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answering your TOUGHEST questions on love & relationships with my girlfriend | happy pride!!! 🏳️‍🌈❤️ 

Brenda Tan
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OPEN ME UP FOR TIMESTAMPS AND MORE ⭐⭐⭐
Happy pride everyone!! This week, my girlfriend (aka sweet baby angel, mysterious tall girl) and I take to answering your toughest questions surrounding love and relationships. These are all based on our own past and present experience, so we'd love to hear what you think too!
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:37 How and where we met
1:52 Nicknames/pet names?
2:09 How did we know we were meant to be?
4:22 The One - how do you KNOW?
7:38 Hurt & exhaustion with dating and relationships
11:39 Love languages/types of love?
12:13 Attachment issues (anxious, avoidant)?
14:37 Compromising without losing yourself
18:37 When your relationship sucks
20:35 Splitting finances, chores, differences etc
22:46 LIKE, not just love your partner
25:26 Parents disapprove how?
27:01 Dating in Singapore
28:13 Just friends or more?
29:48 Making the first move
31:17 Do I resent being queer?
32:20 Do we envy straight couples?
33:23 Fear to get into a queer relationship
34:28 Coming out, when and how long?
35:22 Living together: housing options
36:44 How to find & meet queer people?
39:08 Advice for Single women in their 30s
40:41: ✨ 5 TOP LESSONS LEARNT ✨
40:48 1. Show up as yourself
42:16 2. Slow burn is ok.
42:59 3. Don't confuse physical intimacy for emotional intimacy.
44:32 4. Relationships - 3 impt questions to ask yourself
45:24 5. Fun activity time!
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9 июл 2024

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Комментарии : 28   
@starstrucklights
@starstrucklights 13 дней назад
I am 30 and only got into my first relationship at 28 and planning to get married to this dude. But for the longest time - because ALL my friends were in relationships - I felt like I was too ugly or too fat for anyone to like me. Also, it so happened that all the guys I dated - I was just not interested in them the way they were about me... So I really could not bare to bring it forward or be in a relationship which those guys. I was absolutely giving up on my love life and then my current boyfriend turned up. Its never like the movies where you hear songs in the background or are instantly attracted. But its more of a "okay cute I don't mind exploring more" and "things seems to be going pretty well without trying too hard" and "its not crazy exciting but not crazy boring either" in relationships! I know people don't want to hear this BUT - love always come unexpected.
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
Awww!!! 🥺🥺 Yeah I wish I hadn't worried so much about that when I was younger either. What a waste of time HAHA, I'm glad you all found each other!!
@caleculating
@caleculating 13 дней назад
first i just wanted to say that you are actually glowing in this video - saw the stills from your insta and ran over to watch. holy shit love looks great on u ❤
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
😭😭😭😭❤️ you all are so kind and supportive leh seriously. Thank you!!!
@ju1098
@ju1098 13 дней назад
I’ve been watching your content on and off for a couple years now and I’d just like to say I’m happy for you for finding your person :) enjoyed the insight that y’all have shared and I wish you two a happy future :)
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
Thank you so much!!!!! 🥺❤❤❤ I hope you stick around, I plan to be here for a long time HAHA
@nkhoo0
@nkhoo0 13 дней назад
“The bar has to be set somewhere, even if in hell” 😂👏🏻
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
😂😂😂😂
@macey-bj4rt
@macey-bj4rt 13 дней назад
are you doing requests for videos
@uchuclub
@uchuclub 13 дней назад
“OMG BRENDA UPLOADED ANOTHER VIDEO!” Loved the whole vid!❤
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
Thank you so much!!!
@ruthyap607
@ruthyap607 12 дней назад
missed such videos!!! happy for you and your partner :)
@wordweed
@wordweed 11 дней назад
Thank you!!! More to come!
@ChubbyHearto
@ChubbyHearto 13 дней назад
Love this and your hair and make up is BUSSINNNNN’🤩🤩🤩
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
omg thank you hehehehehe been having more fun with dressing up lately!
@veldalow8028
@veldalow8028 9 дней назад
Your skin is glowing Brenda!! Could you share the makeup you used in this video?
@wordweed
@wordweed 9 дней назад
thank you so much!!! yes of course, i can do a reel/tiktok on it!! stay tuned!
@lvrn124
@lvrn124 11 дней назад
Im bisexual but some people who i used to hang out with would say "no lah you're straight". It annoyed me greatly because dating mainly men (i attract more men than women unless i look really "femme") doesn't dictate my preference.
@CZT-t9m
@CZT-t9m 10 дней назад
I hope you’ll sell the top in chillipadi! Omg would buy it!! So pretty! 😍
@wordweed
@wordweed 9 дней назад
hahaha thank you so much!! maybe in the future!!!
@machah.8084
@machah.8084 13 дней назад
❤❤❤
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
❤❤❤
@phoebetan4647
@phoebetan4647 11 дней назад
How do you do your hair here?! I love it! Tutorial pls!!
@wordweed
@wordweed 9 дней назад
Thank you!! I actually didn't do anything HAHA i get my perm from 7am salon and it looks like this everyday!!
@safaributch
@safaributch 13 дней назад
Love your top!! ❤
@wordweed
@wordweed 13 дней назад
omg thank you hehehehehe i made it myself........... ❤❤❤
@ning8774
@ning8774 9 дней назад
could you do a piece of content about this but for friendships!!!!
@wordweed
@wordweed 9 дней назад
good idea!! maybe i'll source for questions in a couple of weeks time!
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