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Many guys get too attached to porn...and that effects their perspective when dating. They'll put themselves in harms way just for some p-sleeve. That site Oiporn. com has good info to help dudes get on their purpose (there's no porn on that site, it's purpose driven for men). Share it with your buds so they can avoid the fem traps. Be on your purpose and thrive.
Exactly 💕 We should all aim to build healthy interdependent relationships but first we must be whole as individuals. I personally love flowers (not desperate vibes) & being appreciated as a woman. I will not chase a man ever or just because he has a poise & status. Feminine women appreciate kindness & courtship. Wishing you all much love 💓
@The O Johnson Podcast That's what I've been seeing. Another problem with these things is the constant idea that you need to be someone else. Some people got really fucked up in life as children, but as further illustrated by the video and even by some responses by girls, this doesn't matter. Ahh... "Women are empathetic." I don't know about that. Humans are so trained that participation in a slavery system, somehow make you a better person? Need to reflect on what it meant for Is to put Osiris back together and apply it to depression and neuroticism. What's interesting is that these people call this, "Focusing on your purpose," thing, "Masculine." When in fact, if you have no need of the other, it means that you already have it within you. They are applying the concepts of masculine and feminine incorrectly! He got part of it right when he described the "Masculine" half as Ambition (He didn't use the word), but they missed the mark on "Feminine". No one seems to notice that they're really saying, "Be immersed in the matrix, first." Being immersed in the MATTER, Mater, Material, Matrix, or Mother... Makes girls more attracted? They don't see the correlation. Women bring life into the Material Plane. So they want people who are successful Materially, before they'll even bother. Each egg is a cell. Each world too. The funny part is that both sides, male, female and whoever ends up in between, both are born into the world. Meaning that they both are spirits inside of matter. Someone or something is making us extremely stupid. (These pronouns are just ideas but I have to use them.) Men can't see what makes them feminine. Dude, you're in a dream. These guys seem to think they can separate themselves from what we all came out of. A woman. Women can't see the spirit of a person and choose based on this. It seems that they want better functioning slaves. The first post said, "Broken females." Sadly, this means broken people, I.g.. It would be cool if people we're allowed to or capable of recognizing the state of existence itself. Then we'd make a better place and not just play along and change our character just because it makes us unwanted. That's the trap. (Fixed it.)
The ending 10 seconds are gold. "You need to find happiness with yourself first before you can be successful with women. Until you do that, you're always gonna fail."
Powerful lesson. Men, the Hollywood romance movies are just for entertainment. In reality, you must live a life dedicated to the mission that the Most High gave you! The rest (including the women) will come and be granted once you seek first the Kingdom!
Breath of fresh air mate! Seek first the kingdom of God and everything will be given unto you. Because all vanity is vanities. Chase everlasting life, not temporary pleasures in this life because this life is not everlasting. Thank you, I needed to hear this again.
Nothing guarantee women. Moses died with no family. Why do you care about a parasite if it wasn't for sex? Adam never needed Eve she was forced upon him. Are females even worth it? Adam wasn't even ASKED if he was lonely the POS took it upon himself to make another dirt suit called female. If POS didn't even ask me if I wanted a companion how the FUQ so I have free will?
So easy to lose respect. Honestly once a girl loses respect for you it’s impossible to get it back. Better to just learn your mistakes and move on to the next one.
Women respect responsible men..and unfortunately being there trying get to know people..it's very uncommon now adays to find responsible partners.. most lean on women to provide stability.
@@honor9lite1337 depends are which part of the question you would like me to review, is it in the reality, that more men are leaning on women for stability nowadays, rather than it being a reciprocal relationship or where women respect men who act responsibly ?
@@deaniedean248 or if you do a little, leave stuff vague. You gotta be able to relate a little to them, you need a few good stories to tell to take her on a little emotional journey
Women are getting the same advice...ignore them, be to busy for them etc. Can't wait to see the marriage statistics in 20 years...you know...after we all play these games on each other.
If you ignore someone, then you are still focused on them. If you are truly on your purpose, you will not need any outside validation. You will enjoy each other's company and you will enjoy your own company. Who cares about the rates of marriage? Low rates of high quality marriages is better than high rates of low quality marriages. Also marriage by the state has been dying and will never come back. Union of the souls without state interference is what real marriage is.
Maybe not to you but most guys are not ready to handle someone showing interest, they think we are being “masculine” (whatever that is) and love the chase and the chaos that come with it. Unfortunately, our society is not ready for assertive and confident women
Mary C it’s all in how you communicate it trust me when we know that the other likes us back we’ll have no problems courting you the ones that don’t like it chasing is a thrill to them and chances are they only want to smash
Wow, that was Gold. I am a female and I agree with everything you all said. Both people must be on their purpose and enjoying their lives alone before they can have a fulfilling relationship with someone else. Thanks for this one.
This girl used to text me back instantly and keep conversations, then suddenly I showed interest and she stopped texting. Which made me show more interest, and then she kept on telling me that shes busy and shit like that. What this man says is pure gold
I believe these are American male mindsets. As a Jamaican woman that have dated American. Caribbean and African Black men, I find that Black American men withheld compliments, affection and wanted me to beg/chase them. I’m not used to that. I’m accustomed to men being into me, showing me their affection and I appreciate it and give it back to them.
Yea but youre not realizing the other side of the coin, this is the American males mindset in response the American woman’s behavior/attitude towards men who do those things. Especially when women started calling dudes thirsty and posting screenshots of texts and DMs...that really seemed to screw up how men interact with women even more
This AMS is a very relatable dude. You won't think he is this way from watching his channel. This guy right here seems actually very kind, professional, and approachable.
Don't fall into this toxic mindset of an "Alpha" where you have to be a stone wall and never show any emotion or give any compliments to your significant other. There is a thing called moderation that a lot of tend to forget about.. every woman is different and you shall act accordingly. Take the advice that you deem necessary from these videos but don't get stuck in this mindset.
kephrenh u lost me with the Feminist part... the true alpha don’t hate women like most feminists hate men and think men are trash. The true alpha man holds himself to a certain standard that a women has to respect and if she can’t meet the standard then she is cut. That’s all it is. Alpha males don’t hate women brother
John wicks dog is dead... htf this possible, how’s he even speaking, I’m happy he’s alive though, dk who resurrected him but shit man goodluck (Relax I did this all for the memes)
It's more complicated than this. Being so cold hearted constantly will make her run eventually. There's a very thin balance that keeps her falling for you. Always pushing her away is gonna push her to find a different dude. You can be a leader and a man without being an asshole. I promise.
@@johnnyappleseed8270 why is that? Is a healthy relationship not emotionally stimulating enough for them? From my experience being an asshole worked but eventually I was exhausted from all the drama and anger she caused me and just became idk normal and the girl walked away. Miss the sex not gonna lie but life is much less stressful now
We’ve been married 15 years now, but when we were dating we had a situation. We had an argument regarding my son from a previous marriage. I had full custody and my girlfriend felt I prioritized my son over her. I cussed her out and asked her what kind of man would prioritize a girlfriend over the happiness and welfare of his kids?? You have to be ready and willing to do what’s right over what they want or it will never work!!!
Ur a disagrees Diahreaa of sorts..u made it quite obvious that u didn't value her . U made her feel inadequate..u didn't do anything noble.. kids are a priority. So is making ur wife or husband etc. U cussed her out? U proud sick twisted human.. just gross
Dont listen to these people, your son comes first. If she's a real one she'll understand and play her part without letting her insecurities take over. Speaking from experience.
Christian Zilla Trust me I don’t. I’ve noticed my wife has had plenty of trouble over the years making female friends. Most of them don’t like how much respect she shows me and complain I’m too mean. Needless to say they are often single or very disrespectful/dissatisfied with their husbands. It seems the only women she tends to get along are those that hold their husband in high esteem and are submissive in their marriages. Everyone is different, I’m not judging. What works for one couple may not work for another.
@Kitso Modiba you would be surprised how many women have this issue. Its amazing when they have kids they expect us to be accepting etc yet they fail to reciprocate their own standards and expectations. Quite bizarre..
Wish I knew this since high school! Instead of the stupid Disney story they force feed us all our lives, men who drop everything to be with a woman end up getting left, cheated on, and losing all their relationships with family, friends, etc
This a principal. Keep your eyes focused on God and you're good regardless of whether women stays or leaves; keeps your eyes focused on her and you're screwed whether she stays or leaves. This society tells us to worship and capitulate to women and to put Woman over God and ourselves. That doesn't work ; it didn't work with Adam ; it didn't work with Sampson; it didn't work with Solomon so it definitely won't work with us the last generation.
How can women ever be the prize when most of their whole existence is rooted in men’s validation. Their power is rooted in the attention men give them. Go to a bar or nightclub dressed up and smelling good, and don’t say anything to the women there, or even acknowledge them. Watch how many women you’ll see looking at you from afar wondering why you aren’t paying them attention. Ego is our kryptonite and the need for attentions theirs.
Harry Garrett If women could have any man they wanted, they wouldn’t be complaining about the dudes they end up with. A high value man has his choice of women. Unlike women a man can survive without attention. A woman’s value is depending on what she can attract. I don’t think you understand how this thing really works.
@Harry Garrett but doesn't mean they can keep a man to assure that validation . If they can't keep who they desire, then compliments become meaningless to them.
@Harry Garrett that is BS. Men aren't getting surgeries of lips, breasts, butt and also for make up, wigs, and weaves. Women are the ones starving themselves to death to be pretty and accepted. More women want to marry than men. No woman wants to remain alone, and that's not the case with most men. Real men don't need any of that stuff. Men also dont have a biological clock and don't panic to get married at 40. Why do you think so many black men don't marry? We don't lead with our feelings, unlike women. Only Beta male simps need validation from women because they lack confidence. Real Alpha men get validation from themselves, their like minded peers and achievements. Here is proof from a woman: 4 Reasons Why Women Subconsciously Seek Validation From Men www.linkedin.com/pulse/4-reasons-why-women-subconsciously-seek-validation-from-mohapatra
Facts they tryna flip all the niggas just getting on the red pill fence notice they came in droves and you only see them comment when another one does cuz they schemin ass 🤣🤣🤣
“You need to find happiness in yourself before you become successful with women” spot-on. You should never feel like you need a woman to be happy, that means there’s much deeper problems you need to solve in your own life first.
That story about the war is interesting. My motto is: don't say things you don't mean. I'm gonna believe you 🤷🏾♂️. If u leave me as a result without even so much as a discussion, I'll be better off without that toxicity. Hints tips are for escape rooms and tutorials.
That's such a generalization. Plenty of men who go off to war get Dear John letters. Or may even get cheated on. We make generalizations to make sense of things way to complicated to understand
I highly recommend to take those advise. I promise you that your life will be better overall. My life has changed for the better. I too thought those fake Hollywood movies was the way to get with a woman.
I think this conversation is about immaturity. Most grown women and men know how to compliment eachother. Neither should have to beg for attention. If you do that's not the woman or man for you
It's not solely about immaturity, it's about understanding nature... contrary to what you said most grown men and women don't know how to compliment each other. Look at the divorce rate...a
It’s a natural thing for women to do. Disciplined couples will do it but it won’t be genuine. These are the things you have to do in order to keep a girl genuinely interested and attracted to a guy. Otherwise, he’s just your friend you live with and a provider.
if most grown men and women knew how to compliment each other, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. Females get bored of nice guys that's just the way it is.
The greatest advice a man can give to another man is to listen to the black Philip show by Patrice o neal It’s a radio show explaining female psychology I bet u won’t regret it ✊🏾
Bonjour je n'ai plus accès de la e et que vous allez je vais essayer d'y travailler et que je suis à votre réponse rapide de votre réponse je suis en déplacement et je suis en train de faire un tour à tour je suis très intéressée et motivée je suis très intéressée par la suite à bientôt j'espère et je te fais de la semaine prochaine pour un poste au de
@@slyfox1983 nope you cannot be both, take that miss independent shit somewhere else! Like I said I still believe in the patriarchy. Been married 15yrs, I call all the shots in my household, wife has no say whatsoever. Happy, successful and have 3 businesses... However my nature is very authoritative and I'm a leader in both my house and business.. I do not do the friends thing' only associates!
This video just showed me why I’m single and why I haven’t been having the best experiences with men; it’s because I’m never going to be the girl who’s going to ask “what are we” or chase a guy for attention. 🥴 there should be balance... and the fact that “men” are advising others to play these types of games is weird.
PREACH!!!!!!!Complaining isn't going to solve anything instead just increase your whining and "dislike" for women. Sometimes an introspection is also needed, just might be a YOU🙄 PROBLEM.
I don't want you to like me, I want you to respect me. Emotions are fleeting. Women bombarding these male spaces seeking attention and validation, basically confirming what AMS is saying. Keep proving us all right, ladies. We ain't mad.
I want a man with a healthy balance. Have something going for himself, such as his career or furthering his education. Yet not be so consumed that spending quality time is null and void. I think a lot of what was brought up, in the video, came from situations where the women were still finding themselves. So no, she wouldn’t be able to tell you what she wanted because she had not completely figured it out for herself yet. It also sounded like some of the women were not use to a man being affectionate and showing genuine interest. This can happen for many different reasons, over the course of these women’s lives. At the end of the day, the best idea would be to have a heart to heart conversation, to understand the reasons behind the actions. Remember the reasons behind people’s actions are not a “one size fits all”.
That’s the issue right there. Not all masculine men are going to college to further “education “ that’s that social indoctrination crap. Some make a great living working blue collar jobs, preparing for their future and enjoying their life with a productive hobby.. you know on his purpose. A lot of people especially women need to be open minded and do a lot of critical thinking. College education isn’t the end of be all. Find a man who read books, who educated himself. But that goes against women hypergamy as far as finding a man with great status. Not every women can and is deserving in finding the top 10 percent of men with a education.
Let's put it this way. You know the dating market has major problems when youtube is littered with dating coaches. We can keep playing mind games and watch as the west continue to fall. I understand the value system but there does come a point when you need to settle and you dont want to settle later in life. It's better to take a 7 partner at 27 than it is it to settle for a 5 at 37 ladies.
Look there has to be a balance. When two people mutually want each other and will show up in the ways they need to, a relationship works. No one should be chasing the other. You should be holding hands and walking together.
This really depends on the female. If your girls love language is you loving up on her kissing here and doing nice stuff for here you have to do it. If not she’s gonna find that somewhere else. You can still be the man of the house and keep your masculinity and love your girl correctly
The whole problem here is that you think of yourself and people as “prizes”. If the interactions were made simpler as in, getting to know the person without games and to see if you connect and if you don’t, you don’t, dating would be easier for everyone.
For real acting like you busy it exauhsting guys if you never been there DON'T...when she say she want you, it truth but that how she feel at the moment because of memories all you say is "Good" kiss that shiny forhead and move on. Woman think abt (live in) PAST and PRESENT (what we gon' eat today) Man about PRESENT and FUTUR (what can i do today to provide Tomorrow)
The most attractive thing I find in a man is a man living in his purpose. I love seeing a man working on him I have no problem getting out of his way. If he’s into me he will make the time period
[23, M] ♂️ I’m glad I found this channel; it’s almost as if the “shadow” part of my consciousness has been coming out -to be recognized, tamed, and redeveloped. The *leadership* you guys are taking is critical and very helpful. Masculinity is under an all out attack around the world and times are more difficult than ever. Great advice- God bless you guys. 🙏🏻
This is base level. Girls love being appreciated, they love the fairytale also, BUT, they also want a man that is of value, not just money, but attractiveness whether it is mental or physical. You guys are mixing it up with a guy that chases a girl to early. Women need space to DECIDE on their mind if they want the guy. If wasn’t that she saw you “grinding”, it’s that you gave her space.
She cancelled on me. I made plans immediately. She said "im not going" i said.."you better go...because im not changing my plans". And i dumped her for even tryna play with me.
We do love when men are cuddly and lovey dovey, at least I do. I wouldn’t be with a guy that wasn’t. However, if you’re overly lovey dovey immediately, thats a warning sign because we don’t yet know if you’re being genuine or not. Once I know a guy well, I’d want him to express all his love and be very physically affectionate, but guys who fawn over you or say I love you very early on just appear fake/surface level to me. Like, how do you already love me when you don’t even know me yet? And YES have something going on in your life. If you don’t have passion about anything besides me, I will lose so much attraction. I’m out here working to make the world a better place and focusing on what inspires me. I want you to be doing the same.
The fact that women don’t find It attractive when a man is kind and nice and helpful and wonderful is because of their life trauma. If one has a normal childhood one will appreciate such a romantic caring man but it does not matter how amazing and kind a man is if the woman find him physically repulsive
Jordan Sharpe smh exactly I’m 21 years old and I finally realize this cause I was taught to be nice to them growing up so it’s a little difficult for me to start treating them like dirt
I think a major problem with guys in our generation (millennials) is outlines here we haven’t manage to find our purpose and pursue it inspite of everything else. That’s where fulfillment comes from, women don’t necessarily do that.
Boogeyman What I’m referring to is genius, I’ve heard him clown dudes for using his “fake it till you make it” method as if he was never faking it.. It’s called consistency.. Some of us have been watching him progress from the beginning.. As for me, I’m where I need to be and climbing.. How about you?? Get off RU-vid all of the time and stay off that mans balls.. Unless of course you enjoy being on your knees.. My point was keep it real, don’t act brand new.. Then again a fake man wouldn’t understand that concept, obviously..
I’ve noticed the same thing. I was turned off by his earlier content but I’m enjoying his current content, which as you said is focused on increasing your actual value rather than faking it for superficial validation. I would recommend him now to my younger brother. Faking it has its place though. It can propel you forward. But if you don’t adopt the abundance mentality you won’t consistently see success. You’ll always be stuck because you don’t have the perspective, skills, or discipline to produce.
@@beac8238 well I watched one of his video where he clearly stated that his strategies evolves. He says one thing today and modify it next year. Secondly, he also made it clear he is making videos for beta Male not alpha high value males. So beta male who wants to get women quickly can use the fake It u make it method which he also states that is only temporal. All these strategies AMS is given can be very much faked for a quick fix. So u as a viewer should choose if u want to fake it or want to actually be it.
Guys 🤦🏽♀️ im soooo sorry but a lot of this is not correct. Its close but not accurate. At the beginning you said women would not admit... But you are actually right in the sence that women want you to want them but put your purpose first. When 2 people are whole the both have purpose, compliment each other and are a prize to one another. When 2 get together they should be able to run at the strength of 2. I dont want to fuel you or you fuel me < we both come full and knowing where to go to be refilled. Women want to know that if i position myself under you as your woman or your wife you will do whats best for the unit, or mission, and our purpose as a head. Also to be able to connect on a intimate (nonsexual) level so we can have a bond that allows us to compliment one another. (Sorry didnt mean to be long winded)
There’s being desperate and there’s being independent while still being in a relationship. It’s not just about who’s better and who’s more distant. If youre bing genuinely kind when giving a compliment, girls shouldn’t be turned off. Now if youre giving her a compliment in the hopes of benefitting yourself, yes it is understandable that she would be turned off. It’s the intentions behind it, and if a women did something disingenuous guys would be turned off too. I think what wasn’t addressed was the type of circumstances and the intentions. It just sounded like any dude who gave any ol compliment/nice action to any ol girl would be met with a rude response in return. People want to be in relationships where there is cooperation and some level of independence while knowing that they are still a priority to each other. It’s not about who can be so closed off as to gain the attention of the other person.
There’s a distinct difference between a man being “kind” and being “nice” and knowing the difference is key. In a relationship, a man has to constantly being on his purpose and evolving. The best relationship is when your woman feels a slight bit insecure that if she leaves you that you’ll be happier without her than you were with her.
Mature woman will run away from man that does not chase. I respect integrity. No games and strugle who is the price. Both woman and man need to invest time into a relationship.... Lets not talk about people who are not ready for relationship. Yes, they might play games and sturgle and ignore and argue who is the prize. Woman and man should complement each other, not fight :)
@@cralendesskid5739 you dont have to chase, theres plenty women who chase these days. I prefer a man to court me and i respond. You can do however you prefer. If a man does not chase, theres plenty more who will and i will go for somebody who is interested in me. Its just that simple :) all im saying is you need mutual desire, if i dont see that i will leave....
It's really all about balance, caring enough and not being too distant. You can still walk in your masculine purpose and have a fulfilling relationship. Just like you make time for what you deem as important, therefore if you are truly a man of purpose... time spent with her should be meaningful. Not, I dont have anything planned or I came over only for Netflix in chill. BUT with purpose to make moves with you to build a future.
I've always lived by this motto in regards to respect. A job title, position, wealth, professional success, the everyday person, etc. Respect is earned. I don't have to respect someone because they expect or demand it. But I'm absolutely not going to disrespect anyone for the sake of being disrespectful
Take it from a mature woman, this conversation is spot on. You can't fake being on purpose; there is an energy and authenticity that on purpose men (and women) give off.
This is true ,it's so attractive that a man pursues his purpose and has a full life without me. It's more valuable when he has to sacrifice his time when spending that time with me. That shows he had to prioritize me over something . Hope that makes sense. Love your content .
@@eski_truv yes , time is the only commodity that is indispensable and can't be returned to you. So if a person values his time and purpose , it's easy to see if we align in our life's calling. It's sounds good in theory but hard to find.
5:25 This is where all this shit starts getting manipulative. You're playing games, but you're saying I'm busy working. Tell men to fucking put down the games and start working, instead of giving them tricks and tips to make them seem alpha/high value. It's good to know the reason why things work, as you explained it before, but explicitly telling men to say I'm busy when they are not is just plain BS. The type of woman you'll attract will be just as manipulative and toxic. Stop being toxic, be the real high-value guy (which takes time) and you won't have to watch another video why you don't get respect.
Lee Deplace This world is filled with assholes who look at humans (especially men) as robots or machines who have to work 24/7. “Relaxing is for the weak” or some shit.
You sound bitter and insecure. Men dont have to conform for any standards. Women have been manipulative since the beginning of time. So men start to play there game they get offended? Smh.
A lot of women are broken. If we don't value ourselves and believe we are worthy, we will not accept genuine love. We shouldn't need to work for a man's love.
A lot of women arent broken. Ive only met a few that really had emotional struggles and tramas. Im talking actual sexual abuse and being effed over by every person they have met. No most girls now are emotionally irresponsible and entitled. They feel men owe them what they deserve because they've "put in the work." They pat themselves on the back for everything they do yet they remain stagnant in their lives. They love telling others that they are stronger than their past yet will never change their behavioral blindspots. There is always a drama going on in their lives and there is always a selfie pointing out that "they still got it and they dgaf." Real men know this truth about real self-development. You're beliefs can never be trusted and you are never owed anything except the privilage to put in the work. Im not an AMS fan, but I always respect where he comes from.
@@rubenjr4908 I appreciate you taking the time to write that out. In my experience, the majority of my girlfriend's tell me it's hard to accept the love that their significant other gives to them, because deep down, they don't feel they truly deserve it. For 10 years I've been studying where people get their worth. And so many of us are walking around with childhood wounds, abusing people in their present. Its horrible. I know their are good women out there. I pray you find her.
@@fredrikb343 because I have a relationship with Jesus, who died on the cross 2,000 years ago, that's actually my historical love talking. Real love makes sacrifice. I believe a man and women should work towards one goal together, consistently offering the best to one another. . I hope you find a love that makes you feel secure and successful.
It’s only “playing games” when you’re pretending to not care. Once you truly are enjoying your life and loving yourself so much you REALLY don’t care to impress or try to lock people down in an exclusive relationship. You just have to put yourself first, enjoy the moments for what they are, and stop believing in fairytales and soul mates. Then you’re not playing games, you’re just living a full happy life to the point where you aren’t desperate to be in a relationship. Losing weight, getting buff, running your money up, traveling the world, enjoying time with family, will make you happier than any relationship ever could.
I can see how that’s true for some women. But my bf now, he was the first guy to get me flowers. The first one to accept my hugs and kisses and returns it. He actually shows how much he’s into me. And I live it. Fuck all that other stuff. It’s amazing.
