Allegations of Abuse 

Exactly! Alot of people still don't get it...just having innocent kids with any and everybody 😒

@sheilae.9670 I keep hoping for the best but it's been 40+ years

@@williamharris5976 Unfortunately, it's not going to get any better soon. It's actually getting worse...smh

This is so true!!

This is true,but people can change up at any moment. It happened to me. Took me completely by surprise, and a whole bunch of bs

Exactly what I thought about Judge Judy. I wished Judge Mathis would’ve held her equally to task after verbally acknowledging that the video was evidence that she has indeed been withholding the child.

100% facts about judge Judy checking her

If he was violent with her, she shouldn’t make her daughter available.

Sorry if the man I had a child with was hitting me I’m not letting him see his daughter or son cause who knows what happens when I’m not there

Self defense is not being abusive. If you have to defend yourself then that’s what you have to do. Not only that but if he was so abusive why bring a child into the world with him?

Yesss. Then "a unknown location"? She don't have to know every place he goes with THEIR child. I'm more than positive she don't tell him everywhere she goes. Your right. Go thru the court. Same way she document payments, he need to document refused visits. In VA is a misdemeanor.

Facts these dudes try so hard to stay out of court I put myself on child support got set days cut off most communication unless my son was sick

I dont think he abused her tho

@@christiandilday7543man stfu. You definitely relate to him in some ways and thats sad for u.

He doesn't care about seeing the baby

The judge was prejudiced in his approach. He should have been more objective and impartial😢

Once he heard there was DV he was done with him.

Exactly the Judge jumps men so quick at times when there is a hint of neglect and don’t fully allow the men to fully explain

@@hebrewking6040 facts

He hears buzz words and instantly goes into his male feminist anger

I definitely didn't see it that way seemed like he was trying to butter her up or sweet-talk her to get lower payments he even admitted he reached out trying to talk about getting lower payments

He was trying to butter her up to get his way with those payments. 🙄

​@@tiaswayExactly! 😂

​@@tiaswayExactly!!! He was tryna kiss her ass to get lower payments or to take him off child support altogether

Bitter baby mama mad because this young man moved on 😡😡😡

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Praying 🙏🏾

1000% AGREED! Some women are MAD desperate. Me personally, I don't like family and friends over my house, even just to visit. What the hell do I look like MOVING A STRANGER into my house, smh.

@@msarmstrong410 Absolutely!🙌🏽🙌🏽

Exactly she helped his case out that's what she gets. She sounds like she's difficult and she's jealous of his new girl

@@RougeStromyou probably a deadbeat too

new girl sittin by him waitin on him to get her pregnant too ,

She better as one month old cottage cheese😂

It didn’t help his case , u need to pay attention

Yeap, all said "after" she won her case. Her stated reason is understandable ( the father going out of state with child and blocking the mother's calls), but her revelation shows she's dishonest. During the trial, she told JM she never kept the child from him. She says she let him see her, but under her guidelines. What she displayed after the ruling was embarrassing and childish. She still has feelings for him, but is disgusted that he doesn't consistently pay child support. And, I think she is jealous of his new relationship. A mature, classy woman would have walked out of court and said nothing. To win and then turn to him and ask him why he lied and banter back and forth with him was childish, classless and screamed, "I still want your attention." To the father: pay court ordered child support and fight for visitation rights. To the mother: when court order visitation is granted, let the father see his child, she is not a pawn. To both: choose better next time, be intentional in who you date. Vet them. Study them to see if you would want to produce and parent a child with them.

When a man is with a new woman and physically compliments his ex on how good she looks, that is flirting.

@@God-Love-Freedom that was not flirting y’all think too deep

@@ayannadaws8480 Your gaslighting will not work. Often, males like to push boundaries of and minimize inappropriateness as a means to excuse or normalize their own bad behaviors.

@@God-Love-Freedom no gaslighting over here 😂 I’m just not thinking deep I don’t care how YOU felt he wasn’t overstepping his boundaries so🤷‍♀️

@@ayannadaws8480 Yes. I’m very sure you don’t think deeply.

She may not be the aggressor but she’s damn sure not innocent.

definitely

​@@FinDom1 I believe she keeps the kid away from him because he's got a new girlfriend. I also believe she's an aggressor and I also believe that his dumb self has been giving her money without going through the court. ALWAYS go through the court because these little ass bitter girls will lie and lie some more.

@@Shellygrrl2573 she was way too happy to show the video of him saying she looked good. She’s definitely not over him.

Yes, she is a nasty woman.

Y'all mad at everybody but him .

​@@temdaileyNah,you are just typical and mad because a man finally received some sympathy for a change in these comment sections..

@temdailey if he so violent why tf she so pressed n trying so hard to interfere with his new relationship

​@kgames1748 , How so?? Where to you hear her saying that?

@@kgames1748 Amen

I doubt she cares. He upgraded to another punching bag. Whole police reports to prove his abuse

@@deja14 yeah she doesnt care that why she's being a great mom withholding the daughter from him.Of course the new gf is just waiting to get punched when the judge asked her whether he abused or not.

@@anushrajapaksha5098 he has a documented history of abuse, so you tell me anush. Would a man w his past be a good candidate for your daughter? NO! wake up! And these are the men who are supposed to be leaders in society but look at the type of women they go after and release their seed into? Without marrying. Yes some leaders. 😂

@@anushrajapaksha5098 hasn’t abused her YET. But I see you just might be an abusive man yourself. The fact he has documented history of abuse means nothing to you now? No, it only matters when a woman is killed and THEN you’ll blame her for being with a man who had a documented history of using women as punching bags. And admits it!

@@deja14 documented history where 😂😂 if he’s so abusive why’s he not in jail, when women are petty and mad there comes the abuse card like this lady,

Thanks, same too, you 🫶🏾

You too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🖤💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘

Blessings ❤

So true. At least the Judge will come down on women like the plaintiff who deny visitation. The defendant has to go back to court to establish visitation(this is an old case, that child is almost 10 now). Women(like the plaintiff)want their money but dont want the dads to be in the children's life. SMH!!🤦🏾‍♂

Simple as that, smh.

Don't have sex until you are serious about the person your with

I have to agree with you. At 10:58 he said was SHE looking good...he didn't say YOU looking good. The plaintiff just wants to believe he wants HER when he doesn't..he wants to see his CHILD.

She gave no indication of being jealous of the new woman. If anything, he’s immature and petty to parade the new woman in her face. But no one wants to talk about that.

No, nothing that great looking about the GF, the guy has no money anyway and he will ha e less now.

But he did come on her ‘trying to start it with you’ he was trying to be sleek cos of the gf

Yep, just got out of a relationship with one and that's exactly it

I was married to a physically abusive woman. She spoke convincing and made up good stories just like this woman. I had to let her mark me up one night and restrain from touching her at all just for the police to believe me about the abuse. They will always get the benefit of the doubt

Exactly!!! Which is why folk have to be more selective on who they have children with.

You’re ok with men moving in with women and just want “love” from these women they chose?

😢 facts and she trying to play victim it's sick. I'm sure he has his faults but I'm sure she a fire starter

If it’s true, then he shouldn’t hit the mother of his children.

Those same salmon colored pants gave him away though 😂

Same Pants tho😹😹😹😹

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂

😂😂😂

Them his going out pants.

@@tgrant6518 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I wish that child could live him at least 50/50. He appears to have the better temperament for raising a child

True.

Very well said.

Right

He needed somewhere to stay , so how was she the problem? She allowed his access too soon & he obviously took advantage eventually resenting her because of his own shortcomings .... Yall always blame women when you aren't prepared for your OWN life ..zmh

@@pamelasmith496 Cap

She’s very beautiful

Please stop..he should provide for his child regardless. He can go for custody. I am sure he hit her too..

Mammie logic 🙄

All parents should have court ordered visitation agreement as well as child support.

Yup

Exactly

Not surprised he has a girlfriend and not taking care of his child these young girls don't Want anything out of life anyway

Take Care of Your Kids

Definitely.

I believe her. It happens to women at far greater rates than it happens to men. He’s mad she left him; that’s why he parades his very new woman around every opportunity he gets to stir the pot. Since males think they carry their precious, most high “seed”, they should choose better.

Just curious. Why? Lol

She didn't get herself pregnant 😒😑

I need Judge Mathis not to shame women for keeping herself and her children away from abusive men, if the allegations are true.

It goes both ways you need to get to know people before sleeping together and producing children in your toxicity.

Shut up

Males should protect and covet their precious, most high “seed”, but alas, they toss it around like old urine bags. So that says a lot about your “seed”.

Agree 100 percent. Straight extortion of men. Minimal rights to child, yet want our money and can do whatever they want with our money

Here in California, child support and visitation are not bound together, you can not pay a dime and still have visitation. The state may take away your privilege to drive or attach wages or tax returns but still does not affect visitation. Sounds fair to me.

Yep and the new lady does look better than the liar..

She is too

To help her show us who she really is... 😂 She won the money, but lost respect! I hope he goes to court and petition them for 50/50 based off her testimony in her!

Always bring your receipts

Right

The show pays the judgements

More people need to go to the court when the children are being withheld. There are consequences these women can be locked up for doing that.

All men have to do is go to court. That is, if he’s telling the truth.

The father still needs to support his child.

Never will happen especially when it's judges like mathis out here

How,???

He loves the Brothas bad seed YOU do better 🤨❤️🖤💚

Nah JM is professional 🙄

Bruh, you in your feelings! It ain’t hate from him wanting us to be better! Tough luv is real luv!!

​@@bbalumbu💯

If he wanted to see his kid he could have asked for visitation. He's not trying to see the baby

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 you can not say he doesn't want to see the child when he said he want to . I only see selfishness and revenge coming from the mother . All she cares about is just the money and nothing else.karma is a bitch, she better be careful.

@@patriciablake2602 WHEN YOU GO TO CHILD SUPPORT YOU CAN REQUEST VISITATION. IF SHE VIOLATES THE ORDER SHE CAN GET JAIL TIME. HE'S NOT TRYING TO HARD