

I said the same thing!!!

He really does

I was wondering if i was the only one who heard that lol... if you close your eyes and listen its jayz

If I close my eyes it’s between Papoose and Jay Z

Nope

No offense, but you must be young. No one would assume that you are homosexual based off of this comment to begin with.

I like that too❗️

Jiron127 👍🏾

A must watch it doesn't get any realler than this! Hubby and i spoke explicitly about the myths about marriages we spoke the truth and nothing but the truth! Very hilarious too! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_jj-sdCSn78.html

She said mid 40’s and I was like 😮 sis is beautiful

Topollo Motjolopane mid 40’s❤️

Erling Williams I’m ready to start analyzing the NBA SSHIIIID I’m sure that has everything to do with her appeal she’s beautiful but I bet he is so proud of her as Jemele Hill, his wife the sports analyst!!,,

I saw her thru out the discussion trying to get some words in but it looked like she was trying to find the right timing.