ASKING MY MUM WHY SHE ABANDONED ME FOR 21 YEARS

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When I was 9 years my mum told us she was going to further her education in the capital city Accra . It was a LIE !!! She left us ( me and my 2 sisters) to the USA.
It’s been 21 years now. In this video I get to ask her, why she abandoned us for this long
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@loventi3268 10 месяцев назад

I'm Christabel, nanelle's kid sister and all i can say is my mom is honestly the best mom ever ❤ we love and appreciate her so much 🙏🏾❤️😭my eyes were teary throughout the whole video

@kemisolaolaleye-4763 10 месяцев назад

Awww,God bless you dear

@preciousmadonna 10 месяцев назад

Awww❤

@lorettasworld5398 10 месяцев назад

Aww😊❤

@claudianyame 10 месяцев назад

🥰

@orangesandroses9448 10 месяцев назад

Sorry for all the hardships your family had to go through

@xxtracyxx 10 месяцев назад

Hello guys, I am Tracy. Nanelle's second youngest sister, and honestly my mom's migration to the states will always be something bittersweet to me because I was born here in the states. But without her sacrifices I wouldn't be where I am today. None of my siblings would be where they are today and all I can say is mom you are so near and dear to all of us. We love you to the ends and I am so proud to call you MOM. I love you plenty. Thank you for evertything truly. Thank you for sharing your story.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Love you Tracy ❤️

@shiktrastephen4605 10 месяцев назад

Oh Nanelle you got me crying so deeply this morning 😭❤️

@shiktrastephen4605 10 месяцев назад

I wish I can make same sacrifice for my kids... I have tried harder as a nurse but it doesn't seem coming for over 2 years.

@lillianugochukwu-essien7086 10 месяцев назад

❤️

@makeupbygloria 10 месяцев назад

@@shiktrastephen4605 don’t lose hope god’s timing is the best

@Dorothy8631 10 месяцев назад

If she now has her documents, I advise she goes home to see your other siblings. Time and tide wait for no man.

@bettynarh7874 10 месяцев назад

I'm sure she doesn't but we will all wish her well and pray for her to get all her heart desires. 🙏

@bglr2783 10 месяцев назад

Sometimes some parents forget that their kids need them and not their money always. You can always make money but can never get back the time. 21yrs is too long. It must have been hard for both the mother and the kids left behind.

@helped.2318 10 месяцев назад

My sister left for the USA some years back leaving her kids behind, it was really tough bringing them in and she had to relocate to Canada. Now they have reunited after 7 long years to God's glory

@tsitsitafa3709 10 месяцев назад

When you spoke about the lady who used to pray over you at school I could not hold my tears anymore!Mamas closing words were very powerful,we should learn to care for ourselves and our health.

@DdynamicNurse 10 месяцев назад

Same here 😭

@foodworld8540 10 месяцев назад

Same here

@florzyogada4442 10 месяцев назад

As a mom who has left her baby home to fend for the family, I totally understand mommy 😢. Dear our kids, please understand that We can't abandon you .we love you so much ❤

@GeeThamae 10 месяцев назад

As an expat who left my 3kids back home, I can relate with this mom. 🥺🥺🥺 But God is faithful, he will help me get my kids soon.

@SCNNICURN 10 месяцев назад

I can relate to some of her experiences. When i moved to the UK, I moved without my son. The lockdowns prevented my from going for him when i had planned (it took a full YEAR). It was a horrible experience for me and my mom took lovely care of him however the separation was a lot for me. And he regressed (he was 2). When he moved here he was 3 and needed to adjust. He's doing well now. A few weeks ago he asked me if I remembered when he "lost me". Despite how much childcare cost here if we cant live here together, I'd rather go home.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Wow

@robindyson9812 10 месяцев назад

Oh my heart😢 ‘when he lost u’…. That was how he interpret it

@myGodisFaithful100percent 10 месяцев назад

Uhnnnnnmm it is well.

@Fifi-qs2mu 10 месяцев назад

Oh no😢

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 10 месяцев назад

A friend of mine's son actually became mute for the whole year she spent in the UK doing her Master's.

@draaa2893 10 месяцев назад

I came to the UK without my child and I almost ran Mad. Only God knows what your mum has been going through for 2 decades. God bless you mama. You are very brave❤❤❤

@gracechukwurah3606 10 месяцев назад

I can relate 😢

@paterasbite 10 месяцев назад

My mom passed last year in Ghana, I’ve to be ok with not seeing her again. As the only child living alone in the UK, this is a big blow. Sending love to anyone going through a similar situation 💕💕

@teimatata 10 месяцев назад

My condolences. May you find peace.

@evansasiedu7383 10 месяцев назад

Stay strong dear

@charlestobenna7753 10 месяцев назад

Stay strong

@kumbiaros216 10 месяцев назад

Omg...i busted to tears when Nanelle broke down . .and I've been trying holding myself bk ooo.....this seems like a therapy session for you and ur mum Nanelle..... most importantly thank God for life....❤❤❤❤

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Yhh it’s been therapeutic

@Lafrix211 10 месяцев назад

This is emotional and I didn't see my mum over 10years and I love how open your mum is with the situation and others pretended like it didn't happen

@NursesToRiches 10 месяцев назад

Girl... You're making me cry too early in the morning. Your mom is so sweet. I see where you get your kindness from.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Jason ❤️🙏🏽

@MissCee_88 10 месяцев назад

Nanelle. Thank you for this video. This is so important. Mother daughter relationships are gold.

@munachimsoamachaghi825 10 месяцев назад

This is so touching 😢😢. May God see everyone through, the journey of life can really get tough sometimes.

@ama5179 10 месяцев назад

The challenges of a parent. Yous are so real! Its emotional but am glad theres harmony and hopefully no hard feelings towards mum.

@Gloriaeeeee 10 месяцев назад

Jeees Nanelle, you made me cry. I appreciate how open and vulnerable you and your mom was talking about this. This was tough!

@ginosmedia13 10 месяцев назад

This got me ! God safe every child out there lacking parental care.

@mwangalangonda287 10 месяцев назад

It is well Nannelle. What matters here really is the reunion. Enjoy every moment with your mom from now on wards. Love you.

@christabeloweredaba2947 10 месяцев назад

This is so beautiful, the sacrifices our parents pay to give us the best life, may God bless them. God bless you mummy

@anumaduadanma2224 10 месяцев назад

Awwww Nanelle this is sooo emotional…… u are brave to put it out in the open!!! Our parents do soooo much for us, more grace mama!!

@Rose_1105 10 месяцев назад

You’re at a better place now. Awwww ❤ Nanelle I have lost my mum now close to a year now and I’m still here Thankfully you have reunited now. Everything that happened was all good

@marthamurisa8027 10 месяцев назад

Hey Nanelle thanks for sharing. This really tore at my heart and made me shed some tears. Both you and your mum are really strong. Mum's love is unconditional. God bless you both😢❤

@omoladeodulate7056 10 месяцев назад

I can't imagine I actually cried watching this video. This is so emotional . Thanks for sharing your story with us❤❤❤

@Nashiqka7 10 месяцев назад

Awww, Nanelle what a great reunion and such a lovely mum you all do have. She has really fought hard for you all and still is. May God Almighty continue to bless and grant you all a happy family reunion together, Amen 🙏

@haridabeauty 10 месяцев назад

This is emotional 😭 😭😭 I give thanks to God for this day. Thank God for life and thank God that you guys turned out right. God Bless your mum and keep her always.

@chelesanisibanda2224 10 месяцев назад

Nanelle, thanks for this raw and difficult conversation with your mom. I really got emotional watching this. So glad you and your siblings don't hate your mom. God bless you and family. Enjoy each other's company.

@PastorVictorBamidele 10 месяцев назад

My BEST “BESTEST” Episode….Love you mum. A typical Ghanaian mum…Good Heart and KIND SPIRITED. May God keep mum in Health

@tosinolagboye8590 10 месяцев назад

Sending you hugs. A lot of this is relatable. It feels like my own life’s story…..down to grandma getting cancer and all. But maybe ABANDON is not the right word because you know she did what she had to do to make sure that you get a good life. Glad you’re reunited.

@luciennevifemseh6156 10 месяцев назад

Your mother is indeed a good woman. God bless her immensely and continue to keep your family united.

@busylittleus2853 10 месяцев назад

Wow what a beautiful story... God bless you all for not feeling anger towards your mother... its looks like you understand the sacrifices she made. Thank God for your village too support is necessary when you have children ❤

@joasitz9559 10 месяцев назад

Very emotional, I'm praying for your family and your good mom. For sure, it was a very good moment.

@houseofmapel 10 месяцев назад

This makes me soooooo emotional... Could not stop the tears, but I want to thank.GOD for the gift of life over yours🙏..i love and appreciate your mum and grandma.

@Unmuteddiscussions23 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Nanelle for this episode. Trust me your Mom and your sisters are not alone in this situation. As an African society these issues are hardly talked about and pple struggle alone. Last week my daughter cried at school and i got a call i ddnt sleep that night

@afrehlinda-io3oi 10 месяцев назад

Hi Nanelle, your story is really touching, and I've really learnt a lot from you and your mom. I couldn't hold my tears when you were speaking about your friend's mom who used to gather and pray for those whose parents weren't there. Kudos to you and your mom for sharing your story.

@lifewithchioma 10 месяцев назад

Phew! Big hugs to both you and mum, Nanelle. This was hard to watch😢.

@favouramara4504 10 месяцев назад

I cried...love of a mum is like that of God to us...Thank you mum for all the sacrifice...Naneelle She is so proud of you...Thanks for holding on too...

@gaiusrexfordkunzong4359 10 месяцев назад

This is very emotional. Your Mom is a great woman just like you Nanelle. Much love to you and Mom❤❤❤

@fredagitonga7822 10 месяцев назад

Nanelle I feel your pain, I feel your mom's too it's complicated. But in all we thank God to even have an opportunity to Sit and have this conversation ❤.

@DinewithSianorkie 10 месяцев назад

Your mum is so hardworking and i see that in you as well. Very emotional video. Hopefully, your other siblings get to see her soon❤

@joanaboaten3600 10 месяцев назад

Awwww! Nanelle I’m tearing as I watch this video.. too emotional… beautiful mum and beautiful children, God bless your parents wai. She done so well.

@suubisss 10 месяцев назад

A lot of us went through this experience hence this video was very touching. We have to be grateful that we made it. Thanks to all who sacrificed and did something to see us through. God bless you Nannelle.

@JosephineOshoiribhor 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing this video my love. This is my first time to see you cry, I cried also, it was so emotional. Thank God for the reunion. I remain your big fan

@pattinahukah3146 10 месяцев назад

Glad you reunite with your mum after such a long time. I believe, she has her papers now to be able to visit home, see the other children & heal herself finally ❤. God bless you all🙏🏻.

@NursingWithRay 10 месяцев назад

This was so heartwarming ❤I was crying my eyes out 😭 loving the US content Nanelle

@PJLive-zo9jz 10 месяцев назад

What I like most about this video is Nanelle's mindset, kind heart and great sense of wisdom. Most people are quick to criticise others without examining the reasons behind their actions. Nanelle dealt with this in a very mature way even though she was somehow impacted by her mother's absence. Thank you, dearest Nanelle, for being so gracious and considerate in this video; may you all find the place for healing and complete bonding as a family.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your kind words ❤️

@damilolaot-dj9qn 10 месяцев назад

😭So touching. African leaders should be really blamed for all this pains families are going through just to provide secured future for their kids.

@py20 10 месяцев назад

There are families prospering in Africa and taking care of their children in Africa. Do African leaders deserve praise?

@juliaemeh 10 месяцев назад

@@py20, you need to ask some of those families what they are doing to keep prospering the way you feel they are, some of them have keyed in to the corruption properly, and some doing other shady things, which is why there's unnecessary killings and disappearance of people. Only few are truly prospering plainly. So people have genuine reasons to leave as not everyone can subscribe to such dirty lifestyle.

@py20 10 месяцев назад

@@juliaemeh I have no problem with anyone who wants to leave; in fact, I have. But the fact remains that the vast majority of our people are home and not everyone is sustaining themselves and their families by corrupt means. People are doing legitimate work in Ghana and prospering and reaping the results of their hard work. FACT!

@bolu101 10 месяцев назад

@@py20 you're only focusing on the financial aspect, do you know that a lot of people have left their good paying jobs to move abroad?

@py20 10 месяцев назад

@@bolu101 Prosperity is not only about money. There are people flush with cash who are miserable, and such people can be found anywhere.

@princessnessy4778 10 месяцев назад

Wow! Suvh an emotional video... In all you and your mum came out strong.. Thank God for a peaceful and joyous reunion

@lolank4853 10 месяцев назад

Waoooo. You look so much like your mum. Kindness runs in your family. Weldon ma'am. Thank God for the reunion. Awesome. More Grace 🌹 rgds

@kwadwoaduse3058 10 месяцев назад

There’s always a side of the story you’ll never know until it’s told! It’s not all rosy! We thank God for both of you 🙏🏾

@MidwifeJamie 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing. Have been teary throughout.

@victoragbaka305 10 месяцев назад

The human heart is the same. Every sincere conversation connects with the heart. I am happy for you, Nanelle for wonderful reunion. God bless your family 😊

@angelinaoseiafrifa1583 10 месяцев назад

Awwww Nanelle, well done you made me shed tears 😢but anyway it worth it. Enjoy her before coming back. Mummy is glowing 🎉

@claudianyame 10 месяцев назад

I have really learnt a lot from mommy, you have to have a good heart and things will fall in place❤

@perpetuamatandirotya6256 10 месяцев назад

Waal so emotional ,could not hold my tears .Things we do for our children. May the dear Lord bless your mum my sister.🥰🥰🥰

@rocklandrockland2680 9 месяцев назад

Nanelle, this is a tear-jerker, my wife and I shred tears. Thank you so much. Many blessings to you and the family.

@cennysworld 10 месяцев назад

I cried my eyes out! 😭😭😭😭😭 There is nothing that can be compared to the love of a mother. ❤❤❤

@fredkofi75 10 месяцев назад

You're mum's such a grateful person Just being thankful throughout the video ♥️

@anonnona6433 10 месяцев назад

I am so glad your mom is willing to understand how you felt. Some parents would get defensive and start listing all the sacrifices and the money they sent. We appreciate all the sacrifices but a mother's love is irreplaceable and both parties should give each other grace.

@WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy 10 месяцев назад

Awww,sweet Nanelle don't cry....u made me cry too seeing u cry.....nice video,thanks for sharing

@evansasiedu7383 10 месяцев назад

Easily relatable video for us who have parents left for greener pastures. Parents go through a lot to fend for their children for where we come from

@jessicawest224 10 месяцев назад

This is so lovely and so emotional to watch ❤

@edithofeidarko3801 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Nanelle for sharing this, God bless every mother, the living and the angels amongst us.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏🏽

@anitaloolo2535 10 месяцев назад

Ooooo this is so emotional. Thank God for the lemonade advert. Haba

@babatundesho4735 10 месяцев назад

This is so touchy!! I couldn't control my tears.

@xencyp6528 10 месяцев назад

Ooh my God , I am crying 😭 feeling your pain, I also grew up with my grandmother 👵🏾, but it was good. It’s good to open up like this

@sedenkoryawadeklu 10 месяцев назад

Oh my! Nanelle you made me cry watching this video. I thank God all the sacrifices were worth it 🙏

@GhanaViAku 10 месяцев назад

Awwww, this is emotional. Glad you let it all out Nanelle. Everything happens for a reason 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@Mabel956 10 месяцев назад

See me without a mother and father crying 😭😭😭😭

@kemilove9050 5 месяцев назад

Thank God for the reunion 🫂 you have a great mommy. Take good care of her. Am also a new subscriber ❤❤.

@Its-me-Stancy 10 месяцев назад

So emotional that I wept and I am also imagining myself in a similar situation since I am about to leave my kids to the UK in few days . It is a difficult decision to make but the Almighty will see us through .

@favournwabunwanne9684 10 месяцев назад

This is so emotional 😢,your grandma did well and your mum too she have to sacrifice ❤much love ma😘

@Asiedua100 10 месяцев назад

Your video brings me so much joy. I’m happy your met your mom and despite the circumstances she made sure you and your siblings were well catered for. It’s quite the opposite for me but watching full circle moments like this warms my heart❤️

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Awwwww ❤️

@primpat3 10 месяцев назад

I can relate to this no amount of money can justify leaving our children we live to learn the guilt,the regrets thank God you have reunited there are so many families who are yet to reunite, it was very emotional for me to finally meet my own children.thank u for uploading this it helps people to understand the journey

@khadee8129 5 месяцев назад

This beautiful but emotional video made me cry. I enjoyed watching it. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

@josephinesamani9368 10 месяцев назад

Oh Nanelle, you made me cry here. I had to rush to my office washroom to cry. Some of us had our parents but we never had the emotional support. I had to emotionally support my younger siblings as a child but God has been good to us. I do not blame my parents. They did their best and God bless them. It is well.

@_Serendip 10 месяцев назад

The ❤ of a mother!!!!! You made me cry. I am happy for you guys. A mothers ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

@helped.2318 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Nanelle, thank you mama🎉🎉. It's really a journey. Immigration is not always a straight line graph.I've been there too, left my 7months old baby behind and it's an experience I don't wish for any mother😢. Thank God we have reunited now. It's never easy on both sides

@ashleymushonga8149 10 месяцев назад

i love your camera quality. its straight on point💞💞💞

@ojojofego7995 10 месяцев назад

I cried watching this video. Nanelle why do you have to make me cry? Thank God for this reunion

@akpuesther1306 10 месяцев назад

Awww So happy God made this reunion happen, God bless you mummy

@GhanaViAku 10 месяцев назад

Easy on mom Nanelle, 😅😅. We thank God for everything. God bless and keep u mom❤

@joyken9119 10 месяцев назад

There's so much to learn here as a mother... Your mum really did her best👏👏👏 thank God you all are fine. Thank you for setting up this video, you are real...and I like you for that ♥️

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Thank you

@patienceusiosefe254 10 месяцев назад

God bless that woman who chose to pray for the children whose mothers were not around. Really emotional 😢

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Hmmmm

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

She’s passed unfortunately but I know she’s in a good place

@leticiaboniamoah8491 10 месяцев назад

This is soo touching ,a well deserved family reunion

@amarachiakahara5374 10 месяцев назад

This really made me emotional. We all have our stories . Your mom did what she did because of you and your siblings. Thank God you all are smiling now. I love you Nanelle ❤

@frederickatiah4901 10 месяцев назад

Great video. Thank you for being vulnerable. My question is, what is preventing her from visiting Ghana now to see your big and little sis?

@gloriatopeng 10 месяцев назад

Awwww this made me cry 😢❤ thank you for sharing this with us

@chernorabdulkarimjalloh2697 10 месяцев назад

So emotional 😭 she is a strong woman and a gem ❤ May Allah continue to bless her with good health and long life

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏🏽

@Raboni2g2 10 месяцев назад

This is so emotional. I understand the feeling. I have been in the UK for 10 months now, I couldn’t help I brought my child on the 8th month.

@yaaosafo4288 10 месяцев назад

You ask really relevant questions Nanelle. Thanks for sharing your life with us. It is interesting to hear this and playback our times in primary school and JSS. Thanks for shouting out Edith's mum. This conversation gives me a new perspective. Keep soaring.

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Awwww Yaa Amanua … thanks for watching ❤️

@papaandah2297 10 месяцев назад

This is emotional well done Nanelle you are strong

@afuaamoako6495 10 месяцев назад

Nanelle, you made us all cry this morning. God continue to bless Mama and grant her all her heart desires ❤

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Awwww

@alexandrailubs2945 10 месяцев назад

I want to thank you for being a good and Beautiful child. Your mum is proud and I am very proud of you too

@NanelleGriselda 10 месяцев назад

Awww thank you

@jhazidee401 10 месяцев назад

very emotional topic may you all continue to heal

@qareemzidiqat8745 10 месяцев назад

This is so emotional 😭 I miss my mum so much (Rip) I'm just a single child of my mum without siblings

@samuellaboadi5902 10 месяцев назад

Awwww you made me cry 😭 Thank God you and the entire family have made it and are doing well 🙏

@mimimidehamble4557 10 месяцев назад

This was very emotional,God bless you mom even from the way she speaks one can tell she is a good person.

@amaapprey3205 10 месяцев назад

I cried throughout the video.May God heal mend your broken hearts and fill it with love.I pray for a speedy breakthrough so your two siblings also reunite with your mum.Enjoy your stay! 🙏💞