ASMR | (Alleged) Neighborhood Gossip 10-26-2021 (Soft Spoken-ish) 

You were in the right. If she doesn’t want to accept responsibility for her plants (allegedly) then someone has to. Thanks for the laughs and good on you for standing up for yourself!

Mary: *throwing jane’s trash back in her yard” Jane: What is this garbage?? Mary: I don’t know what you mean, your yard always looks like this

The 2 dislikes are John and Jane 😸. They sound horrible and narcissistic.

"Jane" sounds like she is unhinged. Hypothetically, of course.

You’re a better woman than me, I would’ve screamed at the sight of her flopping them back over the fence! Hell no!

I think your lawn mowing outfit is the cutest. These people are also teaching their kids not to be accountable they should keep their darts in the yard or at least pick them up. Jane needs help.I am working on speaking up for myself more.

Imagine if her neighbors had a asmr channel also and they talk about neighborhood gossip lmao😂👀 Also good for you for standing up for yourself girl, I feel like we all need to these days!

What a satisfying hypothetical neighborhood update this was 👏 My dad planted the same exact “f u” trees in our backyard after new neighbors moved in. They grow so quickly and look really beautiful. Backyards should be an oasis, not something that stresses you out so I hope they help resolve the issues! Out of sight, out of mind 👍

I'm not used to gossiping, so this would not be the type of video i would voluntarily watch, but there's something in you that makes it more interesting. You're a true storyteller. The way you articulate and talk is just to facinating, it makes the most simple story into something unique. Keep doing these gossips. I'm totally here for it hahahahah

Most cities have ordinances regarding how close someone can plant or build to the easement. It avoids problems like you have with your neighbor. She’s probably violating some ordinance with her plants being so close to your property. You definitely have the right to trim anything that hangs over into your yard. If she doesn’t like it then she needs to move her plants. I can’t believe she Is unable to see that she is wrong, but then again this is hypothetical.

Raised in the South I certainly have the issue to swallow my pride and not speak up when something bothers me. There is definitely a culture to “not make a fuss”.

So I'm only six minutes in and I already have to ask... why in the seven hells would your yard ruin her shoes? You got some raw sewage? Volcanic ash? A syphilis puddle?

Pleeeeeeeeeease don’t feel bad. I was getting so angry just hearing about what those neighbors are trying to get away with; the only thing that helped alleviate my rage was you finally getting a bit of justice!

This is my favorite show!! Edit: a spray bottle full of bleach in the dead of night would do wonders for miss jane’s plants. They’ll turn brown and crusty at first but that just means it’s working!

I'm a master at ignoring people 😂 Same girl, same. Also, they deserved alot more than that. Hypothetically, of course. Love your videos by the way!

YES! I was just talking to my husband tonight about how I’ve grown more “ intolerable “ of people’s crap within the last 10 years. 😂 I said “ people probably think I’m a jerk and I like it”. 😂✊🏼 But side note: you’re absolutely correct. We have to stand up for ourselves. Good for you!

ON your property = YOUR property! Epic. Been there. You handled it like a BOSS. But, please watch your kitties. Had a Neigbor back in the late 90s try to hurt my cats after we got into it when he allowed his dog to tear up my fence and dig holes into my yard to try and kill my cats. He retaliated by trying to poison them. He was not successful and we caught him on video and he was charged. Very scary though.

I love that her husband didn't bother to come because he knew she's crazy and he checked out a long time ago 😂

Oh, I'm going to the bad place. Cause I laughed so hard at her scream🤣🤣🤣. I was going to suggest cutting what was growing on your side, so was very happy when you got to that part😀

Legally, you can cut anything down that encroaches over your property line.

You are more patient than me Mary! Anything on your property is your right to remove ☺️ hope you find a way to block them out!

OMG Ms Mary, you’re a legend!!!! I was raised a southern girl too and I feel my heart pounding away in my throat at the slightest confrontation - you lived my dream today!!! :D

OH MY GOD YAY I LOVE THESE THANK YOUUUU MARY SPILL. 👏🏼 THAT. 👏🏼 TEA. 👏🏼☕ I'M HERE FOR IT ALL.

You're entitled to trim any plants coming over your garden. Xxxx

This story was so satisfying!!! I needed this. I LOVE when people are put in their place.

“I’m a master at ignoring people” lololol I love it Mary 😂😂

Your soft spoken voice and hand movements are so calming and makes me so happy. Love you Mary!

Just what I needed!!! Thank you Mary!, you look great love the flannel and headband!

You said, “I got my clippers…” and I lost it! I was laughing to so much!!! 😂😂

Maryyyyy! You are back and with my all time favorite from you: neighbor gossip. Love ya.

Also I’m dying at the thought of Jane sneaking over with her claws out to take away the branches 😂😂

I’m so excited for this video! I had such a big, eventful day & this is just the cherry on top that I needed! Thank you for this video & for being you, Mary ❤️

Why couldn’t Jane have just put her totes 6 feet closer to her own house instead of hypothetically setting/planting them right up against the fence?!

Hearing all the drama with having neighbors, makes me feel so thankful for living on a ranch in the middle of nowhere, I have absolutely no neighbors…. I hope those FU trees 🌲 🌲 🌲 do you justice and keeps the peace! Love the gossip, keep the Sheers ✂️ handy 😂😂😂

These are always my favorite- you could literally have a whole channel just for neighborhood gossip

This played out in my head like an episode of Desperate housewifes and I loved every second of it 😂😂. Good on you for standing up for yourself like that ,you seriously inspire me to do the same!

I actually fell asleep very quickly on that one and I had a dream that Mary was showing us her garden, which went for miles and at the end she said ‘and this is where I’ll plant F U trees…’. I’ll need to rewatch the video to see if she actually used that term in the video or if my brain made it up lol

Mary I love love love your neighbourhood gossip videos. Saw this one and jumped with excitement. Thank you so much.

I can’t tell you how excited I was to see this (theoretically)!! I just watch all the old ones until we get new gossip!

These videos are like having a glass of wine with a friend and catching up. Thank you for your content Mary!

It’s 3am my time, and I’m sick so I’m wide awake. This is perfect timing Mary🥰. That one thumbs down must be Jane taking a break from picking peppers🤣

The hypothetical stories are my favorite, allegedly. I wish I could tell a story near half as good as you do

I have zero clue why but when you started talking about the FU trees and how they are going to place them and what else they would do I got the best tingles. I love explaining. Like the door store roleplay has been on repeat for days. Love you Mary!

I stopped the video at like 13 min to say that honestly if I saw her do that like flipping those vines over my fence, I'd chop all the ones that are haniging on my fence . Since it's on ur property u have the right to do that don't you? Cause just hearing ur story I'd get tired tucking those plants in that aren't even mine . Plus you asked her many times to move it , i wouldn't hesitate to chop it all

Yes! So excited for this! Came at such a good time for me as I’ve had a rough morning. Lots of people have been overtly aggressive with me when I’ve done nothing wrong. I was paying at the self checkout in Kmart (a store we have in Australia, and I’m already bummed out because my local Kmart is out of stock of my noise canceling headphones that I needed to exchange cos they broke last night, so I’m already panicked. (I’m autistic and have SPD so I can’t go anywhere publicly without them). Additionally i wasn’t given the correct receipt the last time I went so it was a bit of a hassle to sort that out too, again no fault of my own, and then after checking out at the self checkout, as I was leaving past the other self checkouts this couple barged/shoved into me (this is the second time this has happened) trying to get to the next self checkout thinking I was trying to get to it when in fact I was just trying to leave. Like this is a Kmart I’m not racing you to get to a checkout, I just paid and I’m trying to leave. Kinda overwhelmed after a ‘Karen’ hit my car door this morning too. Thought I’d share my ‘hypothetical’ neighbourhood gossip too 😂🎧

Mary, the way you handled your neighbour and her crazy rantings was absolutely perfect! She should count herself lucky.

Love this! Mary you're amazing! In the UK you're allowed to cut anything that's on your property but have to give it back to the owners - my mom used to enjoy cutting encroaching branches and chucking them back over to the neighbour 😂

This popped up at such a good moment 🙂 nice relaxing neighborhood gossip with my WoodWick candle on crackling 💕

You called them weeds to her face I am deadddd! Mary you inspire me to be a more confident and confrontational woman! Thank you for being you

Loved this very hypothetical story. Mary, you're a boss! Please keep us updated with "Smiths".. ❤😂

Yes! Thank you so much Mary.! I clicked as soon as I saw. It’s been a difficult day and your videos always bring a smile to my face. These are my absolute favorite!

Sorry for the troubles you are going thru, but, these are my absolute favorite videos you do and I enjoyed this immensely!! 😬😬👍🏻👍🏻

Thing is that how far it was over into your garden was irrelevant, it’s a matter of principle that if it’s on your side in YOUR garden that you own and have paid for then you can do what the hell you like. Maybe this is because I’m British but we have a very strict rule in our neighbourhood (I live in a very similar neighbourhood to the in you described with house on all sides in a grid) that if it’s your plant, then it’s your responsibility to make sure it doesn’t go into your neighbour’s garden or at the very least ask them if it’s okay for it to be overhanging over their fence. It’s just courtesy and if someone were to trim the plant over the fence we wouldn’t bat an eyelid in fact it would be us at fault for letting it go over in the first place. Good to you for showing her what’s what!

This video was great, gave me a right giggle! Well done Mary! I hope I learn to stick up for myself one day. X

Mary you are a legend!! 😅 And a good reminder of why I love living in the country away from people! 😉

I've seen issues like this before on city council. Jane is definitely encroaching your property with the plants. Trim off whatever you need to. She's enjoying her property. You have the right to enjoy yours as well!

It’s been 30 min since the video was posted and already 118 likes👍🏼?!? Wow love your vids and especially the Asmr walkthroughs

Mary, I love you! You’re hilarious!! 😂 I know this “hypothetical” story is frustrating to you, but I loved the humors incorporated into it lol Thank you! Made my night! Especially “Itchy & Scratchy 2.0” 😂😂😂😂

Ugh, I get it. My neighbor has a compost pile right next to our chain link fence and there's stinging nettle that keeps hopping into our yard. Good for you for sticking up for yourself!

That thumbnail is wild and so are these alleged neighbors. Lol. I hate when parents can't just look at the situation honestly instead of getting offended over everything their kids get called out for. It sounds like you handle this very well.

Good for you, Mary! so proud of you!! Me and my partner are moving into our first home soon, so thank you for this idea if I ever deal with this.

This made me cackle and totally made my day, I listened to this while on my lunch break. I do love these hypothetical, totally not true, made up scenarios. 😉

Good for you Mary! The fact that you dealt with their nonsense for so long 😅. I couldn’t do it lol this reminds me of something I’d see on fear thy neighbor 🤣

thank you i’m 27 and i’m trying to navigate my way through this , i was raised to be a people pleaser 🤦🏽‍♀️ and i’ve mastered it, but sometimes, i owe it too myself too push back! i can’t let myself become a pushover! i don’t feel like bs is in my blood i hope that makes sense! so this was very good advice 💞🙏

Omg yesssss I love these neighbors gossip videos THANK YOU 🙏

Good for you Mary for speaking up! Glad you are getting the "privacy" hedge. Just remember if your security cameras don't record everything if she even utters a word to you or comes to your door record it on your phone! When you deal with liars you have to hypothetically record everything just in case you wind up in front of Judge Judy! :) LOL then you will have proof! Gaslighting is the worst.

I just subscribed to your channel and I have to say, Good for You! There’s nothing wrong with standing up for what’s right (hypothetically). It’s unfortunate that not all neighbors are very “neighborly”.

So good to hear a woman say “it’s okay to speak up for yourself/defend yourself”

i was waiting for you to say that you had cut the damn branches off at least!!! and the way u handled that situation was so calm and collected i would've gone off lmao

had a long day at work today, i’m not too social with my coworkers but watching your video reminds me of chats i have with my sister, our neighbors have many cats and they often come into our backyard, poop all over our backyard, and have recently started killing squirrels. not to mention they stay pestering one of my dogs every time she takes a potty break. hard to avoid these things now so we’ve just learned to live with it 😭 however if things turn for the worst we’ll have to file some complaints. good for you on standing up for yourself and your home

I LOVE pink dogwood. Your garden is going to look even more amazing! 🌳🌺

I really appreciate what you had to say regarding not being afraid of confrontation as woman

Good for you, Mary!! Take no crap from people! F-U trees are great, plus I imagine you could decorate them really cute for certain holidays when they get big enough!

Amen sister! I was brought up the same way. I think as we age 😜 we get “tired” of people’s crap! Yay for those of us who have learned to voice our opinion! I loved your comment to Miss Morgan!

Mary you are entirely in the right we had similar problems and was told by local council you can cut what ever overhangs into your yard , you go girl 💪

oh i had a good giggle. This is why i miss living on a farm...neighbours.....they're the worst hahaha

Glad your back!!

Good for you! I was thinking of something I would do that would result in dead plants. You are a bigger woman than I am, good for you! You handled yourself well . 💕

I needed this today! I’ve recently left a very toxic partner and had words with my daughters dad and his wife. I like you feel bad but no more! They don’t give a rats ass about hurting or upsetting me! Thanks Mary xx

This made my night, thank you 😄

Good on you what she's doing is not okay. I was laughing so much during this video. I've had so many annoying neighbours. Hopefully things sort themselves out with them.

Best southern asmr videos on this channel! Aside from charity and carl

I would have used a few choice four letter words a looong time ago with Jane. I'm a super nice, easy going person, but I don't take crap from anyone, and I sure as heck don't tolerate people messing around my property. Kudos to you, Mary, for saying something! You have every right to do so. Selfish folks like that need to be put in their place every once and awhile!!

I am from Alabama and it took me years to find my voice. But when I found it Wow!!! Is all I can say. You do you Mary. You had a Mary moment.

The concept of the FU trees is too funny to me

Ah Yes, a good gossip video. Always love those!

Omg waited for this for soo long

YESSS! I love neighborhood gossip videos!!

i love this, fun and tingly!

😂🤣 Good for you for taking a stand against the neighbors from hell 😂🤣 I feel for you having to live with those neighbors. You did the right thing by speaking up. 🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲

LOL! "Nooooooo!" ..... I love it, Mary!

I love these!

love this woman and what she does, so beautiful total perfection in my eyes dont need neighbours like this bless you x

I love these videos ❤❤❤

I tell ya, I have lived in the country with no neighbors and I think I will have to stay here. I could not deal with those looney tunes neighbors."hypothetically". 😆

This is the kind of neighborhood drama I like to hear. This is hilarious 😂😂😂

Good for you! You have every right to cut back anything on your property. 👍

You look amazing Mary! Omg can’t stop laughing! Plant the FU trees but in the meantime since holidays are coming I can’t help but think about those huge Christmas decoration snowmen etc that are super tall for the outdoors… It would definitely solve your problem of having to see them in their yard for the holidays at least. Thanks for this video!

good for you, Mary, some problems need to be confronted! how sad that they suffocated those old cedar trees 💔 and if Jane needs her dead plants so bad you could toss those rotten tomatoes & peppers right back over the fence lmao