ASMR HUGS (With close up deep breathing and head rubs!) - Relaxing Male ASMR 

The most underrated trigger ever

One thumbs down? How can anyone thumbs down a guy trying to help people out, I don’t understand? You are great dude

I haven’t touched another person in over two months. I’ve been self quarantining since March 14 and have only been out of my apartment to the grocery store three times since then. Even though these are virtual hugs, I really needed this. I needed it more than I wanted to admit! I almost started crying! I loved your breathing in my ear and found myself matching my breathing to yours. It was very calming. I’m generally an introvert, but even I’m starting to miss human contact. Thank you so much Tom. You made me feel so much better. This was wonderful. You’re wonderful! 💜💜💜

I’m a hugger and a very affectionate person and it’s been so hard for me to not feel the human touch . I’ve been quarantining myself for well over a month . And it’s so dang hard not to even touch someone’s hand or brush the hair out of their eyes . Sometimes I will just cuddle with my male or female friends till we drift off to sleep . That’s what this reminds me of . I actually teared up a little . Misty eyed . Thank you so much Tom.

It’s currently 3pm but Tom just said it’s time for bed so 🤷‍♂️

I love the sound of breath in my ear and I love hug’s

As a closeted gay guy in the middle of this pandemic this video was just what I needed today.

Yesterday I was feeling so deeply sad in my depression, but watching your hugging videos made me feel better. Now I have another one to help me. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

This was soooooo good. I don't remember where exactly I fell asleep but you have the gift, my friend 🙏🏻

Tom: I'm going to give you a hug for 20 seconds. Me: 🗣 Social Distancing 6 feet, the CDC will hear about this🚨 Tom:* *Goes in for hug anyway* * Me: * *cries like a grown man baby* * It's been so long since I've had a hug 😭

I actually turned my head several times during this, wanting to give you a kiss on the cheek, but there was no one there 😆 Nobody does hugging videos like you ❤️

i moved across the country away from everyone i know almost a year ago and haven’t had a nice hug since i visited home back in october 😢 this was great, as always. thanks for spreading some love and positivity, tom 💓

It’s crazy how it feels like he is really there and whispering into my ear. It makes me so calm and I immediately pass out.

Not to be weird, but I enjoyed the invisible hugs. I love hugs especially from someone that makes you feel safe and secure. This was perfect. Thank you.

These are the best kind of ASMR vids, especially with Tom

Those last 2 hugs were so so good! I actually felt like you were here comforting and taken care of me 😊 The mixture of the breathing and intermittent shushing with the back rubs was perfect. Would be great looped for like 8 hours or so 😳🤞☺️🙏 Stay safe xx

1:55 Hugs start 😁 I love these videos, Tom. Thank you for another fabulous one!

I saw in my email that this video was up and I dropped everything to watch it. I cannot get enough of your hugs Tom!! I felt as if I was there with you. You made me feel so relaxed and calm.

Such a perfect way to end my 21st birthday. It's definitely been the strangest one yet, and certainly the most lonely. This was the perfect wind-down for the night and I didn't know how much I needed the connection! It's an incredibly tough time mentally but these little things always end up becoming the things I'm most grateful for. 💙

Not too long ago I made a playlist with this mans hug videos to go to sleep. I haven’t been in a relationship since 2016 and boy does it suck lol he made the feeling of loneliness go away and filled my strength up in that department... thank you ❤️

Needed this right now... Crying in my bed at 1:00pm again 🙄 .... This too shall pass 😓

Thank you so much. Hugs videos are my favorite, especially after being 2 moths of self isolation ♥️ Love your whispers, breathing, love you.♥️

Hi Tom, this is my first comment to your channel and I want to thank you especially because I'm submitting my thesis next week and your videos have helped me alot! Sending you hugs in return

Hi, Tom. This is my first reply since joining YT many years ago, but I felt the need to say thank you for everything that you are doing. You really are helping people in ways that you might not even realize. I'm one of those. I just discovered your channel today when it popped up in my list. I've never really known intimacy like the kind you provide. Even back when I was dating, I never had anyone just hug me because he wanted to. It's funny how powerful simple words and sounds can be. I actually cried the first time I heard this video. I was in a bad place emotionally and physically for a long time. Fortunately that's all behind me now, but there's a whole new set of things to be worried about these days. Thanks to you, I actually feel safe and, yes, loved for the first time in a long time. Whoever has you in their lives is luckier than they know. The rest of us are lucky to have you doing these videos for us. It's nice to be able to pretend, if only for a little while, that a guy like me could actually get a hug from a guy like you. Sorry for the wall of text. You really deserve a lot of credit for what you do. If I had any money, I'd be your patron. As soon as I get any, that'll be the first thing I do. Greetings from a fellow musician, and virtual hugs back at you! Chris. PS. Did you ever start doing personal hug videos? I saw a mention in one of your earlier vids. That's definitely something I would like.

Behind the ear whispers is very very underrated, I can't find anyone who does this as good or even at all. Great video!

Can I hug you back? I hope you have plenty of hugs in there, Tom.

This was really lovely and I didn't realize I needed it until the 1st hug. Thank you for this, I'll definitely be revisiting it soon. ❤

You're keeping us all going through the quarantine

I love all your hugs videos, but this😵, this is masterpiece. I feel your warm breath! amazing! Thank You for this most of the most calming videos in this strange times. I need the the hugs soooo much. Take care of You.

All his videos have been a gift needed.

You voice is like a warm blanket. Thank you for the hugs, feeling so much more relaxed and at peace. Much love brotha

Tom is like that really loving husband/protector that I know I'll probably, more than likely will never have lol 😂 love you Tom! 💖

I come back to this video so often, I struggle so much with physical contact but the concept of it is so comforting. This video is beyond perfect for me :)

I've come back to these hug videos... armed with a back scratcher. It evokes an entirely different sensation and it's sooooooo nice!

You posted at the right time lol perfect thing to watch before bed :)

I hope you know how much your videos mean to those of us who only have negative male influences in our lives. You seem like a really good person and I appreciate what you do for all of us. ❤️

Amazing. Love it. Especially needed at 3am before work. Thanks tom. ❤❤

As always: to be loved, to share love, to feel comfort; to be in absolute confidence; to be understood; to be in security and safe; to be alone with you and not to be alone with ourself, to experience body contact. In reward for you Tom: you are loved, understood, conforted and you can have a true confidence in your followers (and of course, Patreons also!)

I will always return to this one. Every now and then the weeks and days get extra rough and more than anything, I physically ache to be held. But with no one here to actually do that, I have to resort to this video…and it does take the edge off. Tom, you’re such a blessing ❤ Thank you.

Best social distance hug ever👏🏾

you are the best asmrist i've found on youtube... you create pure relaxation.. thank you!

I literally had the tingles and this is my first time feeling it. I've been looking for the perfect asmr, these past couple days have been a bit hard on me and I haven't slept properly recently... I thought of looking up soft sounds and asmr but all I get are really loud whispers... glad I found yours, Tom. Thank you so much

DANG I got the shivers. Recently I was panicking about my national dance competition and this hug makes me so much better ❤️

Thanks for the hugs!

Hi, Tom. 💜💜 I love your hug videos.💜💜 I always feel protected and enveloped in your voice. I swear I was hugged!🍃🦋🍃 Thank you for the soothing energy.☄️🌌

You're the only male Asmrtist that I watch. Thank god you're exist😁

Tommmmmm. This is amazing. Especially right now. This is my favorite trigger/ healing thing in the world and you are the absolute best. Much love brother

I haven't had tingles in so long, but I swear this video has cured me. Thank you for this! ❤

The “Do you like your hair played with?” gave me a rush of shivers in my lower back. Delicious

"Void you're feeling for the *past couple weeks*" Wow, that hit like a punch to the gut...

I’ve watched ASMR for years & this is the best video I’ve seen, it takes so much skill to make it seem effortless but every trigger is just right (to my ears anyway!)

personally, I could do without the counting, but otherwise this video is perfection. I don't experience tingles, and never have, but this was so calming and relaxing and made me feel loved and appreciated, so thank you for this.

No, thank YOU! I always love your hugs videos. This one is no different and so relaxing.

Man was this so relaxing

I needed this today

Tom, you always make me feel comforted and relaxed! Good night!

Oh wow, just in time!! Just lay my head down, it's 10:40 pm in germany. ☺️ Can't wait to fall asleep with your smooth voice. 😍

Yes it was very needed. Thanks Tom.

When I feel sad alone I come her to hugge him and I sleep so happy with it thanks for making me feel safe and happy ♥️

I was getting ready for bed...and right in time I saw your video,Tom you're something else, I love your tingles and your relaxing voice😴❤...well, Good Night everyone! Take care of yourselves! ❤🦋🙏

The creaking sound of a squeeze in the hug is a great trigger. This one was a lot more breathy but still wonderful.

Tom's video = sweet dreams 😴❤️

I've been waiting another video like this one for a long time! 🤭❤️

this is my fave asmr video of all time

IM DONE GIVING TOM VIRTUAL HUGS 😠🥺 . . . . . . . . . . I WANT TO GIVE HIM REAL HUGS , IN REAL LIFE AND SEEING HIS BLUE EYES 😍...FOR HRS AND HOPING NOT MAKING HIM UNCOMFORTABLE. ANYONE ELSE OR ITS JUST ME ? 🙂🙂🙂 make PT 8 ? 😊😊

I've never felt love and affection like this before. I thank u for that. Imma subscribe, because u made me feel loved and appreciated. Take care y'all 🙏🙏🙏

Thank-you for releasing a new video on my birthday, what a treat!! ❤

Thanks for the hugs!!

I really needed this. I have been self quarantining myself since March and these kind of videos is really needed. Yay to quarantine hugs from Tom!!! 💗🌸

Your hugs video are my favorite

Thank you so much Tom it was great and gave me chills. I won't have any trouble sleeping tonight.

I love your videos. Thank you so much for posting them.

Why haven't I known this channel before ? Your voice is so relaxing and soothing, thank you for this video 🙌 !

Right what I need now...very relaxing...love the soft breathing...the beard scratching...tinglesss the whole video,thankyou Tom,goodnight hug to you and everyone here who needs a hug!💕🙃🤗😴🌠🌙

Needed this positive energy for sure ! Made my chamomile tea before starting haha

I swear it’s like you know just what I need.I appreciate you for this.Thank you

Does anyone else ever get such strong ASMR down their back that they jerk around for a second like they're being tickled? I mean um yeah no um me neither...

This is what we needed right now

This is marvelous!!! :D It is exactly what I was looking for, and I am relaxed, feeling much better and set for the rest of the week!! Thank you kindly, Mr. Tom, for all of your videos/content- you simply ROCK!!! :D

HOLY DUCK I DID NOT REALISE HIW MUCH I NEEDED THIS AND NOW I GET WHAT THE ASMR HYPE IS ABOUT MY BODY IS LITERALLY ALL TINGLY

I’m pretty sure I’ve watched this video at least 500 times. Definitely the best hug video. Thanks Tom! These videos really help ❤️

Hi Tom. Thank you again for taking away the sadness and anxiety. Virtuals hugs from 🇵🇭

I loved this video. You made me feel very safe and relaxed.

Felt like if a really caring big bro was there for me, is truly appreciated

Hugs from Tom! Thx for the hugs & tingles

Thanks, Tom. Stay safe ♥️.

I really needed a hug..was feeling low and lonely due to my breakup...needed it....feeling much better...THANKYOU!!!🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

He always gives the best hugs and yet they aren't physical 😱😱😱😱

This is quite relaxing! Thank you for the tingles, friend!

Best tingle ever! I would stay in your arms all night long ;) Thank you, Tom, I adore you

Thanks for the hugs. First time seeing your video. I feel a lot better now. It felt like you were holding me close and I felt safe with you. Wish I could hug you in real life.

Thank you infinitely many times! 🙏❤

Tom’s hugs gave me covid Of course I’m kidding

Didn't know how much I needed it. Thanks!

I always love the videos you put out; especially this variety. They come across as sensual (not sexual), comforting, and validating. Thank you for your content 💝

Love these videos. Thanks Tom!

Wow I feel so.much better! Big hugs!

my favourite videos!🥰

I was feeling bad, had some not good thoughts and crying. I needed a hug. Now I'm relaxed and calmly happy

I usually don’t like ASMR videos from men because they’re not soft enough but OMG! Your channel is perfect 😍 thank you for helping me out during this pandemic with your videos!