Are you the problem? Attachment Theory and Moving On 

U should be a producers because you a blog maker🔥

I just discovered your channel through this video. I watched it in its entirety and then again a second time for about half way through. I appreciate your video and your sharing of all your knowledge. I tried to find the answer to whether I am the problem or not as suggested in your video title, but couldn’t find for sure how to know. However, I think that I am. I think I am fundamentally flawed, and may be broken beyond repair. In my quest to figure out why my relationship is so lonely, over the past few months I discovered attachment types for the first time. I’m not sure when this information came about in psychology (I minored in psychology back in 2013). I recognize that I am a woman with fearful avoidant attachment style. My spouse has avoidant attachment style. When I try to communicate with him regarding my needs he ignores me/is dismissive, but the more I reflect on myself I think it’s that neither of us have good communication skills. And maybe mine are worse and that’s why he is unwilling/unable to communicate with me of give me what I need in the relationship? We have been married almost 17 years and I have endured this loneliness and lack of connection nearly the entire time and I am now strongly considering divorce. Do you take new clients for therapy?

I recently stumbled across a Attachment specialist by the man of Adam Lane Smith on RU-vid and found his take on attachment styles interesting, particularly his videos on Disorganized Attachment aka Fearful Attachment and Ethical Attachment. I’d love to hear your thoughts about it Maggie. 🙏🏾