Alone in a Relationship: Terissa Perry v Charles Perry 

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got me 2

Seeming like she is more there for his comfort and convenience than his wife

those are roles of a wife btw@@prettybossy510

I know right ❤

Exactly my thoughts, they have little to no issues just need to date more 😃😃

Exactly

Exactly 💯

Me too! My eyes are watering. I hope they stay together❤

Beautiful! Happy early Anniversary to your parents! And may many many MANY more to come for the two!! 🎉💙 💜

Eyes don't sweat! 😅😂😢

@@GlendaClarke-ir2cd 😂😂😂😂😂

Mrs Perry don't throw the baby out with the bath water. You two have legacy together. He can do better with making you feel like the queen that you are but happiness comes from within.

Judge star would never allow them to...they better throw them papers away and go enjoy the family they created..❤🎉

Exactly just like he said tomorrow is not promised; if he wants a camaro what's the big deal

She doesn't want to ride in the Camero. 🙄

​Because her back hurts getting in and out of it!

😅 you can't force somebody to go where or when they don't want to go the, man clearly stated he offers to take his wife out all the time but SHE DECLINIE the trips...lol

I’m so happy with these responses. Y’all make me happy. He can have his dream car however he should pay attention to his wife

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Your comment is truly special. Glad you got to witness a marriage like that ^_^. That positivity lives on through you!

​@@chelseawilliams8588Amen ❤🙏🏾

Marriage is also about becoming comfortable just like it's also about having spontaneity... There needs to be a balance... Mr Perry gives her PLENTY attention but she's just making a fuss over hardly nothing being unreasonable/unsatisfied... I once had a girlfriend who I could spend 24 hours with doing whatever she likes but she would be like well you didn't spend 25 hours with me so it's not enough... There are MANY people in this world like that and I think Mrs Perry is one of them...lol The man clearly says he tries to take her on trips and get her out on dates but she refuses them and don't be wanting to nowhere... You can't force somebody to go when they don't want to go, even the daughter/children KNOW that the mother should loosen up and try to have fun... 🙄 Who gets mad at their husband for playing video games with their grandkids... Just selfish...smh

YEP!!

Where you get all that from lol

​@@kentthomason6285that's a lot of projecting going on

Not just love on her like she wants but, love on her the way she shows him love. They're a sweet couple; sometimes we get too comfortable with our mates that we forget to still do what it took to keep her ( or him ).

This is on her. Not him

@@FalaqXshe sounds bitter and unhappy for no reason. The man is not doing anything wrong. He offers to take her. She doesn’t want to go anywhere. She is just complaining and seems so negative. At the end she even says she will give him a try but she has a feeling she is going to get the papers back. Why such negative thinking? Smh

How come nobody mentioned that she looks like Oprah? If she fixed herself up differently and changed her hair she would like a lot like Oprah

I couldn’t have said it better! My exact thoughts ! I think it’s a fictional story just to come on tv For their anniversary, cuz if she acted like this for so long that be tough, but yet he praises everything about her.

I said the same thing, I hope it works out for them tho!😊

You said that. Prime example of a wpman that has it all. Her complaints were petty. She even out him out the room. And the her back hurts. Stoppppppppppp you better get you a pillow jump in that car and exercise....Walk a little ..stop acting like your idk what age because you have much older people that travel take walks together.....nope

How you know he hasn't? Most men just quiet about it

Like he hasn't put up with a lot of her shit over the past 50 some odd years, like I always say, what good is her old stove if it don't give out no heat😅😅😅😅

Thank you! I thought it was just me. No one is really listening to her wants. Just because they think it's not that as big of a deal as trust issues, doesn't mean they should just be dismissed. She is just simply tired of being not heard. The judge isn't even listening. They're easy fixes and if he wants to keep his marriage...he better fix them!

I think that they should stay together. Because they really love each other deep down. She just did not know how to make him understand that she wanted his attention. Getting a divorce now will make them die faster. Two are better than one. And two top it off he is not cheating or abusive. Do you know how many women will line up to get your husband?

That is not fear for him she is selfish only about her

I wholeheartedly agree

She might just be tired

No one wants him and his ED...nobody but her.

​@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr What is ED? Oh, never mind!😅🤣😅😂😊😊

Her old butt can't fit in it😂😂😂

And you're acting like a young disrespectful person lacking in a lot of knowledge of life.

I thought she ordered him to take her in her Kia and not his car.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how indescribable that pain is. I am praying for you

Way to dissect!!!

I was looking for this comment right here! They cute but I heard that he can't function without her and she's tired of it and wants to feel appreciated. Reciprocity!

Doesn’t she have her own car?

​@@beautymedic1773right everything ain't about her

& did you hear the amount of trips they went on. He named them. When I get of their age I would enjoy that.

MY SINCEREST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I truly understand lost my husband of 33 year's 💔 July 9th 2022 sending you many blessings💛

So sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find some joy through the holidays. God bless

Even if he get the wrong attention he can’t do nothing no more anyway he still look good but it is what it is

Looks good? He looked like an idiot. She should have slapped that stupid grin off of his face.

@@GETBIG4WARD You don't know many 70+ year olds.

@@sereneamani1713 yes I do hell I’m only about 30 years away

This!

what's so bad about shooting pool or playing in his junk room...she neds to find a hobby that she likes....(mine is old records and my classic, fully restored Wurlitzer 1015 Bubbler jukebox)🙂

Yes, you called it @congnitivedissonancechristi516

She is unhappy but I don't think divorce is the answer. She needs to look after herself, have boundaries so that she won't be used. And have a hobby rather than waiting on the husband. And I agree the man needs to grow up😂.

@@d820m Actually, the issue isn't the hobbies per se. I also do not believe the answer for her is finding a hobby. I'm not sold on the fact that he's playing pool solo and he's riding around in a convertible for hours solo. I don't believe all the right questions were asked. Not for one minute do I think this man’s interest is his wife. Why? Because nothing he has done was in consideration of her. He showed no interest. But, I do believe he was considering somebody, it just wasn't her. He goes and shop for a car by himself, then buys the car he knew she would not want to ride in because the car was low riding and the seats design didn't accommodate certain body types like hers. For example, a person who has problems with her knees find it difficult and painful to get out of a low riding car. To get out will require your body weight to be placed on your knees to push yourself up and forward. Ouch! That's very painful. The way the seats are designed will begin causing her back pain after a while. Ouch, again. Now, he knows if he buys this convertible he doesn't have to worry about his wife ever wanting to accompany him in the car. He can ride in his car with the person it was considered for from the beginning - and we know it wasn't his wife. And, the testimony reveals he goes “riding” for hours. He also loves to go shoot pool. The testimony reveals he does that for hours. I don't believe he spends all these hours shooting pool by himself. Nor do I believe any friends he has are spending this much time daily and weekly shooting pool with him. Of course, Im sure he’s shooting pool on the regular with someone. I wonder who? Then he has the room he uses for gaming and has junked up so horribly that his wife gets exacerbated and just keep the door close. They also sleep in two separate rooms. When I look at just these few things that were revealed, I can bet you that the marriage is dead. It's not about a couple that can't decide on what hobbies to do. I see a women who is empty, unhappy, lonely, depressed, depended on by everyone to do everything and is taken for granted. She know it, now. Even though the husband said her loves his wife, Im not convinced. I did not hear one thing he did that indicated love existed. At the most, she was a mode of convenience for him and their children. Divorce would disrupt the conveniences the husband has enjoyed for 51 years. In other words, since she was 18 yo she's been catering to him. Since he was 20 yo he has been catered to. I can guarantee you, she may not have filed for divorce right then, but they will divorce if she doesn't die from depression, loneliness, exhaustion, and a broken heart. Or, maybe if she doesn't divorce its because they guilt her into not “destroying” the family. Nevermind her state of destruction. I just know, if it were me I would have been at an attorney’s office instead of Divorce Court. 😊 Just sayin’.

He's actually acting his age also with many of the attendant mental states.

How old are you?

@@sereneamani1713 why?

Just because her stove done ran out of heat doesn't mean his has to, damn!!😂😂😂

I wonder who expended the most energy throughout the years of raising the family. There may be a reason why one is more tired than the other.

@@sereneamani1713 I've raised a lot of kids with my two and grown folks too, and now at 60, my life is my life and I'm going to enjoy it to the fullest. I'm single bc I no longer wants to cook and clean behind anyone anymore. I started washing dishes at 10 and been doing up until a yr ago. Everything was put on me and everyone is now shocked that I have set boundaries and no longer run to them, nor do I no longer cook for holidays unless I want to. Ppl can come ungrateful and feel entitled. So, I understand what he is saying. I never knew what out the country looked like nor traveling past Dallas. But, now I do. I've been to Dominican Republic Mexico on a cruise and now I'm getting ready to head to the Bahamas. All I ever knew was traveling to my hometown in the country, H-town, but now I'm reaching for better places and seeing things and places my mama nor my daddy got to see before they left this earth.

Just remember that song was sung by one of my favorite singers, Bobby Womack, who died broke and addicted. The husband has signs of dementia, but he realizes he needs his wife (there is a reason for his belief).

On a lighter note not sure if the songwriters’ bio is relevant but as a married woman I can see a tug of war between them, each has to compromise. She seems very unwilling.

You quoting that song took me out 😂

​Bobby also married Sam Cooke's widow three months after Sam's death, and as much as I liked Bobby's music, he was always a little shady

😂 I believe Mr Perry gives her PLENTY attention and she's just making a fuss over hardly nothing being unreasonable/unsatisfied... I once had a girlfriend who I could spend 24 hours with doing whatever she likes but she would be like well you didn't spend 25 hours with me so it's not enough... There are MANY people in this world like that and I think Mrs Perry is one of them...lol 🙄 Who gets mad at their husband for playing video games with their grandkids...smh

She may feel left out but she’s not doing anything to help the relationship either. He needs to be more focused and romantic with her. But he probably distance himself from her because she just doesn’t like to do anything and just live up a little. They can fix this I have faith in them.

Ok!

Yeah, sounds exhausting

I can understand your comment. Also be mindful they grew up in a different era

Meaningful life is not always about a "good time".

I don’t think she meant it like that with the video games. I think she was just trying to imply he was “too old” to be playing video games saying that’s something her grandkids do but I do agree she probably being too greedy for attention.

@@Versiongurl ABSOLUTELY and I agree but even if she meant it as if he's "too old" to be playing video games that's still a terrible thing to say if it's something he enjoys doing... Nothing wrong with video games it's just an entertainment outlet like anything else... I'll bet she wouldn't like it if he wanted to restrict her on an activity she likes doing in her free time...lol