AITA for Telling My Dad that He Shouldn't have Asked Me a Question if He Wasn't Prepared for the Honest Answer? #story #shorts #reddit #redditstories #redditposts #minecraft #minecraftparkour
Might I remind anyone reading the comments, she was telling her father how she felt as a child. And he was talking to her as an adult. You can't expect a child to have acted like an adult years ago just because they're an adult now. And you cannot get mad at your adult child for having feelings that is normal for children to have when they were children. Especially after going through such a loss.
But she was an adult at that point and her mindset was still the same so someone needed to tell her the truth and he was the only one left to do it. He had also gone through a loss so he was also trying to move forward and her selfish manipulation tactics couldnt have made it easier. I also lost my father in 2021 but that wouldnt give me the right to be a dick about it to anyone. You take whatever time that you need to accept it and move on. Eventually she will have kids and since women in general live longer than men she may face the same thing with her own child
@@Business458Did you watch the video at all? He's her parent, she doesn't owe him shit. He's the one that backed away from her when sh needed it. Picking a stepdaughter over your actual daughter is horseshit, particularly when it's because they "share interests" FFS. It's not school, you would hang out with your children doing what they want to do because they are your children. The very idea he thought this and openly talked about it proves he was in the wrong. All she's done is explain how she feels and he's still being a bitch and a poor dad about it.
It’s a shame because his stepdaughter probably would never step up to take care of him when he’s older like his bio daughter would if he had treated her right. The bio daughter will probably ask her bf’s dad to walk her down the aisle if they get married.
He didnt replace her, he remarried and he had to also be a father to another girl. Is he supposed to remain single for the rest of his life The time line of this story seems as though it took place over several years so it wasn't like he got married the same day. She is just being selfish, eventually she would have moved out anyway so he needed someone who can be there for him. Treating his step daughter like an outsider would also have been a messed up thing to do. I also lost a parent but that doesnt give me the right to treat anyone around me like crap She was also being manipulative in everything that she did and he was right to call her out. She isnt the only one who lost someone and she isnt a child anymore so she needs to grow up
@@Business458rewatch the video and listen to what he said, he literally chose the step daughter over her. Literally replaced her, stop lying. Jesus reading your comment, you’re likely the father in question “she manipulated him” bro what? How, where, when? He told his friend he didn’t want to spend time with her and hoped she would want less time with him, you’re missing some marbles if you think anything he did was right.
She destroyed the delusion that he was "Father of the Year" all that time, and he blamed her for how she was treated and felt about how she was treated. OP needs to go no contact, and change her number before he finds out he's not going to walk her down the aisle, or get to see his grandchildren.
If the dad has the "right" to bond more with his step-daughter over common interests then his actual daughter also has the right to be more distant to him. He can't just not give attention to his real daughter and then expect her to give him attention back lol. I would have sided with him if he had given equal attention but from what OP has written it doesn't seem like that
wouldn't be surprised if it came to light that dad was maybe a little "too close" to the stepdaughter, lol seriously though, textbook manipulator. OP dodged a bullet. good on her for the whole thing honestly, good coping mechanism, proper boundaries, distanced herself, honest communication. dad's a failure, through and through. "I wish my daughter would distance herself" "wHy iS My DaUgHtEr DiStAnCiNg HeRsELf????"
He was venting, he also lost someone and she was giving him a hard time because he remarried. She is an adult now and she is still acting immature as if she isnt the only one who has ever lost a parent. Even the father lost his parents and then he has lost his wife but he had to move on yet she is still using it as an excuse to manipulate him into remaining single for her sake even though she will eventually leave him to be with her husband
I think you're a leech, publishing other peoples bullshit without even reading it yourself because you can copy paste into a TTS. It's lazy and disgraceful.
Well, let's see,🤔 he had his own daughter, but, that wasn't "good" enough. Found a second daughter. To end up losing both daughters. Guess he fool himself.
We’re only getting one side to the story. With the information given not an asshole but this person could very well be the asshole if we’re given the other half’s story
Dad lost his wife too and tried to patch two families together Op's was only child - they tend to be spoilt she's old enough know better and to forgive now, But misery loves company , don't it?
Her mom dies and her dad basically ditches her, and she overhears him admit that he doesn't want time with her. If she's spoilt for being upset about it then the earth is made of cheesecake.
@@firerosenight6937 This. That nasty sack of scat of a dad literally told his best friend that he wished his daughter would hit the teen phase and stop wanting to be around him so that he could spend more time with his step daughter. He's fucking evil, downright evil, to say that and then doubling down and telling her to f off when she brings it up.
