Cultural thing... they tend to grow up working hard in school and prioritizing their work and hence they dont have the time to be in relationships for most of them...just look at the entertainment industry
Their government needs to crack down on some work policies that allows them earn money under humane work hours and yet also allows them to have a personal life outside of work.
OH NO!!! RESPONSIBILITIES!!!! I spent 10 years working 18 hour days. Because of this I had a 5 bedroom house at 30 years old, now married with kids. Find a partner as hard working as you and you’ll thrive. Sit around and complain and you’ll forever be poor waiting for your socialist overlords to give you something they taxed from productive people.
I'm pretty sure it's the idea of approaching someone that they find scary, especially when your goal is to form a relationship with them; theirs a fear of rejection in that. That's why it can be easier to just talk to strangers that you won't see again, especially if they're the one that approaches you, as with Yunjee.
I think what he meant is "approaching a stranger" or "attempting to form a personal relationship with a stranger". I have social anxiety, and this guy clearly does too.
Percentage of dating maybe going down but not in numbers Korea is copals country copals are everywhere and to Korean dating is part of there life but they not taking it as seriously.
As an exchange student in Korea, I had the chance to talk about this issue with my Korean friends. I've been told by many of them, men and women, that they don't want a child because they don't want their child to go through what they had to endure with the Korean education system. There's so much more to the low birth rate and putting off marriage in Korea than "dating is scary"
@@vgxezo7371 Its not bad, they're consistently ranked in the top 3 in the world in education. It is just very competitive and strict. Kids go to school normal 8 hours then they go to private academies after regular school and learn/study until very late in the night.12am or even later isn't unheard of, then home to sleep for a few hours than back at regular school.
@@GeorgiaGrown90 Imo rankings arent everything I think schools should still prioritize student's wellbeing. Students should still have time for their family and other passions. School isnt suppose to be someone's entire life just another facet of it and I think this is where many education systems go wrong.
Same thing for me and I'm not even from there. I want to have a stable income before creating a family but a lot of people believe that if you're a woman, you should have kids as soon as possible. If it was so easy to raise a child nowadays...
It is very insightful. Especially now with the case of that kpop idol who tried to kill herself after having a legal battle with her ex about him filming them having sex without her consent/knowledge. This guy in the video said "you spill your deepest secrets to someone and then dread if they will use it against you when you break up". It is so sad we have to keep that in mind now. Never revealing too much, or open up too much in case they will use it hurt us later.
When the guy said "It's the dread of wasting emotional energy and investing your feelings to someone and you end up breaking up" I felt that in so many levels..
In the 40s and 50s, a person with a high school diploma could afford a beautiful house, 2 new cars, a stay at home wife, and yearly vacation. Today, a person with a master degree can bearly afford a decent apartment and many of them would not dare to take a vacation. It is a sad world.
The last time I thought about holding someone's hand was like when I was 16. Now 24 and single still.... Now thinking about that, I have been living a pretty depressing life.
The romance genre in kdrama is getting pretty boring too since every kdrama seems to have a romance aspect to it, it'd be nice to see a drama that doesn't focus much on romance
A list of reasons: Hyperindividualism, poverty, easy access to new people prevents long term relationships, gender dynamics, relationship expectations, interaction work, the time investment. Our culture, and the Koreans as well, is dictated by money. It’s simply easier to buy someone’s love as opposed to win it over. So people are waiting until after college when they can just pull up in a sports car. Men are more wealthy at 35 than they are at 25. Women are more desperate at 35 than they are at 25. Unfortunately, the problem works itself out in the way we see.
@@Eric-hz8qd hahaha...100% correct..Asian dude especially Korean are simp btw..and current feminist movement A.k.A men hating movements amplify the stereotypes
@@D0x1511af Yea it's pretty sad though because most women don't know this. The sad thing is that these majority beta chumps are also the ones who will jump at the chance to protect women but women put the blame on men in general so these men also find it frustrating and over time it turns to anger and resentment and this leads to all these gender hatred we see in the world today...
I think people need to date/marry when they’re ready. I’m turning 30 in 4 months and single with no kids. If I had gotten married in my 20s it would have been a disaster. I suffered with OCD and had a hard time finding my way. I feel immense pressure to marry but I know I won’t until I meet the right person. Stay single until you’re ready bcuz relationships are not easy
Exactly my thoughts they are talking about competition it makes me laugh as they think they are the only one facing competition seriously 😂 here in India some institution are only offering 1000 seats and more than 4 lakhs students are competing for it 😒 Just imagine the pressure we go through so just don't mindlessly say that you people are going through more stress And in some entrance exams more than 14 lakhs students are competing against each other just for some limited seats 😢
@@ritzsing1552 couldn't agree more. I'm giving my Law entrance exam on 7th June and the number of seats available for the whole state is only 50!! just 50 seats available for the whole STATE.
@Sumit Naiding don't worry, you're right. He's considered hot if you don't buy into western stereotypes meant to keep guys like kintaro hayakawa being a sex symbol in the early 1900s and taking away "our women" (cause they're a possession to them) from happening again.
Sadly I feel like this is all over the world. Even for myself I want to focus more on me first and my work or studies, before finding my significant other.
Chacha: Indeed, if you have to live with the fear of having your partner break up with you and expose you, then what’s the point of having a relationship you’re not free in? May as well not date at that point, defeats the purpose.
fetchstix™ fetchstix™ yeah :/ it sucks that there are people like that can ruin your life. Nowadays all the youngin’s are rushing to date only to not understand what is dating. We all look to social media for advice but that sometimes can make it worse. We all want to protect our hearts. Can’t trust many people these days either 😔.
I know this is gonna sound kinda messed up but I have that mind set and im Mexican-American. I always think to myself "what will I gain from dating this person? I could be spending more time working and bettering myself rather than trying to get to know someone." Time is literally money and investing time in something you will most likely throw away or something that will brake soon isnt a smart investment.
Manggae Tteokki Yeah but you need children in order to build and grow the society. No/less babies means no/less future employees, employers, and money spenders, meaning, the people who should be dating, getting married, and having children will essentially need to work until they die, or start having a lot more children. That doesn't sound enjoyable. People argue for increased immigration, but that won't work well in such a homogenous society.
@@deckcadetmiles Platonic parenting is starting to become popular in the United States. Shoot, I already talked to a friend and we agreed on having a kid together without having to date each other. We are just waiting to have better paying jobs and a tad more free time.
After few days...... Asian boss: "Can you give us an interview, we were asking koreans about..." Random Korean: "No, no no way, I dont have time for these things..... bye!!"
Same problem as in Japan. Less free time to have a social life and if dating is expensive, you can only imagine how costly having a family is. You often need two working parents.
I'm 28 y.o and have been being single for 5 years. This is one of the best experience in my life. No stress, no tears and freedom to do what I want and go where the place that I want to visit alone 😂😂😂
@@UltraGamer9999999999 Because I have tried it. I have some ex-boyfriends and realize that to be in a relationship that I should be with someone that he is a good match and meet with my standard. Not because you are alone.
@@wixoss9893 Yup. We should have our ideal standard in a relationship. For example: 1. Are we have the same vision and mission in marriage/in dating or not? 2. How can we respect each other when we have a different perception? 3. How about financial management? Etc.
The reasons why I have never dated (22) are : 1. Study and internships caused me to move around a lot. 2. I'm not financially independent yet, I feel guilty using my parent's money for dating.
Her:-*"Can you imagine what it could be like not be able to go out on a date"* Indians:- *What the hell is that? It's all about Arranged marriages, isn't it?*
Dating is building memories, being romantic and playful, getting to know each other, to see if one's compatible! Arranged marriage, too often is about marrying a stranger, and probably, an unhappy marriage!
@@lenitaa7938 Well, but that's not the case here. Arranged marriage here doesn't mean just marrying off without giving thoughts or asking the boy and girl whether they wanted to get married or not after giving them enough time to know each other. It's like a blind date but with the whole family. Arrange marriage also take time like a year or two or sometimes even more. (Of course this is not always the case) But this is how it is done mostly. (Maybe not much in rural areas)
@@R3IMU .. The amount of emotional energy invested in meeting a new person and the frustration that comes from losing it - If a teenage girl can understand this and make wise choices, I would appreciate that!
I don’t think it’s just South Korea that’s dating less, I feel like it’s gen Z and millennials all around the world that barely date. And I feel that it’s down to social media and today’s current pressures. People no longer have to talk to someone’s face, they can just message someone online making everyone lazier. And because of social media everyone’s mental health is suffering. The lack of jobs and the high cost of education are also huge factors.
It's not about how many there are overall, Just how many there are in a small space. That giant metro has 26 million people in it. Seoul in the center has ten million in 600 square kilometers. I grew up in a metro of 5 million people in about 23500 square kilometers... they're really stacked up in Seoul. Your joke still made me laugh though.
@@GermAntibody agreed! But i still think India has one of the most densely populated metropolitans. For instance, i live near (not even in the main city but near it) Mumbai, which houses 24 million people in 604 sq. km :)
@Alan Deutsch oh no, you're very wrong if you think India doesn't value high paying jobs. A reason is because our large population does not get enough employment opportunities. Mlst Indians don't date, they still get arranged to marry a significant other. Indians are one of the most overworked people in the world.
@Alan Deutsch yes it is..if you see the population growth between 1950 to 1980 is crazy.I am Indian and ashamed to say this that our previous gens did not do anything other than make children..now younger ppl living in metro cities are afraid to get married, divorce rates are high, mental health issues are on rise..etc.
@Alan Deutsch i dont think that would happen any sooner cuz in india even if you dont 'date' ur parents would force you to marry anyways like an arrange marriage
I'm a introvert....I think people who aren't born introverts are just turning automatically into introverts now Edit:Leave us introverts be and u extroverts stay u Edit edit:THANK YOU FOR THE LIKES😍😙❤❤
The soldier guy deserves a tight hug he was totally on point especially when he said "Dread of wasting emotional energy" well couldn't have related better
Is it weird that seeing many ppl in their mid 20s single made me feel good? Im 22 and many of my old classmates got married and im still single so i felt anxious lately but seeing this video made me feel better
Hello Asian Boss! Firstly, I wanted to thank you for all your very interesting videos because they are very insightful and give western countries the possibility to "understand" more Asian cultures. We often tend to have misconceptions about them and your videos allow me to see things from a different angle. Personally, I come from France and, as a 19-years-old girl, I feel like my generation is dating a lot without understanding the true meaning of having a relationship. On the contrary to South Korea, I dare to say that people prefer dating than focusing on their career. Very frequently, people are going out with their friend and they don't care if they kiss a stranger. In a way, they call that "experience" but from my point of view, kissing has become something without much importance. I think that what prevent people from dating in my country is the lack of seriousness. I might be a little bit conservative too but when I hear my friends speaking about relationships, I fear that we are not evolving in a good way.
Yeah, dating seems so transactional in western Europe, casual dating is rife (not bad in itself, but sometimes it's all the person you're dating is willing to give so it seems so shallow and ....pointless to me). Better to just develop friendships in that case.
Perhaps, too much emphasis is on money, instead of romance and caring! Dating doesn't have to cost a lot! A walk in the park, going swimming, dancing, having tea and sandwiches, making cards, etc.. all build fun memories!
Yeah *ME TOO* {kind of} . Is no1 going to ask why the woman interviewing that guy assumed he's heterosexual. Maybe he's gay OR bi? Never stereotype someone OR group. Sad for that guy *THAT EVEN IF* he wasn't afraid of meeting new people, that while on deployment overseas he'd have no real time to going looking for romance {with someone local living in the foreign country he's been deployed to}. 🙋♂️ 👩🏫💔 ▶️🔞🇰🇷
@@DELTA-ib2iu I get what you're saying, but for them it's just unrealistic. They have to do what they gotta do to make ends meet at the end of the day.
@@bluepinixy That's right. You have to provide for yourself first, and a lot if the times after you do that, there is no time or energy left for dating.
/ DELTA I mean I would want to make sure my basic needs are fulfilled like housing, food, clothing etc. love can’t buy you these things and you can certainly lose love if you struggle to have these basic needs met.
Kookie~ sorry I couldn't help it lmao. But yeah, that's really true. Personally, I'm merely 14 yet I'm really worried about my future (especially in the job aspect) and success too. I've only thought about dating but... after buying a mansion lol.
Im not a korean but as a young female doctor who have been single since my later half or my med school life till now, i think people nowadays dont really date cuz they have other big commitments in life making them dont have time to date. Yes it’s sad somehow, but sometimes, im just too busy to feel sad bout my lonely life. Only when watching stuffs like this remind me of how true that people these days in dont really date anymore due to certain reasons.
7:07 Ah, it's never good to see a man dismissing the issue of sexual assault. Just because it doesn't happen much to us, doesn't mean it's not happening. It's not unique to any particular country, but each country handles it differently.
@Sesky Bae where did I mention I want to date him because he looks good, the reason can also be that the way he answered the questions was impressive n also he serves for his country.
In Indonesia the competitive is high too,but people would still go on date because it can release their stress with someone they loved and keep support each other. Dating isn't something expensive here. Just my opinion😊
It's all about priorities, who wants to drain all their emotional energy on one person, there's sm to do and so much to experience in life other than dating
I think that that would be the same in any country. Men don't experience it much compared to women, or discuss the issue with with women like women do with their friends. So for your average guy who is generally a nice, non rape-y person he is not going to have the same awareness as an average woman.
@@letterstosumin3693 Men experience on the same level as women, they just don’t talk about it and aren’t encouraged to since there’s no resources and since it’s seen as a women’s issue, they don’t report it since society doesn’t see them as vicitms
@@monkeyming5545 Sexual assault of anyone is terrible and I support all survivors. I think most women would feel sympathy for male survivors. Did you know in Korea until recently sexual assault was only defined as PIV penetration. Men and boys were not protected by legislation at all. MEN determined that, not women. Until very recently there were few female legislators. MEN need to support male survivors by making laws that help men get help and by funding support services for them. Women should too, but why don't men support each other seeing as men often hold the power in these situations? It's terrible. I feel awful for male survivors too and would do anything I can to help.
Sounds like young people are forced to put school, jobs and future ahead of dating and close relationships. Seems like very lonely and sad life. Hope they can figure out what is most important to have a happy life. It’s not money for sure. You can have everything you need without having everything you want. Theirs a big difference.
You make it sound so easy 😢 What about supporting your parents? What about the fact that housing is so expensive most of your pay goes to it? If you are average you have to work very hard just to live average. Replacing that with having a relationship may end up with you raising a family on the street 😢😭
I cant judge...I'm literally the same...I have a "bf" but I see him physically thrice a year😂....we started dating when I was a undergraduate, so we used to see each other every day. Now I'm just maintaining the relationship because i dont want to be alone...
InDstructR wish I had the answers for you. I’m American so the problems your culture experiences are so different from what I see here. Theirs a lot that I love about your culture and wish it was part of culture here, but is not.
They're wise to wait until they have their lives together before settling down. There are so many people here in the USA who are very young, can barely feed themselves, and have no secure relationships, but having babies with various men or women. And those kids grow up in poverty, usually with no father around, and make the same mistakes as their parents did.
I feel like im one of them .. I'm worried about my future than finding love .. i think if you have stable job, settled and earn right . Love will come then..
Honestly, I think this is everywhere. As someone in my 20s it is stressful working and going to school while also balancing a social life. The idea of dating seems like a chore. I don’t have time nor the drive to pursue a romantic partner. It is usually more work than it’s worth and it hurts everyone’s feeling when we inevitably break up.
Too expensive. Plus, there could be robots in the future. I could get myself a robot bf. I never dated so I’m sure having one would be more comfortable.
For me personally I just cannot find the will to invest so much time and energy on another person. There's always so much going on. So it's always been.
I'm 23 years old and I can relate to this issue..I have never dated a guy cs idk if it's some Asian trait but I've been solely focused on studies and it doesn't help when all your friends are single too 😂😂 our goal is to graduate and focus on our future and dating isn't a top priority..it's becoming an issue in Asia cs we all focus more on work than relationships.
It looks fine to me as well. From seeing a lot about Korea or interviews and stuff like that. I do see people still dating and with people. But who knows. I might be wrong. 🙂
The thing I am thinking about is if people are having sex? its bin like 10 years since I was in high school but allot of people may not of bin dating all the time but they definitely short to 1 night flings and as an adult that still seem pretty common
The way I do them they at least have that element in there and allot of short term/ long term relationships have sprouted from one night stands. I definitely know the one where you can't even talk to each other over the loud music and speaking to each other isn't really the point but in my life bonding is the name of the game with any person I talk to. If it is a one night stand then I also find it helps with talking and the possible awkwardness and walks of shame
As a Korean myself, I personally think that the biggest reason is the lack of options for meeting new people in Korea. Usually, it's mostly through 소개팅(so gae ting), which is when someone you know sets you up on a date with another person. Almost zero mingling chances out there.
Title should be "Are people really not dating anymore?" This issue is sadly now common everywhere. US, Japan, China, Korea... people are all desperate to make something out of their own lives (school, careers, survival), but at the same time people in general are also beginning to lack social skills due to how society has changed (cell phones) so many are afraid to and refuse to socialize on a bigger scale... so they go back to their busy lives and so the downward spiral goes. Then you have the internet, online/social media, and dating sites/apps... double edged swords. They COULD make dating easier but also end people's chances just as easy. People are now more judgemental than ever and just by looking someone's profile up, they can make a first impression and just write off the other person without ever having to meet or actually talk to each other. So yea, dating (or any social activities) dwindling throughout the world shouldn't come as a surprise.
In the 1980s I worked long hospital hours and still found time to have boyfriends, we partied hard and worked hard with not much sleep, caught up on some sleep on days off if necessary. We had to socialise face to face then as we didn’t have any computers, iPhones etc, not even a basic mobile phone. You had to communicate by person or landline phone and I think this is part of the problem, it’s too easy to text etc. Society and schooling has really increased the pressure to succeed as well, we were quite blasé about school, only the minority were really high achievers, I did enough to scrape through exams and no more. I wouldn’t like to be young and trying to find my place in today’s world, there’s far too much pressure put on young people today, suicide and depression is at an all time high, something has got to give or I fear for the future of the next generation. Kids and young people can only take so much!
I think the one guy had a point about everyone having access to lots of info which means people get an idea of what they want in a person, but it's a fantasy man/woman. It's difficult for the reality to live up to the idea you've created for your "perfect" match. Therefore, you can't find what you're looking for and give up. Just a thought....and Korea has a VERY high beauty standard for both genders. I think you'd have to be an anime character to attract someone.
Not dating in the year 20-29/30 is not a problem... because dating won't feed you in the future so everyone need to get a stable job first & later they can date any man/woman
0:43 tall guy was really good looking maybe that has something to do whit why he said my friends are dating fine.....(in korea overall good looking people are more confident and not all but many friends they have also good looking so they are more confident to date)who knows...
I start to think that Koreans enjoy love and compassion experiences through something else. Like, I listen to their musics and find them absorbing the lyrics deeper than any other country does. Like in any music program, they really enjoy listening to songs and sympathize with it, like way deeper and harder. Even the variety of the storyline of the song is very much colorful and they visualize it better than any other country in term of that. For example, a person can only had 2 relationships through his/her life, but they "extract" it soooo much, and when they find the music that match their story, they just dive into the memories all over again, and satisfy themselves until no more passion and energy left for the actual dating to do in the future. Same thing happens to korean drama tho. I admit their passion for drama (one of the main genre is romantic comedy), is far greater than the possibilities of the real case of it happens and being realistic love experiences for Korean people.
I hope they find the courage to date! I think, one of the best things in having a relantionship is that after a long and hard day at work, you come home ( or talk on the phone) with your loved one. Whether you talk about the bad things or the good things, you feel better afterwards. I know I do! Fighting!
Mending Wall 15 hours? Are you joking or is this a real amount of hours one works in South Korea? Please tell me you are joking. I’m an American and get irritable over 8 hours of my day lost for 5 days a week
Of all the Korean street walking videos I've watched, I've noticed several things: 1. Cars are mostly brand new and produced locally. 2. People wear nice clothes of popular brands, most of which are not cheap /to say the least/. 3. Restaurants are full in the evenings /90% young people/. So, please some korean explain to me, how exactly is it expensive to date?
Wow, their reasons are reflective in the minds of youth all over the world...especially where communities are highly urbanized and competition is fierce concerning jobs.
Regardless of arguing and debating over percentages, if this stays the trend or slowly gets worse, then like Japan, South Korea will soon experience a situation where there are more elderly and less adults and even less children. The whole feeling of needing to work, needing to study, etc for one self is very problematic. This is exacerbated by the money problem. Another contributing factor I think is the mandatory military service for males. Like the US, the prospect of trying to get a job let alone a career after spending a lot of money and time going to college to get a degree is yet another problem that contributes to this issue (in my opinion). Being mentally and physically stressed and not having much money or any money is yet another big problem. If you are not feeling physically or mentally well, you lack motivation and the will to do much; let alone thinking about dating, marriage, and even kids. South Korea being generally very traditional and conservative makes this situation more problematic. So things like the gender gap growing everyday, spy cam worries, "date porn" ... In many regards South Korean society (in general) is very naïve to these kinds of social problems and these problems becoming more and more prevalent is probably like a social shock to the general public in South Korea. There are similar societal problems in the US like most countries around the world. I just feel like the US society and culture is not as naïve, conservative, and traditional as (generally) South Korea. Thee social expectations in South Korea (often unspoken but expected) need to stop as well. Women are still (in many regards) less than men in terms of what is socially acceptable and sometimes presumed. So (for example) if a woman in South Korea were to have tattoos and piercing, many people in South Korea would give that woman _the stare_ to express disgust, pity; very negative impressions about that individual whereas going by US culture, it's not viewed in that manner (not as much). I also think that it's messed up how you need to include a picture of yourself when applying for a job in South Korea. Although not explicit, many times the employer hires what he/she considered to be more _beautiful_ so many women *and* men in South Korea opt to undergo plastic surgery (some minor, and some major). That phenomenon needs to just stop. Seriously. That's basically _low key_ discrimination. In addition, I feel like people in general these days look at what is being talked about and shown in the news and putting these issues out of proportion. On top of that, many people foolishly only use 1 sources for _the news_ when in actuality, the best way to go about learning about what's going on is to watch/read the news from *multiple* sources and then formulating your own opinion. Anyway, the gist of this situation is that there's less stress-free, free time available to many South Koreans and not as much expendable income. Therefore, many South Koreans (male and female) spend more time worrying about what they need to do for their future, what they need to do to make a living wage, and while school aged, what they need to do and what exam they need to pass to have a higher chance at getting into x school. These are all problems that stem from a very traditional and conservative nation. There are pros to doing things like they've been doing, but the expense is a regularly decreasing population, less motivation + money + time for younger people to _hook up_ let alone have kids. Problems that need to be acknowledged and resolves, but have mostly gone ignored for years upon years.
@ameasdf I know that those things are common. My point is that there are still a lot of very conservative and traditional people in South Korea that view things like tattoos and piercing as things that only thugs, crooks, etc...social degenerates.
"I think we would evolve into a more individualistic society like Japan." ...Japan... individualistic? Since when? I think they're more of a collective society than Korea! Both countries suffer from a lack of individualism and really need to fix that.
Japan is actually quite individualistic. They are famous for being respectful to other people/not sticking their noses to other's business to the point if someone gets sexually harassed in a street they wont help that person.
Individualistic societies should not be romantisized so much. Humans were not meant to live by themselves evolutionarily. That is why the rise in isolation leading to loneliness and depression.
I agree with both the army guy in tan and the guy in blue with the hat and mask, I think they are both very smart and not so easily swayed by things they hear
8:29 Guy with mask is right, people want to hold onto an ideal type and it's very specific so they bypass anyone who doesn't perfectly fit that mold. I used to be that way and when I realized what I was doing, after I met a certain guy who I found attractive and nice, I focused on things about him I liked even though he was different from my ideal. We've now been married 8 years and have a beautiful son.
I think youngster nowadays arent dating for serious relationship but just for fun and benefits, so it cant be considered actual dating. Older people at around 30 yrs old are those that r actually daring to get married.
After coming to Korea I am truly inspired by the work ethic I’ve observed in people of varying age groups. I have gotten a little lazy myself so I hope I can learn something from them.
I don't know if some of you have the same reasons as me but I don't date anymore due to I get really stressed worrying over someone I just knew for a week or a month + add the stress from work. Dating someone who has a bright future plans like marrying and getting kids got me stressed so much lol. It just means I'm not ready for this kind of commitment. And it really pains me to see them hurt whenever I decline or break off dating them. It made me restless because they were good guys and I think they deserve someone better who are on the same page as their bright plans but they don't understand that. 😞
I think there is misconception of love. You don't "need" to find your other half, and if you're alone that doesn't mean you'll be mentally sick. It is the obsession of wanting someone and feeling that you aren't what you're expected to that makes you sick (in the first place your ego).
well I'm 25yo, from Europe, and I see this trend here as well. as for myself and many of my colleagues and friends, next to work and all that crap going on in today's society no one seems to either have enough energy left to date and get invested in building a relationship or is too mentally wounded and therefore terrified of doing said things. people get lonelier and lonelier and imho one of the biggest reasons are our technological advances. the world we live in today isn't the world us humans and our souls are meant to live in. this already is an inevitable race to the bottom which will eventually accumulate to events we don't want to imagine. I'm afraid it's too late for a change, since the majority of our population would have to willingly pursue said change. still there are ways for each one of us to change our very personal space and mind. to become mindful and involved in a world that's worth living. make that change. now.