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@ArthiPrem Год назад

Americaவின் முதல் முருகன் கோவிலில் தைப்பூச திருவிழா 👇👇👇 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-MXDQPbcwCew.html

@Cacofonixravi Год назад

உருபட வாய்ப்பே இல்லை

@thamizarasirajesh3193 Год назад

Sorry Anna , u both rocked speaking the mind voice of many tamil people. Great job 👏🏽

@josephvedhamanickam4931 Год назад

தம்பி உங்கள் குரல் மிகச்சரியானது.எனது 27 வருட அமெரிக்க வாழ்கையில் நம் தமிழ் மக்களிடம் பகிர்தல் இல்லை என்பதை புரிந்து என்னால் வேதனைபட மட்டுமே முடிந்த்து நீங்கள் பகிர்ந்த்து மிகுந்த மகிழ்சி அளிக்கிறது. தொடருங்கள் தமிழ் சமுதாய சேவையை. வாழ்த்துக்கள்.

@balajij3439 Год назад

We recently moved to Atlanta. It’s been a year and we are not able to connect to anyone here. It’s so hard to get into a tamil group here. Once a group is formed people are not letting us into…. We migrated here and Better to change this attitude…. I feel Telugu people are so welcoming compared to us.

@rajabharathybaskaran7660 Год назад

That’s true

@ArthiPrem Год назад

True balaji Atlanta is having big tamil group 😐

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Very good advice Thanks 🙏

@balajij3439 Год назад

@@ramki.r.7914 ji agree. It differs to person to person. Some needs to be social and some needs to independent. Having kids, we want to expose them to Tamil community. But when others are so closed with their circle and don’t want to open to fellow Tamil people is the problem .

@Sathishkumar-rl7gj Год назад

True bro, same. Mostly they won't allow inside their circle. Or if you are beneficial for them then they accept or you should know play better sports cricket, volleyball etc.

@luckyluke8667 Год назад

நல்ல பதிவு. 6 மாதங்களுக்கு முன், கணவரின் வேலை மாற்றத்தினால் வேறு ஊருக்கு வந்தோம். எங்கள் அப்பார்ட்மெண்ட் காம்ப்ளெக்ஸ்ல் உள்ள இரு தமிழ்க் குடும்பங்கள் இதுவரை அவர்கள் வீட்டுக்கு அழைத்ததே இல்லை. ஒரு முறை பெயரளவில் ஏதேனும் உதவி வேண்டுமெனில் கேளுங்கள் என்றார்கள். அவர்களின் நண்பர்கள் வட்டத்திற்குள் எங்கள் குழந்தைகளை விளையாட அழைத்ததும் இல்லை. நம்மவர்களுக்கு, மற்ற மாநிலத்தவர்கள் எவ்வளவோ மேல். "தமிழன் என்றோர் இனமுண்டு, தனியே அவர்க்கோர் குணமுண்டு".

@thiyagarajansrinivasan8376 Год назад

உண்மை.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

So sad.. mostly impacted by the newcomers to the usa and the relocated people 😐

@karunakaransundaresan9602 Год назад

👍👍

@imouli30 Год назад

Very Good Topic you have discussed this week. It’s really appreciated to see you have chosen this sensitive topic openly for discussions. Most of the Tamil community Group Gatherings are creating more Stress than relieving Stress. Tamil community gatherings should create ways to help one another and provide constructive forums and discuss current issues which people are facing and how to resolve. I see this happening in Telugu community gatherings and they have a very good support system to help one another in buying house, selecting schools, filling Tax, Car pool, DMV , jobs etc..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

True mouli bro Have to improve a lot .. we should start atleast now as a community

@lalla526 Год назад

This is so true.. I moved to Alabama and here also once group form aaitta they don't welcome anybody else... Great job guys! You have covered the most important problem here.. I am in US for last 7 years and Inda mari pressure jaasthiya irikku.. actually there are 2 other problems as well in US.. please cover that also.. 1) Company name/Technology vechu yedai podranga first meet laye 2) India la irukka caste system ingayum kondu varanga over a judge panranga caste vechu cheap a behave panranga.

@jeyaprabasaravanan1132 Год назад

Well said 👏

@arunrajendran529 Год назад

நம்ம கிட்ட இருக்குற பெரிய பிரச்சனையே ஒற்றுமையின்மை மற்றும் சற்று குறைவான தன்நம்பிக்கை. மற்றபடி நம் மக்கள் நல்ல திறமையானவர்கள். கடும் உழைப்பாளிகள்.

@rosesweet2405 Год назад

The issue I faced was most Indian women I meet want to know if I am working or not even before they want to know my name😀. If working means they have a different attitude if a housewife means a different attitude. This started to hurt me a lot but with family support I was able to come out. 2nd thing is loneliness suddenly thoughts flow in why I am here away from my parents, suddenly if I feel like talking to someone there is no one to talk to ......

@dhandapanimurugan7450 Год назад

Prem - biggest challenge I am facing is my parents are targeted or cornered by relatives with financial help - people thinking here we are printing dollars and they are not even requesting but demanding / forcing my parents to help lakhs of lakhs which leads lot of stress sometimes fight between us and parents We are not that much crook , always open to share financial help for education , medical reasons but not at all okay to financially help to buy bigger homes or upgrade home or big weddings to waste money . Please consider these kind of pressure from INDIA in any one of your upcoming topics

@1903priya Год назад

Every Lady should watch this video. Kids are a top discussion in parties. I realized this pressure and came out of it. Ladies remember that when you put too much pressure on kids it reflects once they are out of home.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Yes … we shouldn’t take kids topic at any occasion 😐

@spiritualfairy999 Год назад

Great topic. Highly appreciable. Dear friends, 1. Kindly distance yourself from greedy, competitive, jealousy people. Their negativity drains your energy. 2. Each child is blessed with unique talent. Find it and encourage them only in that field. Don't put too many burdens on them. 3. Teach values to your child before they turn 7.dont give gadgets to them. Instead take them out and spend more time in nature. Nature is the best teacher. 4. Education and marks alone will not shape your child's future. 5. End of the day, peace and satisfaction is more important. 6. Give more positive confidence to your child. (before that you fill yourself with more positivity.). 7. We can't change others, instead we should change. 8. There is no race happening here. So pls, don't run with those herd group. Stand outside the herd group and create your own unique, peaceful, blissful satisfied life. 9. Always less is more. Don't dump your house with more materials but fill it with real love, kindness and positivity.

@srajsu4901 Год назад

Yes, it's true. More channels are informative in hindi and Telugu. But Tamil channel is very few.. you guys are different and doing an amazing job. Hats of to you. I am really a great fan of you guys. Thanks for sharing 👍👍. keep going we will always be with you.super👌

@revathibalaji7616 Год назад

Really good video..I was in USA 20 years back but even then comparison was there..India also same..but if we clearly decide what we want to do it will not be an issue that much.. avoiding negative people is the key..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Well said .. avoid and ignore 👏👏

@priyarajan6503 Год назад

We get so emotionally comforted by the first voice of Tamizhan when we come to the USA. But over a period of time, we just get connected to the people losing values,ethics and principles which we want to adopt and start living someone else's life. Correct point u mentioned. People connect but the genuineness and trust are fading away. So rightly said both of you. Kudos to you👌

@vidhyavidhya6644 Год назад

Its so true. Can relate more with what you told(specifically when Arthy told like 2 or3 years back , I was like that). I also realized few things compared to 2 or 3 years back. Tamil people should be ready to share both on investments and visa options to explore.Life is to live happily and try to help others to live happily too.

@saravananamirthalingam590 Год назад

Arthi and Prem - Thank you for this video. you guys really touched the unspoken topic but everyone thinks about it. As you said, we need to share any information that is helpful for other just like what you guys doing with your channel. Just keeping the information with us, does not help the community to grow. Most of them are just stuck with where to start and how to be social with other people. May be it’s time to create some awareness programs across the location. May be we don’t get immediate response. But for sure thinking of long time it’s going help our community.

@KamalisDiary Год назад

Yes absolutely! Sharing is very limited there's circle friendship only with in tamil people even we knew about shares before two years from telugu friend intha mari neraya irukku very good that you guys boldly mentioned! Appreciate Guys!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank u sister 🙏🙏

@estatesm4914 Год назад

1. Sharing of information whether it is good or bad to help the Tamil community to prosper 2. Avoid comparing with other kids/people (and forcing them to involve in the (unwanted) activities). Develop the kids in the area where they are gifted. 3. Need social life and interaction after empty nest, feeling loneliness, retirement 4. Conversation should be helpful and constructive and avoid politics and conflicting toopics

@ArthiPrem Год назад

👏👏👍

@thanjaipalani8294 Год назад

Great topic. Thanks a lot! God bless you guys 🙏🙏

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@AkilanJ Год назад

Great points, especially related to the points about sharing..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@vini_kartik Год назад

Very good video!.. thanks for throwing light into this matter!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@75025music Год назад

You guys are doing a great job. When I came here, first think I remained my wife we should not compare my son with anyone. When my son was in 6th grade, once I told him if you get "A" in Mathematics I will get you a game. He said, Dad you want to get me a game do it, but do not put conditions. If you put conditions, I do not want it. It was a eye opener for me.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much bro!! Great answer from your son 👌👌👌 Next generation is very clear and sharp

@gopinathanduraiswamy6890 Год назад

One of the useful discussions that I ever seen in recent time. I can see the Telugu communities are well connected and sharing all kind of information with their circle, but it is very less in Tamil groups. My friends group trying to be more transparent in sharing things between us, but lots to improve. Thank you for discussing this @ArthiPrem

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks bro

@WomensArtandCraft Год назад

Yes even I facing same issue, I stopped this as well, will do what we want do for our kids. stress free life.

@rajeesmusicalvibes Год назад

Semma topic! I agree with all your views. I use to discuss with my friends the same points.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much sister 🙏

@bhanuprathap7474 Год назад

Good one Prem!!! Thanks for bringing this boldly!!!!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@Drssrid Год назад

Very mature talk guys! It’s refreshing to see young Indian couple engaging in meaningful conversations 👏 Peer pressure is worse and it takes a lot of maturity to avoid influencing others as well as refraining from being influenced by them 🎉

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much sister 🙏🙏

@ramakrishnanrajagopalan1241 Год назад

Very nice discussed , the 4 points, prem & arthi. Life is full of challenges in India or usa or anywhere. We need to clearly take decision , move forward. Kids may say parents u did not put us here or there to bring us, at that time u need to face the music. It is not only tamilian problem.

@mc_uday Год назад

Thanks for the video. 👌👌👌 It's 100% true bro

@ArthiPrem Год назад

🙏🙏

@sakthishrajendran4264 Год назад

A very matured post Bro. I will try to follow them as much as possible. I had this question in mind, if we see a stranger get success then we celebrate but if it is Your friend who you like very much then we get depressed. This includes me , Why are we not celebrating our friends or relatives success ?. I think 🤔 it’s infused into us by our parents , relatives and teachers. They always compare us against a neighbor kid or relatives or a classmate. So we have think that I should do better than all my friends and relatives , that’s our yardstick. If we follow your point of not comparing our kids with others then our kids will not have this peer pressure.

@SreenivasuluKaveripakam Год назад

Amazing topic bro !! You guys rock even on sensitive topics!!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@RajagopalSankaranarayanan Год назад

Arthi and Prem.. Very nice video as usual.. "Kumon" seems to be very famous among our communities I guess .. To be honest with you guys, you highlighted many important issues we have experienced in last 13+ years here in US.. To be honest with you guys, we experienced a lot of politics, peer pressure and once there was a time, we just literally had more american friends than our makkal, strangely we somehow felt very peaceful. 'Taking for granted' is a big problem as well. You mentioned four important issues. But things are changing. You guys are big part of it!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Great words raja bro Thank you so much

@victorjebina9475 Год назад

100% true bro 👍. Thanks for the video

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@prabhaarul3039 Год назад

Ya! Absolutely correct sis. Even I have faced a lot of issues as you mentioned. 😢

@karthive Год назад

I can related 💯% to it... Much needed video ... I would say, this needs to be shared by all to all.... We stressed initially and later at one point, just didn't bothered Abt them...if u cant withstand then just move with other hobbies that relaxes u..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Exactly.. most suffering people is new comers or new to the place who moving from state to state… after few years everyone is realizing

@jayapriyasomu2745 Год назад

Very good topic! Thanks! A topic to think and take action!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@aru4912 Год назад

Super video ! Must watch for Indian every family here ! Thanks folks for sharing this topic .

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@49sakar Год назад

Very good one Prem & Arthi.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@jamesfor101 Год назад

Great video. I appreciate you discuss some of the issues that are rarely talked about.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much 🙏

@prakashperiyasamy7680 Год назад

Very well said Prem bro and Arthi.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks prakash bro 🙏

@humblesquirrel Год назад

right point at the right time, this is very true..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

🙏

@Ravinder.elumalai Год назад

💯 agree on this. You hit the nail hard at 8:20. Arthi in Beast mode. Nicely done 👍

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks😊

@gps2028 Год назад

Very good topic that you addressed as an young couple. Way to go! Never compare kids and never indulge in kids comparison conversation at all.. Also, deep personal information sharing should be cautiously done with only the ones you trust the most to avoid unwanted gossiping behind your back. Also, just ignore anything negative and live your life the way decide with no peer pressure..One tip that I offer . it's better to expand the circle of friends outside your ethnicity to have friends that are from different ethnicity. North south america, Europe and other asian countries etc.. This helped me a lot over the years. It's always good to get perspective from different cultures and not just restrict to Tamil or Indians only. The social life is much much better when you have different circles. All of us need to have the balance in friends from our culture and other cultures equally.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Very good advice Thank you so much

@rktechio Год назад

Prem mama… you spoke what’s in my mind. Well done … no unity amount our ppl as compared to other groups 😢😢… even sharing simple things which won’t affect anything for them😅😅… I hope this video makes some positive impact amount our ppl..

@shreeja3320 Год назад

மிகவும் அருமையான பதிவு, இங்கு பிறரோடு ஒப்பிட்டுப் பார்க்கும் குணம் உடைய நிறைய பேரை பார்க்கிறேன்.இதை கேட்டதுக்கு பிறகாவது நிறைய பேர் ஒப்பிட்டுப் பார்த்து அவர்களை கஷ்டத்திற்குள்ளாக்காமல் இருந்தால் சரி

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Nandri 🙏

@mohamedrizwan9702 Год назад

Great topic Arthi & Prem! One more thing I noticed and faced here personally is having people have this super close friend circles and not being welcome enough to include any new friends into their circle. I came here to study masters and I don’t have a job in IT, so have always never been included in any circle for whatever reason. Not sure why though.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

😐😐

@bsmoneyv7992 Год назад

I feel your pain bro, I am also from the non IT field , did my PhD here and so far no acceptance from fellow Indians.

@bsmoneyv7992 Год назад

@@ArthiPrem I like the variety of topics you cover to address and share with the communities. I saw your Thai poosam alert at Lewis center Sai temple. Thanks for the alert, I attended and it was very grand and had some quality time. Keep up the good work. By the way, I live in Columbus too.

@mohamedrizwan9702 Год назад

Arthi & Prem - You guys are just awesome and being so honest! You definitely set super high standards for our tamil samugam and happy to see one of us take the initiative. Huge fan of you guys! So much love to you ❤️

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Mohammed bro, very very happy about your kind wishes Thank u so much bro 🙏🙏

@jananihari8657 Год назад

Best topic as of now🙌 Appreciated👏👏👏

@snowmass5310 Год назад

Well said. I was so disappointed when I learnt about GC,401k very late and checked with my close friends and they were like 'Yeah ,we applied all those already' . That is why I have huge respect on RU-vid channels like yours and many others where you all share lot of information selflessly.

@jaiganeshnatarajan Год назад

True, our Tamil people keep these important things secretly. Not sure why

@rajalakshmic7120 Год назад

தான் தான் அவனை விட பணம் அதிகம் சேர்க்க வேண்டும் என்ற மனப்பான்மை

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Yeah 401k story happened to everyone’s life 😐😐😐

@VikisKitchen1 Год назад

@@ArthiPrem yes , true.

@depssab4676 Год назад

I am a malayali , I do understand Tamil ..this is same even for us, I hardly have friends from malayali or Tamil group..but I feel Telugu people are best in sharing info, I appreciate that group who constantly help each other..

@jaiganesh1974 Год назад

Very true @arthiprem ji . No body shared about 401k when I reached USA. I always use to share the tips if someone comes here. Sharing is the way only way to strengthen our Tamil community

@minillk Год назад

True. I didn't know about 401K. Employer didn't provide details about as they have to contribute.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Please check the below video for 410k ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VQRyx1LtX18.html

@mahaveerb3365 Год назад

மிக்க நன்றி உங்கள் தகவலுக்கு

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Nandri 🙏🙏

@hemagireesh7196 Год назад

Very good topic.. Every one has to watch this video. 😀👏

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@vikaccount Год назад

Ya Prem! you're absolutely correct. Even I have faced a lot of issues as you mentioned. Connecting Tamil people is tedious here in the USA, they never cope with anyone or help anyone. Some people speak only in English, and the moment when they come to know someone is Tamil this is heartbreaking. This culture will never end in the future and it might pass on to generations. I will be grateful to you if they get to see this video and change their nature in near future. You guys are awesome! I appreciate your effort, and time is taken to upload such informative and wonderful videos. “தமிழன் என்று சொல்லடா தலை நிமிர்ந்து நில்லடா” This is not a saying...This should be mirrored and reflected by every individual. Thank you… Vikram.

@jaiganeshnatarajan Год назад

Yes, Born and brought up in US madhiriye pannuvanga. Not good. No unity at all. Always with Selfish thoughts.

@uhemanth Год назад

Agreed

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Well said vikram bro As a community we have to go long distance

@nishadhri Год назад

@@jaiganeshnatarajan salute to your comment!!!

@sathyaveera1401 Год назад

Thank you so much Aarthi and Prem.. same stuff I realized a few days back.. na nu epdi namma frnds kita pesa yoschitu irrunthaen…epo I shared this video to everyone❤… nice and valid point… keep going guys with good information 🙏👍

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much 🙏

@truthwillsetyoufree5463 Год назад

Good to see the moral topics, which is much needed in our society in current times... During social gatherings better to avoid gossips, butcan move with win win discussions..

@gsriram7 Год назад

This great to hear, thank you for calling out. One thing I feel about my Tamil community is taking offense and being judgemental. If we plan a tour there is always one person who takes offense on silly things and spoil the fun which I don't see with other state Indians

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks for your comments bro

@aksharam126 Год назад

Very good thoughtful topic. One main problem here, is when we have older kids, since we parents studied in a different schooling system from a different country, we really dont know how the school, colleges work here. But when we ask someone, chumma Ketom nu etho answer panranga. But they dont give real inputs. But after watching your video, it provoked the thought I already had and I here by take the oath that I will share whatever I know if someone reaches to me for help.🙂👍

@sparklingspices Год назад

I asked a lot of times about schooling systems in the USA with my neighbor, and they just replayed, "Go to the school apps and check that it simple." Then I realized here that no one is not ready to help each other or giving the right information. For me, it takes 1 year to understand the schooling system( elementary schools, middle schools, high schools) syllabus, teaching methods......

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Very true Though u asked people will not explain everything… most of them faced this 😐😐

@priyarajan6503 Год назад

So true

@karthikdathathri2565 Год назад

Such information can be shared in blogs so that people can get the information when they search for it in the internet. It could be simple procedures about utility connections/helplines, vehicle rental, information about nearest good medical facilities - alternative medicine like homeopathy etc., dos/don'ts for a newcomer to the country, explain some common laws/rules which people should be aware of, awareness about crime spots so that people can avoid. All these are information which one would have learnt it in a hard way, but we can make other people's life easier. P.S: I stay in India, but I used to ask such information in my college WhatsApp group about children education etc, very few only respond to it. For me, it is like general knowledge and some awareness. Thanks to Arthi and Prem for bringing up this topic. In India too, stories of still parents forcing into classes based on other kids is happening. It is our mindset which needs to change irrespective of the country we are in.

@Anand-gb6we Год назад

Sharing is Caring..🤗 Better we will create new telegram channel for usa tamil people to help each other.

@nishadhri Год назад

Superb Arthi n prem!! Need of this hour topic!!!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks 🙏

@dhanakumar3773 Год назад

I’m so glad you brought it up this topic Prem! This is exactly the reason why as Tamils we are not able to move forward as a Tamil community. I always feel it is easier to receive help and information from non Tamil people rather than Tamil people.

@selvarasukannan8270 Год назад

I agree 500%

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks true have to improve a lot

@vanipriya1913 Год назад

Great Topic. Need of the day

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@SKiv7604 Год назад

Bro, Health issues is also very important to discuss . Heard Covid vaccine makes more blood clots in blood stream. Awareness needed for proper health checkups, stress free life, nature dependent life, financial independence, outdoor activities, good relationship, supporting each other.

@bananaleaf9977 Год назад

Thanks for bringing this to public many of us facing one or other problems like this as you mentioned.. 1st Arthi - superb point one life so we have to be happy n healthy as a family that is more important than anything.. please don’t compare with anybody we r not living in there shoes . Stop comparing ourselves or our kids to anyone.. now days what I felt is show off , even close friends move to new home,community they changed a lot .. innum nee veedu vaagalaya you have Gc but still why this kind f question & comparison for what you wear , how times you go for restaurants , enna brand car , mainly vacations and very important comparison kids all seven days after school kids have to be in one other activities and school having programs like Project arrow ( they started comparing ) & so most of us r dragged into this kind peer pressure 😢 After 12 years in chicago what I learned is one r two good souls around me is enough I don’t want any big crowd around me .. this is my life n my family so what makes me happy I’m doing.. ignorance is the best thing we have to learn to live in this world.. Note: talk about people putting fake experience n get job in IT ..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much for the well explained comment… l

@nishadhri Год назад

Simply superb

@fathimabibi708 Год назад

Very useful video 👌 👍

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank u sister

@sumathysubramaniam22 Год назад

Very good topic. Absolutely true

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@revathisoundarrajan1217 Год назад

முதல்ல இந்தியனை , இந்தியன் பார்த்தால் மதிப்பதில்லை சிரிப்பது கூட இல்லை அதே அமெரிக்கர்கள் ஹாய் என்கிறார்கள் சிரிக்கிறார்கள் இந்திய பெரியவர்களும், சிறியவர்களும் மனிதர்களை மதிக்க கற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள்

@jodavid9649 Год назад

Super same in canada too

@seetharam Год назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts openly. ❤

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank u 🙏

@guganravisankar5588 Год назад

Very good topic,👌🙏

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@vikramg7002 4 месяца назад

Just loved this Video from both of you Arthi and Prem..I will be traveling to US soon will surely reach out to you guys as I have lots and lots of queries..

@ArthiPrem 4 месяца назад

Congrats 🎈 Thanks 🙏

@joycelinsudesh5728 Год назад

Yes brother, I felt the same when compare to other language communities our Tamil community is far behind in share and giving shoulders to help our people

@ArthiPrem Год назад

True bro

@mathurakarthik5496 Год назад

Bro and sis ,I first want to appreciate you guys for bringing a good topic of discussion.Much needed one for the present scenario .You highlighted all the problems.I strongly agree all the points .As a community we all must stand and support each other.Your points are more relatable everywhere it’s the same .Glad that you brought this to a limelight.I believe these competitions are more only with our Indian people .Americans are so gentle and not pressuring kids as we do.Indian people are becoming more envy and jealous with not opening much .Transparent relationships are becoming rare.Selfish attitudes are becoming more.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks sister Well said … at this points Americans are very good , they are living their own life not others life

@sripriyabalasubramanian3780 Год назад

Good topic/discussion with much needed reminder , appreciate the effort you both take to get the correct videos at the correct time! Thank you! Vazhga Valamudan!!

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Nandri🙏🙏

@marcnadesan7986 Год назад

Yes it's a big issues.Sharing the information.Correct time you done this video.From you I already learned lots of information.Any how I live in London.I think new generation they are changing.Any how lots more to do.Welldone friends.keep it up.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much For your kind comments 🙏🙏

@krishnapriya8194 Год назад

Well said❤

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@sheelaa6217 Год назад

True. 👏👏 Be friendly , trustworthy and helpful to other. 🌟🌟

@ArthiPrem Год назад

True

@Midorihema Год назад

Hi Arthi Prem, this is a very good topic. Glad that you brought up this issue. I have faced this issue with comparing children many times. I completely stopped talking to such group. Unfortunately it mostly Tamil who does it.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Yes, true😐

@SasasVegRecipes 11 месяцев назад

Best topic. I am happy someone came up with this. Malayalees, telugu people are more united than us.

@informationiswealth9871 Год назад

Bro it's really a good discussion. I would like to share a few things here. 1. My father migrated from Mayavaram to Chennai 45 years ago. He knows Tailoring and he is educated up to 8th. Based on his experience and knowledge, he survived on his own but my father never ever involved me in Tailoring. Though my father is a number one Tailor in North Chennai. Now I am stuck in software doing some coding but not living a real life like my father. Not sure who will run the same Tailor business after him. So the change should come from Parents . As a parent now , I personally plan to teach them whatever i know from their childhood. I believe each parents should educate their children .

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Good point bro Thanks for your comments

@Ikshanworld Год назад

👏 👏 arthi And bro. Sama topic.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@anuradhavijayakumar1726 Год назад

Hello Arthi Prem..,I don't know Y m watching your channel regularly..,m in Coimbatore..,Here for education only comparison done..,extra curriculur activities no body cares..,About housing also comparison that much not happens..,n many friends n relatives don't disclose about this matter about what's happening there..,through you getting know d actual facts..,you guys r genuine you tubers 💕💕💕..

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank u so much sister Your comments are motivating 🙏

@saravananr8494 Год назад

Really good video bro ,I too felt knowledge sharing lagging with Tamil people compare with others . I have struggled lot my initial time usa ( MO)

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks bro Yes we have to improve a lot in this area 👍

@saravananr8494 Год назад

@@ArthiPrem 👍

@gprakashonline Год назад

Good mature topic.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@antonymrajesh Год назад

Arthi and Prem, you are doing an exceptional thing. Way to Go ! As you said, Tamil Community here is not united as other Indian communities. Somehow i'm not getting connected with the system here, maybe i'll return back to India sooner than later

@priyaasomu7334 Год назад

Very good topic , you discussed very boldly !! Hats off to you both !! Yes, I have faced these issues which is very annoying when it comes to kids. I was not comfortable discussing kids grades, courses and all. I was shocked when one person in that group told,” we are meeting and having a get together with only beneficiary factor - one such thing is School kids info. If there are no benefits then no use of talking to them “. I was shocked when I heard these words . Yes, I stopped going to that group from that day on, cause they are not true friends. My elder kid got into magnet program , my kid loved that school so she joined it, it was purely her choice. I couldn’t listen to brewing jealously and talking back as if we forced her to get in, they spoke to such an extent that magnet program is useless. Each ones opinion varies. We never forced our kid, now she is in college, we never picked her major told her do what you are interested in !!. Not welcoming at all Tamil group here.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thank you so much for your inputs sister Yes most of the time discussions are not constructive 😐😐

@sreenivasannp8835 Год назад

👌 Nice topic appreciate your sincere efforts . You can also collect and keep list of Tamil speaking Doctors, attorneys, realtors to share our community .

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Wow good option Will do it 👍👍

@elagopi Год назад

@@ArthiPrem yes this would be helpful for all

@kothai_ch Год назад

வெளிநாட்டில் மட்டுமல்ல நம் தமிழ்நாட்டில் இப் பிரச்சனை தலைவிரித்து ஆடுகிறது. ஒருத்தருக்கு ஒருத்தர் எந்த விதமான உதவியும் செய்வதில்லை ..பொறாமையும் பழி வாங்கலும் அதிகமாக உள்ளது.. எல்லா விஷயங்களும் compare செய்வது அதிகமாக உள்ளது.. உங்களைப் போன்ற பிரபலமானவர்கள் அதிகமாக தயவுசெய்து இதைப் பற்றி பேச வேண்டும். நன்றி. வாழ்க வளமுடன்🙏

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Kandipa mikka nandri 🙏🙏

@kitthikamurali5789 Год назад

So true. We moved from Mid West to East Coast 14 years ago. During the move, I called Tamil Sangam to find carnatic music violin teacher to continue with my child's interest. They told me to join membership first to provide contact info. That kind of attitude kept me away from Tamil Sangam. They already have all sorts of groups when we moved, not felt inclusive anywhere. Probably we are not in IT field. So we are not considered like fit in their groups. Thanks for addressing this issue.

@mukunds3144 Год назад

Great video! I would like to share my experience as well. Most of the people in USA(including non-Tamilians) ask my food preference (Veg or Non-Veg) in the first 1 or 2 meetings and I personally feel they ask this to indirectly find out my caste and based on that they decide if they can include me in their closer group or to maintain some distance.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Personally i never faced the caste issue here But many mentioned the caste still exists in the usa within tamil community I will be away from them if someone approaches me caste basis சாதிகள் இல்லையடி பாப்பா 🙏🙏

@email2niranjan Год назад

I have had instances where people directly asked for "neenga enna?"

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Seriously bro Dont know why people still carrying caste after sees the world and how other country people living ☹️☹️

@email2niranjan Год назад

@@ArthiPrem often the most disappointing thing is, some of such folks who ask this are actually good people and good friends in nature, which we find out after sometime. But why such curiosity questions come in the very initial meets , is beyond me.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

😐😐

@Mr007Gautham Год назад

Excellent subject. There are many other things which can’t be explained in comment. I wish I could talk to you guys.

@rpal8933 Год назад

மிகவும் சரி. தமிழர்களிடம் இது மிக மிக மிக மிக உண்மை.

@kalpanagopalan4469 Год назад

Superb content 🎉🎉🎉

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@Meenaranjan Год назад

Very true, I’ve discussed the same topics with my friends all the time. There is lack of knowledge sharing between Tamil speaking groups.

@uhemanth Год назад

Very good video…. I went through these issues and I always welcome sharing news .. not everyone will have time to follow every news and updates .. whats groups are helping these days .. are you in any whats group .. join your local tamil sangam and meet people whenever you get opportunities ..

@arunprasath1725 Год назад

Good one

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks🙏

@RAPTOR2014 Год назад

Same feelings, I have been living since 2010. Wherever we move I will make more friends and want to continue as a family with them. But only I have to call them for birthday, Diwali, evening tea party and more. We have been in 3 states and lived both in Apartments and own homes.only talking over phone they are comfortable it seems.

@prabinprabhakar4687 Год назад

The problem I have with sharing is ...I like to share things with likeminded ppl or ppl who are open to suggestions ...not everyone are open to understand ur point of view , and if they don't understand your point of view , they try to convince you with what they think...I usually don't divulge too much of my life and financial decision with others because they unintentionally have a negative effect on my decisions because it does not sync with theirs .. very few ppl are open minded ...indian society majorly have a herd mindset , where they blindly follow set pattern of decisions ....the quote 'live and let live' is very rare among us ...ppl should let others live their lives ...

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Agreed bro At least the problem is not ready to share even the basic things to the new comers or who don’t know about that

@selvamr5087 Год назад

Can't agree more! I'm very new to USA, moved in Sep'22 only. From, what i notice, Gujarat & Telugu people have very good sharing compared to Tamils. For some reasons, People from Tamil Nadu just don't want to bother about anyone.

@rajalakshmic7120 Год назад

Yes

@s.b.3001 Год назад

S. I wonder Y people frm tamilnadu r not United like other State people, seem to be very reserved, aloof 🤔

@ArthiPrem Год назад

True 😐

@s.b.3001 Год назад

@@ArthiPrem My son is newly married in Texas, he (both) keeps telling me tat " all from Andhra and they start to communicate asking like "r u frm Andra". Then they slowly turnback 🤦 sometimes they feel lonely becos of this

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Yes so many people here from Andhra and eventually they form group between Andhra friends

@sankaris6790 Год назад

Nice video 😊

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Thanks 😊

@rekhasivaramakrishnan7658 Год назад

I'm based in MI, here we have one school called International Academy,many desis prefer to send their kids there,after 8 th grade...if our kids don't go there, they will enquire as if something bad happened to us🤣...oh why ur son didn't go there..blah,blah,my son went to school district high school only( bcoz he is interested into sports too,he was school captain)if we choose IA,it's more like our Namakkal school, students don't get time for sports,so we didn't even try there ,but ppl thought, oh you son didn't get selected??... After his 12 th grade, he went to US ARMY RESERVE Training too...now he is doing Engg in a reputed university, where all this INTERNATIONAL academy kids go...so finally we got what we want...what is the big deal in it,I really don't understand?🤔 Now the parents, don't even ask anything...they are totally🤐

@sowmiyah5362 Год назад

I feel comparison is more in India now, it depends on person to person. Parents responsibility to create bond between them and kids.

@ArthiPrem Год назад

Yep 👍

@ganesanmk1998 Год назад

Yes u r one hundred 💯 percent correct Tamilians are not sharing like Hindi and telugu people Moreover Gujarat people are more cooperative within gujarati people Also telugu people are cooperative Tamil people are not sharing We should inculcate sharing among tamil people