#AskthePigeonLady 

They can talk to the bird more usually they love that, or have them give their favorite treat/food. Also they view bathing together as bonding so when they get their bath you can have them there

I don’t know if this helps, but I can tell by their body shape and body language, the male’s neck is a bit wider, almost straight from head to shoulder (wide, kinda like Leo Messi’s neck 😅) and they walk tougher, almost like a military march (not always, but never seen females do that) vs the female, the neck is slimmer, more delicate and feminine, the neck much more defined. They walk with shorter steps, (if they had Hands they would probably walk with the pinky finger up as if everything around was dirty 😹) this has always worked for me, I’ve not yet confused a male with a female pigeon. It’s just difficult to tell when they are not yet adults, as they still have the delicate body and behavior of a child. But once they become adults: it’s visible.