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Are Indian weddings a waste of money? 

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Weddings are, more often than not, a reason for a huge celebration. In India, we take weddings very seriously! Lengthy guest lists, themed decorations, loud bands and a sumptuous food spread- we have it all! But all that comes at a huge cost- A report suggests that 60% of Indian famillies spend more than their annual income on expenditures at a wedding! Which then brings us to our main question- Why do Indians spend so much on weddings? Those that are in favour of lavish weddings would say the reason is obvious- its a once in a lifetime event- we all need to celebrate our big day. But there are others who believe that it is a waste of money- that it is not okay to spend so much on just one celebration. In this video, we discuss the lavish Indian wedding celebrations, with a peek into the past. We even try and look into both the positive and the negative aspects of such spendings.
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00:00 Introduction
01:38 Why do Indians spend so much on weddings?
02:48 Reasons a)Economic Growth
03:19 Reasons a)Bollywood
05:24 Reasons a)Influence of social media
05:52 Why do weddings matter? Social status
07:27 Application of the social status a)Dowry
07:51 Application of the social status a)Number of guests
08:34 Why are big weddings a problem?
09:34 But why expensive weddings may be a good thing?
10:25 Conclusion

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@mohak_mangal
@mohak_mangal Год назад
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@kgito3994
@kgito3994 Год назад
Dharmendra dhakad duniya ka sarvashreshth news channel
@alpha9822
@alpha9822 Год назад
Can you tell instances of status related to marriages in India vs abroad? @sochbymm Any paper or YT video will do. How people define status in different countries?
@kulwindersingh-id6xj
@kulwindersingh-id6xj Год назад
CONGRATULATIONS SIR FOR MARRIAGE SIR HUM . SOCH REHE THAY KII AAP ABHI GRADUATION KER REHE HO
@omnipotent3955
@omnipotent3955 Год назад
Sabka chtya kata.hum yhi soch k khush they ki tum humari tarah hi akhand single hai
@blinkingblank
@blinkingblank Год назад
भाई मैं आशा करता हूं आप इस कॉमेंट को पढ़ रहे हो मैं एक लोअर मिडल क्लास से आता हूं और मेरे घर पर जब शादी पड़ती है तो कम से कम 5000 लोग खाना खाते हैं मैं उत्तर प्रदेश के एक छोटे से जिले से हूं और बचपन से यह मैं देखता आया हूं मेरे घर में मेरे होश सम्हालने से लेकर अब तक लगभग 10 शादियां हो चुकी और उनमें एवरेज ले ले तो कोरोना टाइम के दो शादियों को छोड़कर लगभग सारी शादियों में 5000 या उससे ज्यादा ही लोग खाना खाते हैं उनको कोई मतलब नहीं है किसका शादी है किसका क्या है हमारे यहां से काट जाता है वह लोग आते हैं खाना खाते हैं जाते हैं मुझे यह नहीं करना है पर इससे मेरे घर वाले नाराज हो जाएंगे मैं जानता हूं अब आप यह सोचो कि एक लोअर मिडिल क्लास का होते हुए क्योंकि हम एक राजपूत हैं इसलिए समाज में अपनी छवि को बनाए रखने के लिए हमारे परिवार के लोग इतने सारे लोगों को इनवाइट करते हैं और अपने पावर का प्रदर्शन करते हैं व्हिच इस टोटली नॉनसेंस आई वेटर इन्वेस्ट दिस मनी इन सम स्टॉक्स एंड फंड्स
@Joshpods
@Joshpods Год назад
I didn't even know he was married 😂😂
@mayankrao4122
@mayankrao4122 Год назад
Me also😂😂♥️
@hmm8165
@hmm8165 Год назад
same bro
@suxsfulrecovery7161
@suxsfulrecovery7161 Год назад
same just found out about this yesterday
@finalboss__
@finalboss__ Год назад
Fr
@naitikmehta4141
@naitikmehta4141 Год назад
@@suxsfulrecovery7161 how?
@mohak_mangal
@mohak_mangal Год назад
Only true fans knew that I am married. If you now know, welcome to the club ❤
@lofisonggg
@lofisonggg Год назад
Thanks bro ❤️
@xyzguesswho9537
@xyzguesswho9537 Год назад
so those all who didnt knew mohak is married are no more true fans ! duh :( u lost a true fan today mohak. now am only fan 😆
@arvindjain05
@arvindjain05 Год назад
@@xyzguesswho9537 After seeing your comment Mohak be like - yaha mai phas gya 🥲
@ADH1177
@ADH1177 Год назад
I know seen your previous images
@dartgroup2006
@dartgroup2006 Год назад
We up mohak
@aasthashrivastava4644
@aasthashrivastava4644 Год назад
I have a colleague who did court marriage, didn't even take a day off for that, just said BRB in 2-3hrs got married came back and resumed his work lol. It's not like he was forced to do that it was all his choice! He is an inspiration to me now
@spellcheck5393
@spellcheck5393 Год назад
How everyone agreed to this :|
@hiddenskeptic3464
@hiddenskeptic3464 Год назад
King 👑
@AKASHSingh-ku7fi
@AKASHSingh-ku7fi Год назад
Aastha Shrivastava क्या आप दिल्ली पुलिस के सब से बड़ा अधिकारी हो। CP OF DELHI POLICE साल 2020 के करीब।
@princepavan9433
@princepavan9433 Год назад
BRB ?
@hiddenskeptic3464
@hiddenskeptic3464 Год назад
@@princepavan9433 be right back
@ejanthkarramnarayan2700
@ejanthkarramnarayan2700 Год назад
I just want to add story of my friend. His family was of 4 people. His father, mother, sister and him. His father is a retired govt employee. He is a bright student. His father saved a lot of money for the marriage of my friend's sister. Savings were done in such critical manner that he had to cancel his admission in a well renowned University even after qualifying the entrance test. His father had money required for the fee but that money was in the savings for sister's marriage. Father got the sister married to a rich guy grandly. Now their condition is so bad. My friend is struggling a lot for money with very low paying jobs and increasing expenses. If I compare his father was richer than my father but now he borrows money. I'm not showing him down but frustrated with the overhyped "Beti ki Shaadi" concept where parents think for daughter's future ignoring son's thinking he can survive. Yes a man can survive but this economic injustice between son and daughter is bad. Who should be blamed here. The father or the society. Jo status ke liye yeh sab Kiya wahi status ab na raha.
@akankshamishra7101
@akankshamishra7101 Год назад
The FATHER
@akankshamishra7101
@akankshamishra7101 Год назад
Society ham hi banate hain
@MR-ml5ij
@MR-ml5ij Год назад
Sister ko stand Lena chahiye tha ki wo brother ka future kharab nhi karegi .
@MR-ml5ij
@MR-ml5ij Год назад
@Black WhiteWe all are sailing in a similar boat ⛵ . Every one is struggling to settle and society is still very orthodox , hardly interested to solve problems facing new generation children 😕😔
@aditi946
@aditi946 9 месяцев назад
That money is solely wasted on dowry annd to showoff to the grooms side about their status . Its not that theyy think guys can survive without money its a shame on a family if their daughter can't get married . And for marriage these grooms want a hefty dowry ofc . Theyy regret it when theybare gettingbtheir daughter is getting married and then do the same thing whenn its their son's turn . Where do you get these new concpets of gender bias 😅 matlab kuch bhi
@zishanshaikh1751
@zishanshaikh1751 Год назад
Mine was a lockdown wedding and 25 was the restriction 👍😁 But I am still answering people why they were not invited 😂
@slayypoint126
@slayypoint126 Год назад
I think marriage should be banned in India, at least for next 20 years......
@soumyadeepsengupta4178
@soumyadeepsengupta4178 Год назад
yea my uncle also got married in those restrictions but it was not very expensive🤣🤣🤣
@Blackpill149
@Blackpill149 Год назад
They love eating for free
@Fekuchand_
@Fekuchand_ Год назад
@@slayypoint126 भाई बिना marriage के भी बच्चे हो सकते है 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@meenaz8
@meenaz8 Год назад
Same here
@HauntingTube
@HauntingTube Год назад
At my native place, people usually spend around 50% (sometimes more) of their lifetime savings on marriage (considering they have a single kid, 2-3 bacche hai toh usi hisaab se adjust). I know a few people jinhone apna jameen bech dia shaadi karwane ke lie. I have raised this question and they feel proud to have done that. To each their own, but even I find it a lot. Like spend karo, bas jameen bech ke shaadi karne ka sense nhi banta.
@yugsavla3872
@yugsavla3872 Год назад
Kaha se ho
@Crauniverse
@Crauniverse Год назад
Bro it's like karma when people have their boy marriage they take money from girls family and when they have girls marriage they gave money to boy family .
@strawhuh5639
@strawhuh5639 Год назад
video lao jldi kya karrhe ho 3 din se
@arveen5361
@arveen5361 Год назад
Sir? How you here? Man of culture i see It's good to see that I've subscribed to both the channels
@utkarsh988
@utkarsh988 Год назад
Aapki shadi me kitne lag gye 😏😏
@Abhimanyu19
@Abhimanyu19 Год назад
Accepting the fact that "I'm privileged" might sound like boasting but he said that with all Sanity.. Unlike star kids saying "Humne struggle Kiya he, 50kgs loose kiya falaana dhimkana" We've learned all shitty things from Bollywood..It's high time to follow influencers like Mohak❤️
@blah9095
@blah9095 Год назад
I don’t think we need to follow someone rather listen to everyone’s opinions and take decisions that would work for you or make sense for you.
@IT_concepts
@IT_concepts Год назад
One of my friends papa... Won't spend money on her education.. Because of her marriage he want to save the money.. This is still ground reality of our society.. And there are already so many...
@ShwetabhSenpai
@ShwetabhSenpai Год назад
that's terrible
@avishkasingh3993
@avishkasingh3993 Год назад
Mohak accepting he is privileged is such a great gesture. TBH when people (especially people with fame and followers) don't acknowledge their privilege then they set wrong path for us middle class people.
@rayaanaaryan2684
@rayaanaaryan2684 Год назад
i completely agree with you ....only Mohak is accepting this Openly ....his most of the education was happen from Singapore he said in one interview .... in generally if you see the interview of any American , Canadian & European they Cleary talk about gratitude & privilege word now these thing catch by NRI Kids ... i have two cousin both in USA one always says he is privilege where another one skip this and always pretend how to survive in USA i am middle class etc etc ...even everybody know their financial condition ....same applies here in India ....like in one interview Aditya Birla and Mukesh Ambani confessed they were Middle class ..so that they will get Middle class sympathy .... Crucial thing Socio Economic condition plays a vital role in india ....a kid who study in hindi medium school mostly struggle in all subject compare to a student who study in Good PVT school .. i had volunteer for Teach for India NGO ....india Government school are miserable ..i felt bad for those kids .
@avishkasingh3993
@avishkasingh3993 Год назад
@@rayaanaaryan2684 Exactly! This also misguide middle class into thinking they can be what their idols are following exact same steps, not knowing that their starting points are different.
@rishavkumar1250
@rishavkumar1250 Год назад
@@avishkasingh3993 lol you too are privileged being an urban middle class person ... most of the Indian population is either poor or rural middle class .
@avishkasingh3993
@avishkasingh3993 Год назад
@@rishavkumar1250 And... I accept that so what?
@pallavigaikwad6798
@pallavigaikwad6798 Год назад
💯
@riyaakalyanwat7965
@riyaakalyanwat7965 Год назад
Bollywood honestly has such big impact on every Indian's life. And the fact that Bollywood is a reason for so many topics on your videos.
@farahead157
@farahead157 Год назад
"We have fairly backward audience in India" - Satyajit Ray
@Gop101
@Gop101 Год назад
*North Indian*
@archit1048
@archit1048 Год назад
@@Gop101 that is actually very ignorant of you out of all things
@sky.1505
@sky.1505 Год назад
@@Gop101 ha na South to dudh ka dhula hai
@vinay1057
@vinay1057 Год назад
Iam south Indian , but Bollywood don't have any impact on me.
@daphne3631
@daphne3631 Год назад
One more reason which I feel might be responsible for large scale weddings- After the ceremony, several people especially family members comment ' Shaadi ache se ho gai'. Somehow people equate 'marriage' with 'wedding'. They think that if the ceremony is lavish, it automatically means that the couple will lead a good life. This is ofcourse just my feeling.
@Jyotishman_Saikia25
@Jyotishman_Saikia25 Год назад
"We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like." ~Tyler Durden
@scienceinc.9453
@scienceinc.9453 Год назад
The best wedding i attended was one inside IIT Delhi campus , a professor's son got married and only 30 people were invited. Most simple and decent wedding i attended. No loud noise only simple instrument playing.
@abhilashkrishnan1693
@abhilashkrishnan1693 Год назад
Was he south Indian? That's what I love to see.. Just hate the firecrackers noises until midnight in North India. South Indian marriages are less noisy and usually happens in daytime. North Indians are in hangover of the Muslim kings rule in India. At least all Hindus should restart weddings during day.
@sathwikshettyiitb285
@sathwikshettyiitb285 Год назад
@@abhilashkrishnan1693 south Indian spend too much more than a north indian.... You can see that too...
@hobbithallows
@hobbithallows Год назад
It depends Most would think inviting unknown small amount of people instead of inviting your relatives and throwing grand party could indicate your commitment towards that relationship and your will to work on it and gear it forward But upper class people with their divorces here and there, it’s not surprising people are not seeing importance of marrying traditional way by inviting all your relatives and friends and welcoming other person in your life and giving promise in front of everyone you know
@ForteExpresso
@ForteExpresso Год назад
@@Navs006 abey yar , yaha par mat shuru ho ja 😭
@ashuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
@ashuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu Год назад
Now that is a nice way to marry.
@principalhouse4943
@principalhouse4943 Год назад
Unpopular Fact - Mohak Can Make Unlimited Videos On Marriage 💀
@vikasvermaji6392
@vikasvermaji6392 Год назад
A superb holistically analysed multi-faceted video covering all dimensions with a beutiful conclusion. Really you deserve appreciation. Best part is that yeah there neither should be any compulsion to do big budget weddings nor criticism if someone doesnt want that. Its a personal choice how you want things in your personal life.
@narsinhchad3097
@narsinhchad3097 Год назад
its not important how big or small the wedding is, the thing matters is how strong your relationship is.
@productiveguru-ih9je
@productiveguru-ih9je Год назад
Tumari "strong relationship" se tumari fufa ji ko thodi panner ki sabji milne wali hai
@neel.KAITH2005
@neel.KAITH2005 Год назад
​​​@@productiveguru-ih9je to kya Fufa ji ki maang zada important tere Hisab se ??
@ashfaqurrahman9134
@ashfaqurrahman9134 11 месяцев назад
Absolutely agreed that's how it should be
@Ruffles729
@Ruffles729 18 дней назад
100%.
@pix309
@pix309 Год назад
In India parents would rather spend lakhs on their daughter's marriage than getting her good education so that she can be self independent. Even if she has a job, if it's not government and her to be husband works somewhere far off, she's asked to quit the job. Have seen it happen multiple times in front of eyes and that's why I'm working hard on cracking govt exams. There's no other way to be independent in middle class families.
@pix309
@pix309 Год назад
@@kdjoshi726 you said it yourself and it's true. They won't ask you to quit if you've a high paying job. But not everyone has a high paying job. Doesn't mean they should be asked to quit and give up on their financial independence.
@user-ue4fh5mv9s
@user-ue4fh5mv9s Год назад
yeah infact i think the gender roles should be switched in india and the women should become the breadwinner of the household
@mayankbarlawar
@mayankbarlawar Год назад
@@user-ue4fh5mv9s Are you serious or joking 😂🤣
@ramudas2315
@ramudas2315 Год назад
पैसे की बर्बादी और व्यर्थ की ड्रामेबाजी विवाह से दहेज मुक्त विवाह श्रेष्ठ है एक लेवा एक देवा दूतम, कोई किसी का पिता ना पुतम। रेड संबंध जुड़े शब ठाठा, अंत में सब बारह बटा।। यहां पर हम इस वाणी का अर्थ नहीं बताएंगे यह आपको "जीने की राह" पुस्तक में मिल जाएगा हम यह बताने की कोशिश करते हैं जैसे कि कोई डॉक्टर कोई इंजीनियर कोई अन्य पोस्ट प्राप्त करने के लिए जिस प्रकार मर्यादा में रखकर अर्थात शिक्षा ग्रहण करने के लिए स्कूल जाना पड़ता है गुरु से शिक्षा प्राप्त करना पड़ता है ड्रेस यूनिफॉम में जाना पड़ता है इसी प्रकार मानव जीवन को सफल बनाने के लिए हमारे सथ ग्रंथ है जो परमात्मा का विधान है इस विधान से अगर विपरीत काम करते हैं तो हमें लाभ नहीं मिलेगा जिस प्रकार कोई बच्चा पढ़ाई छोड़ कर काम करने चले जाए और कहे मैं डॉक्टर बन जाऊं तो वह व्यर्थ का सर पटकना है अधिक जानकारी के लिए पडढ़े "जीने की राह" सभी धर्मों के सथ ग्रंथों से जानिए "जीने की राह" 🏷️ अधिक जानकारी के लिए "जीने की राह" पुस्तक फ्री अपना नाम ,पूरा पता, पिनकोड ,मोबाइल नंबर हमें 🥏 Whatsapp करें +91 7496801825 ☑️📚 पुस्तक और डिलीवरी चार्ज बिल्कुल निःशुल्क (फ्री) है। 🎯➡️ आध्यात्मिक जानकारी के लिए PlayStore से Install करें App :- Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj 📺 ➡️ सुनिए जगत गुरु तत्वदर्शी संत रामपाल जी महाराज के मंगल प्रवचन :- 🏵️ Nepal 1 टी.वी. पर सुबह 6:00​ से 7:00​ तक 🏵️ श्रद्धा MH ONE टी. वी. पर दोपहर 2:00​ से 3:00​ तक 🏵️ साधना टी. वी. पर शाम 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 🏵️ पॉपकॉर्न मूवीज पर रात 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 📣 Visit Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj on RU-vid.
@axolotl4808
@axolotl4808 Год назад
@@kdjoshi726 nope, happened to my aunt. She was a head nurse b4 wedding, Government sector,and earned around 40k or something. She got married,had 2 kids n it was getting difficult to manage it,so she had to quit her job,her family members persuaded her to do so. However,she has now opened her own grocery store,a big one,earns more amount and is able to take care of both the kids too all thanks to God. N yeah,her in-laws are also very good n loves her a lot
@arjunjaat83
@arjunjaat83 Год назад
I am from Rajasthan, the biggest problem of a middle class family is the wedding expenses and 60% of the wedding expenses are spent, no matter how poor I am, it is necessary to buy gold. Or yahe perja kabhi khatam nai hogi 😔
@md.aman.
@md.aman. Год назад
Haqiqat baat hai sir
@arpanmadrecha3013
@arpanmadrecha3013 Год назад
@arjunjaat83-many people have stopped marrying now this way new trend it is due to such things that many people are not marrying within their community
@ramudas2315
@ramudas2315 Год назад
पैसे की बर्बादी और व्यर्थ की ड्रामेबाजी विवाह से दहेज मुक्त विवाह श्रेष्ठ है एक लेवा एक देवा दूतम, कोई किसी का पिता ना पुतम। रेड संबंध जुड़े शब ठाठा, अंत में सब बारह बटा।। यहां पर हम इस वाणी का अर्थ नहीं बताएंगे यह आपको "जीने की राह" पुस्तक में मिल जाएगा हम यह बताने की कोशिश करते हैं जैसे कि कोई डॉक्टर कोई इंजीनियर कोई अन्य पोस्ट प्राप्त करने के लिए जिस प्रकार मर्यादा में रखकर अर्थात शिक्षा ग्रहण करने के लिए स्कूल जाना पड़ता है गुरु से शिक्षा प्राप्त करना पड़ता है ड्रेस यूनिफॉम में जाना पड़ता है इसी प्रकार मानव जीवन को सफल बनाने के लिए हमारे सथ ग्रंथ है जो परमात्मा का विधान है इस विधान से अगर विपरीत काम करते हैं तो हमें लाभ नहीं मिलेगा जिस प्रकार कोई बच्चा पढ़ाई छोड़ कर काम करने चले जाए और कहे मैं डॉक्टर बन जाऊं तो वह व्यर्थ का सर पटकना है अधिक जानकारी के लिए पडढ़े "जीने की राह" सभी धर्मों के सथ ग्रंथों से जानिए "जीने की राह" 🏷️ अधिक जानकारी के लिए "जीने की राह" पुस्तक फ्री अपना नाम ,पूरा पता, पिनकोड ,मोबाइल नंबर हमें 🥏 Whatsapp करें +91 7496801825 ☑️📚 पुस्तक और डिलीवरी चार्ज बिल्कुल निःशुल्क (फ्री) है। 🎯➡️ आध्यात्मिक जानकारी के लिए PlayStore से Install करें App :- Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj 📺 ➡️ सुनिए जगत गुरु तत्वदर्शी संत रामपाल जी महाराज के मंगल प्रवचन :- 🏵️ Nepal 1 टी.वी. पर सुबह 6:00​ से 7:00​ तक 🏵️ श्रद्धा MH ONE टी. वी. पर दोपहर 2:00​ से 3:00​ तक 🏵️ साधना टी. वी. पर शाम 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 🏵️ पॉपकॉर्न मूवीज पर रात 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 📣 Visit Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj on RU-vid.
@wireghost897
@wireghost897 Год назад
Wow Mohak, being self aware and acknowledging the fact that you were privileged is something I have never seen before.
@user-pu8wb4sl7d
@user-pu8wb4sl7d Год назад
I completely agree with what you said at the end. There are people who have the money to spend in weddings and consider that a worthy expenditure. That is also good for the economy as it provides for many in the wedding business. However, there must be no pressure. Not having big weddings should also be normalised. I don't want an extravagant wedding for myself but I do want a beautiful one that would be memorable.
@kalpajitsaikia6185
@kalpajitsaikia6185 Год назад
The Assamese marriages before this decade consisted of only two ceremonies-"Juron" i.e. The Ring ceremony &The wedding day. Thanks to Social media, Bollywoodisation of Assamese culture and Economic growth- Mehendi,Haldi,Sangeet are now added in Assamese marriages.
@amlanjyoti2
@amlanjyoti2 Год назад
Hosai, logote hei expensive photoshoots bur....dikhawa bohut amar axomiya r
@xylermanas4025
@xylermanas4025 Год назад
Koribo diok he biya dangor ke pati jodi bhal pai patok aru ... Bohut business eiboror uprot e choli ase , Aru amar o khuwa luwa hoi jai aru exaaj besike 😂
@kalpajitsaikia6185
@kalpajitsaikia6185 Год назад
@@xylermanas4025 আপত্তি কৰা নাই । Facts কৈছোঁ । আপত্তিটো মোহক দাদাইয়ো কৰা নাই, তেওঁ facts কৈছে ।
@PrantikaJagannath
@PrantikaJagannath Год назад
I am an Assamese aru moi tu enekoi biya nokoru
@kalpajitsaikia6185
@kalpajitsaikia6185 Год назад
@@PrantikaJagannath পাৰে যদি কৰক, অৰ্থনীতিৰ বাবে ভাল🤭
@VineetMassey
@VineetMassey Год назад
True mohak fans already knew he is married ☺️
@sarmithahaflongbarkachari442
Me too
@aniketguhathakurta5360
@aniketguhathakurta5360 Год назад
yes me to..... i knew
@MrMiner-pd7dk
@MrMiner-pd7dk Год назад
How?
@paarthsaigal5820
@paarthsaigal5820 Год назад
Bro he gave some hints in his previous videos
@Varun4_here
@Varun4_here Год назад
He answered in the video where he told about his world Bank internship
@alka1798
@alka1798 Год назад
Always love the topics mohak touches...like seriously you have a good taste,as far I know few touches topics like yours. Huhh...after appreciation I wanna say about this particular topic being science student and Indian also, seeing such big fat wedding seems so eye pleasing but when you see it form environmental perspective ,that how much Chaos these are creating,then it's really saddening. If they do it in such a way that they don't harm nature in any particular way,then I would love to see that kind of wedding obviously within budget. Spread love ❤️have peacr✌🏻
@rajdew9866
@rajdew9866 Год назад
Thanks for knowledge brother
@ritwiksondhi
@ritwiksondhi Год назад
One major problem is that most couples want a bigger wedding at their parents' expense and because of social stigma they have to oblige. The day parents refuse to pay, wedding celebrations will start getting sensible.
@yuvrajoberoi7834
@yuvrajoberoi7834 Год назад
My parents were not well off and after my job only things got better. Now, they are just saving the money I send to them and ask me to save as well so that we can spend it on my wedding.
@bu11ymaguire
@bu11ymaguire Год назад
Parents wanna follow societal norms the most..
@ramudas2315
@ramudas2315 Год назад
पैसे की बर्बादी और व्यर्थ की ड्रामेबाजी विवाह से दहेज मुक्त विवाह श्रेष्ठ है एक लेवा एक देवा दूतम, कोई किसी का पिता ना पुतम। रेड संबंध जुड़े शब ठाठा, अंत में सब बारह बटा।। यहां पर हम इस वाणी का अर्थ नहीं बताएंगे यह आपको "जीने की राह" पुस्तक में मिल जाएगा हम यह बताने की कोशिश करते हैं जैसे कि कोई डॉक्टर कोई इंजीनियर कोई अन्य पोस्ट प्राप्त करने के लिए जिस प्रकार मर्यादा में रखकर अर्थात शिक्षा ग्रहण करने के लिए स्कूल जाना पड़ता है गुरु से शिक्षा प्राप्त करना पड़ता है ड्रेस यूनिफॉम में जाना पड़ता है इसी प्रकार मानव जीवन को सफल बनाने के लिए हमारे सथ ग्रंथ है जो परमात्मा का विधान है इस विधान से अगर विपरीत काम करते हैं तो हमें लाभ नहीं मिलेगा जिस प्रकार कोई बच्चा पढ़ाई छोड़ कर काम करने चले जाए और कहे मैं डॉक्टर बन जाऊं तो वह व्यर्थ का सर पटकना है अधिक जानकारी के लिए पडढ़े "जीने की राह" सभी धर्मों के सथ ग्रंथों से जानिए "जीने की राह" 🏷️ अधिक जानकारी के लिए "जीने की राह" पुस्तक फ्री अपना नाम ,पूरा पता, पिनकोड ,मोबाइल नंबर हमें 🥏 Whatsapp करें +91 7496801825 ☑️📚 पुस्तक और डिलीवरी चार्ज बिल्कुल निःशुल्क (फ्री) है। 🎯➡️ आध्यात्मिक जानकारी के लिए PlayStore से Install करें App :- Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj 📺 ➡️ सुनिए जगत गुरु तत्वदर्शी संत रामपाल जी महाराज के मंगल प्रवचन :- 🏵️ Nepal 1 टी.वी. पर सुबह 6:00​ से 7:00​ तक 🏵️ श्रद्धा MH ONE टी. वी. पर दोपहर 2:00​ से 3:00​ तक 🏵️ साधना टी. वी. पर शाम 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 🏵️ पॉपकॉर्न मूवीज पर रात 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 📣 Visit Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj on RU-vid.
@spellcheck5393
@spellcheck5393 Год назад
Nah most of my friends want lavish weddings
@sarikajoshi7156
@sarikajoshi7156 9 месяцев назад
Especially that pre and post wedding tantrums is mostly from spoilt brat kids i have literally seen my cousin throwing tantrums at her wedding to literally everyone I basically became her photographer in her wedding giving me orders take photo from here there I was thinking like " sis your just getting married calm down you yourself will not be interested in your own photo after a year "
@Hackerisitic
@Hackerisitic Год назад
I have observed since the ban on dowry, bride's family spend all the money which was to be spent on dowry on making the marriage function more memorable.
@gossip.wave11
@gossip.wave11 Год назад
And i think thats much better than giving dowry....
@for_music_lovers
@for_music_lovers Год назад
@@gossip.wave11 giving dowry ime form of cars ,money and jwellery can be sold in future rather than feeding people who you have not even seen from decades .
@squ34ky
@squ34ky Год назад
@@gossip.wave11 in what way? The ceremony has no utility to the married couple beyond just showing off on the day... at least, if what was given were something like a flat, or a vehicle, those can be used by them. I'm not condoning the practice of 'dowry', just contesting your opinion that spending that money on a 'lavish' wedding ceremony is "better".
@chhavisparshi3244
@chhavisparshi3244 Год назад
Dowry bs naam ka ban h...bina uske up bihar me ldke wale rista pkka hi ny krte..
@rach101
@rach101 Год назад
@@chhavisparshi3244 than don’t marry them, that’s the only way.
@beya5773
@beya5773 10 месяцев назад
I hate it whenever people defend a bad thing in society by saying "it helps the economy, dude". This just proves to us that the current economic system is so full of shit that we have to literally torture ourselves to make it "grow" in any way.
@arifkhondker3461
@arifkhondker3461 Год назад
Your topic was absolutely necessary for discussion for all strata of society. Keep it up, bro.
@adityajaiswal6082
@adityajaiswal6082 Год назад
You are literally changing India by creating such content! Loads of love and gratitude bhaiya! ❤
@heatsingh2205
@heatsingh2205 Год назад
India is not going to change with just a video.
@phoenix-yx7xd
@phoenix-yx7xd Год назад
Waah matlab iss video ke baad change ho jayega log shaadi Mai befizul kharcha karna bandh ho jayega ????
@kuls43
@kuls43 Год назад
Lol, get real dude.. he is just doing his part. But truth is, no one changes after watching a video.
@adityajaiswal6082
@adityajaiswal6082 Год назад
@@heatsingh2205 there has to be a start, from some point.. People barely even think about these topics.. But the same time.. These matters impact our lives pungently
@adityajaiswal6082
@adityajaiswal6082 Год назад
Cool guys!.. I couldn't rein in my frenzy of excitement and gratitude 😁❤😂.. But what I blurted out in a way, makes sense too
@Chilled_ETHANOL
@Chilled_ETHANOL Год назад
Who doesn't know that Mohak is married:😂
@user-zw1pd8rm6e
@user-zw1pd8rm6e Год назад
I would rather buy a fortuner than spending on weeding. According to me weeding is a waste of time nd 💸💰. And we can get seggs without marriage..
@jsrk265
@jsrk265 Год назад
Me 😀
@jeevan554
@jeevan554 Год назад
Damn me too
@peaceisworthit7650
@peaceisworthit7650 Год назад
Alexa, play Heartbreak anniversary
@harendrasingh4308
@harendrasingh4308 Год назад
Bhai sir ki age kya hogi clear this doubt please
@darshanvalani9248
@darshanvalani9248 Год назад
Nice informative video. I think it changes individual's think especially younger boys and girls
@Chris_1230
@Chris_1230 Год назад
In my Sister's wedding held on 3rd February 2020 , 1500 guest were invited and 1200 guest attended it 🙏🙏🙏
@glitzyglam6860
@glitzyglam6860 Год назад
I would like to share that northeast Indian weddings are very simple compared to other Indian weddings. I am an Assamese girl from Northeast and our weddings are relatively less expensive because the bride wears simple jewelry and also dowry is not a headache. Please don't get offended I just wanted to share.
@benjamin7576
@benjamin7576 Год назад
Yeah in Assam we don't have dowry.
@bhagytagupta
@bhagytagupta Год назад
I have been to the Northeast... great culture. This should be applied to rest of the India.. because the Dowry people don't want to have Girls.
@case101.laskar9
@case101.laskar9 Год назад
Yas we assamese dont take dowry 😊
@varshadeka8030
@varshadeka8030 Год назад
Yeah so true.... The concept of dowry has always been alien to me cause here it doesn't exist...
@productiveguru-ih9je
@productiveguru-ih9je Год назад
I used to live in Assam before, now I live in Lucknow. Yeah, I conform that in North India they don't have any fu*king shame to take dowries in 21st century.
@mukundvats4434
@mukundvats4434 Год назад
There was a chapter in my english textbook about a guy's marriage and in ncert there was a question should marriages be lavish and my teacher asked me to answer on it and i said that marriages should be lavish if you can afford because it is a lifelong memory and should be celebrated in a grand way.
@SunnyandBunny
@SunnyandBunny Год назад
Is it "The proposal" in class 10?
@elonmusk3807
@elonmusk3807 Год назад
@@SunnyandBunny BHOLI
@anushajain8198
@anushajain8198 Год назад
@@elonmusk3807 bholi was the one about a girl and dowry, proposal,if I am not wrong was about two neighbors fighting for land and the neighbor's daughter
@user-zw1pd8rm6e
@user-zw1pd8rm6e Год назад
I would rather buy a fortuner than spending on weeding. According to me weeding is a waste of time nd 💸💰. And we can get seggs without marriage..
@sexyboy-er1gc
@sexyboy-er1gc Год назад
@@anushajain8198 ya bro I am currently in class 10th and you are absolutely correct
@amks...9423
@amks...9423 Год назад
I think it is
@lohith_sai
@lohith_sai Год назад
Here in My Village in Tamilnadu, We have a 2-day marriage function, with the 1st day of Marriage & 2nd day for Reception. Music Orchestra is something which got included in our recent family wedding which took place less than 10years before. Then we have grand food & the next day is Reception & on the 3rd day, all families depart back to their home, so the Breakfast for the 3rd day shall be arranged. This too costs much & both the families of Bride & Bride groom share the expenses, but definitely not on a Equal proportion.
@ruin9
@ruin9 Год назад
From being an introvert to sharing your wedding pics just to show your dedication towards your work ❤️❤️❤️ awesome man 👑👑.
@kuls43
@kuls43 Год назад
Content pe dhyan de bas. Personal kyu ho raha hai bhai..
@ramudas2315
@ramudas2315 Год назад
पैसे की बर्बादी और व्यर्थ की ड्रामेबाजी विवाह से दहेज मुक्त विवाह श्रेष्ठ है एक लेवा एक देवा दूतम, कोई किसी का पिता ना पुतम। रेड संबंध जुड़े शब ठाठा, अंत में सब बारह बटा।। यहां पर हम इस वाणी का अर्थ नहीं बताएंगे यह आपको "जीने की राह" पुस्तक में मिल जाएगा हम यह बताने की कोशिश करते हैं जैसे कि कोई डॉक्टर कोई इंजीनियर कोई अन्य पोस्ट प्राप्त करने के लिए जिस प्रकार मर्यादा में रखकर अर्थात शिक्षा ग्रहण करने के लिए स्कूल जाना पड़ता है गुरु से शिक्षा प्राप्त करना पड़ता है ड्रेस यूनिफॉम में जाना पड़ता है इसी प्रकार मानव जीवन को सफल बनाने के लिए हमारे सथ ग्रंथ है जो परमात्मा का विधान है इस विधान से अगर विपरीत काम करते हैं तो हमें लाभ नहीं मिलेगा जिस प्रकार कोई बच्चा पढ़ाई छोड़ कर काम करने चले जाए और कहे मैं डॉक्टर बन जाऊं तो वह व्यर्थ का सर पटकना है अधिक जानकारी के लिए पडढ़े "जीने की राह" सभी धर्मों के सथ ग्रंथों से जानिए "जीने की राह" 🏷️ अधिक जानकारी के लिए "जीने की राह" पुस्तक फ्री अपना नाम ,पूरा पता, पिनकोड ,मोबाइल नंबर हमें 🥏 Whatsapp करें +91 7496801825 ☑️📚 पुस्तक और डिलीवरी चार्ज बिल्कुल निःशुल्क (फ्री) है। 🎯➡️ आध्यात्मिक जानकारी के लिए PlayStore से Install करें App :- Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj 📺 ➡️ सुनिए जगत गुरु तत्वदर्शी संत रामपाल जी महाराज के मंगल प्रवचन :- 🏵️ Nepal 1 टी.वी. पर सुबह 6:00​ से 7:00​ तक 🏵️ श्रद्धा MH ONE टी. वी. पर दोपहर 2:00​ से 3:00​ तक 🏵️ साधना टी. वी. पर शाम 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 🏵️ पॉपकॉर्न मूवीज पर रात 7:30​ से 8:30​ तक 📣 Visit Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj on RU-vid.
@shashankkumar6425
@shashankkumar6425 Год назад
All the spendings of marriage is based on one dialogue "शादी दुबारा नहीं होती"
@amsam345
@amsam345 Год назад
But aajkal hoti hai. Divorce jyada ho rahi hai.
@trollrohitsharma236
@trollrohitsharma236 Год назад
@@jenab2656 nobody cares
@skjjha7509
@skjjha7509 Год назад
@@jenab2656 ?
@peterparker9954
@peterparker9954 Год назад
Janam bhi dubaara nahi hoti ... Fir bhi koi bhi insaan kabhi tumhare pehla janamdin me 1 cr kharch krte hai kya ?
@spellcheck5393
@spellcheck5393 Год назад
@@jenab2656 kitna kharcha Hui total?
@sushmitapandey7615
@sushmitapandey7615 5 месяцев назад
Me and my husband got married 2 years ago, it was a quick budget wedding, a decent hall, 30 family members and 2 pandits, thats it. We saved that money for 1 month of honeymoon and setting up our house. I sont see a point of calling people you dont know and who are eventually going to criticize the arrangement or the family. It's hard to earn money these days and i believe everyone must spend it wisely
@DreamyGirl80
@DreamyGirl80 Год назад
we tibetans almost 95% don't do such ceremony. Modern day Live in relation is same as marriage to us. only when its necessary then we apply for marriage certificate in court otherwise we don't have that also. we don't marry in temple or in court. almost 100% are love marriage. parents hardly interfere in our marriage. No waste of money no headache to arrange these ceremony. We don't have Dowry or caste. so its so simple and easy.
@tammimrahman3890
@tammimrahman3890 Год назад
I saw my friend's grade weddings and decided not to do such things. Also, the fact is that I and my husband are financing it. Although we belong to a family who can afford a grand wedding, we decided not to take money from our parents. I invited limited close friends and family. I don't care what people think or talk. The only expensive cost was the photographer. 😅 we spend it for some good realistic memory. And I was surprised when I see people dm me and say after a long time they saw such good happy simple wedding photos. We got married in a mosque. The after-parties were in my home. The two beautiful days of the nonstop party were the best part of it. I spend a minimum on clothing and make-up. I believe if I am happy and smiling nothing else matters.
@CreativitySimplicity
@CreativitySimplicity Год назад
That's great. Enjoyment and positive memories for a life time should be more important for the bride and groom
@anjaligupta1766
@anjaligupta1766 Год назад
People like you are our true influencers. Kudos!!
@itsabhishek7563
@itsabhishek7563 Год назад
मैं ग्रामीण इलाके से हूं और यहा भी लोग शादियों में 4-5 सालों की आय खर्च कर देते हैं। Big issue raised by Mohak👏👏
@Ashmit_playz
@Ashmit_playz Год назад
संत रामपाल महाराज का सत्संग सुनने
@dmayo3434
@dmayo3434 Год назад
Mind blown from Virginia. Thank you bro for wide variety of topics. I’m your big fan.
@Outdated08
@Outdated08 Год назад
How smoothly Mohak mixed the Ad with the context. 💯
@SomeRandomDude2007
@SomeRandomDude2007 Год назад
answer is a absolute and astounding yes. For middle class family : whenever parents pays for the wedding it would be wonderful for kid. Only those people who pays for their own wedding only knows the true answer to this question.
@koushikghosh2615
@koushikghosh2615 Год назад
It is happier to see that privileged person like you spreading knowledge and making people aware about sociology and social science. Hat's off to you 👍
@tanmaymour7068
@tanmaymour7068 Год назад
This is a true anecdote my grandpa told me. 3 decades ago, it was my aunt's wedding. At that time black currant had recently grown popular in India. In the wedding, one of the groom's relatives told my grandpa that if they would eat ice cream, it will only be black currant. My grandpa had organised for 10+ flavours but black currant was not one of them. Since not giving them their ask would be like a blow to his resoect, he ordered for a large quantity if it. Since it was an immediate order it costed a lot. Thus, he spent about twice his monthly salary just to set that one flavour of ice cream.
@Nayan01101
@Nayan01101 Год назад
1:05 koi to hai social media mai jo khud ko Amir bolta hai 😂
@dipteshbasak4810
@dipteshbasak4810 Год назад
Hum tooh bhai middle class haa😥😥😥😥.Kash hum bhi privilege hote.
@rishisharma8311
@rishisharma8311 Год назад
court marriage and later giving a reception makes more sense
@luckynath6188
@luckynath6188 Год назад
But Its cuts cheaper but more enjoyable events like mehndi,Sangeet,haldi etc. Which are really great
@rishisharma8311
@rishisharma8311 Год назад
​@@luckynath6188 if you have the money then go for it. I personally do enjoy such events but spending lakhs on it also does not make sense to me.
@shabnamkhanam5987
@shabnamkhanam5987 Год назад
But when you look back and think of you marriage memories you have nothing except a court in your mind standing in queue
@rishisharma8311
@rishisharma8311 Год назад
​@@shabnamkhanam5987 I do want to make memories but i would rather do it with my family and not with 200 odd guests and relative who have come there just to eat food. I would rather spend the money on something useful like a new car 😜
@muktadixit
@muktadixit Год назад
@@rishisharma8311 exactly, I agree with you.
@blackout7058
@blackout7058 Год назад
That is right Many people in India take loan for wedding just to show they social status but in the end this people start to face problem because of the loan my close friend took around 15lac loan but after 3yr he is suffering because of that loans 😔 The main problem is this wedding vlog
@aakashkatiyar1216
@aakashkatiyar1216 Год назад
Smooth advertisement Mohak bhai smooth.
@abirmahmud3809
@abirmahmud3809 Год назад
I am a Bangladeshi 🇧🇩🇧🇩 Yes, you are right. A few days ago we had a wedding in Bangladesh which was organized on a floating stage on a pond. This is an initiative to do something different.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@_qe
@_qe Год назад
Nice idea I'll do it on a hot air balloon lel 😂🤣😂
@abhijeetwa
@abhijeetwa Год назад
hahahahahaha
@rishavkumar1250
@rishavkumar1250 Год назад
@@chhatrasal5934 it's not that different . Type Hindu bengali weddings... Bangladeshi weddings are similar except the fact that they do the Qubool hai Stuff instead of going around the Agni ...
@patrickbatemanfromohio
@patrickbatemanfromohio Год назад
@@rishavkumar1250 Muslim marriages are easier than Hindu weddings. Muslims just have to do nikkah and they become each other's wife and husband. In Hindus, it's long process and expensive.
@rishavkumar1250
@rishavkumar1250 Год назад
@@patrickbatemanfromohio not true. Only the nikah part is easy .... in villages muslims still follow lots of rules
@bhagatsinghfans8735
@bhagatsinghfans8735 Год назад
5:48 best part 😂😂😂
@omraval1922
@omraval1922 Год назад
Honesty of contain 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@dharmendrapaikra2557
@dharmendrapaikra2557 Год назад
I like your honest opinion, in both aspects +ve and -ve
@devranjan5213
@devranjan5213 Год назад
As an introvert I support no big fat wedding.
@Poke-X4
@Poke-X4 Год назад
0:02 - ekdam se halat badal diye , jazbaat badal diye, oooo bhaiii 😂😂😂🤣
@psharma08612
@psharma08612 Год назад
👍REALLY APPRECIATE YOU BRO, I WAS THINKING ABOUT IT, I CAN FEEL IT👏👏👏👏👏
@shanaya5855
@shanaya5855 7 месяцев назад
I know people who have spent 100 percent of their lifes saving
@themanavthakur
@themanavthakur Год назад
11:03 Ye Dil se nikala h sayad... 😂
@divya11114
@divya11114 Год назад
Social status and social pressure is the #1 reason for high wedding costs in my opinion. I too want to just do a court marriage and a reception, but every single point I discussed with my parents on why having a simple marriage is beneficial for all was invalidated by them because "log kya bolenge/sochenge". In my opinion it's a waste of money just for couple instagramable photos. As for helping the economy, I can't care less when I'm more worried about giving my wife and my child a good life ahead.
@sidhkon8543
@sidhkon8543 Год назад
Instead of marriage you should buy land with that money. Registration fee for women is 2% of total land value. Where men have to give 5%.
@prairiehorse6168
@prairiehorse6168 Год назад
Log kya kahenge is one of the biggest diseases that afflicts our society and people only gossip for few weeks and few months at most. Not worth spending years of income through hardwork on such people.
@aakritirajput2460
@aakritirajput2460 Год назад
The fact that he is privileged and he didn't felt like to hide it instead told it proudly was so good of him
@vermaishanvi037
@vermaishanvi037 Год назад
Wait omg 😭, congratulations mohak ❤️❤️ lot's of good luck for your marriage 🕺this was SUCH a surprise 😂🥂🎉
@anilatarannum
@anilatarannum Год назад
I think in addition to what you said, it's just a huge cultural thing in India (at least North India). Even where Bollywood or Insta are not that popular (smaller villages), we see the majority share of debt that families have are because of weddings (next biggest being medical expenses). Of course a large part of this is dowry, which is kind of separate from what you were talking about, but I feel only Bollywood and Insta can't explain this phenomenon. It's deeply cultural. Thanks for the very informative video!
@_qe
@_qe Год назад
You can deny the impact of insta but you can't deny the impact of bollywood Yes they may not be directly affected from it but people started copying rich people to look rich and it was brought mainstream by Bollywood The chronology here is :- Rich people started it Bollywood copied from them (not exactly copied but Bollywood always shows larger than life scenarios) People copied from Bollywood And villagers copied from what they saw in other weddings
@harshit6045
@harshit6045 Год назад
@@_qe Not only Bollywood, most film industries have this common thing, showing unrealistic things and making them standard
@arpanmadrecha3013
@arpanmadrecha3013 Год назад
@@yumi-e2o -yes but it was not so publicized as it is today throughout the country
@_qe
@_qe Год назад
@@yumi-e2o may i know the region and economic category of your grandmother's grandmother
@preetiraut7700
@preetiraut7700 Год назад
@@harshit6045 it's not unrealistic from Ancient times we Indians Hindus or people who lived in this part of area used to do grand wedding bcoz wedding bring families together, groom and bride both get chance to meet eachother families and relatives. Sirf social status ke liye nahi balki social gathering karne ka bhi bada tarika hai ye, tum khud socho Holi diwali, jese festival par relative ek dusre ke ghar jate hai ye sab chize hamne social gathering family gatherings ho sake uske liye banayi thi but aajakal kuchh log zaroorat se zyada spend karte hai
@peanutgallery2634
@peanutgallery2634 10 месяцев назад
You both are very cute! Blessings for a happy married life
@shafi8131
@shafi8131 Год назад
Interesting topic
@ShashiKumar-jm5bi
@ShashiKumar-jm5bi Год назад
"Are Indian weddings a waste of money?" Short Answer: Yes they are :/
@itsAPC
@itsAPC Год назад
still we waste bcoz of society🤣
@Swayam_31338
@Swayam_31338 Год назад
You don't know so shut your mouth why only Indian are targeted i am not saying do expensive wedding but do a good and normal wedding and perform all the rituals.Why don't you say to rich people who spend crores of rupees for their wedding?
@peterparker9954
@peterparker9954 Год назад
@@itsAPC not me..... I am not a slave to society
@deepmazumder1619
@deepmazumder1619 Год назад
No they are not if anyone can afford, there should be no pressure on anyone for spending a very high specific amount of money.
@VishalKumar-lk1pt
@VishalKumar-lk1pt Год назад
@@deepmazumder1619 then who cannot afford will be shamed due to societal behaviour
@krishnakrishna8111
@krishnakrishna8111 Год назад
5:52 ooh bhai
@itsmerakhi8772
@itsmerakhi8772 Год назад
Very nice video 🙌👏
@ranikalakaar
@ranikalakaar Год назад
Very much so.
@therealgrimreaper68
@therealgrimreaper68 Год назад
Even if someone has their wedding on the moon, there will still be that relative who thinks it's cheap
@rinkimishra8187
@rinkimishra8187 Год назад
😂😂😂
@peterparker9954
@peterparker9954 Год назад
Why should you care ?
@Vardhan789
@Vardhan789 3 месяца назад
Marriage of XÆA-XII be like :-
@arvindshastry1178
@arvindshastry1178 Год назад
Dhumdhaam wali Shaadi is just a way for people to show their status to the society.
@giogitasuk
@giogitasuk Год назад
Very clever... mohak... Kabh ad break liya pata hi nhi chala 😂
@abusufian1883
@abusufian1883 Год назад
Yes
@Bigblack69deeck
@Bigblack69deeck Год назад
0:34 It's not about moneyyyy... it's about sending a message 😂😂
@exprimentgyan4676
@exprimentgyan4676 Год назад
This topic is very important and thank you for cover it !!!
@optimusace
@optimusace Год назад
0:25 he look like bachelor i don't know he is married 😳
@desiengineerashish4908
@desiengineerashish4908 Год назад
O Mohak! you are just awesome. I enjoy watching your content. This gives me a +ve vibe. Keep growing...🚶🏃🚶🏃
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
Yes, they kinda are, especially when we have the simple opportunity to get done with a court marriage. This applies to all weddings where people spend a hell lot of money just for the sake of it. If I ever manage to find someone who is ready to get married to me (I doubt their existence) I will opt for the basic court marriage. Other than that, I would like to host a simple mutual reception where we can call our closest people for their blessings and feed them good food without much of a ruckus.
@vivek8580
@vivek8580 Год назад
Same thought❤
@dipalidewangan1484
@dipalidewangan1484 Год назад
Yup I also want to do the same thing but my family is so orthodox that it is impossible in this lifetime.
@indiancitizen4334
@indiancitizen4334 Год назад
Can you narrate your purpose of marriage ? From your writings it seems you are not subscribing mainstream thoughts of the society.
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
@@indiancitizen4334 Well, marriage is about togetherness and the desire to be with someone as well as share your space with someone.
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
@@dipalidewangan1484 Don't worry it isn't impossible. We can always try to reason to a certain degree.
@vanshikabhardwaj676
@vanshikabhardwaj676 Год назад
i really loved the part where u gave ur marriage's reference which made this vedio give a personal instinct..as always good & great content !😍😇😃
@narendradeore188
@narendradeore188 Год назад
Absolutely right
@Yeeshupalthakur
@Yeeshupalthakur Год назад
Bhai bilkul Sahi bat kahi aapne...
@screendustchannel
@screendustchannel Год назад
I as a Christian need only to buy for two rings and both of us ran to a church and find a pastor and start the wedding ceremony without anyone else. Only 30mins 🙂. And u r happily live a long lasting marriage 😀
@salmaislam3415
@salmaislam3415 10 месяцев назад
Muslim wedding only 15 minutes 😅😅
@rishiksarkar9293
@rishiksarkar9293 Год назад
I really appreciate your honesty and humble nature! Very few people would open state that they are privileged. Everyone wants to show themselves as weak and lie to the fullest in order to gain sympathy. Hats off to your attitude and keep maintaining the same! Your videos are great as usual and keep doing the good work!
@heetgandhi9812
@heetgandhi9812 Год назад
Exactly! Kudos to him for this acceptance. This seems quite normal but believe me it’s not normal for accepting that you belong to a quite well off family!
@soham_3507
@soham_3507 Год назад
Nice video bro.....
@aspirant2833
@aspirant2833 Год назад
Muje kya me to salman bhai se inspire hu 👀shaadi hi nai karni 😂😂
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
Also, the cost of wedding tolls heavy, especially on the rural and tribal populations who previously used to have simple weddings. Now, they need to take loans from the rich zamindars and money lenders just to live up to the expectations. In 12th grade, we read a Bengali piece about Palamu which narrated the woes of tribal people and how the debt of wedding costs always kept them indebted to the zamindar class leading to more exploitation.
@rohitnayak9952
@rohitnayak9952 Год назад
In south india it was some what economical compared to North India
@NeerajMishra03
@NeerajMishra03 Год назад
Palamu of Jharkhand?
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
@@NeerajMishra03 Yes, I guess then it was a part of Bihar and it's also close to West Bengal.
@adwaitvedant3297
@adwaitvedant3297 Год назад
@@aishikamitra It's not zamindar class exploitation...It's the slavery of desires which are not even natural...How can desires be natural...It's a result of greed , pride , ignorance and egotendencies... Zamindars couldn't become zamindar without the passive will of those people...Just because those people were not inwardly seeking....They didn't know that they could become slave of desires implanted by the society ....It's simply a cycle of FOMO (fear of missing out)...Even I am a Bengali from west Bengal and I know how society implants desires artificially in the mind of people who are already spiritually and economically ignorant taking the name of popular culture. You should listen to acharya prashant. There cannot be one way exploitation ..the exploited always invites exploitation for them voluntarily becoming slave of society , greed , desires and FOMO...The only natural desire of consciousness is "Freedom"...Rest of the desires are deeply biologically rooted as well as society and economy rooted....
@aishikamitra
@aishikamitra Год назад
@@adwaitvedant3297 Sorry, but I have to disagree to your points as they are catered towards the colonial mindset of victim blaming. That's the same attitude used by capitalists all around the world to justify exploitation as they rest in their soft beds and it's the same principal which was once used by slave traders who thought that us Indians as well as other indigenous people stand nowhere compared to their superior stance in society. A lot of the 'FOMO' you talk about has actually been instilled by the so called 'educated' class to monetise the natural resources found in the rural and tribal lands of India. Similarly, the marriage customs have been extensively changed in areas because of the greed inculcated by the so called zamindars. They often tie the debt takers by huge interests which often includes taking away most of their farm production or force them to work as indentured labours. A similar thing is seen in almost all labour intensive work, especially those that are seasonal, where many workers are sometimes paid in goods rather than actual wages. Also, the idea of freedom varies between people, so it's hard to put down your stance of freedom as the only one that's supposed to be true.
@sauravroychow
@sauravroychow Год назад
People can choose to have their wedding in any way they wish with their money. But if there is social pressure to spend more than their means, or to borrow a lot of money for weddings, then it is a total rubbish social practice, and should be frowned upon.
@arpanmadrecha3013
@arpanmadrecha3013 Год назад
@Saurav-that is what is happening nowadays and you find people taking loan even for weddings
@siddinenivenkateswararao3041
@siddinenivenkateswararao3041 11 месяцев назад
Yes, its true . People present days in India, spending much for wedding celebrations.
@SANDEEPRAJBHAR9509
@SANDEEPRAJBHAR9509 Год назад
Yes I am agree
@THEELECTRICGUY
@THEELECTRICGUY Год назад
True. "Shaadi Scam hai! Bramhachari jeevan apnao" We avoid spending 15 lakhs for a better education but can easily spend 25 lakhs on wedding!
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Год назад
In these days investing 15 lakhs on education is futile too rather invest in a business idea
@peterparker9954
@peterparker9954 Год назад
Aur muth maaro
@laba3423
@laba3423 Год назад
25 lakh ka budget aam ho gya hai aaj kal
@deepmazumder1619
@deepmazumder1619 Год назад
@@vanshikakaushik6497 for business also you need knowledge, kidhar se aayega wo.
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Год назад
@@deepmazumder1619 this is the biggest myth my friend runs a communication agency with a school she was getting 15 k per month now she's making 60k per month by selling courses there are multiple businesses not one people open small cafes customized gifting business and so much more it's only willingness to earn from business that matters if you feel you lack knowledge watch Shark Tank job will always keep you broke so entrepreneurship is the best way people made huge from papad achar kachori matthi so much can be done without knowledge roo
@shameekd9192
@shameekd9192 Год назад
It doesn’t matter how financially well family you belong to, if you have dignity, the money spent of your wedding must be from your earnings.
@barunkumarbehera7081
@barunkumarbehera7081 Год назад
Perfect 👌
@rashmiraghuram4143
@rashmiraghuram4143 Год назад
I am also privileged, dad spent 40 lack in my marriage 2014. After two months they again started asking dowry. After that I took divorce. Now I feel it is waste of money.
@Name-de1st
@Name-de1st Год назад
Mohak indirectly said that he is married 😂😂🤣🤣 Crush logo ki Dil toot gayi 😂😂🤣🤣
@mohinishmukul7139
@mohinishmukul7139 Год назад
Girls ko mohak pr crush tha .?? Kaise
@naweenkumar2634
@naweenkumar2634 Год назад
😂😂
@Name-de1st
@Name-de1st Год назад
@@mohinishmukul7139 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂😂🤣 Kya pata!!! 🤣🤣
@Name-de1st
@Name-de1st Год назад
@@mohinishmukul7139 🤔🤔🤔 Ruko Google kar k bata rahi hoon 😂😂
@VinitKumar-vv1vn
@VinitKumar-vv1vn Год назад
Mohak trust me . I come from rural area of darbhanga bihar and i have seen family selling their lands or taking dept from market with High rate for dowry and marriage night expenses like foods and gifts . It is very sad they don't have money at all in some cases . I feel that this is not going to change very soon as this is increasing day by day 😢
@JustMe54328
@JustMe54328 Год назад
Same thing in AP many times
@rajavarma8882
@rajavarma8882 Год назад
​@@JustMe54328 sad 😭😭😭😭
@jumalajivee653
@jumalajivee653 Год назад
3:10 manmohan singh great pm and economist of india and world
@arnabpaik8287
@arnabpaik8287 Год назад
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
@rizzu18
@rizzu18 Год назад
Alhamdulillah, I am from a rural area of ​​Jammu and Kashmir. If someone is doing a big wedding here, it is said that he has done a lot of bad things because he has increased the rituals for the people, so here we have Marriage without dowry and very simple.
@DeepikaSingh-fn7gh
@DeepikaSingh-fn7gh Год назад
So true ....i have lived in J&K and witnessed it myself ....there they're have small day wedding ...no showoff ...no dowry ...
@muntazirmehdi5250
@muntazirmehdi5250 Год назад
Which district bro I'm from poonch
@tousifj90
@tousifj90 Год назад
Not here in West Bengal. 😢
@sindyiathakur5507
@sindyiathakur5507 Год назад
Yes you are right I'm also from a village in jand k and we have very simple weddings
@udhayveersingh1855
@udhayveersingh1855 Год назад
Hello Bhai love from Jammu
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