“loving yourself is like loving someone else. sometimes you have fights, sometimes you don’t get along and sometimes things aren’t going well, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist at all and it doesn’t mean you abandon it. remember to nurture that relationship just like you would any other one.” - Amber ❤
She could do it more often, like a very extra bubble bath with champagne and stuff, maybe rose petals... pretty woman vibes...and answearing different kinds of topics. I love it.
Personally, I have a history of sensitive skin, so using bubble bath isn’t good for me. Our family has always just put body wash in the bottom of the tub under the spout and then filled it up. It seems to work pretty well and it gives bubbles they’re just smaller.
I really love this “I’m not desperate just desperate for what I want”…I’m in my late 20s and have terrible luck in relationships and people kinda started to pity me and try to give me advice and point out that I have a ticking clock and should lower my expectations and all that
You can find love at any age❤️ it would be better for you to find a great relationship later down than to settle for a bad one because of pressure from others... so don't lose hope! Focus on loving yourself and someone will come your way😌
Lower your standards? No, never. Please don't. Better is to widen your circles when looking for the right guy. Maybe you live in a small village where the best guys are taken and the others are not for you? Well, spend your weekends away from your village. Visit your family abroad and keep in mind that you are not in a hurry. Nobody needs to be married before thirty. You can marry when you are very happy with your partner and both feel the want to get old together. Just watch Indian matchmaking on Netflix. This is so sweet. The matchmaker asks the young people about their priorities. Then she teaches them slowly, slowly what is important for marriage. She introduces only one at a time. She is very smart. One girl said she likes a hair bun at a guy. She put it on her list. Very beautiful girl but her priorities were strange. She met exactly what she was asking for, the matchmaker was great. I think either the guy turned her down or they had boring meetings, don't remember. She cut the hair bun from her list. Well, you better get your priorities sorted out for yourself as well. Look for it like looking for an apartment or looking for a car. If you want an intelligent guy speaking Portuguese and able to repair your bike, these are your priorities. Don't accept a dumb guy speaking whatever and being clumsy. Better take the compromise intelligent guy speaking French with enough brains to learn speaking Portuguese. Not able to repair bikes but able to build furniture like chairs and baby cribs. There you go, this is some match worth trying. Don't go for someone who makes you life miserable. Having things to talk about, wanting kids or not, one kid or four kids. Sharing household, Living off grid, Moving to another country, Building a house or living in rentals. Plan a living but leave some space for adventure. Even a trailer is acceptable if you want to move around a lot for the first years. If it is a good match you can have a great time in a mobile home and spend a few months abroad with jobbing as a waitress. Just follow your own life, maybe the life of your friends is not for you. There is so much to talk about with your future partner. But a hair bun? My best partner got bold at age 27. So good I don't care at all for a male hair bun.
I'm the mother of 3 daughters ages 12, 16, and 19. My parents raised me very sheltered and then kicked me out at age 18. I knew nothing of the world so I ended up making a lot of mistakes right out the gate. I'm raising my daughters to know their direction and enjoy every step in their day. I'm also teaching them of their worth and to not just give themselves away to any boy or man who thinks they're cute. I want them to not make impulse decisions. If they see something they like whether it be a pair of shoes, a haircut, a boy, or just anything... Wait one week. If they still want it, do it! But at the same time on waiting, I want them to learn to take chances. I want them to experience as much as possible while living at home so they'll be more experienced when they eventually live on their own. I'm content with them living at home forever!
I got bullied by all the boys in high school, I never got any nice attention from men! Exactly like Amber said - I grew into myself and they all tried DM’ing me since 🤣🤣
Started watching you when I was 14/15 and you have given me such confidence and love for myself. Make my vision boards every year!! Whenever I start to lose sight of myself, I realize I just need to listen to Amber for a bit and I jump right back.
as soon as you said "head held high" i straightened up in my seat 🥰 i've been trying to be more confident for a while now. i'm confident when i'm alone but not when i'm in public/with others so you've been helping me a lot!
this women is actually so inspiring and such a good role model for young girls. she’s so absolutely stunning and all around amazing, thank u for making me feel more comfortable in myself !
i love amber so much omg, shes so open with stuff and so positive she’s definitely my biggest inspiration. she gives off “older sister you never had” vibes and shes my favorite person ever
I'VE GOT TO SAY THAT YOU HONESTLY ARE THE FUNNIEST MOST BEAUTIFUL REAL GIRL ON ANY OF THE PLATFORMS THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE AND LOVING ALL OF US!!!
Definitely try camomile tea for period cramps. Works like a charm . Even put 2 or so bags to soak overnight in a big waterbottle in the fridge and sip throughout the day/night 💋🙂
Sitting here waiting for my referral to a eating disorder dietician, it made me realise I miss my body, the body I disliked and I can't wait to get better and get my curves back. It's good to know there's hope and I love how honest and open you are. Can't wait to see the sky castle finished !
❤❤❤❤❤ I feel you. I struggle with an ED too. I'm doing better now, eating lunch and everything. But that little voice is always nagging. I want to be strong again. We can do it.
I am on the other end of an eating disorder after having anorexia for 10 years. My curves have returned and although it has been a long a difficult journey I love my body as is. Don't give up and put 100% into recovery ❤️❤️❤️ Best wishes on your recovery !!
The fact you were asked about colby cracks me up haha plz film soon also I love you so much you give me confidence especially being a late bloomer love you so so much amber my goddess queen
Awww Amber! I love you answer to the "do you love yourself everyday question". It is like a relationship, it's a mix of happy and sad moments but at the end of the day you love it ❤️
we don’t view you the same, we view you even better now! i love how real & honest you are because it shows us that’s it’s normal to want a fairytale & it’s okay to not settle until we find it! i get so much inspiration from you being a young woman & seeing its 100% okay to be single & to want to find myself! I love you❤
Hi Amber, the tampons you use were said to be very harmful to the body because of the bleach in the cotton to make it look whiter. Someone was at risk of infertility after using the brand so many years. I've seen a few comments about this under the video as well so I hope you see them too ❤❤❤
Would recommend doing some extra research if it was about the TT mentioning titanium dioxide that went viral a few months ago, a bunch of medical professionals have said that the information in it was inaccurate from both a medical and scientific standpoint. Titanium dioxide is only considered *possibly* carcinogenic if it’s breathed in and even then that was only in rats, not humans! ☺️❤️
@@roisingrant If that’s the case then I hope you don’t use air fresheners, deodorant, any kind of disinfectant, fabric softeners, detergents, candles, drink any alcohol, or eat any sushi. My point is that many everyday products have ingredients that are potentially carcinogenic. Just recommending that people do their own research on things instead of believing a random person with no medical degree on social media over medical professionals.
This is why I love you Amber! The fact that you open up to us, give us advice, be beautiful and give out embarrassing stories about yourself is why you’re an inspiration! I’ve learned to love myself more because of you. Keep being the amazing queen you are. Love you Amber ❤❤XO
I Love how genuine you are. Keep inspiring these girls to Love them selves the way they are❣️ Life is too short to waste your time worrying about what others “ might” say about you. Be kind, be yourself and Rock your world !
i appreciate you so much amber. i love how comfortable you are with being so honest even if it’s about things that no one wants to talk about. love you❤️❤️❤️
Guyyyyys - you need a Ulike. I have the same one (but in white & gold) and it is AMAAAAZING. I used mine on my right leg only to start so I could compare results and the difference between my right and left leg is insane.
I’ve seen this so many times in dating, so when you take ‘the big dating break’ is when you take the time to know ur self and after that you find the one :D
Ladies the key to a non painful pap is to RELAX yourself down there. It’s hard not to tense up because it’s such an unnerving experience and a crazy vulnerable position in those stirrups but relax your pelvis and boom! No pain but still all the awkwardness! I know so many of us girls already know this but for the younger girlies out there, relax your muscles and don’t tense up! It changed my life when I figured that out.
I love the advice about finding what you want not what you can get. My daughter is a model and very pretty and she holds her own just like you. Don't settle for what you don't want but be desperate for what you do want. She is happy doing her own thing, just like you so what's the rush . Most important it's not that you have bad relationship or can't get a guy but know who you are and owning your standards because high class will never compete or be with a lower league . Why because our positive mind set will be contaminated and we can't run that risk. So there you have it. We can't destroy what we worked so hard to achieve just to make other people happy. Love ya girl 🙏♥️❤️💜
Thank you for being so open with us! I absolutely admire how you balance being confident and humble at the same time. I wore your “For the Love of my Life” necklace today and some kids I work with asked about it and I tried to explain but they didn’t quite understand. I hope they watch creators like you when they’re older!
I dont know why but as someone who is not comfortable in their body, seing you so confident now and knowing that it was different when you were younger gives me some sort of hope that maybe one day ill find my self love back
I just recently found out that you’ve been on Austin and Ally episode and this show literally saved me- and I really believe I was meant to find your yt channel…❤️ thank you for everything you are doing for us, and for being so open❤️ love u Amber
I truly think that doing videos like this should be normalized. I have always respected you and looked up to you so much and watching this video made me almost feel like I finally had an older sister that could give advice about EVERYTHING. Thank you so so much for this ❤️
it's genuienly beautiful how comfortable you are in your femininity. one day i want to be like you in every way possible ♥ thank you for being so open with us
Hey girly, just so you’re aware the tampons you use (I used to use them too thinking they were organic and good) have a chemical that’s used to bleach the tampon to make it look whiter, which is not good to be inside our bodies. I switched over to LOLA tampons of which are actually organic. ❤ I’ll be honest, the insert can be a bit uncomfortable at first but you’ll get used to it after sometime and it’s better than shoving chemicals in our bodies.
For those insecure about their body/ shy during intimacy, i promise you the person you are with is only looking at everything they love about you, and not at all worried about what your stomach looks like (they actually think your stomach looks good), if you shaved or not, yada yada. Women are so hard on ourselves, and i promise you if someone is having an intimate relationship with you they are not thinking anything negative about you (and if they are, the trash needs to be taken out)
Yes!!! 11:00 I was always called “too picky” but I’m so glad I wasn’t dating a bunch of guys. I found the best guy at 33/34 years old. & he’s exactly what I’ve always dreamed of. ❤ never change or lower your standards. There’s a reason you are this way. x
i love this more intimate and girly video! i dont have any friends and this was like having a conversation with a sister (im an only child) NEED more videos like this!
I genuinely wish I could just hang out with you because you just give off the best vibes & just watching your videos helps me love myself more! Love you loads ❤
amber if you see this i just wanna tell you thats your awesome and you really are like my older sister or mom that i need rn! you help me with my personal confidence and ilysm 💕💕💕
OMG Hahaha Abstinence My mother would love you just for this answer... I went to see a nurse a few weeks ago to be prescribed the birth control for the first time. The nurse was truly an angel and knew how to reassure me by answering all my questions and showing me all the types of contraceptives that exist. I made the mistake of telling my mother she could stay in the room 😅 At the end of the meeting, when the nurse asked me what I wanted as a contraceptive for her to prescribe it to me, I chose the pill. The nurse then started to tell me that it was only 96% effective, so that the condom was still a necessity for the 4% chance of getting pregnant if I don't use a condom... After that, the nurse looked me in the eye and said : "Oh but I forgot to tell you about this 100% effective contraceptive. It's called... abstinence." I have never been so red with shame in my life and my mother was just bending over laughing. My mom went to give the nurse a high five and thank her for this "wonderful" contraceptive method 😅😮💨🤣🤣 Love you and keep being yourself. You're a wonderful role model for all of us ❤️❤️❤️
I love your content so much and this video was great❤️ Im 23 years old and i’m genuinely so sick and tired of hypersexuality culture. Its really bad on tiktok where all the impressionable young girls grow up. I really resonated with your abstinence and less active sex life (at least with a partner lol), because i feel like many of us actually paint the truth so we seem like 24/7 ready-to-go sexbombs for validation. I know i, myself have added a few numbers to my body count sometimes to further prove my adulthood even though im literally a fully grown woman already 😂 The western world puts value in purity/innocense while at the same time expecting us to be private p*rn stars - for the male fantasy. This just goes to show that there really is an unspoken status in hypersexuality, and its just tiring. So thank you for normalizing *not* nescessarily feeling the need to do all that!
I'm an unlikely subcriber (one of the old people) but I have to say that you are an absolute LIGHT, Amber. The way you inspire people to do/make beautiful things, to dream big... We could all do well to have a friend like you. And watching you evolve has been lovely. Keep it up, girl, you got it!
Awww hate to hear when other women deal with mortifying cramps! I feel your pain so so much!!! I have the worst periods. I have to take PTO or work from home on the first day of my period. A friend turned me onto PMS vitamins, it’s freaking amazing. I die without them! Literally have a bottle at home in my car and at work! My boyfriend keeps some on hand for me now so he doesn’t feel the wrath of my PMS moments 😂 He’s the best! ❤
Hey Amber! I always watched your manifestation videos way back when, I’m wondering why don’t you consciously manifest a relationship? (If that’s what you want!) ❤❤❤ I love you so much!
OMG, if i tell u that I SCREAMED, when i saw that video being released a few minds before, and i get the pleasure to watch it so early, i mean i screamed 🥲 love youuu❤
Such an inspiration! Love how your always showing love & telling us to love ourselves you are a beauty! Xo cody did bring me to your channel but ive become afan of u more! U go girl!
I needed to see this video so much and so does my daughter by the way why cuz she's 17 and she's well like you put it not giving it up LOL same here I've been single 5 years and I have three children and because of you I have just started my journeys in RU-vid as well you made me feel that I needed to love myself truly I needed that and I felt it for myself but you help me get to that point in my life
Amber I’ve tried those tampons and used them for years until women on Tik tok said that they had miscarriages or can’t have children anymore (the L brand is currently being sued ) I don’t remember which ingredient it is, but there is an ingredient they exclude from the list or lie and say it’s not in there, but is. I highly recommend the Lola tampons you can get them from Walmart . I personally think they are way better than the L brand.
