I believed it without question, because every time I see you on camera I think you're about 10-15 years younger than you say you are lol Mary with the fountain of youth on here!
@@jillianvest7254I don’t think she posted the whole thing plus her channel is not that popular this isn’t a TikTok famous person so it doesn’t make sense to post her videos for clout
@@jillianvest7254not at all, julieta kindve has certain weeks (usually called ‘theme’ of the week, where all of her asmr content for that week is based off of the theme chosen) or days where she uploads specific content and one of those is ‘throwback thursday’, where she uploads a video thats a little older and has helped her sleep/relax in the past. she gave southernsounds full credit in her caption and in the video!! in no way did she ever claim it was hers or try to upload it for her own personal gain, more-so as a recommendation for other asmr enjoyers 😊
“If you’re going through it right now in life, remember it can’t rain forever”. I love that saying, and needed to hear it in this moment. Thank you. Sometimes when we’re in it, it’s so hard to see past it. I appreciate you Mary. You’re a kind soul.
You remind me of Phoebe from friends, and she is my favorite character 😂 She is so sweet, kind, she has unique experiences that make her her. And you honestly resemble her too!
My second marriage was most definitely a "what was I on for 8 entire years" moment. You are not alone. I remember the day I realized I didn't have to put up with that waste of air space anymore, it was so liberating! I made him file and when they served my papers to me at work I ran up and hugged the man, I told him he made my whole day!
If you are having issues with men you are most likely the problem, you are attracting those type of men in your life cause you are probably a nutcase yourself
I love listening to mature/older women talk about their life and sharing their wealth of experience ♥️ society is so negative towards women over 40, but in reality they carry all of us on their shoulders and have so much wisdom.
"Be careful who you marry," it is so sad that it needs to be said! Whether you're marrying someone in a rush for religious reasons, or you're just naive enough to think you can KNOW someone is your soulmate after just a few months... there is literally zero harm in waiting. If the relationship is gonna last, it will not matter if you're married in 5 years or not, because you'll be together. If it's not gonna last, then you're gonna be really happy you're NOT married in 5 years.
@@terrifier-7 sure that is also a factor... But most people go into marriage with the best of intentions, truly believing it will work out. But it takes time to discover if someone is compatible.
my sister and my brother in law got married like a few months in their relationship back in 2010ish. and they’re still holding strong. everyone and their marriage is different but of course, always think about what you’re putting yourself into
@@QueenJess2k05 you never know. Like I said, in 5 years if you're still together it's not gonna matter that you didn't get married 5 years ago. But if in 5 years you're broken up, you'll regret it if you were married. So waiting would not have hurt their relationship. But I'm glad it worked out.
Fellow long-time watchers of this channel might remember "Danny" as the "Wicked Witch of the East." I know you've shared some of this story before, but hearing it all put together was a wild ride! I'm always amazed and inspired at your resiliency through all of the crazy times life's thrown at you and very happy to have you here sharing it all with us! I'm also not on TikTok, so I had no idea you'd gone viral on there, but welcome to all the new Mary fans from TikTok!
My first and only marriage, I actually cried when I was walking back down the aisle. Everyone thought it was because I was happy and overwhelmed but it was because I realized “What have I done?!!”. Stayed faaaar too long.
I had the exact same experience! And my photographer got a pic of me hugging my father and crying. From the outside I’m sure it appeared to be tears of joy but every time I see that photo I remember the panic and dread I was feeling at that moment.
I’m marrying my fiancé in three weeks time! We actually first met in primary school when we were about 5 or 6 years old. But then my best friend married my fiancés best friend, and we reconnected at their wedding. We’ve been together almost two years now, and he’s my absolute best friend and I couldn’t be luckier to have him.
My face when you said a woman from the church was given a key to YOUR home 😮 I’m so glad you’re in a safe space now ❤️ love you and your videos! Xxxxxx
Been here for at least 6 years, and you so deserve any and all new POSITIVE attention. Here for the growth just like I was here for the teeny tiny community we were then. Nobody else could make me watch organizing shelves and have me on the hook the whole time. Go Mary go!!
Genuinely Mary your resilience, grace, sense of humor, and whole outlook on life is such an inspiration to me. You continue to inspire me to live more authentically, what a gem you are ❤
As someone who left a cult, thanks for sharing your story it took me running away to realize that’s what it was. And even then it took me a long time to fully grasp it. But it’s so much better on the other side.
this story time was literally insane. you should definitely do more. I would love to hear about anything you’d like to share. I love asmr and this was perfect to listen while I did my homework.
please do more of these, you're only person who's stories I actually like listening to. I've been watching your videos for years and enjoy them immensely and enjoyed listening to this in the background
I’ve been a subscriber of yours for years, but I did see that Julietta ASMR had posted one of your videos so I believe this is where the new subs may have come from!!🫶🏼
I don’t think I’ll ever get married. And before anyone says I will I genuinely don’t want to 😂 The thought of sharing my bed long term with someone and not having my own space actually makes me feel sick. I value my alone time, feel like it doesn’t get normalised enough. Nothing wrong with being alone especially if it makes you happier than being with someone.
Until you feel like you love someone. I just broke up with my girlfriend 3 days ago and I really miss waking up in bed with her. When she fell asleep with her head on my chest and her arm on me was the best and went straight to my heart every time. For someone to sleep so soundly like that made me feel so good like I made her feel so comfortable. Especially she has had trouble sleeping for a long time but every time I'm with her when it was time to sleep she had no problem. To me those things are what I miss. This was my first weekend alone and I feel lost and alone. I go into stores and I see couples walking around picking things out and laughing and I miss it. I feel like I don't have a purpose now.
Same here! I love having my own space! People spend sooo much money on weddings too 😮 I know a few people who were still paying for the wedding when they were getting divorced!
Wow Mary, you have been through a real tragedy, that was hell! Honestly this story was very scary, at the beginning of the video I would have never imagined you would have talked about something like that. I feel like those evil people exploited your naïvity and youth and I feel like you have encounterd a lot of evil in your life. I am so happy you successfully overcomed all of this ❤
The person who recommended your channel is Julieta ASMR and she's on RU-vid too! I was happy to see you recommended on my fyp because you really deserve the recognition 💗💗
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Mary, I feel you on being in bad relationships and feel dumb looking back. You excuse a lot of red flags when you're "in love" sometimes. Im older and wiser now, I can't live in regret for my poor choices as a teenager/young adult then, but I sure as hell can not allow it to happen again.
As someone about to get married for the first time very soon, I clicked so fast!! I look to you for fun and sincere advice so often! I love your life stories and advice videos. ❤
Congrats!! My husband and I got married 10 months ago and marriage is truly the BEST! It will challenge you and grow you so much but just depend on the Lord and stay strong and fight for each other. Get wisdom from wise married friends. Marriage is truly such a sweet gift!!!
Wow....I've been watching your channel for a few years now. Knew you were in a "cult" back in the day but always wondered what it was all about. I realize that was very personal but thank you for sharing. It was VERY interesting. You are a worldly woman who has obviously experienced so much. Kudos to you!!! Again, thank you for sharing that story.
i will never understand people who abuse others and minors yet have the gall to chastise other people over things that they probably don’t even believe in themselves. i am so glad you escaped and are living your best life, mary! ❤️
I’ve watched this video 4 times but kept falling asleep, so I kept rewatching to finish the story. I love this type of content from you Mary, just sitting down for a story time, it’s so relaxing to listen to, wether I’m sleeping or getting ready in the morning. Please do more videos like this, perhaps talking about your second and third marriage. 😃
I had wondered for a long time if you and ‘Glenda’ were still together or just good friends. I think it’s lovely you have found three balance that makes it work for you all. ❤
oh, wow, mary. every video you upload just makes me respect you even more. you are so strong, and the fact that you're able to look back on such a situation and see the humour only cements that further. as a young woman myself, having someone who uploads videos that are real, candid and advice that is so so useful! I've been watching your channel for a few years and just wanted to thank you ❤
Oh my goodness this could be a Netflix special, Mary! What an experience, Im glad you got out of the cult. Im gonna be buying your book because this was just fascinating. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
Omg! I had a terrible relationship when I was 19 years old and sounds similar to this. We weren’t married but he was always wanting me to buy him things, he had no job, lost his car, in trouble with police. I feel like I use to be a very helpful caring person and felt bad for people. I’m 30 now and there’s no way I’d be a babysitter to someone again 😂
me too!!!! from when i was 16-20… and he was TWO years older than me but he treated me like i was his mommy. and i cant believe i allowed it for so long. i could have been saving my money😡
Just popped up in my feed for the first time. Lovely tone of voice. Glad you’re doing your own thing. I can’t handle the fake quiet whispering. No one speaks like that normally. It hurts my brain. I like a natural soft voice. Thank you!
I’m going through a divorce right now! I’m 28 been in a 8 year relationship. I feel so disappointed in myself for marrying this person & felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life.. literally beat myself up about it daily 😢.. Thank you for this video you really lifted me up and made me feel better. This process has been so hard but you made me feel more positive about going through this Phase. Thank you so much ❤
i absolutely love your strength and your very "i do what i like!" attitude. it is always so inspiring to me. im only 19 but as i get older i realize that's a good attitude to have. do what you like, do it well, and don't try to impress others by doing what is popular. much love to you mary ^_^
You and your younger son look just a like! Thank you for this video! Been following you since maybe 2017 and i love hearing more about your life. Your videos and chats have gotten me through a lot! You’re amazing Mary! Thanks for all you do! ❤
This made me go back and look to see how long I've been following you... 8 years!! Almost since the beginning! Love the vibes and the Southern accent, makes me homesick for North Carolina (lived there for a few years back in the day). You do you, Mary!
been watching you for almost 4 years now - i don't usually leave a comment - but i just wanted to say you deserve all the recognition you get and will continue getting!
I wanna hear more about your current relationship! I love the transparency on that situation and how y’all were able to continue relationship after ending your marriage. That’s honestly really beautiful
Six years for me,enjoying you.I rembember how I found you,trying to sleep and you were mixing some juice powder in watter bottles,different flavours...I was immediately hooked and then getting to know the amazing woman you are has been a pleasure❤❤❤❤
Long time subscriber...I've heard parts of this story from your other videos, but hearing the whole thing-- this is WILD. My goodness. So glad you got away.
55:09 Mary you had me DYING LAUGHING!! Partly because it’s so REAL it’s FUNNY. I just left my useless ex in November and it’s such a long story that I’ll probably have to make my own video on it. 10 years I was in a relationship with a mentally abusive, unemployed, drug addicted, nasty sob. His favorite saying was “it’s the wife’s job to cook and clean.” It’s just ALOT. Now I need to hear about your 2 marriage 😂
I haven’t watched one of your videos in years, but I’m so glad you popped up on my feed. I am currently going through a divorce, 6 months down in the required year of separation in NC. You give me so much hope! You are so strong and wise and I love how you can look back now and laugh. I so needed this today.
Hanging out in bed with my roommate (lol) listening to these videos is a guilty pleasure. You helped me knock out the dishes earlier and I love listening to you on the way to to the farm. Blessings always!
I got married at 33 and I new I shouldn't have on the day. Found out after almost 3 years he cheated with my "friend" in our bed and took money we had saved for IVF still don't no what he spent it on. Been married to my current husband almost 6 years and he's my absolute missing piece. We now have our miracle little boy and I couldn't imagine life any other way
Lone Ranger is a perfect descriptor, and I am so happy to have been here for many years now because of your style to do whatever the heck you want! Love your humor and content so much
