When Scarlet (6yo) told her mom calmly "You don't have to yell." Tells me everything I need to know about this mother daughter dynamic. The child is more emotionally aware than the adult
the adultification of young girls, particularly young Black girls, is real. Black girls are treated as adult women so often, it's frightening. it's been studied & is backed up by evidence, too. just recently i saw a news story of a man calling the cops on a little Black girl who was looking for this invasive species of moths on trees by the sidewalk, not crossing property lines or nothing, & he described her as a woman. it's violence to do all these things in tandem. it's incredibly sad the parent child dynamic has been so alienated so the mom can make some money, things need to change. this girl needs to be taken care of & cherished as a child!
In Chinese tiktok (douyin) kids are not allowed in tiktok live, the live will be cut off once they detect a kid’s face. You can hardsell whatever product you want in the live, but not with the presence of a kid. I think thats a great feature for parents to not exploit their kids.
Right! Makes you wonder why it is on their platform but not on the other one… Just like a lot of other controversial content isn’t being pushed on the Chinese version… They really found a good way to push certain things onto their western audience with the app while also making sure their own version stays government friendly and "clean". The content that is picked up by the algorithm on the app _here_ would never get picked up on douyin. Not saying that there isn’t disturbing and harmful stuff on that too, but when compared it becomes very apparent that those two apps are build very differently and on purpose.
Yes. Also, it would be interesting to see how much money they put aside from the profit for the kid's future. Covering the family's needs is the parent's responsibility, not the children's. 🎉
Broke my heart!! I remember when my boys were that age and I had a DEEP instinct deep inside every part of me to protect my child !! From everything… I don’t understand how these parents get so wrapped up in this film and post everything their kid does world (money yes but I think these moms like the fame and attention even more than the money). It’s so unsafe and so terrible even taking out the child labor part! No privacy, no consent, no control over who watches your child in videos and what happens once a video or photo is out there it is forever! It makes me feel truly sick to my stomach the idea of not protecting a young child as a parent. It’s hard to explain, that drive to shelter your baby from all the insanity of the world as long as possible. How do these mothers not have that instinct to protect their babies AT ALL ????
Little kid doesn't want to be on camera and says sorry and mom immediately said that's okay you don't have too and it breaks your heart? Bull. My kid hasn't liked to be on camera or have pictures her whole life and had I not taken some she would have no memories of her childhood later and she would regret that. Literally taking a grain of salt and trying to make a mountain. Drink drain o or something. Yall are petty. Stay outta peoples lives just because you don't have one.
that just made me cry. because thats how i acted with my mom as a child, it looked like I was her mother and she was the child, and that completely ruined my childhood, i burned stages quick and now i feel like i grew into a silly child with the body of an adult.
They've started exploiting anyone and everyone, especially since the Citizens United, 14th amendment law was passed. Now that a corporation is legally a 'person,' they are protected in ways they should not be. It's been all downhill since the Supreme Court allowed this ridiculous assertion to become law. And companies have become completely heartless because you don't see the owner face to face ever anymore
It’s because kids are their best customers. My daughter is 4 and she will watch the same video on RU-vid Kids 3,000 times over and over again. We’ve banned family vloggers in our house though.
@@justmoon9798 No it isn’t, just prevalent enough now to actually be named, studied, and put forward into the DSM 5 (or 6 depending on the time it takes I suppose)
I think videos featuring children should not be eligible for monetization or sponsorship in any way shape or form. Shame on the platforms for allowing it, and shame on the companies paying for product placement.
Absolutely yes. I don’t know how it would be enforced, but underage kids should NEVER be made to perform on camera by adults. It is abusive, nothing less.
The fact that her daughter said something back to her calmly and mom continued to yell, tells me this happens all the time and her daughter is now used to it. Watch this kid get no money from their full-time childhood job.
You know when I was still using I didn’t care about changing anything ya know. However when my 5 year old son at the time came over to me while I was yelling (at what I don’t even remember tbh) and he said mommy it’s ok let’s play. I snapped at him and the way he just looked so fucking broken, that made me change how I spoke to him 100000%. I work on it every day. When I am mad I will tell him what he tells me- I need a moment thank you. It’s amazing how our relationship has changed since I started fixing my fuck ups. However I would never in a million years exploit my kiddo.
As a single mother I am insulted that she would compare herself with ‘single mothers’ That woman is CRAZY!! Shes insulted?! She should be insulted by her own actions!!! Shes loved and cherished and umm…FAKE CRYING FAKE EMOTIONS!! I hope no one falls for this?!!!!
I'm a single mom of 3. One with severe medical conditions. I don't yell at my kids in private, let alone in public! I also work 72+ hours a week to support them instead of exploiting them online.
@@magnoliamoonbloom6473 yea I was thinking the same thing... It's easy not to yell when you need zero cooperation and haven't been dealing with craziness for the whole day.
That wasn’t just raising her voice. That was a frightening tone to take up with a child. I have a feeling that wasn’t the first time she’s treated her kid that way.
She got caught yelling at her for not wanting to film like, six months ago. This isn't the first time she's been caught, so God only knows how often she's yelling at her child. I just hope it's limited to yelling and that she's not hitting her too.
These are the type of parents that get cut off emotionally from their kids once they grow up. The child wants NOTHING to do with them once the smoke clears. Absolutely horrendous!
@@kristaschnarr6979Have you seen a lot of child stars when they grow up? This is essentially the same thing on a smaller scale. Forcing your kids to be entertaining for any sort of content often doesn't go well, to the point where one child star (I can't remember her name off the top of my head, sorry) wrote an entire book called "I'm glad my mom died" talking about what she went through. It's not uncommon for other children pushed into the public eye by their parents to have a horrible relationship with them later on. I know these kids aren't in movies, but judging by what we can see happening behind the scenes I think this will lead to something very similar
@@mmmbepis8643 You can’t judge every ones experience off of the experiences that garner the most attention. Negative experiences get hype, not positive. Life sux for a lot of people in many ways but it doesn’t for others. Live and let live. You don’t know each child or parent. There’s billions of us
@@kristaschnarr6979 Okay, so you say "name some relevant examples" get some relevant examples, and then proceed to essentially say "nuh uh". Yes we can't predict how every single person will turn out, but that's like saying beating your child isn't guaranteed to give them lifelong trauma so it must not be that bad. No, we cannot guarantee what every single one of these kids will experience as an adult, but with existing patterns we can make an educated assumption. Just say you want to be willfully ignorant and move on
yeahhhhh my stomach was already hurting knowing the subject of this video but as soon as i saw that…that poor baby. she deserves a mom who loves her for who she is rather than exploiting her on so many levels.
I can relate with ‘working on your temper’. I grew up in a very aggressive family and I thought the idea of ‘I’m not gonna raise them like I was raised’ was enough to make me a kind and gentle parent, but it’s much deeper than that. I don’t judge partners for yelling or losing their cool, as long as they are actively trying to improve. Breaking generational trauma is hard. ALL that being said, exploiting children for money and views is sick. I’m always looking for ways to help kids preserve their childhoods. Running a business where your child is the center of it, is not fair and I think it should be immediately demonetized.
I completely agree. I catch myself saying the things that my Mum used to say to me, being reactive in the same way, even making the same angry noises or facial expressions. Even if you swore you would be better (and I'm not saying my Mum was a terrible Mum, she had her problems and she did the best with what she had at the time based on her capacity and her childhood experiences) but I still thought my desire to do it differently would be enough. That the research into how to overcome generational trauma, the books and videos, and learning about myself I did prior to having my daughter would make a difference. But your original hardwiring is what you experienced, not what you wish to be like. So it's a constant internal fight trying to overcome what is, unfortunately, your instinctual behaviour at this point. Your factory settings. I can survive to a certain point on my want to be better and employing all the lessons and tactics I've learnt to do it but it can get to a point where all that is left is my personal childhood foundation. This isn't how it is for everyone. Everyone is built differently, I wish my want to be better was enough, but it isn't that simple for me. It's easy to say that by the time you are a parent, you should have learned patience as if it is a simple lesson to learn. As if it's something that every person had modelled to them. And as if a child is not the most trying thing on your patience, as if they don't - on the daily - push you into your most primal brain. I don't think that it's as black and white as she's made it out to be. I think these were unfair comments, as it wasn't just directed at this woman specifically, and she says it from a place of not being a Mum yet. Even with all the empathy in the world, you cannot understand the realities of motherhood until you are in it.
I grew up with an eggshell parent, and that is exactly what this poor kid is growing up in too. You quickly learn to do everything in your power to avoid a meltdown from a grown adult, and push your own needs and emotions in a box. It's made so much worse by the fact that she, a 6 YEAR OLD is also carrying the weight of financially supporting her family at the expense of her privacy and any sort of normal life. I feel so bad for Scarlett.
My boyfriend keeps telling me to stop apologizing for everything and is confused when I randomly cry, when I’m upset and don’t want to tell him why because I’m scared of him getting mad at me. Then he’s like “why would I be mad at you?” And I’m just starting to realize it’s because of things I went through as a kid. I’m 25 now, but any slight raise in someone’s voice makes me physically shake.
@@EmiL_from_NieR I'm sorry ❤️ I can definitely relate to that too. You don't realize it's abnormal when you're in it, but the side effects stay with you
Right?? We adults have the responsibility to provide and care for children, not the other way around. We have to do everything we can to ensure they grow up healthy and happy.
The way the mother talks to her daughter completely changes when she thinks no one is watching. I can’t explain it. Its not just the fact she’s yelling over something so ridiculous, she completely changes the way she speaks like she’s not talking to a child at all. Calling her “dude” and her tone of voice just sounds like she’s having a go at an adult. Its like she doesn’t even view her as the child that she is, and that she is her mother.
She doesn’t like that child. She doesn’t love her. She treats her like a menstrual performer. As long as Scarlett steps it and fetches it for her mom she’s cool, but if she doesn’t she is mistreated. Wonder how bad the mistreatment is off camera. Let’s wait for this child to escape and this lady goes to jail.
It terrifies me because so many of these types of Mom's will place their children in danger for the right amount of money. This using of children for income is no better than what human traffickers do, they use people as a reusable resource.
Single dad here - every time I assembled something with my kid, it was so much fun teaching him about putting things together. And we never needed therapy! LOL
I followed them because Scarlett reminded me of my cousin when she was little. The affirmations were so sweet. I thought Tiana was a single mom to 1 daughter. Then I found out she had more kids and the whole account has a gross feel now. It feels very race baiting. Like oh this is my mixed child, watch me parade her around. I feel bad for poor scarlett
I agree. I think every partner has lost their temper with their kid but this is a whole other level. She growled at that poor child for not putting together a piece of furniture
Exactly! The way the women in the video is getting on her about “working on her patience* was working on mine but I have to remember she’s going so hard on this women bc she does exploit her child. She’s not a normal parent trying her best
Hearing that poor baby calmly tell her mom she doesn't have to yell broke my heart 😔💔 ...that woman looked like she was about to throw that whole dresser and having a bad day doesn't excuse you treating your child like that...I understand parents get upset and raise their voice ...but she was screaming ...gave me flashbacks of my childhood ..
I’m a psychologist & a parent- I have very strong professional & personal opinions about the “parents”who broadcast every sacred moment of their child’s life for the entire internet to see; they don’t care about their children, they only care about the dopamine hit & financial gain that they get from their posts. The world is crazy
what do you think about parents that post their kids photos on Facebook when the kids have repeatedly asked them not to.? The kid in question is now 17 and her whole life is on Facebook.
I’m a therapist and a single parent and I wholeheartedly agree. I think it’s an incredible betrayal of trust to have your caregivers use and exploit you for financial gain and attention like this, and I think the long term effects for these children in terms of their mental health are going to be catastrophic. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. We need laws put in place to protect kids on social media.
@@cl9949Maybe the parents should be informed that children's pictures are scraped off of social media or any photo sharing platforms by 'PDFiles' (sound it out) to be shared amongst each other. The FBI, along with other CSA agencies have revealed that many collections of 'CheesePizza' actually are of seemingly plain everyday photos, amongst the *other kind*. I don't know if you know the parents personally, but if you do, or know someone who does😢, educate them. The poor teenager doesn't deserve to have their childhood memories be potentially tainted by evil circumstances. Good luck. I feel sorry for them. It's unfair. I hope one day we have laws in place to prevent parents from doing this to their kids, accidental or not.
@@cl9949 I’m 25 now and it still feels weird that my mom broadcasted everything on Facebook and never even talked to me irl. It’s narcissism. It’s gotta be.
Totally agree. My daughter is 28 and I think I have put only a total of 5 pictures on social media of her. I have never put my child on any social media accts. It is total disrespect to do as a child, even adult child.
@@kristaschnarr6979yelling at your kid to stop biting the other kid on the playground after around 8 vs yelling at your kid because they advocate their right to not want to be on camera and be used for mamas income and clout… make excuses all you want. In 18 years when they go NC you can keep bitching but the facts will be there. Also just to add, the daughter literally told her mom in a calm manner, mom you don’t need to yell. There is no restraint, she is saying mom I will do this, but you dont need to raise your voice. The mom is using her child in every way possible including for her own emotional regulation.
Well if you think that kind of lashing out for not performing for an audience is acceptable, then you are a bad parent. You are an adult who is in the position of power, you are responsible for regulating your emotions and and emotional responses so your child can also do this later in life. It's people like you, who make your bad day your child's problem, who burden your children with your insecurities and shortcomings, who leave the rest of society to deal with the 'broken' adults you have created. As a parent raising a future adult who will later go out in the world, it is your sworn duty and part of the covenant that you make with society, to not raise your children to be monsters who the rest of us and/or the court system will have to deal with. The fact that internet strangers have to explain this basic principle to you, is baffling and scary.
As a Mother yes we get frustrated but the first thing they teach you is to put the baby/child in a safe space and walk away and regulate yourself. I've done it multiple times
Absolutely I have six kids one is grown and the other five at home with me, they are all young. Sometimes you have to walk away gather your thoughts and come back when you are more rational and less emotional.
That mother is a class narcissist. Blames the daughter, blames others, excuses and minimizes her actions, plays the victim, stages a "feel good scene" and finally the victim is apologizing! Absolutely sickening!
100%. She also does that thing of blowing her own faults out of proportion "oooh I'm so impatient and a bad parent" so we're enclined to empathize with her insecurities and reassure her that she's great. It's like people fishing for compliments like "ooh I'm so ugly". It's also again revolving things around herself instead of, I don't know, how her daughter feels??
Your channel needs to blow up to huge subscribers so more people see this. ALL COMMENTERS - IF YOU HAVEN'T SUBSCRIBED PLEASE DO SO! What you're talking about is absolutely ESSENTIAL. Keep calling out these exploiters. That woman is a liar and abusive in how she's using her daughter. And you're right, her behavior has nothing to do with being a single parent.
using medical diagnosises to describe whatever bad behavior you see on the web isn't helping anyone. it harms people who have NPD & does nothing to help anyone. stop throwing around medical terms. that's like if people see someone with a bruise that they must have lupus or a blood disorder or something, commenting & boosting comments with those statements doesn't do anything to help the person with the bruise & it just makes things more difficult & ambiguous in general.
I went pumpkin picking this past October with my family and my then 5 month old. There was a woman taking pictures of her daughter, whining at her because she wasn’t smiling. The poor little girl said “I don’t want any more pictures I want to find a pumpkin” and it made me so sad, kids can’t enjoy a fun day out anymore without parents using them for clout 😭😭
I don’t have any social media (except the rare Facebook for family) and I’ve argued with my kids about taking a picture with a smile. Unless she had a whole photo shoot set up, that’s not that crazy. But that’s also why in know I could never be a family blogger. If it takes me that much just to get one dang pumpkin patch picture, I can’t imagine what I’d have to do to get enough content to be my main income.
I remember when I was younger I hated taking pictures on outings like that, and I still do. You literally only need one or two pictures, if the kid isn’t smiling then let them go have fun and THEN you can take an off guard of them ACTUALLY smiling!
When I told my kids to pick up their toys a million times, yes I would get frustrated. I never got frustrated if they wanted to help me build a piece of furniture. No one can get that stuff right the first time 🤦
I’m 24 and can’t for the life of me figure out how to put ikea furniture together, and you’re telling me she’s mad because her SIX YEAR OLD can’t “do her side”. Like most six year olds just learned how to put their shoes on the right feet
She wasn't crying because she was sorry to the viewers. She was crying because she was afraid of the spanking she was about to get. My heart is breaking.
Its not just the yelling its the dissociation. She talks to her daughter like she's not her daughter. The language she uses is something you might use when speaking to a stranger 🤷🏻♀️
When I was growing up, my parents often told me “you are not listening”. Now that I am an adult, I told my dad, I was never “not listening” but processing under pressure. Just because I didn’t react the way (on in the amount of time) they wanted me to, didn’t mean I wasn’t listening. Even now, I have to process what information is coming my way. It’s just how my brain works.
Oof i feel ya! I was nonstop getting the snot beat out of me for not reacting the way my dad wanted me to! Several times i remember I couldn't stop laughing while he was furious, and i was mortified cause i knew i was gonna get beat for it but i seriously couldn't just stop, i was literally using my hands to make my face stop smiling, i know now thats a classic trauma response. He just loved to beat us though so it was gonna happen no matter how i responded so 🤷
The problem is social media and everyone wanting their 15 minutes of fame without any regard to anything else. You saying people are morally bankrupt is spot on.
Its kinda obvious that thats the case. She said that she would do therapy after watching that video again, but she litterary watched it multiple times while editing it before posting it online. Obviously she didnt just realize she needed therapy after watching the video, she "realized" after the world watched the video.
Ugh it turns my stomach to hear that little baby start crying and apologizing to her mom for not wanting to be on camera.. she should never have been put online this way. This is narcissistic abuse.
I recently knew someone who’s daughter got her drivers license and she (the mom) posted on facebook a picture of her daughter with the paper showing her full name, address, license #, and tons of identifying information on it. She basically doxed her own daughter and made her vulnerable to so many predatory actions. Be better.
Absolutely that is very scary. I could never imagine putting personal information on the Internet of my child let alone any personal personal information at all.
I see so many parents also posting a "first day of school" pictures while tagging their school name and their teacher's names. Like what are you doing? While the child is also holding up a chalkboard with everything that they like. Is that not a common sense not post this stuff online?
I grew up in an extremely violent environment as a child. My father makes Ruby Franke look like a saint. I’m still having trouble dealing with my trauma and I’m 55. I know that might seem extreme to some people, but PTSD can creep up later in life. I cannot imagine the trauma and stress these kids are under to perform so their parents don’t have to work or can have it all. All done for the likes and subscribers. People will start to see the truth in this woman’s life.
I completely believe it and I'm so sorry 💜 I'm 24, almost 25 and still curl up into a corner and cry sometimes during moments when my own PTSD is triggered. Certain key phrases like "grow up" and feeling like a failure are extremely difficult things for me to deal with and put me right back in my miserable childhood home. I'm learning that healing from this type of trauma is a lifelong journey. I wish you the best of luck in yours!
@@anonomous8649 I’m so sorry. I heard those same things until I was in my 30’s. The best advice I have is to get your feelings out with therapy, journaling, or whatever helps you to focus on healing. I stumbled through so many different antidepressants that never worked, addiction, OCD, and anxiety. It has been the last year I started to really understand why I isolate, react the way I do, and struggle to connect to people. I think those that have never grown up with abuse or violence are not only lucky, but don’t understand the effect a violent and abusive parent or parents can be like and how it does continue to affect you into adulthood. I wish you peace and happiness. You deserve it. You are absolutely worthy of all that and more.
My dad was a single father of three children. My brother had intense disabilities and medical bills and needed constant and expensive care. He nearly lost everything he owned and did lose his job juggling it all. That being said, He has never yelled at us when we were little like she yelled at her six year old. She is disgusting.
That is fantastic. I commend your father for being a real man they’re not many left anymore. you should give that man a hug next time you see him and tell him thank you for taking such good care of you much❤
Most definitely! The back and fourth of the "kindness" her mother shows her on camera (most of the time) vs God knows what happens when the camera shuts off!!! So horrible poor baby...
Scarlet is such a sweet and smart little girl and seeing her mom talk to her like that honestly broke my heart because I had never heard her talk to her like that.
Also, how calculated of her to go and do the crying part in front of her daughther. Like, because you were not listenimg and I lost my temper now people are coming at me and making me sad and YOU the 6year old need to console me! She gaslights her own daughther for sure
My mom was an alcoholic and was also great at acting like everything was fine. Seeing the daughter having to comfort her mother while she's sad, is showing that the daughter has to be on edge all the time in order to keep herself safe. Being on edge all the time as a kid, can lead to ptss and overall worse mental health as an adult. As someone who ended up with cptsd because of that situation, I feel so sad for that little girl and how her future will look. I hope the mother really gets counselling or the daughter can move out before things really get out of hand.
Yep - the damage done to me by a liar and drunk called my mother made me mask most of my adult life until 1 day I just cracked and it all came out - I'd be about 50 at that time - I wish I could have dealt with it sooner - I felt robbed.
"if you're a single mom, you can relate to being impatient when your 6-year-old child loads less than 16 tons of coal in a day. They have tiny hands, but they can compensate by working faster" -- Tiania Haneline, probably
Poor Scarlett has the financial burden on her to provide for her adult mother... and I'm pretty sure I know why she is a single mom now.She doesn't deserve to be that beautiful little girls mother.
If you’ve read the book “children of emotionally immature parents” you loved this child’s life. The daughter comforts the mother not vice versa. She also isn’t performing to moms standards which creates a self worth of achievement not just inherent self worth. I hope this changes otherwise this little girl will have a hard mid twenties realizing this.
YEP i just commented something similar to this! I love my parents to death and I’m so grateful for them, but growing up, life sucked lol. I’m so glad i was able to get into therapy at 17 to recognize how unhealthy my parents’ behaviors were (they’re much better now!)
CPS are you for real do u know how many kids are sexually abused under the CPS' watch. Do you know how many kids die because of their foster parents, and how many go missing and found dead or not found at all because of their foster parents. CPS ya way more safe than her mama
LOL you guys are so obsessed about others lives like u have not fucking lost ur patients before with ur children “CALL CPS CALL CPS LOL LOL LOL I gotta get off this crap ass channel it’s damaging me 😒
Let’s bring back shaming, parents that exploit and abuse their children need to be publicly shamed and made to feel as low and miserable as they made their children feel
Gosh, her yelling at the kid about the storage unit triggered me so hard. Having a parent who is so emotionally volatile has effects on you that last forever. That reaction all for a storage unit 😥
As a single woman with children, I don't even see how they even have the time to record all of the time. I don't really post my babies anymore because ppl are nuts
I took it as Scarlett appealing to her mom like, “Listen, I’m already embarrassed; do I really have to be on camera again for this take?” Which is also pretty sad. But now that you mention it . . . ughhh, you’re probably right. 🤢
That woman is VILE. Her facial expressions in that video show pure contempt, disgust & despise… & NOT bcuz she was sorry in ANY way whatsoever! She’s seething that she got caught showing her true colors & trying to manipulate the viewers into thinking she’s relatable. Shame on her.
I get frustrated when I have to tell my child to put their shoes on because we are running late because they were chilling in their room instead of getting dressed….not because I’m putting them to work to make me money.
thisssss omg. the last time i yelled (not even at my son, but just raising my voice in frustration) was bc i spilled my iced coffee all over the place... not bc he wasn't performing for social media well enough. and i STILL apologized to him for it.
Coming from a single boomer parent household, my childhood was filled with lots of aggressive eoutbursts that got us smacked a lot of the time. I can’t imagine how hurtful it would be to be used as a cash cow on top of that.
And for it to be shown to everyone! I was also abused and even though it wasn’t my fault I was embarrassed and ashamed to live that way and never had friends over because they’d find out. I couldn’t imagine millions of people including the kids you go to school with finding out!!
There has to be a balance between love and structure. Soft parenting also isn't doing kids any favors. They go out in a harsh World and can't handle it. We see this everywhere now.
@@roxslater1031why is the world so harsh? I guess this depends on your definition of soft, because soft, the way I'm looking at it, you can be soft (or gentle) and still have structure.
Her yelling at that child sounded way too comfortable. Definitely not something that she regretted. Only that she regrets that we saw it. Sent to chill down my spine, hearing her tone of voice and how calm your child was in response. Bless that child's heart. She's so pure saying you don't need to yell. For her to blame it on a little bit of impatience is laughable, we can all tell she has some serious issues and that she yells at her a lot. Her normal voice tone sounds very stressed.
Yep, most parents catch themselves when they snap and address it immediately in the situation. Also, notice how the daughter didn't really react? She's used to her mom acting like that.
Omg... threatening to hit her... There is no difference between pop and hit. Teaching her to react with violence when she's frustrated... this is heartbreaking.
You are doing such an important job by bringing this child exploitation to light. Filming/photographing children for public content should be forbidden by law.
Yep! That’s why I didn’t nt think children should be on social media even if they aren’t being treated badly or forced to. There will always be perverts looking for that content and it makes me sick to my stomach. Parents should protect their children!
This is disgusting. She is taking her own childs childhood away. In 10 years time were gonna have people coming out with their childhood traumas of being exploited as a kid. Truly heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all these poor kids that r being used by their own parents for some cash. Some parents dont deserve to be parents.
Yeah, you’re 100% right about how she yelled and WHY. Kids are frustrating. They test you at every turn. But I’m not gonna force my 5y/o to, like, vacuum and then GET MAD AT HER FOR NOT DOING IT RIGHT. Everything about this is manipulative, choreographed and disgusting. I hate these people who use their kids like this. Hate it.
Scarlett’s mom has always rubbed me wrong. She looks like the kind of mother that yells all the time, and is constantly putting her kids down. And I don’t feel like I’m wrong about that observation.
The manipulation is scary. This is how she speaks to her daughter. This is how a narcissistic person speaks to their children. As well as adults. She truly thinks that people are going to listen to her. She’s following the text book and throwing it back on her followers. Scarlet was waiting behind the camera. She’s in damage mode trying to save her TikTok not the relationship with her daughter. Also. Note the change of tone in her voice. She’s faking it till she makes it. She doesn’t realise that people are seeming her tri self!! She thinks she’s above and everyone loves her no matter what
I've just come across your channel and have watched a few of your videos. Just want to say thank you for not holding back or being moderate in your stance against these people. You have a really great way of voicing the anger of all of us while refusing to accommodate the feelings of these abusive a**holes.
I see the fawn trauma response in that sweet baby! 😢 She’s already done something on a live where she was screaming at her child to film and her daughter didn’t want to and was crying. I feel so bad for her daughter. I hope people IRL know them and have eyes on them!
Here’s a novel idea, if you’re having a bad day - don’t film that day. If the child is not into building furniture and it’s frustrating you, drop the task until you feel better or do it yourself and allow your child to go play with their toys or have a nap or just do regular kid things.
Wait she had ANOTHER outburst?! I remember when she got caught in the mirror yelling at her. Mommy bloggers need to go! This particular mom gives me the ick. Love you Kiki ♥️
I got rid of all of my social media years ago (facebook) i never had tic toc or most social medias. RU-vid is the only thing i have, but minus my picture, that is the only thing ive posted with my child since getting rid of my stuff. I used to post pics of my kiddos , but had a scary situation that opened my eyes and i no longer do. Parents be mindful when you post your babies, youre opening your family up to anyone with internet .
I think of course money is a big part of this, but I think the attention and fame and constant “you’re such an amazing mom” praise is what REALLY gets these family vloggers addicted to that life. You can just feel the desperation for attention and praise in every word and action these moms post. They totally lose sight of the motherly instinct to protect your child. It’s so sad, it needs to stop.
My heart just broke when the 6 year old girl tearfully apologised to their followers for not wanting to be on camera. Great content and also great that you’re bringing attention to these situations.
i love how kiki touches such touchy subjects and doesn't take advantage of it in someway. if you watch any other video of these topics, which tend to get lots of views, the youtuber will throw a random online therapy, perfume or mattress sponsor 😭 and it honestly takes away all the genuineness out of the video.
I feel you but the creators need to be paid for their work and that’s how they get paid. Some of them put way too many ads but one or two is understandable. I want them to keep making videos so they gotta get paid. I certainly would rather advertisers pay them than me paying them. :)
The only way I could see filters being used is if the filter that is fun or even hides their identity. Like a silly filter that makes them look like a cute animal or something, you know?
The scary thing is, people start thinking it's "normal" and "okay" to be frustrated and yell at your kids. You need to stop yourselves before you get to that point, I have been there, it only happened once and then I was like, NO, this is NOT okay, I cannot allow this to happen.
