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#AnythingForViews ... even when it comes to parenting! Today, we tackle the difficult conversation of child internet safety and the things parents will do for internet fame and $$$. Children have the right to privacy, peace, and the ability to forge their own path in this world... It is time we change the way we look at children's role in the digital world.
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@dgf3308 Год назад

Remember when parents used to forbid us from saying our names or share photos of our face online?

@Traxie Год назад

And I'm glad they did, because I would post so many stupid things

@psychedelic.dreamer Год назад

Yep, and now that we're grown up, we're doing exactly that and look what's it done. Social media is a cesspool of toxicity and exploitation.

@kadiecarrell3959 Год назад

Or post pics inside the house because things might get stolen. I still get scared.

@dianaquill9969 Год назад

Yeah, I'm glad my mum took that seriously. I never had social media except for Facebook at 13, and I almost never used it, I wasn't even allowed to put my birthday into it.

@RaeForReall Год назад

They still do and I'm glad

@jolenejoleeene 2 года назад

Years ago, I took an FBI training that included analyzing seemingly innocent pics with children from a predator's perspective. It was a disturbing but educational experience. It convinced me that there is no such thing as a harmless image of a child.

@tripendicular 2 года назад

😳 can you elaborate. Should we not post any pics publicly?!

@jolenejoleeene 2 года назад

@@tripendicular When my daughter was younger, I posted some pics of her on FB, but restricted visibility to close friends and family only. That's honestly what I would recommend to anyone. If I couldn't restrict it, I wouldn't post it. If I would be comfortable with that person being in my daughter's proximity, they can see pics. Otherwise, not a chance. At the same training, even back then, we were shown some of the horrific alterations done to or with children's images. While I understand it's not actually that child or a child at all, I just couldn't stand the idea of someone doing anything like that to an image of my child.

@DieAlteistwiederda Год назад

@@jolenejoleeene I've once accidentally came across those altered pics years ago when the internet was still a bit wilder with circulating the most horrific shit. I was about 16 back then and I will never be able to unsee this. I don't want kids but I'm an aunt of 4 and I made my two older siblings keep a tight grip on what they posted. My older brothers ex was a lot more free about what she posted of my two youngest nieces and I can still remember sitting her down and explaining to her in detail what people do with even the most innocent pictures. She was also posting less innocent stuff like bikini pictures on the beach which are of course completely harmless if you aren't a creep but she had it out there and not restricted. I'm 30 now and I have never shared a picture of any of these kids and would only consider it now for my oldest niece because she is 17 and can consent and my nephew who is 20 and an adult and obviously can consent too. I also don't post pictures of friends unless I've asked and deemed them safe and I routinely have always posted stuff privately. I really don't understand how people can be this free about their kids.

@terriblecacti Год назад

@@DieAlteistwiederda i sincerely believe its because they think it wont happen to them. whether its out of willful ignorance or the financial incentive to keep making content doesn't matter to them. and if it were to happen (which is a very real concern and im surprised it hasn't happened yet), i unfortunately forsee parents trying to monetize that too as a sob story.

@brookieb4796 Год назад

I am about to have my first child and I have wondered about how I am going to deal with this a lot. I don't have/ don't use any social media sites anymore. I mostly just use Pinterest and Twitter for my social media fix. I don't really post anything personal on either of those websites. I am worried about my mom and my mother-in-law posting pictures of my kids online. Especially my mother in law because she loves sharing her entire life online. I am wondering if I should ask my husband to speak with her about it or whether I should say something to her myself before the baby is even born or just wait until the bay is born and say that we prefer for our child's face to not be online. I am not sure how to approach her about it. She could post a picture that has my child in it, but their face isn't showing would be fine. Anyone have any good ideas of how to approach the topic and what to do if she gets offended? I guess I could always tell her that I am the parent and I am allowed to make rules for my children.

@aprilroberts6124 2 года назад

About 8 years ago when my son was 6, back in the day of CraigsList, I posted our bikes up for sale. I didn't think anything of it that my son was in the picture. I posted the photos and I immediately got a response back from a woman telling me to take the photos of my son down. She said it was the quickest way to get a predator over to my house pretending to be interested in the bikes. The hairs on the back of my neck stood up and I got chills. It had never occurred to me the danger I was putting my son in. I took the whole ad down and just donated the bikes. I am so grateful for this woman. She defined the way I parent and protect my son to this day. I pray more women and families listen to women like you. The protection of our children should be our #1 concern.

@dialiann 2 года назад

Wow, that woman was awesome and I hope and pray she didn't figure that out the hard way🙏🏾

@alexandrakennedy2000 2 года назад

Good for you for taking her seriously and not getting offended!! I mightve been a tad offended not even gonna lie, I’m stubborn. Honestly, we need more women like her to speak up in sticky situations like that!

@goldenamik322 2 года назад

Goosebumps! 😳

@Midway2RealityASMR 2 года назад

That’s good. People need to stop being on the defense. She was looking out for him. Unfortunately peoples egos are more telling nowadays. Also the CCP is monitoring Tik tok so I stay off all together

@s0lastsummer7 2 года назад

What an amazing act of kindness that she reached out to you with. It's people like that who give me hope in such a hopeless world.

@raininglantern 8 месяцев назад

Im pregnant and wont be posting any pictures or anything of my baby on the internet at all. It just feels wrong.

@Oldschoolnana 5 месяцев назад

Good for you. Your baby is lucky to have you as a mom. Best wishes.😊😊

@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 4 месяца назад

Good for you. Your child will appreciate it and your memories will be precious and private to you and your family. I am so grateful that the internet did not exist when I was a child with my parents our memories are ours They don't belong to anybody else nor the worlds I do share things now because there are very serious lessons to be learned from what happened to us but it's what I choose to share. I am grateful that I'm allowed to share what I share

@susannahlewis8464 4 месяца назад

Yeah, also pregnant. It's just not worth it. I can send cute pictures to my trusted friends and family to enjoy. The internet doesn't need to see my kids.

@gentletal5101 4 месяца назад

Congratulations

@rachelmartinez4370 4 месяца назад

We have decided to do the same, I gave birth to our first several months ago. Try to do your best to communicate your wishes to your parents, if your partner is in the picture make sure his family is aware as well… we have run into issues with other people posting pictures of our little one. Not because they’re rebelling but because they forget, and deleting it is good but it’s never fully deleted… you never know the kinds of people who follow, even if the account is set to private. Often times there are people you know that are using these photos… wishing you the best. Sometimes you’ll feel “left out” because you don’t post baby but the cons definitely outweigh the pros.

@stephanielange 2 года назад

THANK YOOOOOOOU i wish more people would speak up about how bloody DANGEROUS and DAMAGING using your children for content is!! for a multitude of reasons! ugh

@PiaPancakes Год назад

Yesss! Unexpected seeing you here but I love seeing queens supporting queens!!!

@JordanEndTimeServantOfYah144 Год назад

Yesss another channel I love ❣️

@meganh.6233 2 года назад

I don’t understand how, if you genuinely love a child, you could continuously humiliate them online (which will be around FOREVER), and endlessly expose them to predators. It just doesn’t make sense to me. Parents are supposed to protect their kids, not further set them up for danger.

@okoala62 2 года назад

These type of “parents” sincerely don’t care about their kids rights to privacy. (Thank God we were born before social media was around!). my impression is that they don’t realize their kids WILL grow up and be adults one day and won’t be happy about these postings, shared to the world. I’ve become more aware of that myself but still, it’s mind boggling how many parents don’t care about their kids privacy- they only care about THEIR own following, views and perceived fame 🙄😑

@dackjanielsmeup 2 года назад

It's not embarrassing to be a kid and do kid things. And people shouldn't have to stop sharing cute kid videos because some weirdos will look at them creepily? There are obviously limits, like don't post inappropriate things or put the kids in actual physical danger. But I don't understand the attitude of - creepy men exist, therefore let's live our lives in a completely different way just so that they don't think creepy things about us?? Why give them that much control?

@ririimari 2 года назад

I believe they view children not as individuals but as extensions of themselves; property. My mother was the same way.

@hypefine 2 года назад

RIGHT! When Kiki started getting upset 😢 I was angry too. When she started getting teary eyed I felt that.

@ckee8437 2 года назад

Because a narcissist loves what people can get them, they don't love people

@liberty5729 2 года назад

France’s new child influencer laws are so great. I’m really glad they’ve put so much thought into them. I wish the US, and other countries, would follow their lead.

@the_hottest_vitch Год назад

Whats the law? In France i mean im curious now

@liberty5729 Год назад

@@the_hottest_vitch I’m referencing the one she talked about in the video. Sorry I don’t have more info 😅 I wrote this a while ago But basically they put stricter restrictions on how kids can can be exposed online for monetary gain. To keep them from being exploited As with the internet, I would fact check it as I am definitely not an expert!

@stephanie22345 Год назад

The US doesn’t care and says parents should have the freedom to choose that they do with their own kids. I’ve seen the same thing with parents defending their decision to allow their kids to not wear a helmet when doing dangerous things like riding 4 wheelers or horses

@thepinkestpigglet7529 Год назад

You know shits bad when France of all countries decides its child exploitation

@AlienZizi Год назад

@@stephanie22345 the US loves to consider kids as property of the parents and pretend any danger to kids is outside the home

@chasehofstetter1609 7 месяцев назад

Crazy how the mom at 38:45 talked abt how her sons disorder doesnt define him yet still made it sound like it was all that defined him

@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 4 месяца назад

Oh we're going to see a GoFundMe on him He is going to be used to raise funds meaning money for his copays MRIs aren't cheap His medication is going to be this He needs glasses he needs this he needs that owe you bet he's going to fund their lifestyle. Poor little guy instead of loving him and giving him the privacy he needs to grow up not to be bullied but to be loved appreciated and respected for who he is He's going to be a RU-vid star

@witchassbitch3 2 месяца назад

As a disabled person that statement boggled my mind. The kid is like 2 years old he barely has a personality, it’s okay if his chronic illness/disorder defines him at this stage in his life. It’s quite literally been his whole life up to this point. As he gets older it will become just a part of him as a person. But he’s literally a toddler. Name any toddler that doesn’t define themselves by one specific interest or character trait😂 children will typically do that till around age 6 or 7. It just felt so strange to use language that disabled adults have had to use to get BASIC respect for a child who barely knows who he is.

@PhoenixDesigns0420 10 месяцев назад

Never been more appreciative of my strict "no phone, no social media" parents than right now... 😱

@PridelessChickz 5 месяцев назад

Aww they truly loved you! God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven🌈💖

@ROMANIADDICT 2 месяца назад

What’s so sad is that we won’t see the true effects of being on social media from a young age until these kids grow up and it’s too late

@unropednope4644 2 месяца назад

Theres no difference really between kids in these videos and former child stars and look how 99% of them turned out.

@haydenfaithh Месяц назад

@@unropednope4644I disagree - I think this era of kids will be worse. Child stars at least had some level of “privacy” because they weren’t filmed and on camera 24/7

@aliaturner8101 Год назад

This issue of parents posting their nonconsenting children online is going to be one of the biggest blights on the Millennial generation as parents. In 10-15 years we will absolutely be seeing the documentaries and reading the tell alls of children who grew up with these parents, and I suspect many children will cut off their parents entirely. It’s horrific that we are just accepting this as normal in many cases. It truly feels like a minority of people have an issue with this.

@abbyabroad 8 месяцев назад

AGREED

@Ephesians5-14 8 месяцев назад

They'll be asking "why didn't you protect me?!" And other extremely valid questions... I see lawsuits for sure

@SharonRaeRyan 6 месяцев назад

@@Ephesians5-14 Yes! I also forsee teens looking to get emancipated from these terrible parents.

@dragonmom4663 6 месяцев назад

These millennial parents are exactly the reason why the two extremes exist- the side where the parents are overly exposing their kids to the Internet and why the other side (my side) are overly avoidant of their kids being on any technology.

@kaitlyn573 6 месяцев назад

I don't believe this is an accurate representation of parents in general. Out of All the parents you know in your actual life how many are doing this? I think the vast majority of people know this is wrong and don't condone or participate in this. Yes. These kids will have issues and we will hear about it, all that is true. But that doesn't mean it's an issue with an entire generation. There have been massive issues with child actors coming to light over the past few decades. That doesn't mean every parent would be okay with their kid being a famous actor.

@zakinthebox Год назад

“I’m sorry for my absence. My child had a fairly major injury, however he is fine now. Please give me some time to help my son recover and content will continue.” It’s that easy.

@lentheprincess 8 месяцев назад

EXACTLYY

@dnbsvitkona3802 6 месяцев назад

How are they gonna use their child to be viewed then? They are literally pushing out kids for money????? That is so sick. My heart goes to these kids😢

@KM-ld9ln 6 месяцев назад

If I’m right that’s pretty much the approach Elise Myers took and then got bullied off for not talking about global atrocities while dealing with a sick son

@anntares172 5 месяцев назад

Honestly who cares about absences from social media? Are people just watching one person and can't survive without their content? That's wild to me that people feel need to say "Sorry, I didn't post today."

@astrokitten9323 2 года назад

The mom who made the video in the hospital….makes a video smiling and dancing when discussing her child’s (potentially fatal) health issue but crying when she gets backlash on the internet about it. Wow.

@elleash3040 2 года назад

This exact thought just went through my brain!!!

@sassagrass7095 2 года назад

Yeah, that was infuriating. So incredibly stupid.

@universes_collide 2 года назад

So psychotic

@morganhigdon 2 года назад

My mom tried to become RU-vid famous by making me and my siblings do vlogging but we all ended up hating it because it ruined genuine and good family moments. We all ended up all resenting her a lot for pushing the vlog. Eventually we all refused to be a part of it anymore.

@s0lastsummer7 2 года назад

This is how the 8 Passengers kids are all gonna end up. I feel it in my bones.

@orchid9173 2 года назад

Good on you for refusing to take part in it. I agree it’s so gross

@spacedoutsprout 2 года назад

@@s0lastsummer7 I genuinely believe the eldest son they sent to the wilderness already does. Resentment. I feel so bad for them.

@Tara_thatonegirl 8 месяцев назад

@@s0lastsummer7 well, you were right. Yikes.

@FransceneJK98 7 месяцев назад

I’m sorry you got such a narcissistic and abusive mother. How old are you? I’d disown my mom if she did that to me.

@bak1223 2 года назад

I'm disabled and I appreciate you so much for this. Parents of disabled kids need to get their shit together. Thank you for advocating for the most vulnerable of an already vulnerable community.

@bethanythatsme 2 года назад

I'm an autistic person who feels much the same way about childhood autism channels

@libbywatson6122 2 года назад

Honestly the mom influencers that exploit their children with disabilities makes me sick.

@christinasciabarra1216 2 года назад

Excellent point and reminder!

@samml3566 2 года назад

@@bethanythatsme those channels feel very cruel. My toddler was recently diagnosed with autism. I know very little about it but have been trying to do a lot of research since she started showing signs. None of the pages or people I follow have to show children to get their education or point across. So these parents claiming “education” for their motives are just disingenuous.

@hannahkayee831 2 года назад

Look up Dougherty mom so gross.

@xosecox12 2 года назад

What’s sad is that a girl I know got criticism for not posting photos of her 10-year-old son on Instagram or any social media and was accused of clearly not caring about him or spending time with him because of that. She spends all her time with him. HE has specifically told her he doesn’t like photos of himself being publicly posted, so she listened. It’s sad that while there is rhetoric about exploiting your kids, if people DON’T post their kids they’re then accused of not caring about them. It made me so sad to see this girl who I know is a good mom get accused of neglect just because she respects his right to privacy.

@calamity0.o Год назад

I'm getting ragged on currently for never posting images of my toddler for relatives to see. I don't even get on fb anymore.

@nervousbreakdown711 Год назад

Adults view children as property, not human beings. Good on her for listening to her son

@Oldschoolnana 5 месяцев назад

What is happening to humanity? Social media has taken the human out of humanity. This has to be stopped. It's child abuse in my eyes.

@Oldschoolnana 5 месяцев назад

@@calamity0.oGood choice. I don't even go on social media. Never have never will. I only go on You Tube for true crime, music. I would never put pictures of my children or granddaughter on line. I lived most of my life without social media I'm not interested.✌️🌻🌻

@abigailmills1725 7 месяцев назад

Some people on social media are really loosing their sense of reality and what is normal behavior.

@jalapeno1119 2 года назад

12 minutes in and I already have SO MUCH I want to add: 1. As someone in the field of child development and a YT fan for the past 13 years, this particular topic is so important to me. In fact, I did a research proposal to measure the self esteem of kids of family vloggers in the future to see if this phenomenon will have any sort of impact on the kids. I strongly believe it will, but we don't currently have the science to back it up. If we do have the science, then we can push for stricter laws regarding influencer children. But unfortunately, a whole generation of kids will have to be sacrificed first before people will actually do anything. 2. The parents ABSOLUTELY know what they are doing when they post pics of their kids in the tub and eating hot dogs. They know. 3. The lack of internet safety awareness nowadays is actually insane! 12 year olds running around online blasting their age, location and face everywhere like it's no big deal! My boomer parents taught me to expose as little as possible about me online and they never even grew up with the internet! My elementary school computer class went over internet safety. What happened to millennial parents and school boards and adults in general that just let all of this slip through the cracks?

@loliejane1164 2 года назад

Your research proposal is excellent. I hope you're able to carry it out. The children of the first generation of mommy bloggers are just hitting adulthood and I'm sure there will be some tell all books coming our way soon.

@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 2 года назад

what happened to millennial parents? oh, but nothing dear... they just are still children themselves, so they couldn't be bothered with actual parenting... what happened to school boards? eh, that's a little more complex, but basically in the last few decades money and culture went down while childishness and bigotry (often disguised as some weird concept of politically correct) went up. 🤷‍♀ also, as long as they can do whatever they want without responsibilities and repercussions, the vast majority of people (parents included) simply couldn't care less about anything else... after all, we're just naked monkeys, in some ages and cultures it's a little more evident than in others. oh, before anyone loose their shit... no, this is not aimed to hurt or denigrate anybody in particular, I'm just a tired historian being dark and sarcastic on purpose...

@stinks7065 2 года назад

I'm a millenial and I'm still kn some fandom spaces online and it scares me so much to see these children post everything about themselves online on public accounts... I'm especially worried when they openly list their trauma and triggers cause they're literally giving so much power for someone to hurt them really badly. And then these same kids actually end up thinking you're a creep if you don't have a carrd listing everything about yourself. And I say this as a person who is quite open online. I think maybe some millenial parents think that they were fine online back when it was the wild wild west, and surely their kids know cause they're able to be online more... or maybe these parents never had creepy encounters or didn't get sent shock websites with gore on the, by strangers so that they don't realise what can be out there.

@uglygarbage7806 Год назад

@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 a “historian” that mixes up “loose” and “lose”? I don’t buy it. the “politically correct” sentiment was quite a dogwhistle as well

@jalapeno1119 Год назад

@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 Sure, if you consider 30-40 year olds still children.

@auggiedoggiesmommy1734 11 месяцев назад

The saying that “the love of money is the root of all evil” never rang more true.

@FransceneJK98 7 месяцев назад

💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 YESSS

@believestthouthis7 4 месяца назад

1 Timothy 6:10 KJV - For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

@sabrinareyes8756 2 года назад

I got a concussion when I was 12 and my mom didn't believe me until I forced her to take me to the doctor. Even then she did not believe that head injuries were serious until I had severe symptoms. After I recovered she sent out messages to her close friends (AFTER asking my permission) explaining symptoms and what to do with their own children. All her friends shared the same belief that head injuries weren't serious and knowing someone that went through that experience it changed their minds. THAT is educating them, she didn't even disclose minute details, just how the accident happened and some things to look out for. No major details and NOT on social media. It's all about intention

@cheyneb2483 2 месяца назад

In regards to the Ren account I would say her mother knows 100% what she is doing and is doing it purposefully

@pattyann1963 2 года назад

We are creating a society where nothing is private anymore. Nothing is really sacred. And we’re feeling entitled to know information about other people because they’re a “public face”

@cl9949 2 года назад

The good thing is there are far fewer people doing this than not. All of my friends with little kids have their socials locked down and aren’t trying to make money off views. This is a really small (but loud) subset of parents which is the only thing that makes me think most of us will be okay.

@stephaniehays519 2 года назад

@@cl9949 not really,I'm afraid,it's good that it's around the one's who have common sense,but that's few and far between

@alanamileras2329 2 года назад

@@stephaniehays519 No, it's just that the ones who are stupid and doing horrible things are the ones that get attention/talked about, so it feels like it's everyone and everywhere (it's not). Most people are not spending their days like this, but certain types of people due and those people are completely toxic and awful (notice the awful tendencies they all have in common). To help you put this in perspective, you might enjoy TheDadChallengePodcast youtube channel. His entire channel is dedicated to exposing this growing problem of ridiculous "influencer culture" and bringing awareness to the issues of child 3xpl01t8t10n online through family vloggers.

@TheYazmanian 2 года назад

Even if they aren't public faces, I've seen a horrendous amount of oversharing on social media of kids; showing them sick, in hospital, in the restroom etc. It shocked me. I lose all respect for people who share their kids' very private moments.

@stephaniehays519 2 года назад

@@TheYazmanian ..👍

@gigilamoore2656 4 месяца назад

This video should have a trillion views. Seriously, the best I have seen on this subject.

@stinks7065 2 года назад

As a chronically ill person who's seen a whole bunch of ableism online and irl, the mom saying "his diagnosis will not define him" is making alarm bells ring in my head. Sentiments like that coming from (I'm assuming here) abled people usually end up being "stop using your disability/illness as an excuse" when they put that thinking into action. 😬 The reality is that many of us cannot live life the same way as those who are abled but that doesn't mean our illness or disability defines us. Ofc, I don't know anything more about this mother and the kid is still a toddler so I don't know if she's gonna be like that but all these phrases and words like 'differently abled' usually end up being ableism but with a positive-sounding twist to it.

@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 Год назад

I don’t like the term “differently abled” because to me it REEKS of toxic positivity. It’s ok to acknowledge when one has a disadvantage and then encourage them and build them up to overcome in the best way they can.

@DAVIDJONESLOCKER669 Год назад

@@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 exactly. I have a few issues piled ontop of each other. I am disabled. I need help for certain things, I have a cane for when I’m having a bad day. Back braces, braces for all my other joints if needed. I can still live life, I have my accommodations- but thats what is the key. Accommodations. I need them in order to function to my best and comfiest ability. If I was treated like an able bodied person, I would be in misery. Pain all the time, always sleeping, depressed, cranky. I would know, its how it was before my diagnosis 😂 its called a disability because you’re given the short end of the stick one way or the other; doesnt mean you deserve less, just means accommodations make you live a happier and better life. Calling it ‘differently abled’ makes me feel like youre (not you) bouncing around the fact that I am impaired in some way. Dont ignore my cane, or glorify it to make it seem like I prefer it this way

@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 Год назад

@@DAVIDJONESLOCKER669 amen to that!!

@Kayla_P99 Год назад

It struck me as something similar to what some parents of autistic kids will say to justify "therapies" that autistic people have rightfully pointed out are abusive. Basically a conform rather than accommodate mentality.

@DAVIDJONESLOCKER669 Год назад

@@Kayla_P99 Yeah. I have quite a few family members on the spectrum (getting evaluated myself). Autism does change how the brain thinks/the neurological pathways, and some things are ‘out of the box’-however, that doesn’t excuse any person from not following ‘basic’ etiquette or rules. There was a kid who used to flip people off on the bus all the time; he knew what he was doing. However, his parents always used his autism as the reason as to why he did that. Well, its up to you as the parent to teach him not to do that. Having a condition doesn’t excuse poor behavior (in most cases)

@reneerose7312 8 месяцев назад

I was not even allowed any form of social media until I was 11 (2014) and I wasn't allowed to post my face until I was thirteen. At the time I was annoyed with my mum because all my peers were allowed to do it but now this exponential rise in exploiting children has made me so thankful for that

@dominiquegio4046 2 года назад

My son was diagnosed with a mental health disorder at 13. It was heart wrenching. I wrote a story about the road that led us there (mostly as a form of therapy). I shared it with my husband, my mom and in-laws. They told me I should make it public because it would destigmatize the diagnosis and could help someone else. I really struggled with it but ultimately decided that this is my son's story to share. Period. If he decides to share it someday- that's HIS decision. I always felt a little guilty about it. This video makes me feel so much better. If being selfish protects my son- so be it. My job is to protect him FIRST. Thanks for making this video

@valentinabelladonna6159 6 месяцев назад

I really feel really sick when watching this. Thank you for your efforts. This would make me feel so awful I could not do it. You are so strong.

@scarletalayne6820 2 года назад

Thank you for talking about this- While social media came along when I was older (mainly took off in my teenage years) my late mother used to overshare medical information about me, and especially about my brother who is special needs. The fact that she had the audacity to say every little thing about my brother who still doesn't understand how social media really works and the consequences of it and even watching certain RU-vid channels, was alarming and a point of contention between me and her. I used to report her posts about my brother and got my friends to add her and do it as well, because she was exploiting my brother to get more sympathy on facebook. In terms of her sharing my medical information around 6/7 years ago now I actually got a friend of mine's parent involved who was a lawyer to write up a cease and desist to get her to stop posting private medical information about me because legally in my state once you are 16 your medical information is in relation to the child, not the parent. I would have pushed it to a lawsuit had she not stopped, but it was awful how manipulative she was to feel like it was okay to post private information about her kids for attention. -Just wanted to share my story.

@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 Год назад

I’m really sorry that happened to you. That is unacceptable.

@andrearupe8094 3 месяца назад

My mom complained on her blog about me when i was a teenager, read only by a handful of family members. I felt so betrayed and have never forgiven it. It was 15 years ago. I cant even BEGIN to imagine the damage of airing my entire childhood to millions of people

@jordynfry2941 5 месяцев назад

My daughter had rsv and I didn’t even want to be on social media because I was so scared.

@carijames1981 4 месяца назад

I seen an article yesterday that was talking about the first social media babies are now becoming adults and there’s a lot of them filing lawsuits to protect child rights better. Hopefully they get a law passed. No parent should put their kids through all the embarrassment and acting and non stop camera in their face and profit off of it.

@brittanywilliams8220 2 года назад

I’m so glad you’re making this content! I’ve always felt so uncomfortable with how much parents share their children online, some in the most inappropriate circumstances (bath photos or in swimsuits at the beach). I’m currently expecting my 1st child, and I’m iffy on sharing any photos whatsoever once baby is born. There are just far too many predators online!

@lauuura 2 года назад

Excellent video! I’m not a parent (childless by choice in my 40’s), but still feel very passionate about this topic, as my own parent has repeatedly violated my privacy by sharing my business without my permission. It’s never ok to gain clout from others’ lives, and that goes double when a minor is involved. Thank you for helping to ring awareness to this topic and reminding everyone that this behavior teeters on exploitation. 💚💚💚

@sandrajohnson9998 3 месяца назад

I got a FB when I was 12 in 2009: a man came into my DM’s for a while and kept saying he was a cop it would be ok, some men offered me over 20k to come have a 3some w me and would fly to my area, another guy latched onto the abused my father was having and used pictures similar to my favorite artists to try to get pictures out of me…. It kept going I was 12 it happens and please protect your children

@geminigurl92 4 месяца назад

My child was in and out of the hospital for 6 months (from 9 wks to right after turning 7 months old) and theres not one visit or time id be dancing during a hospital stay. Insane.

@haleynicolewbu0704 2 года назад

I fully agree with you on this topic on an influencer level, but I really needed to hear this on a personal level also. my husband and I have always been split on whether or not to post our kids on our private social media accounts. he always wanted to keep them off while I thought being private was enough to make a post here and there just “showing them off” I guess. the reality is, we don’t know everyone that we’re friends with or following on a personal level and they could be apart of the large percentage of creeps online too. seeing influencers share their children’s private info with millions is a no-brainer in how wrong and disgusting that is, but we all need to look a little closer to home too. I now see how important this truly is, especially as someone that agrees that social media is awful in general. I want to do everything I possibly can to protect my babies. this is a convicting topic for me, and I needed to hear this. thank you ❤️

@kiraf.9135 2 года назад

I just realized that Kiki is blurring the faces, not the parents. Omg some of these are despicable. 😭

@PoppySeed47 3 месяца назад

Poor Wren is being exploited by her mother who her herself is starting to look more like a predator. Dancing while your baby is in the hospital is psychopathic behaviour full stop.

@SweetlyxJules 2 года назад

Wow, I was disgusted through this entire video but the ending family? The youtube thing? ABBBBBsolutely not. The exploitation of their daughters, ending with a promise ring of sorts, is absolutely ludicrous. That shouldn’t be allowed whatsoever. Thank you for covering this Kiki

@fiona9100 Месяц назад

imagine being 13 and all the people from your school seeing a video of your parents giving you the talk 🤨

@Bella-oc2pk 2 месяца назад

You talking about the family photo album really hit home for me. My mom posted a ton of photos of me and my sister as a kid to keep family updated. One of them was a photo of me on the toilet and also in the bathtub. I swear I’ve seen those photos on other accounts. It still makes me uncomfy. They might have seemed like just a cute photo of your kid but it still makes me wonder what kind of people were seeing those photos.

@lizztherobot 2 года назад

I can’t believe there are parents who not only constantly shove a camera in their kids faces but also share their kids personal health information! That’s so crazy to me! I’m too paranoid to share anything of my kids.

@AJ.9.25 2 года назад

I've had "the talk" with my child. It was wayyyyy sooner than I expected but we've been having the conversation for years. Instead of waiting til I am ready or I think we should talk about it I just let my child come to me and they know if they are curious they can ask me anything and I will always answer honestly. We've had some very awkward conversations but it's actually been very helpful too. Instead of seeking info out online or from other kids (info that may or may not be accurate) my child comes to me and we talk about it from a safe and loving place. I keep it age appropriate by keeping it honest but good for their age and building as they grow and their questions become more targeted or complex. I heard once that its best to talk about things with your kid when they are ready not when you are ready. I've kept that in mind and it's been great for us so far.

@Foreverbabironi 3 месяца назад

My partner and I genuinely believe children under 16 shouldn’t be in media PERIOD. There’s too much room for abuse, often their education gets neglected. Infants and toddlers are literally used as props. And let’s not forget they are over working these children. It’s like child labor laws get thrown out the window for media.

@TheLoganna 2 года назад

Thank you for speaking on this. As a parent I appreciate people caring about children’s safety.

@annajefferis9231 3 месяца назад

These parents need to get off the phone and actually BE a parent to their child. Also, I would think that recording would be prohibited in the NICU.

@verakeys8912 2 года назад

I remember being a toddler and having a fear that my parents were going to film me and show people. It scared me so much. They never did this though

@Izahdnb Месяц назад

Age of consent should also be applied to consent from your kids to put them on the internet for the whole world to see.

@JocelynBlackwell 3 месяца назад

When I was 5-7 years old my mom would not let me use my name for games…

@juliiswatching 3 месяца назад

I get angry when my Mom shares my medical history with family, can't imagine how it'd be to have thousands of strangers know!

@chriscoon801 2 года назад

When social media came through the door, common sense went out the window. These poor kids. Thank you for speaking up about this!

@lindypeterson4561 6 месяцев назад

I was a new mom with a new born baby with RSV in the Hospital and let me tell you, posting a dance tiktok was the very last thing on my mind. I could barely even function let alone dance and post and I'm a dancer!! absolutely so disgusting to me.

@spop24 5 месяцев назад

These parents know EXACTLY what they're doing. Teenage girls get giggly and awkward when they eat those kinds of foods (pickles, hotdogs, corndogs etc.). A 3 yr old has no idea. But the moms do. 100% exploitation. Absolutely horrifying.

@DanielleStarry 2 года назад

As a former child, thank you. I also appreciate you mentioning you weren’t comfortable eating in front of people as a kid. I’ve been grown for many years, and I am still really weird about eating in front of people.

@kimbertree 2 года назад

Saaame!!! The opening a pop can at school made me cringe and brought back vivid memories of how uncomfortable I was (and still am) when it comes to things like that.

@chipmunkgarcia 2 года назад

Same, it's so uncomfortable.

@jazziesmum1374 2 года назад

I always thought it was just my weirdness but I'm so glad I'm not alone!! The embarrassment of eating in public has had me actually starve a few times 🤣

@Creepystalker102 2 года назад

That’s rather common for women. I’ve read that it’s because a woman eating alone in public is committing one of the greatest social faux pas in our society: fulfilling her own needs and no one else’s.

@theColorEmily Месяц назад

Also, while we spent 5 days in the PICU waiting for organ transplant, I told everyone in my family that if they took ANY pictures of her like that, I better never see them. The only picture I took was when I painted her nails and her hand was the only thing in the picture. To dance? To even have the mental or physically ability to DANCE? To think, “Let me put this on TikTok!” It’s just disgusting. Absolutely repulsive.

@jenmakayshelton4899 2 года назад

kiki, keep doing what you’re doing & making content that actually matters & needs to be talked about 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 queen kylie never misses!!!!🙌🏻👏🏻

@byooteeluhver3 2 года назад

This anything for views concept really could become a series. Anything for views drama, anything for views couples, anything for views lifestyles

@MediocreMomsClub Месяц назад

I’m obsessed with you house. The 70’s cabin vibe with those stairs and fireplace. I was obsessed with those kinda stairs as a kid

@sydastark 2 года назад

I totally agree with your take on this. It’s disgusting. As someone who is currently revisiting the traumas of childhood at the age of 37 so that I can finally move forward towards wellness, I find it all really triggering. I’m looking at how I was sexualized as a child and how it has affected my adulthood .. it wasn’t taking place online for all of those predators to see. If I grew up in a situation like this , once I was old enough to know what was happening, my relationship with my parents would be ruined.I would cut them off. I would feel like a product. I feel like a product anyways, without the financial aspects of social media. It’s 110% exploitation to use your kid for views

@liveesunflower 24 дня назад

Oversharing your business is one thing but to do it to your children is just disgusting. Poor babies

@abbyjohnson1702 2 года назад

I don't understand why there's such a massive taboo against explaining bodily processes using age appropriate terms in a safe, comfortable and private environment. The restaurant sex talk just pissed me the fuck off. That is child exploitation of the grossest caliber, and it does nothing but reinforce the idea that even your most private, personal experiences are entertainment fodder for a nameless, faceless horde of strangers to consume on their lunch break. Every single time that mother did a hair flip and smirked at the camera while filming the humiliation of her daughters... If that had been my mother, I would have gone no contact the hot second I turned 18. Those girls will never ever EVER be able to trust their parents for any reason. Hope the psychological damage was worth the views.

@a-kp4zu 2 года назад

thank you kiki for taking a firm stance on this and backing it up with examples/suggestions! this is such an effective summary of the issue

@jennikattt 4 месяца назад

The nicu dance was the most revolting thing I’ve seen in a while

@mapleleaf65 2 года назад

even my mom posting baby photos of me on facebook (some naked) for my 18th bday made me feel so panicked in the moment. After deleting I had to tell her why I didn't want any of that online. Not for friends' parents, not for the kids in my high school, certainly not for anyone else that stumbles on it outside of my profile- and that was 10 years ago now.

@camiscreatures 4 месяца назад

I know I’m a year late to this but I just saw a video on how there are other parents beefing in Florida about their custody on TikTok. The mom made a post saying something about being a single mom and making her own birthday cake for her kids to celebrate with her, and her “ex-husband” posted their custody agreement and called her a terrible person for the whole internet. It’s insane what people will do

@KaylaChase17 3 месяца назад

My Facebook is private to family/friends only and that’s the only place I randomly (2-4x a year, think birthdays and Christmas, or family photo sessions) and that is the ONLY place I’ll share photos of my children. Never would I try to make money on them on social media… yikes… some of these are just fracking cringy AF.

@KathrynHalsey 5 месяцев назад

I didn't know anything about this stuff until I found you and you are wonderful!!! What I think about is how many times I've been exhausted or in a rush to share something before I go to work or whatever and post the wrong thing... and I only have Facebook and friends and family only! I can't imagine let millions of people see even my Facebook account much less anything else! How shallow of a person do you have to be? I can understand a self help group page or something like that but just an account to watch me do whatever? Guess this is the quick way to Housewife of whatever city you are in fame! Sad!

@shea5542 10 месяцев назад

Girl, you call these people out so well. Subscribed. Let me know

@roseXevans 4 месяца назад

As someone who makes adult content, I CRINGE seeing the videos people post of their kids, I know exactly the types of things I’m asked to do for gratification.. eating, swim wear, even just talking, so when I see these things I know for a fact some creep is sexualising those poor kids. It’s just a fact. I also HATE seeing people post their kids feet

@psw1623 4 месяца назад

As a child, I always felt like I was being watched in the bathroom, like a secret camera was in there with me. Can you IMAGINE that being true?! That's exactly what these kids are experiencing!! 😭

@eileenhatton5240 4 месяца назад

I had the same thing as a child. Now I’m an adult with anxiety disorder lol.

@Codys-girl 3 месяца назад

Dude, SAME?!? Like in the air vents on the ceiling, too!! Spy movies are the biggest cause of my anxiety 😭

@toxicradiant9858 3 месяца назад

Sammmmeeeee

@Diaicy19 3 месяца назад

Same here. Felt it all the time as a kid. Later learnt that jinns (devils) loved staying in toilets. I read my dua for protection now before entering the toilet.

@agood1 3 месяца назад

it is a valid fear and their parents are doing that to them! it MUST stop

@agentcoxack7368 8 месяцев назад

Imagine the doctor tells you your newborn son has a 50% chance to live to see tomorrow and your first instinct is to dance to California Girls

@michellea8461 5 месяцев назад

Oh wow! Even doing the dance was cringe worthy to me BUT the baby could have died?? Omg!

@alyssadana5011 5 месяцев назад

Smh lol

@chefbetsy9094 5 месяцев назад

The Beastons are the worst at this. They did a gymnastics thing with hubby dropping pregnant mom

@michellea8461 5 месяцев назад

@@chefbetsy9094 omg

@Faceless_Cryptid 4 месяца назад

@@chefbetsy9094My mom used to watch her channel back in like 2016-2019 or so, and it was so weird watching her slowly transition into that type of exploitative mom. Really sad.

@lololpoppy Год назад

Even my mum talking to her friends about my shitty kid behaviour was a betrayal. Never mind the ENTIRE PLANET

@ronnib4294 Год назад

Facts, I don't talk to my mom anymore. I don't trust her

@emily9296 Год назад

Grow the fuck up. Lmao. A betrayal

@carmen8958 Год назад

THIS!!! i remember being mad and hurt at my mom for talking about my personal issues and literal trauma to the FAMILY. i can’t even fathom the whole world like you said, we need to start a petition to implement child safety and protection laws on the internet and as influencers bc that would’ve RUINED me.

@eggbath595 Год назад

My mom literally made sure everybody on instagram knew I had surgery and had a mass removed then got violently sick with lime disease while still healing and could barely walk and wasn’t eating for weeks honestly wtf 😐

@MamaMOB Год назад

That takes it too far. That's HER life she's talking about with her friends. You're not the ONLY person that matters. If you don't want your mom to have to bitch about you to SOMEONE don't give her a reason to bitch. Her life matters too. Also did you ever think maybe you're bad behavior was a betrayal to your mother? Did you ever think you were the one who did the betraying not her? Did you ever think maybe you were the problem? Or are you in narcissistic asshole?

@Michelle-xk9gl 5 месяцев назад

My oldest son was in NICU. My only concern at the time was if he was going to live. I can't believe that anyone would dance around a very sick child.

@RaechelWest 4 месяца назад

Exactly that is so disturbing and disgusting 😢low oxygen I would be praying and holding my baby not dancing around ,that was sick as hell

@mommy2libras 3 месяца назад

Even if she was feeling relief from some good news from a doctor, can you imagine being another parent there in the NICU with you child, worried to death and seeing this ditzy broad dancing around like it's party time in there? Wtf?

@Katz_Pajamas 3 месяца назад

Agreed...Even if someone did a dance in a weird break of reality as an odd way to cope, the most disturbing thing of all is to record it, then have the mental awareness and time to sit and review the video, edit it, and then post it. Bcuz after all that, even the farthest of reaches can't excuse that behavior as anything else but pure callousness. It's psychopathic.

@jillianbaer5217 3 месяца назад

My daughter was in the NICU for 3 months. She was born with a ❤ defect. Had surgery at 2 mos old. They let me stay in her room for a month during recovery. I could barely eat! How can anyone be dancing 😔

@aftonrae4038 3 месяца назад

I think it’s completely cringey and weird when I see somebody setting their phone up in a public place to make a video. I can only imagine what those nurses and doctors would be thinking had they seen some mom doing tik tok dance in front of their sick child in the nicu.

@ciaradacosta-reyes5028 2 года назад

The mom dancing in front of her baby in NICU will forever be one of the most unhinged things I’ve ever seen.

@helenas7605 2 года назад

Same here, I was truly shocked when I saw that

@1goofymommy 2 года назад

I would normally agree, however…sit down….there was girl doing tik toks in the hospital with her stillborn.

@sadmermaid 2 года назад

@@1goofymommy i think she had *serious* mental health problems. Like more than the standard.

@darktwilightwolf09 2 года назад

@@1goofymommy WHAT?! What’s their user name?

@1goofymommy 2 года назад

@@darktwilightwolf09 oh gosh, it’s been a while. Lemme look it up.

@marydot 4 месяца назад

influencers stop treating your babies like objects challenge (impossible)

@alannahartmann4491 4 месяца назад

LOLLL

@Gambsmoore 2 месяца назад

lmaoooo

@racheldodsworth7902 2 месяца назад

Finally, a good Tik Tok challenge! Next challenge, have these shitty parents eat Tide pods.

@eh1126 2 года назад

Someone I had on Facebook made a whole post about their daughter’s SA story and how brave she was. Her daughter was at the time 18 but had been SA’d since she was a kid by an family friend. I was shocked that a mom would feel like she had the right to share something so private about their child and make the decision to divulge something so personal.

@bunnylacy2097 2 года назад

Omg… I have been through something similar and if my mom did that to me I would be so so upset. Like mortified. It would be hard to not dissociate and have to re-read the post over and over until I could process that it’s indeed real. Ugh that’s awful..

@jessicatherabbitxo 2 года назад

That's disgusting

@cherryvoid5238 2 года назад

wow that's def not okay I would have freaked out if that happened to me and on fb everyone saw that.

@heyguysits-nicole 2 года назад

my mom never posted anything online thankfully but she did tell family and friends stuff like this in regards to me, some of whom tactlessly clued me in that she'd told them (for which i'm actually thankful & i'm sure my mom wasn't as it solidified my desire for her to know absolutely none of it) and to this day i still have no idea who in my family's circle of relatives and friends knows these things about me that i hadn't even willingly told my parents in the first place and my relationship with my mom is permanently damaged, to the extent that almost 10 years after this occurred my mom still knows very little about my private life even when i'm doing well

@angelthedemon666 Год назад

this is awful but also dangerous, cause creeps seek out people who have been victims, im speaking from experience that when i told people about my csa they went on to hurt me too

@Clisare 3 месяца назад

Wren’s videos aren’t being misconstrued. Her mother knows exactly what she’s doing.

@emilys9524 3 месяца назад

How is she not being investigated by law enforcement?

@JiannaSandoval 3 месяца назад

Exactly. She saw those posts go more "viral" and now has her daughter in MORE bathtubs and hotdog eating vids. 🤢🤢🤢

@janellcrews6108 3 месяца назад

Yep, and it's sad, I wouldn't have thought about that 30 years ago, but people are gross, and the internet made it easier for that stuff, I guess. I would never have thought anything about my child eating a hot dog being a bad thing that's how far gone some people are.

@o.m9514 Месяц назад

We don’t know that though.

@Iaap952 Месяц назад

@@o.m9514let’s not be obtuse. It’s pretty obvious she knows what she’s doing

@bekahkashtan 11 месяцев назад

What scary is we used to tell children to be careful with strangers on the Internet because you never know what could happen and now we’re having to teach parents this lesson and I’m very confused on how we’re going backwards.

@citlalliyepez5379 8 месяцев назад

That’s exactly what’s happening we’re just going completely backwards like becoming everything we’ve worked to not be building up this generation it’s so sad

@victoriasweet7870 6 месяцев назад

@@sauronthedeceiver3363exactly

@Redeemed.of.YHVH.thru.Christ 6 месяцев назад

It’s called “progressivism”. Society has gone so far backwards that people don’t know the difference between a man and a woman these days. People think men can menstruate and get pregnant. It’s pretty simple. If you were born with spérm, you’re a dude, and you can’t menstruate or get pregnant. If you were born with eggs and ovaries, you’re a woman, and you have the only reproductive system capable of carrying a baby and nourishing it for 9 months. If you were born with spèrm, and you shop for tampons, and claim you’re having severe menstrual cramps, and you think you’re pregnant, please get some help. At the rate society is going backwards, imagine what things will be like in another decade or so.🤦🏼‍♀️

@sproductionsinc 6 месяцев назад

@@sauronthedeceiver3363 The parents who went on about "stranger danger," are now the people who believe everything they read online.

@gemstar7286 5 месяцев назад

Yeah It's this new generation who are social media obsessed. They feel they have to film & document everything for views & likes , it's very sad & annoying 🙄🤦‍♀️. If social media was shutdown tomorrow for good ,I literally would NOT miss it. The only social media i browse is RU-vid, which is also problematic at times .

@achristine6268 2 года назад

After reading Jennette McCurdy’s book I’m Glad My Mom Died and knowing how her own mom exploited and abused her I find it super disturbing parents are doing all of these things but online for everyone to see. People are way too trusting of the internet and have no idea how much they’re hurting their kids in the long run.

@kimmiebraunthal4874 2 года назад

I know - I just finished her book and I can't even imagine if her mom had had access to TikTok and such when she was a kid

@donalpaccio4233 2 года назад

Great link with the book 📖! Great reference 👍🏻! People lost their mind

@dareisayit 2 года назад

It also brings to light the idea that can kids actually *consent* to being on social media/televisions/movies? They don’t understand what they’re giving up/the consequences/benefits, so how can they make that decision, even if they say yes? Jennette’s story (and a lot of child actors) discusses how her want was purely to make her happy. That’s not consent 😬

@shannonnichols3415 2 года назад

I just saw her on Mayim Bialik’s podcast not long ago! Very interesting!

@sweetlady1616 Год назад

exactly they’re way too trusting. and whenever u point it out to them they’ll say ur “victim blaming” like nobody is defending predators, we’re just saying that bad people also have internet access and they will use it to do bad things.

@obstipuit 3 месяца назад

the mom pressuring her daughter to say out loud what got her own mother pregnant, explicitly, in public not only irl but online, is borderline abusive. it's harassment. the purity ring makes it creepier. imagine if a kid wanted to ask questions during the talk but they can't bc they know thousands of people are watching WTF?????

@kateywallis1238 3 месяца назад

Absolutely lost for words vile humans want locking up

@brigittefalgout1074 2 года назад

I totally agree with this. Remember that feeling when you heard your mom on the phone telling someone about an embarrassing thing you did? I do. I’m almost thirty. My heart still has that sinking feeling thinking about it. I feel like my mom liked embarrassing me when I did something wrong.

@ashleyw6160 2 года назад

Ooohh girl, yep...so many horribly embarrassing memories. My mom used to tell her family & friends EVERYTHING about me. I KNOW she liked embarrassing me!!

@voldemortsniece3019 2 года назад

Yep. And even if you say please don’t tell anyone else’s they will still tell their friends because they have a right to tell their friends 🙄 why I don’t tell my mom a lot of stuff as a adult now. She just gossips and labels it as catching up with her friends

@bro6568 2 года назад

God Bless my mom and dad they were just never open with anyone 😂 I don’t know if that’s not normal they never really had openness with anyone but each other and I’m now so glad at 34 they didn’t bc it’s just not something to be talked about. My aunt was the only one we shared with but she had two girls and that’s all we needed and felt comfortable with.

@ashleyw6160 2 года назад

@@bro6568 Sounds like u were definitely blessed in that way!!! 💕

@louisacoote2337 2 года назад

Or just having my picture taken ( for a family photo album) in my teens. That was bad enough!

@alexisp621 2 года назад

As a parent who likes to consume parenting content-the creators I respect and listen to the most don’t show their kids at all. I have zero idea what their children even look like and they still manage to put out content that reaches millions of parents. They still succeed and make a living without exploiting their chikdren. There are no excuses.

@AlyseA1689 2 года назад

Same!! I watch a few not many but 3/4 and I have no idea how many kids genders or ages and I’m ok with that. I’ve learned so much from them and respect them

@LucyStokesOceansofNotions 2 года назад

Exactly! You can give parental advice and education without showing your children

@sassagrass7095 2 года назад

See, that I can respect- giving advice, product reviews, blogs, how-to's, etc WITHOUT involving their child/ren in their video. I'm mortified by these tiktoks with children involved. I also don't think kids should have social media until they're at the very least 17. I don't even have kids, but all of that is way, way, wayyy too damn much.

@MarieRA0510 2 года назад

Do you think this is something “normal” everyday parents should do as well? I have a private IG and will sometimes post family photos there (never anything embarrassing for my kids - like their health issues or tantrums) but now I’m rethinking even that. Wondering your thoughts as a fellow parent.

@LAbeauty316 2 года назад

you can educate parents without exposing your children and that's what they don't care about because they know if they show their kids they'll get more money and views.

@Larems879 4 месяца назад

My daughter was in the ICU (at age 3) for about 5 days. By the second day we knew she was going to be OK, but it didn’t stop me from breaking down in tears every time I left her room or ran home for supplies. It took so long to recover from the fear and utter panic of that entire event. It’s been over 10 years and I still remember how it felt …and it bordered on desperation. But it wasn’t just my own experience in being on the pediatric ICU. I would take her for walks by pulling her in a little wagon with an IV pole attached. I tried not to be nosy, but it was hard to ignore the fact that some of those kids didn’t have the positive outcome my child had. It was clear some of those kids might not make it home. I would’ve felt horrible celebrating my child’s wins in that type of environment. So So SO many other parents and families were suffering with unbearable pain and experiencing just a glimpse of that was incredibly humbling I think it’s thoughtless and self-serving that this mother created a TikTok dance video like this. I think she did it for views and clout and engagement rather than a true expression of her relief. Can you imagine how other parents with kids in the NICU at the same time felt watching her video?

@nightcoreeclub 3 месяца назад

i had to stay in the hospital for a few days right after i was born and my mom still gets emotional about having had to go home and some point and leave me at the hospital. she always says “i was absolutely beside myself”❤ and she would get scared and call the doctor because i was a quiet baby and rarely cried….

@nbrangan 2 месяца назад

100% been in this situation with my 18 month old and RSV & spewed in my mouth when I saw this. Dancing when my kid is hooked up to machines to eat and breathe, and doctors can't find a cannulation position to give fluids is just the craziest concept. This is next-level insane

@Crocady1 2 года назад

I was born with quite a few deformities that had to be corrected with surgery. At 4 years old I broke my femur and it was only at 19 years old that the doctors realized what was wrong, and performed the right surgery. I've only been walking for the past 9 years, sometimes with support. But I've spent 28 years being embarrassed with a mother telling complete strangers my story. Colleges, shop attendants, family friends, people walking their dogs on the beach, basically anyone who just looked at my scars would get a full download; from infancy to adulthood. I've had a lot of health problems, but I've had no privacy. My consent was never asked. Here you don't know who I am, and here I can share a little of my own story, but it is my choice. I have to beg my mother not to tell people about my private life and then she always gets defensive. Please, please, please... DON'T put your children on ANY social media. Live for your children. Live wisely.

@loganmiller6603 Год назад

People really have kids and think they own them. It’s so controlling and gross. Like, here’s my non-autonomous dancing monkey. I’m sorry you grew up with no privacy.

@Lankynibs Год назад

YES. I’m disabled and chronically ill and my mom would just start explaining my whole (private) life story with random people and it was so uncomfortable, dehumanizing, and embarrassing. These kids with influencer parents are going to have such a tough time while they grow up and in adulthood because everything about them is exposed, vulnerable, and picked at. It’s just awful.

@hootieq Год назад

Same thing happened with me I’m 18 years old but when I was younger my mom will tell everyone about my skin condition ichthyosis when people would ask she would explain every little detail when people ask me and I get to answer I tell them what I think they need to know I tell them what it is and that I am completely fine but my mom thinks that she needs to tell them everything every surgery I’ve had every thing that I do for my skin and sometimes she even shows pictures of me when I was younger versus now because she thinks that I am some big inspiration that people should be inspired by me just walking around and living a normal life she would always say look at my daughter she couldn’t walk when she was five isn’t that crazy like dude stop they don’t need to know that just let them think that I’m a normal kid who has a skin condition don’t tell them everything

@Elvenpath Год назад

Parents who seem to live through their childrens disabilities are creepy. I am hearing disabled, have scoliosis, bowel disease, migraine and was born with 11 fingers. My parents never shared any of it unless it was relevant. Only people who knew about my hearing disability etc. were teachers and people who saw me so regularly they would notice something is not normal. Teachers needed to know because it benefitted me that they know and the people we saw regularly would have started to wonder why I'm seeing doctors monthly when I was a toddler.

@firstnamelastname-vf1nd 9 месяцев назад

I literally almost DIED because of my medical condition and my mom dumps every tiny traumatic detail of it on the mailman with a big smile like! how do you see this as ok??? what do you gain from this??? she didn't even wait, she was telling random strangers *while i was in the hospital*

@najatalfahham1086 3 месяца назад

The woman dancing next to her baby in the hospital bed really makes me think the end is near

@Minispun 5 месяцев назад

This is the reason why I respect influencer/youtube parents who DO NOT show their children or say anything about their children on THEIR platforms - *CHILDREN ARE NOT PROPS*

@Claire-er7yk 2 года назад

To anyone thinking she’s being an alarmist: an immediate family member of mine worked in an office that did rehabilitation and case management for sex offenders. This stuff - the hashtag monitoring, the photo sharing networks - is too real.

@summerbummer1930 2 года назад

What's more alarming is when a sex offender is actively on probation or parole, it's quite common (especially with cases where the victim was a minor and/or the predator utilized the internet to commit their crime) for one of their conditions not allowing them to use social media. But then once they've completed their probation or parole after however many years, even though they're still on the registry they can join social media again. The offenders this might apply to (it varies state to state) can be those convicted of crimes like statutory rape and attempted solicitation of a minor. Crimes that carry a max sentence of ~10 years give or take. Of course, those are just the ones that got caught and are known.

@Nat-hu4gq 2 года назад

@@summerbummer1930 yes of course that's more alarming 👍

@pinkbombshellcasing2672 2 года назад

Research shows that 1 in 10 children will be the victim of sexual abuse before their 18th birthday - by an older youth or adult. Gotta be careful.

@TheFitTherapist 2 года назад

Nope, she’s not even close to alarmist. I am a social worker and have seen some stuff that made me just get off of social completely.

@meme-bu8qu 2 года назад

Commenting so this doesn't get lost in the sea of comments in the future.

@MichelleBln Год назад

My favorite part is when those people claim they do it for „educational purposes“. As if raising children was this brand new thing no one has ever done before. Thank god for these wise social media moms who finally teach us on how to potty train kids. 🙏

@VonVikoGoat Год назад

specially considering that their parenting methods are always crap like I'm not a parent, but you don't have to be a pilot to witness an airplane crash.

@faithbustos611 Год назад

and the thing is if it was there is a way to show and educate for tips on parenting without showing and exploiting ur children.

@rebekahtyler7406 Год назад

I agree people do it wrong sometimes, but some people do it right. I just had twin boys and have looked to a lot of people online for advise on different struggles I’m having because no one in my life has twins. Some people never babysat or had younger siblings so they might not know how to do things like potty train or deal with certain situations. Now again there is a difference between being informative and exploitative. And you’re right that to be informative you don’t typically need to show your kids.

@RachelDoesntknow 10 месяцев назад

You can also tell stories about your learning experiences without actual photo/video of the child...

@nuclearwessels2078 8 месяцев назад

@@RachelDoesntknow Yep. Momma Cusses is a good channel for that.

@tea120 3 месяца назад

Girl, you can say it. These are BAD parents. Absolutely unbelievable behavior from parents.

@itslounotme 2 года назад

the restaurant sex conversation was TERRIFYING to witness… the way the mother is trying to make her daughter say something explicit for views. you can explain safe sex to children by stating FACTS that they have curiosities about and not asking silly questions or making a child uncomfortable.

@Emily-fe6yb Год назад

It’s by NEN fam (not enough Nelson’s) and it’s called “having the talk with NayVee) they did ask her permission to post and haven’t posted their other kids who weren’t comfortable. Not saying it’s not odd but 🤷🏼‍♀️

@mackaroni9792 Год назад

Gave me Shane Dawson vibes for real ☠️

@mackaroni9792 Год назад

@@Emily-fe6yb doesn't matter if they asked permission, she is a CHILD

@Emily-fe6yb Год назад

@@mackaroni9792 She is 11 in this video. She was old enough to consent. A younger kid I’d agree with with no hesitation that it’s not appropriate. For NayVee tho I think she’s old enough. They also gave her a purity ring in this video and explained that to her and stuff. I think that it’s weird but I’m just saying I have a brother her age and am 15 myself and still think she knew what was happening for the most part. She can have it removed when she’s older if she’s uncomfortable.

@mackaroni9792 Год назад

@@Emily-fe6yb be real, 11 year Olds still don't understand what posting things on the internet entail, how nothing can really be deleted from the internet, etc. Why are you making excuses? What is the benefit of posting these things? None, but there's a list about a mile long of reasons not to You really think an 11 year old grasps the predators watching this content? Get real

@nikit0r 2 года назад

I know a lot of these parents say they get their child’s permission before posting them…not realizing that a minor, especially very very young children, have no clue what that even means..They can’t provide informed consent..so it doesn’t count..Asking a 5 yr old if it’s okay, doesn’t mean crap.. I really appreciate this video!

@AverageSeaMonster 8 месяцев назад

At that age, all their opinions are based on what their parents do and don't approve of. Children look up to the people who raise them, so even if they don't want to be posted publicly they're more likely to go along with it anyway to make their parents happy

@jennifergeorge7280 6 месяцев назад

Yup. Kids can't consent.

@bethanythatsme 2 года назад

As an autistic adult, I would have been MORTIFIED if my parents had used my life as content. Education about autism shouldn't include disclosing your child's personal and intimate life. I'm really concerned for this generation of children who's lives will be so documented & shared before they can even grasp the concept of consent.

@tamara2641 2 года назад

There was one woman who had a disabled child (I can’t remember the child’s exact disability but they were immobile and required a wheelchair) who literally took photos of her changing her child’s incontinence pad on the floor of a McDonald’s because she wanted to “raise awareness” about the lack of accessible facilities at fast food restaurants. Literally her child on the floor of a McDonald’s bathroom with their pants down 😳

@poplillyp 2 года назад

As an autistic adult, "autism mommies" make me physically sick. Listen to autistic adults, neuroclastic and other such autistic community led information sources if you wanna learn about autism. (never Autism Speaks)

@bethanythatsme 2 года назад

@@tamara2641 how humiliating for that child!!! So gross.

@katherinerinck3722 2 года назад

"Used my life as content": That is such a simple yet perfect way of putting it.

@cestlaguy 2 года назад

Very well said. Absolutely disgusted to hear about the McDonalds story.

@Sandistia 5 месяцев назад

Coming from someone who was groomed at 13-14 by a 21yo I commend you for your videos and I completely agree that children do NOT belong on the internet.

@ryanbayer1012 2 месяца назад

I was groomed at 12-14 by my 45 year old neighbor! It is absolutely terrible and disgusting what these parents are doing just for money!!

@Sandistia 2 месяца назад

@@ryanbayer1012 I am sorry that happened to you. Things like that really do affect you throughout life in different ways. I have no words for parents who prioritize money over the safety and health of their children. It's disgusting.

@ryanbayer1012 2 месяца назад

@Sandistia I hope you're doing better today 🩷. It's been nearly a decade since I was groomed and thankfully my parents put a real quick stop before something worse could've happened. Unfortunately I think I was too young to understand what happened at just 12, so I can confidently say that these young children most certainly don't know what's going on! I hope these parents put a stop to it!

@Sandistia 2 месяца назад

@@ryanbayer1012 I am doing better today. I really started to do better when I saw it for what it was. Unfortunately, my mother was unaware for a few years and ended up giving my virginity to this predator when I was only 14. At the time I really believed they cared for me and it was real. I can confirm that children this young do not fully understand what is going on and what it means to be sexually active especially with someone so much older. I hope that you were able to heal from your experience. ❤

@ryanbayer1012 2 месяца назад

@Sandistia that's horrific. I'm so sorry to hear but glad you are healing 💗 the world is a beautiful and scary place

@danic1806 2 года назад

Can’t wait for the tell-alls from these children in 20 years. There needs to be laws against this, can’t leave it to stupid parents to exercise basic judgment.

@pusbabe 2 года назад

It will be the typical, the laws won't change until children/people are hurt. It's very sad. Though I hope all these youtubers shedding light on this will make a difference.

@printesa51 2 года назад

Tik tok moms have taught me that the amount of narcissists in world is much larger than I initially thought

@sharkbite5613 2 года назад

I believe the statistics, don't quote me, something like 1/20 people are sociopaths/narcissists.

@tavern2468 2 года назад

True. But people have to remember narcissist vary in degrees it’s a spectrum

@donalpaccio4233 2 года назад

Great observation. 👍🏻 with social media, we can finally see them very clearly

@pc.102 2 года назад

Same here….Narcissism and lack of common sense

@kkap895 2 года назад

taught me that beileve all woman and woman would be great at anything cause they are women, was way off.

@Angryoyster 9 месяцев назад

People have been potty training their kids for YEARS without the need for “influencers” to show them how. I need these mums to so BFFR right now about educational content.

@Hearth123 5 месяцев назад

Right?! And even if you argued it was good to teach people, you could do it without showing the kid, naming the kid, etc. make a step by step meme and share it without the kid attached to it

@uglyhandpics 5 месяцев назад

Yeah, God forbid you have to read a book instead

@Phushprada1 2 года назад

I cannot imagine my kids walking around their school and everybody knows everything about them including personal daily lives. It’s ridiculous that parents do this in this day and age. Let alone the predators, it’s just not normal!!

@KellyKnowlesArt 2 года назад

omg i was so focused on the predators it didn't occur to me that these kids' peers have access to their videos too. imagine everyone in your high school has seen you potty training?!?!?! mortifying

@jenn7753 Год назад

That’s another difference with child actors, their peers are seeing them play a character. They aren’t putting personal embarrassing moments out there to be seen and judged. Not that child acting doesn’t have its own problems but at least there is that layer of separation from their personal lives.

@seigelfritze Год назад

@@KellyKnowlesArt i didn’t even think about that!!! that would be so traumatic

@chilltheheckoutwithava1454 Год назад

Well it IS normal, that’s the problem 😅. We need to un-normalize it.

@alexandrajanee6149 10 месяцев назад

As if school isn’t bad enough for most of us

@SulkyKarris Год назад

When I was a teenager - severly depressed, suffering from PTSD and being suicidal because of it - my mother told all her friends about my mental health struggles. Luckily only in IRL but still. So thank you for being angry about stuff like this. A stranger on the internet has more compassion for children being exploited than their actual parents. Thank you.

@claudiavy Год назад

I went no contact with my mom for the same reason. That crap is so hurtful :(

@ElinWinblad 8 месяцев назад

On the one hand, I can understand her, telling like one or two if she herself was struggling on how to handle it for you as a parent, but if you just blatantly told everybody just so she could have sympathy from them or something then yeah that’s horrible

@vivianharper4249 6 месяцев назад

@@ElinWinbladagree of course it doesn’t need to be shared all over but sometimes parents will discuss something with a friend that is a parent also. Sometimes they are not sure what to do and said friend might be able to give some advice

@katiemcgee2163 2 года назад

Wow. My son was in the nicu for 10 days after he was born. Social media was the furthest thing from my mind at the time. I can’t believe she did that.

@hurst-cs2jh 2 года назад

Hello Katie, how are you doing?

@kayk2956 2 года назад

You sound like a mom who has maternal instinct. I have a severely disabled son who has had severe medical emergencies which require hospital stays. I have 3 other children who all have ended up in the emergency room and I never even thought about recording a video to post online. My only concern was the health of my children. I’m blown away by the amount of parents who use their childrens misfortune in an attempt to post videos so people can watch. When kids are in the hospital they deserve the same amount of privacy as adults. There are so many reality shows on and it seems like being admitted to the hospital is the best way to garner attention. When my kids get hurt I tend to panic even though I was an emt for years and became a deputy sheriff. I’ve seen everything but when it happens to my children all my experience and training goes out the window. I have to calm myself down and let muscle memory kick in. These days women get pregnant for outside attention then use their children to get attention. It’s really sad.

@Stephaniesocials 2 года назад

Same, my son was in the nicu for 2 days and I was devastated.

@kkap895 2 года назад

I starting crying when during my wife first pregnancy the baby heart beat went off monitor. I guess it's normal nurse came in told my wife to roll a certain way, it came back on and nurse left. it was Cleary no big deal and it took me 30 mins to stop shaking

@StrawberryStrout Год назад

Same! I didn’t tell social media for over 3 months when I had my youngest! Like I was getting messages from people concerned because I went from being pregnant to silent (friends obviously) but my baby was the only thing on my mind

@henkagomez 3 месяца назад

“thankfully now been deleted” if i had a videos of my kid on the internet that 17 million people were potentially watching i would not be able to shut my eyes ever again thinking how many people saved that to their phones