Kids who are humiliated and criticized all the time become enemies of themselves in adulthood.. And its worse than anything that could happen to anybody
Yes . And it's own relatives and school bullies who do that. These kids later become socially awkward and can't stand up for themselves. But they have been bullied and neglected.
علامہ اقبال نے جب شکوہ لکھا تھا تب کافی عرصہ ٹک چہ میگویاں ھو رھی تھی مگر جواب شکوہ لکھ کر مطمئن کر دیا ٹھیک اسی طرح آپ نے اولاد کو میسیج دے کر والدین کو مطمئن کیا ابوسفیان
Ya Allah , Please give my parents a longer life. I still want them to look at me in the peak of my dreams and I want to show them that their sacrifices are worth it. Ameen .
With respect Sir, kuch parents asay bhi haen, jin ki negligence ki wajha say un kay bachoo ki zindagian barbad ho gaen .Sabass hay asay bachoo par jo phir bhi apnay parents ki is leya kidmad kratay haen qun kay ya Allah ka hukum hay.
Bus Allah say ummed lagen. Yah sab log olad hi ko bura boltay , jan joo logo nay aap par jota utta hota hay. Aap Allah kay hawalay kar daen, woh kabhi na kabhi zaroor nawazay ga. Allah Pak nay aap ko jo kuch deya hay ,us par sukar ada kraen. Jo nahi mila woh qismat may tha hi nahi ,is ley us ko sochnay ki zarort nahi hay.
@@shaistajanjua2557 mei mehsoos kr skti hn q k har roz qayamtein Tori jati hn mujh pr ACHA WAQT ayega ye sunty or kehty life nikl hi gai Aj bhi dard mei hi hon.. Bs mere liye b boht dua kre GA Wesy b ramzan agya h
My parents were unable to understand or may be communicate to my problems , they had an idealistic approach towards me ... And I wasn't able to communicate to them in the worst of my times ... But they are still the gem of my life , God bless them with greaterhealth and dignity. Ameen
Sometimes parents they are not setting a good example for the children. Like parents constantly humiliating each other in front of their kids. It creates a mental streas for kids
@@mahamdilshad3727 Exactly, no one listens. There nothing we can do about it. I had an emotional meltdown last month and I had to see a psychiatrist. The only thing I can do is pray. And I hope that Allah will help me.
Very painful nights and days by thinking all along about the arrogance and disrespect......May Allah swt bless the offspring to follow the straight path Ameen
Professor shb ap ki sari baten kitabi hain , ye bht detailed topic hai ap apni soch se byan kr k farig ho gay hain, ap mehrbani farma k apni baten jaib main rakhen ...
Sir ji absolutely right..... Is poori video mn , me ye samjhta rha k ap sirf aor sirf mery upper bat kr the he....... Sir ji you are great, Allah Pak AP ko salamat rkhy
Sir ..AP ki baton se itna ptaa chlaa ha.keh bchon ki koi izat ni hai..unki toheen ho to wo sbr krty rhay.self reppect ni..ek individuals k sary faisly parents ne krne hen to phr robots behtr hen insan se
بہت پیارا بیان فرمایا آپ نے ۔ اللہ پاک جزائے خیر دے بچے باپ کی بات کو اہمیت نہیں دیتے جبکہ باپ ان کے لئیے آنے والے وقت میں آسانیوں کا معاملہ چاہتا ہے اور بچے فرمانبردار اور نیک بھی ہوں۔ اس کے سلسلے میں آپ جب لاہور میں کوئی پروگرام کریں تو ہم بھی بچوں کے ساتھ شامل ہوں ۔ ایسے وقت کآ انتظار رہے گا
Very rightly pointed out by some people that you show one side of the coin..... That was what I also noticed while watching one of your videos..... With due respect, considering you as a motivational speaker, I have following suggestions for you :- 1. Select and speak on a topic in a wholesome manner 2. Don't be afraid wrt length of your videos..... In my opinion it should be min of 15 min 3. Tons of books in English are available on topics those our respected motivational speakers are dilating upon..... But since our people either don't understand or have left reading books so all folks prefer social media to gain wisdom.... 4. What is missing in those books is relevance to our culture and social norms.... So it would be a wise thing not to communicate the English stuff in Urdu but to correlate the theory with our practical day to day examples.... 5. The above stated would only be possible if you choose to be a professional counselor as it would add on to your knowledge which is actually the "street knowledge" ....which is actually needed to be conveyed to the people to give a spark towards the right direction.... 6. Sir, I think that you have enough of spark in yourself but on screen it is not fair enough to move the youngsters .....so may be you like to get tips from a professional media producer.... 7. In the end.... I would say a job well done overall..... With Good Luck.....
U must be right dr sab, lemme share my story shortly with you. Many apny waldain say bachpan say suna hai k mery paida hony py wo khush nhi thy q k unko beta chahiay tha.. matric tak to mjy cheson ki zyda smj nhi thi, sirf itna pta tha k many kuch aisa krna hai jis say mery parents ko proud feel ho, hmesha extraordinary student rhi hun, 9th class main mery parents ny mjy bht force kia k main arts k subject rakhun, so that BA kron or usk bad wo meri shadi kr dain, many zabardasti science subjects rakhy, jb mery choty bhai matric tak pohanchy mery waldain chahty thy k wo science subjects rakhyn q k arts ka to zamana hi nhi.. zabardasti dono ko unki marzi k khilaf science rakhwai.. fsc main again mery parents mjy fa k liay force krty rhy, jb k mery bhai fa krna chahty thy dono ko zabardasti fsc k liay zor daity rhy, dono ko achy or mehengy waly college main dakhil karwaya jb k mjy kha gia, pas ka jo college hai agr to wahan say parh sakti ho theek hai wrna parhai chor do... Khair story short krti hun.. ro dho k fsc ho gai meri med main admission nhi mila meri mother working lady thin, unhon ny mera private med college main admission krwa dia.. is sary arsay main mery walid wo wahid insan thy jinhon ny mjy degrade kia or hmesha mjy let down kia.. graduation ho gai to mjy khi job nhi krny di, kisi na kisi bahany ghr hi bithay rakha.. mny socha theek hai agr mn css ki tyari krti hun, 2 saal to mny u hi ghr mn guzar diay css ki tyari ki, mera 1st attempt mn clear nhi hua.. dosri attempt mjy kbi dainy hi nhi di... Bus hmesha ghr k maslon ka hawala daity rhy k yh ho jay to phir mr laina etc etc.. ab main 26 ki hun main apni zindagi ko peechy daikhti hun to sochti hun mery hath main kia hai, apni zindagi k itny saal kia many dhoky main guzar diay.. ab wo chahty hain k main unki marzi say shadi kr lun or achi achi housewife ban k baqi ki zindagi guzar dun.. muj say meri kitabain chen li hain jo meri wahid dost thi.. Dosri side py mery bhai hain.. dono ko wo dr engineer bnana chahty thy, aik matric pas hai dosay ny ro dho k BA kia hai.. mjy mery walid khty hain tumary hath isliay kuch nhi hai q k tum walidain ki nafarman ho, yh nhi samajty k unki wja say jo itny saal many zehni azait main guzary hain or abhi b guzar rhi hun... Kal ko agr mn in say door ho jati hun ya in say in say apna relation limited kr daiti hun (jo k mn kron gi) to yh khain gy beti ko parhaya tbhi wo chor gai Sawal mera sirf yh hai hum har jga sunty hain walidain ko uff na kro unki baat say inkaar na kro, kia waldain ko pochny wala koi nhi? Kia Allah b hum bachon ko saza day ga? I hope ap mera comment parh k response zaroor dain gy
Assalam Alaikum sir..Jazak Allahu khair..once again u have guided us all .so well . May Allah keep u in his rahmat and protection. AAMEEN .U r a true mentor.
Yes bikul sahi baat k bachon ko patents se kabhi koi baat nahi chupani chaye or parents ko bhi apni trbiyat pr itna yaqeen hona chaye k unka bacha kabhi ghlt kaam nahi krega baqi allah ki mdd k beghair koi kuch nahi krskta neki bhi nahi thanks apne ye vedio bnai aj kl ik trend chlgya he k parents ki trbiyat ki jae bs bacho ko madr pidr azad chor diya jae
This is the most difficult part but i believe as being a children we can try our best , every possible way to teach them the importance of parenting by showing love , care , huging them often . It is possible they May lack knowledge of care .
naila warraich same question I am asking. I know some parents they take revenge. And try to ruin their children life. You just save your and your kids life and run off.
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Maa bap ab bacho ko cash krate hain , investment bna k use krte hain onay shadiyan b nai krwate aur kete hain jitna perhain ge utne paise ghar ain ge. Is bat pr ap kia bolen ge? Jo apne mtlb k liye itna gir sakte hain to in se acha salook kese insan kr sakta hai ? In k sath rehna b bht ehsan hai in pr
