I change my Name alot, it's alright be your self don't let anyone stop you from doing that just do it tell anyone you want to. Scream it from the roof, be proud to be you
Storm1001 tbh, I thought so too. Until I came out. Then I realised how many gays were at my school. A LOT. Most are now my friends. Coming out (schoolwise) really opens your eyes.
I came out to my new class (I failed a year) and yeah. Since when I came out I realized that my group of friends are all LGBT+ except for 1 straight guy
Maria Cota yeah.. it’s so much easier when you’re able to move out. Because if your family doesn’t support you, you have the ability to leave. That’s why I’m waiting to come out until I’m an adult, then I can leave if they hate me lol
@@mynameisnotjordan.noseriou2377 well they won't hate you and if they dont like that they'll need time and if they still dont support it there's many other people that you will meet in your life that will
Fauna Bauna for real.. it doesn’t change who we are all it changes is who we date/marry. I think the reason a lot of them get so pissed is because they wanted grandchildren. And even though we can adopt, they aren’t biological. They can be upset but they should never treat their child differently because of their interest in someone.
HAHAHAHA! no....they can never be the fuel that continuously ignites your happiness, the job of the parent is to provide you with the knowledge and means to acquire a decent or even prosperous future.
Jose Acosta If a parent only cares about you having a successful future, and doesn't pay mind to whether or not it's a happy one, they are failing as a parent.
They don't have to be perfect, and they don't have to constantly keep you happy, but they need to try to be there with comfort, trying to make you happy
"How you know tho?" "How do you know you're straight?" "How you know tho??" "How do you know you're straight?" "Well I've always known" "Well I know too" That girl ugh xD
I may be a jerk but Imma lt you finish sippin my tea cause I'm feelin so british your a hoax your a joke imma be honest I am broke I dont have friends I cry myself to sleep I regret watching the my little pony movie im scarred for life becuase I see a knife....omg whyyyyyyy
I don't see the film as supporting Dad's point of view, the red cowboy boots story is expressive of his awkwardness, his overreaching to say "hey it's no big deal."
People who genuinely dislike you for being gay are people not worth dealing with anyway. Sexuality and gender makes no one special, bad, or good. It only matters in relationships (and for obvious reasons.)
Lol same I'm bi and my parents absolutely don't care, my cousin is bi too and probably my other cousin is bi as well and my aunt don't care either 😂 I love open minded families ☺
Murky DUDE LISTEN TO YOUR HEART! please don't let other people affect your beautiful self. And the thing is, you don't even have to know your sexuality, it's a natural thing that will develope over time. I'm only 13 so I know I have a lot of time to figure it out, but even if you're like 60.. You don't have to know! I'm in between Bi and lesbian, I'm like 75% attracted to girls and like 25% to guys. Okay, another thing is, if they ask you "how do you know you like guys? Maybe you just haven't found the right girl yet." Ask them if they're attracted to llamas, and if they say no, tell them they just haven't found the right llama yet. (sorry this was so long, I wish I was this passionate about school haha ) P.S love you man, it'll work out, I promise, be true to yourself, and many will respect that. Thank you for reading my advice if you did so
Zoeeyy "are you attracted to llamas?" Thanks this made my day😂.Well actually i have depression i hate myself aaaand also social anxiety but i decided to not give up and trying to survive school years because somebody said that everything will get better after school.❤️
As a guy, I had a crush on a lesbian for 6 years... since 7th grade... she came out in 6th grade but every night I would just think about her smile and feel like my heart is broken in half...
Well it’s more of the point that she feels like death is easy to reach but it’s something she won’t do I’ve said similar things and I self harm but I don’t want to kill myself it’s more of the idea that I know I can do easily do it
That's not how being suicidal is. People that are suicidal want to die. I speak as someone that has 20 failed suicide attempts and still has thoughts about it all the time. Suicide goes hand in hand with depression. Not everyone with depression is suicidal but everyone that has suicidal thoughts or actions has depression.
Daughter: Dad I need to tell you something... Dad:Ok? What is it. Daughter: Im a lesbian. Dad: Oh! Um ok I guess... I still support and love you though. Daughter2: Dad Im gay to Dad: Um ok I still love you to sweetheart. Daughter3: DAD I KISSED A GIRL AND I LIKED IT!!!!! Dad: OH COME ON DOES NO ONE IN THIS FAMILY LIKE BOYS. Son: ummm dad Dad: Yes... Son: I do Dad:😰😰😰
Lol my little brother used to snuck in my room while I was watching the L word. I was so shocked af even though he knows I am gay af too. It is weird though. I'd rather watch it alone or with some gay friends
when i came out to my dad he was like "i wish your bother was gay" and will make jokes with me telling my brother "i aint raising no hetero" and i thing overall we became closer
As a 15 year old myself it always kind of makes me extremely depressed seeing other people come out to their families and having it go down as well as this situation did. Both my parents immigrated from East Africa and uphold strong conservative Muslim backgrounds. I can't count how many times my mom has seen gay people and told me that they are going to hell or that they are disgusting.They literally come from countries where if you were openly gay you'd you most likely be subject to physical attack. I constantly live in fear of having my parents go through my phone or meet my friends and out me cause I'm positive that It would result in me getting like disowned or kicked out. This is just a coming out that I'll never have and it hurts so much.
laylaaa never coming out does not in any way make you "less gay" be yourself & if being yourself puts you in danger then wait or just never do it at wll whatever your choice just know you have a family of lgbt supporters
You don't have to come out. Once you have your own home, and are away from your parents you can be free to be as gay as you like. I don't blame you. I wouldn't risk coming out if I was in that situation.
@@cranecrane4011 Don't let what "others" think define you. You know what you are (even if you are not completely sure don't worry, you will know) . I think I got lucky cuz no guy finds another guy cute 😂.
I don’t know my sexuality yet (I just haven’t been attracted to anyone. :/) My parents are both amazing because they aren’t always assuming I’m straight. They’ll be like: “So, see any guy you like? Or girls?” I sometimes want to take my How my parents are about fine about it and make every parent feel fine with it. I feel so upset when someone hates on someone who’s not exactly straight. *Edit: So I have come to realize that I am bi. It took me a while lol*
Just so you know anything is accepted, if you dont ever feel attraction, even tho ive never met you, i would support you as asexual just as much as i would any other sexuality.😊
Omfg that guy at the beginning literally looks like this one disgusting guy who used to like me. You have no idea how much I relate to that beginning part.
I'm split between "it's something she's not used to and learned a lot of negative ideas from school" and "she's resentful because she's gay but has been afraid to say anything to her parents, only to realize that her fears were unfounded."
As a Christian who doesn’t want to judge anyone if I ever have kids and they come out to me I want them to know that no matter what they are loved. Loved by me, loved by Jesus, loved by everyone. I will support them no matter what. I am personally trying to get closer to god to learn more about him. I want to study the Bible and from what I’ve studied, the lustfulness is wrong but true love isn’t. God bless everyone. I stand behind the lgbt community and want them to have a good, happy life.
I’m so happy to see a comment like this. Most Christians I see online are saying such horrible things about the lgbt community. This comment makes me believe there are some people who love god that still supports the lgbt community ❤️
Papyrus Senpai I totally agree and I'm Christian too! It's probably cause I'm from the young generation and not really uptight so I'm more open minded to things and I grew up loving people for who they are but either way, I just don't think people should judge others religions/beliefs or how people see themselves as. Respect comes a long way and I think people may not have to agree with LGBTQ community necessarily but they should at least acknowledge and respect them. I have a gay friend,couple of pan or bi friends, as well as a genderfluid friend. Whether I knew or didn't know about their orientation, they all are my best friends and I liked them for their personality and similarities in interests, why push them away because of their orientation? Cause in the end, we're all humans and personally I believe God loves all his children despite people pointing fingers at the biblical text concerning homosexuals and of the like. Everyone deserves equal happiness and acceptance 💕
That's a terrible moment to come out to a parent. In the worst case scenario you could end up in a car crash! And it wouldn't even have to necessarily be because he hated you for it or anything.
Arafor Nah, we had been having a conversation beforehand about my cousin dating a transgender person and my Aunt (my dads sister) pretty much disowning her. My dad thought that my aunt was stupid because the world is a different place than what they grew up knowing. It was the best moment I have ever had to tell him, I’m 22 for goodness sake, I waited long enough out of fear already! I knew he would be fine
That therapist was lying if she thought that the parents were cool with it. Tessa was clearly not, the mother was uncomfortable, and the father was supportive but needs education. To tell Andie that they are all supportive while they are not, is setting Andie up for distress. To be honest, I thought Andie's look at the end was one of apprehension, not 'now my life begins'. You should be able to trust your therapist.
yup XD okay so first I thought I was straight then I think i'm asexual, then I think i'm straight again, then I think i'm asexual, then I think bisexual, then now I just don't know XD
Alpha SilverFire well if someone doesn't agree with people entering gay/bisexual relationships they shouldn't feel pressured to. It's their choice I for one don't but I'm also not going around trying to force gay people into my views.
Everyone wants to be accepted but we are taught from a young age and maybe it's even programmed into us from birth to act in a protective state to things that we view as different. Though we have made a lot of progress through out the years Homosexuality and Bisexuality is still a very different from the norm. The millennial generation is the most accepting of sexuality yet but that generation is still for the most part dependent and don't have high school aged kids yet. So our parents have been raised in an outwardly skeptical environment some of their kids will be that way too and more after that while the numbers decline. My mother made the statement of being okay with Gay people but Bi people have the choice to date a girl or a guy so they should choose the opposite gender. I don't blame her for this, it is the teachings of a society that she was raised in. Bisexuality is still looked worse on than homosexuality but none the less things are improving. It will be at least another decade before these sexuality are accepted fully, a lot of the militant progressives are doing more harm than good but thats the fate of anything that has a strong backing. But that's okay. You don't need to be accepted by everyone, you never will be. What matters is that you accept yourself and know your not alone, you have the support, an entire community of people that will be here to lift you up when you fall down. It's going to be okay. My family is devote christians that were raised in the back woods of Pennsylvania, very normal, very traditional and I remember the night that I was going to come out to them, being at a restaurant and thinking "I can't do this, im going to ruin this normal family." and then a couple walked, two girls, holding hands, smiling, happy and it looked normal and though I knew that everything wasn't going to be easy, it would be okay.
Batman I'm glad I could make you feel that way, I remember the struggle for me with it and it was hard but if you have even one person that will support you and is there to talk when you have problems than it makes it so much easier. It doesn't even have to be a bi or gay person, my go to support was a girl named Diggy, for a straight year we thought she was gay but she was hella straight.
It must be hard. But please do not let the negatives outway the positives in your life. Without your parents' acceptance, I'm sure you and your girlfriend will still have a great relationship. It's great you had the confidence to come out to your parents. I hope you two stay happy ❤💛💚💙💜✌
Angela Jett I'm pansexual but my family well my dad at lest loves me for me I'm scared to come out to my grandma because she's homophobic and transphobic and UGH me and her are so close and she tells me everything but she always asks me "who's your boyfriend" or like "who do you like" or something like that and I like a girl and I can't tell anyone :(
FIRECAT I feel you, my grandma is kind of accepting, it took at least a year to come out to her. But I was scared of never getting to tell her since she was getting older.
D'AWWWW. i just came out this year so uh...yeah. just a small word to y'all closet people. (and this is solely my opinion) if you think that it's the right time to come out, do it. if you think that not announcing it to someone is emotionally causing you stress, then do it. but don't feel stressed BECAUSE you think somehow, you must. you don't have to. if you feel like keeping this to yourself would benefit you more than it would otherwise, then it is defenitly your right to do so. there isn't a designated time to come out..there's just suddenly a feeling that urges you, that informs you that it's TIME. this feeling may or may not come to you some day. you'll know when it does and if people don't respond to it the way you wanted them to? well screw them, honestly. you only get to live one life and what a damn miserable one it would be if someone else planned out your love life
I feel like I'm in a cage all the time, having to hide my sexuality. Most of the time, it's not very present, but sometimes I feel so trapped and miserable. My closest friends know about my bisexuality, and my parents found out after reading my texts. They said I was confused, and that those texts could confuse other people. Obviously, I am terrified of coming out, but I just want to breathe again. If I come out, I know I won't be bullied. Worse, my classmates will tell their parents. Their parents will tell mine. It's a horrible cycle.
Cadet Grey thanks I came out late last year to my foster family (sister, carer, brother) it was the hardest thing ever but you know what they actually accept me for it and even if they don't then I'm alone. real family really don't like anyone part of LGBT (I hate them for that and will probably never tell them I'm part of it). Like seriously what's the big deal with being bisexual, gay, pansexuals we are only human it shouldn't matter. Also one day I was at school and someone randomly said to me: Bill:are you lesbian "whole class goes silent and listens" Me:sits and says no I'm not lesbian.......... actually I'm bisexual Bill:what really Callum:WHAT YOUR BISEXUAL Me:yes why (the teacher did nothing but just listen in) "everyone asks me questions at once I leave the room crying) well anyway that's how everyone at school found out and even to this day they still ask me questions every science lesson in school
I'm still 14 soo I guess I'm still a long way from coming outta the dark closet. I've came out to my friends and they were very supportive, but I really don't know about my parents. Plus I live in Indonesia (many homophobic people here or just people that think being gay is weird). Totally get it though. PS I'll probably come out when I can live by myself cause like if my parents would hate me for this one tiny thing then I still can survive LOL. I still love my parents though and hope they will accept me.
Yohane_666 Daughter of Satan thanks, my parents aren't religious and I've never seen them say anything against homosexuality, but i think it's still too dangerous to come out to my parents. My friends are surrounded by the internet so they understand the struggles of it and support it.
ItsJqy OMG HI!! I'm Indonesian too! And I might be a bisexual but I'm more into boys, I know in Indonesia there's a lot of homophobic people and it's hard to face it but in my school, gays are everywhere! And it's like a normal thing in my school to be gay, none of my friends are homophobic. And I don't think coming out to my parents is unnecessary cause I still considered myself as straight, I believe my parents will be ok with it (I hope so) ❤ Btw, we support each other and stay strong 👊🏻
ItsJqy Good to hear 😄 And btw.. I can see a lot of Troye Sivan's song in your playlist (I was just checking out) He's one of my favorite singer and I'm a big fan! 💕😭
I recently "came out" to my immediate family because they found out that my boyfriend is transgender, and after hundreds of questions about my sexuality I finally told them that I'm bisexual. In a way, it was a relief. However, it's always the topic of discussion. My mom is always extremely curious and every morning when she drives me to school she asks "are you sure you don't like 'boys'? (I do, once again, my BOYfriend is a trans BOY)" or she'll ask "Can you at least kiss a 'real' boy first before you make your decision so soon?" By the way, I'm nearly 16. I'm very happy in my relationship, and I couldn't ask for a more positive and amazing person in my life right now. Anyways, the overall point I'm trying to get across while venting is simply this: whether your gay, bi, pan, etc., you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself for loving who you love. You only get one life, so what's the point of conceiling the things that make you happy? It's hard to come out, maybe easier for others. People will always be curious and always have questions. Just remember that no matter what, you are loved and you are beautiful for being you. Don't be afraid.
+Cactus Jones trans isn't a gender. go back to tumblr, she is bisexual. trans is short for transitioning. meaning transitioning from one gender to the next. this doesn't mean said person now has a new gender mark as they are a female until they turn into a male and vice versa
