When I took Asian History back in uni, i learned that Kama Sutra is not just a book about sexual pleasures but how to have a good relationship with your spouse/significant other, and sex is just one aspect of it.
what a lot of people don't know/understand is that people likes to be loved and recognised as people without a stupid artificial war of sexes that doesn't go anywhere.
@@definitivamenteno-malo7919 I 100% agree on your point that a war of sexes doesn't help anyone and brings only division. But there is a difference between fighting each other and understanding one another. So far I haven't met one man whose libido went down to 0 when he didn't feel loved and cared for by his partner. But that was the case for every single woman in my life. Women are not small men and men are not hairy women. Only understanding each other and acting accordingly is going to improve our relationships with each other. 😉
@@lorablackbird ' I haven't met one man whose libido went down to 0 when he didn't feel loved and cared for by his partner.' the line which shows there is no impetus on understanding men and their desires when woman are the gatekeepers of sex.
I honestly really like the advice she is giving to men and think that a lot of people should listen to this podcast to open their minds. I would really like to see her again on this channel!
This lady is very well known and respected woman in India. Mostly the millennials and gen Z follow her. She focuses more on relationship side of sex drive rather than the plain old hardcore sex drive.
Thank you Doc for sharing this very informative video. I'll admit that I'd steered clear of karma sutra info jus bcuz I was afraid of it bein "taboo". I take away alotta info I actually believed in for many years. You NEVER fail at providing relative info for subjects needed in this time. Much Love Doc from Colorado, USA ❤🥰😘🤭
Wow more please. I have been super interested in kama sutra and what it is. Most Indian dont talk about it or its like taboo maybe. I cant find any information here.
This episode is the first time your podcast didn’t show up top of my feed or anywhere in my feed. I had to search for it. Is RU-vid so buttoned-up or does the algorithm think I am? Smh.
Pretty messed up, I heard it might’ve become a way to treat infertility in women, and then a punishment for infertile women, and then a punishment for women, and then a punishment for children :(
The size part is bs. While it does depend on the woman, a lot of women can take different sizes with equal pleasure. I've had both really big and small feel equally good. There's much more that makes sex grea than just pentration
Of course, Seema Auntie is beautiful. In the west, we have old scraggly women and men talking about sex, Dr Ruth and Dr Sue Jo Hansen. That was the 90s. Now things are more open.
Kamasutra was probably written by some really horny person back in the day without much scientific basis and people now think of it as some sort of go to sex encyclopedia, whereas its mostly just weird porn😅
I wouldn’t say that. If you fundamentally just don’t agree with her that’s fine. I believe in God and don’t follow or believe these beliefs but I can recognize she has some morality and is obviously helping others with the intent to HELP.
@Whereyoubelongg yea I'm not gonna lie "The human body being made for pleasure" the entirety of it kind of sounds like bs the 2nd time I'm hearing it. What other advice did they give. Also the nofap section was kind of cancerous because they're just generalizing it as a choice to not do that and the movement/organisation's. The organization that sells courses is cancerous but it's definitely a better choice imo to not do it. And calling it self torture is such a exaggeration Hooooly shit. Maybe for some it will feel that way if they're using a lot of willpower having a mental tug of war but not everyone uses that line of thought to stop
@@WhereyoubelonggI mean I agree with some parts like trust with your partner, having a connection with them, trying new things, new positions, basically all in the effort of building something more long term than a hookup.