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There’s two ways to think about mental health, and I think a lot of people don’t realize they’re stuck in the first one. Most people believe that you either “have depression” or you don’t. That if you get diagnosed with depression or anxiety, it’s like a permanent trait that you have - and that all you can do is learn to cope with it.
I don’t think about depression or anxiety that way. I think of it on a scale- when your symptoms are severe they interfere with your life in a big way, when your symptoms are mild, or when your symptoms go away, it doesn’t interfere with your life anymore. Depression and Anxiety disorders can actually be resolved when we chip away at them. Thinking this way gives us agency, power to change our own lives.
And often when we get really motivated to improve our lives we try some huge change. And while you can willpower yourself to make those changes for a little while, willpower usually just doesn’t work as a long-term strategy. Then the bigger the changes you want to make, the more exhausting and overwhelming they are, which disincentivizes you from continuing them, it gets harder and harder and harder to do them instead of easier. So while you can willpower your way to doing them for a while, the most likely outcome is that you get exhausted and you quit and you’re more discouraged than when you start.
So making these huge changes rarely works- sometimes it does, but it just can’t be your only strategy. I love to give people tons of options to improve their mental health, but I know that this can be overwhelming. So in this video let’s talk about tiny yet powerful strategies that actually reward you for doing them- they make your life easier instead of harder. And then you get feeling better, you get more energy, and they become easier to do because they’re habitual, and with that extra energy you can add another on, and instead of feeling more and more tired, you feel more and more energetic and resilient. So in this video you’ll learn about tiny changes that take a few minutes a day to build atomic habits for mental health.
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@TherapyinaNutshell
@TherapyinaNutshell Год назад
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@louern123
@louern123 Год назад
i have an honest question. do you think depression will become more common as time goes on at eventually most people will suffer with mental health issues ? i mean- you are great at helping and you are very positive, but what do you think of my theory
@angelachannyc
@angelachannyc Год назад
Why does Emma keep rolling her eyes 🤔
@ddd1dorin396
@ddd1dorin396 Год назад
THANK YOU SO MUCH! greetings from România! 🌹🌹🌹
@ddd1dorin396
@ddd1dorin396 Год назад
God bless you and your family! 🙏
@comradestannis
@comradestannis Год назад
Thanks.
@The_man_himself_67
@The_man_himself_67 Год назад
Believe me folks, from someone who has strayed down that dark, desperate path, this advice is gold. You need to work at your mental health, even during the good times. Most important of all, it does get better. Hold on to that thought and keep going. And let's all thank this lovely lady for reaching out.
@Jackson.Miller
@Jackson.Miller Год назад
I completely agree! Thank you so much for your encouraging words, it's always a boost to hear that things get better!
@cristinafrick9773
@cristinafrick9773 Год назад
Thank you for all you do!:)
@comradestannis
@comradestannis Год назад
Definitely.
@Nialuv246
@Nialuv246 Год назад
Love you emma❤
@LahainaStrong444
@LahainaStrong444 Год назад
Amen to that!
@anatta-2037
@anatta-2037 Год назад
Atomic Habits Light Multivitamin Fermented food Probiotic Movement Vegetable Gratitude Appreciate people Less news Follow positive pages Unfollow triggering accounts Sleep schedule Decrease caffine Use bed only for sleeping Automatica dnd for sleep Mindfulness Limit screen time Book at night 1 minute meditation To do list Journal Walk Steps Deep breathing Tapping eft Nature Plant Nature screensaver Deepen relationship No negative talks No always and never No catastrophizing
@curtiste3235
@curtiste3235 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@kmartin2988
@kmartin2988 10 месяцев назад
st john's wort can also take the edge off and help you get to a better place fairly quickly
@evecarter617
@evecarter617 10 месяцев назад
Oh man catastrophizing yaaaahhh lol
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hello! I've crafted self-help therapy tips from trusted sources (link in the bio). Your feedback means a lot! 😊
@fun3100
@fun3100 7 месяцев назад
You are the bestttt :D
@APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
@APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 10 месяцев назад
Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.
@patriaciasmith3499
@patriaciasmith3499 10 месяцев назад
A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels
@AnjeloValeriano
@AnjeloValeriano 10 месяцев назад
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well
@elizabethwilliams6651
@elizabethwilliams6651 10 месяцев назад
Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.
@Jennifer-bw7ku
@Jennifer-bw7ku 10 месяцев назад
Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist Who will teach you the right things you need to know
@Jennifer-bw7ku
@Jennifer-bw7ku 10 месяцев назад
@@AnjeloValerianoDr.spores is the best, he's been my supplier for anything psychedelics.
@beautyamongashes8378
@beautyamongashes8378 Год назад
All this year I made myself give a sincere compliment to a stranger to help reduce my social anxiety. It didn’t “cure” anything but that tiny extra bit of confidence in knowing that I can talk to strangers is helping little by little!
@doubles1545
@doubles1545 Год назад
That’s awesome! 👍
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- Год назад
Yes!!, congratulations 🎊
@areejs7307
@areejs7307 Год назад
Love this idea
@comradestannis
@comradestannis Год назад
Helping people is great for mental health. I can attest to that.
@mjnona
@mjnona Год назад
Wow I would consider doing this since I had social anxiety. buddy I don't now how it is severe or mild for u I don't know if ur approached it professionally with a therapist but.. I wanna mantion to u "Dr Thomas A. Richard" he is a psychotherapist and what about him, him self was diagnosed with a sever social anxiety disorder so he knows what he is doing... I hope u give it a try ❤️❤️ He got an online therapy session u can purchased it. I purchased it and I can tell the level of help is up in the sky hope u always feel well
@archangelscalling
@archangelscalling Год назад
My first small action a year ago was making my bed every day. Didn't happen every day at the beginning. After a few months it happend every day, sometimes in the morning, sometimes more like late afternoon/early evening. Nowadays it happens every morning. I never scolded myself when I forgot to do it, just encouraged myself to do it tomorrow again. And what I found is that it doesn't matter at which time of the day you do your tiny daily habit. The thing that matters is to do it, no matter what time it is. You ve forgotten it? So what? World's still turning. Tomorrow I'll remember. Be passionate and supportive with yourself. You got this!
@bandysxxx
@bandysxxx Год назад
A while ago, I watched a video of Jordan Peterson recommending exactly the same thing, make your bed every day, and eventually order will return to your life, it’s the small things that add up
@devin4796
@devin4796 Год назад
Love this!! Good idea!!
@katejones2172
@katejones2172 11 месяцев назад
I do that too
@kathyb72
@kathyb72 11 месяцев назад
I recently started doing this. At 50 years old I was never one to make my bed. I just woke up one day and started doing it. I'm hoping it gives me the momentum and motivation to add more small positive changes in my life.
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hello! I've crafted self-help therapy tips from trusted sources (link in the bio). Your feedback means a lot! 😊
@bouncingnick9747
@bouncingnick9747 Год назад
You're literally the first professional that has told me that depression and anxiety can be resolved. No one has ever told me that. I thought I was stuck this way for the rest of my life...😭
@lindaabuado3213
@lindaabuado3213 Год назад
I used to suffer with severe/ crippling anxiety for years. I’m 100% free of both, changing my thought patterns and beliefs completely did it
@elainepeltier2015
@elainepeltier2015 Год назад
@@lindaabuado3213 how did you change your thought patterns and beliefs? Could definitely use your advice.
@Chickaqee
@Chickaqee Год назад
@@elainepeltier2015 When you find yourself worrying or ruminating, try to catch yourself and replace negative thoughts with more neutral and realistic ones. Focus on what you can control rather than ruminating on what you can't. One way to help rewire your thought patterns is to ask yourself what someone close to you would think about this problem (or better yet, actually talk to them about it). You’ll often find that other people’s opinions on our problems are often much more realistic which can overtime help you rewire your thought patterns. And of course all of this can't change overnight. You've spent the last few decades of your life building these neural pathways, and it's going to take a lot of repeated work over months and years to rewire them. I personally set goals like, if I managed my mental health 1% better today then that's all I can ask for. :)
@manasac3102
@manasac3102 Год назад
No lol, there are many people who overcame that, including me. Medication is marketed as if it's healthy in the West. It makes you dependent and your subsconscious tricks you to believe you will be that way without medication. It takes changing harmful/immature/unrealistic thought patterns, will power and some effort
@edelleaa
@edelleaa Год назад
@@Chickaqee i've recently started trying to talk to myself how i would to a friend in the same situation... and the difference is huge. you go from insulting and berating yourself to being compassionate and understanding instead. i have a long ways to go to make it a habit but it does make you see things from a different perspective and realize you are just too tough on yourself for no good reason.
@christinechapman9764
@christinechapman9764 Год назад
I've been feeling worse, then I realized that I had neglected eating all of the plant foods I had been eating over Christmas. Also Christmas is a bit of a stress recipe (alcohol + family, neither really agree with me 😅). So yesterday I just relaxed, processed emotions and ate vegies. Today I'm feeling better and more hopeful.
@ashley9776
@ashley9776 Год назад
I haven’t thought about my diet recently has been high in sugar and inflammation foods
@christinechapman9764
@christinechapman9764 Год назад
@@ashley9776 also Christmas tends to mean drinking, although it's only a couple of glasses it feels like a lot to me. I may institute a new policy of drinking only with friends, not family or work colleagues. It makes me more anxious.
@ashley9776
@ashley9776 Год назад
@@christinechapman9764 I’ve noticed that as well. I just have one glass now not over two glasses. I have heart palpitations and I noticed they are worse after drinking. Happy new year 🎊
@ashley9776
@ashley9776 Год назад
@@christinechapman9764 also therapy in nutshell had interesting video about how the body produces a hormone in response to alcohol that does make you more anxious (the video just couple days ago).
@Will00110
@Will00110 Год назад
Same, I think I developed a health related issue, but have neglected healthy eating, exercise, and good quality sleep did all that today and feel loads better!
@rgvandusen
@rgvandusen Год назад
I also am living with severe Depression. Isolated as well... My 1% change daily is taking cold showers daily... plus dry brushing & Wim Hof breath exercises ... with excellent care from a Naturalpathic Doctor... it's working guys...6mos. In & Depression is lifting . Mood is better. Doc sez I'm improving about 40%faster than usual. Not to mention all of the other benefits. You CAN DO THIS !!! I'm 72 starting this !!! these are POWER TOOLS that enhance the other wellness modalities...
@rachna0367
@rachna0367 Год назад
Ur age is 72 ?!!
@AmnaMubashar
@AmnaMubashar Год назад
Amazing🫶🫶 How has your experience been with a Naturopath? Did they only give you supplements and natural medicine? I’m curious about how they help patients with mental health issues
@Itsfrannysworld
@Itsfrannysworld Год назад
I’m so proud of you!!! Don’t ever give up
@gracegiven8875
@gracegiven8875 Год назад
My one percent change at my lowest was to change was to lay out my clothes the night before. When I did this it was during a more alert state and I had a huge ahah moment: All my clothes didn’t fit as I had pregnancy weight that I hadn’t lost. Every single morning was ruined by looking for something and feeling discouraged and not even getting dressed half the time. Not being dressed I hesitated going out to empty the garbage because of embarrassment. Not running needful errands etc. I would get overwhelmed and it was a huge snowball that was happening while I was completely unconscious of it. When I began to get my clothes the night before and missed it I became conscious of this struggle that was affecting my daily capabilities. So I bought 4 outfits that fit comfortably. That was enough with the couple outfits I had that did fit to last 6 weekdays till I could afford more. When I say lay clothes out I mean shoes and socks. This is key. If anything happens during the day that requires shoes and you are depressed getting shoes on is a huge hurdle that you don’t want to negotiate during distress. You want to make the decision of shoes and socks the night before. If you are depressed to the point that socks are an issue because of your laundry pile start with just searching for and washing only socks. It’s silly but it’s ok to wash a small load of just sock at first so you can build on that. 😊 it will get better. Buy a new bag of socks if that’s your 1 %
@danielamishkovska2833
@danielamishkovska2833 Год назад
@grace thank you, did the same with the clothes, and it REALLY turned out to be very very effective, as I struggled to find fitting clothes, REALLY REALLY helped me to organize my day. Thank you for sharing. Hope you are okay. God bless you 🙏
@dianebash9402
@dianebash9402 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing this. I see myself in the same situation. I hate clothes! My sensitivity is hard to deal with, and indecision with ill-fitting clothes makes it hard to get going each morning. I usually throw on comfy stuff I won’t go out in or answer the door in, which exacerbates anxiety about seeing people and leaving home. The habit of setting clothes out the night before was one I did years ago when I had no choice but to leave early in the morning and it helped so much. I guess I associate it with undesired activity, but I should look at it as a tool. I’ll try it again!
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@frannygrace2191
@frannygrace2191 Год назад
My husband is a very negative thinker so we set one day a week as "No Negative Sunday" and we would remind each other about it whenever we would start to get negative.
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@karolinasundkvist5762
@karolinasundkvist5762 Год назад
Great advice! I suffered from severe depression about 15 years ago. I would become very ill, then climb upwards, then fall back again...the depression kept coming back. For me, it has been a combination of support from professionals as well as small changes I made myself that has made the difference. I suspect there are some things that have been crucial: support from family and friends, better sleep, accepting myself, exercise, doing things I love, getting back to working, learning to say no sometimes and yes! sometimes. Overall, knowing myself better and liking myself has been key! IT IS POSSIBLE to recover from depression and enjoy life again. There is definitely hope!
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hello! I've crafted self-help therapy tips from trusted sources (link in the bio). Your feedback means a lot! 😊
@mundomagico7787
@mundomagico7787 Год назад
Sleep is the BIGGEST thing that effects me. I go from on my knees desperate tired to bouncing of the walls with energy when I’ve had good regular sleep. Also - I bought a kindle to read at night instead of scrolling. Less stimulating. Happy Healthy New Year Everyone. Emma - thank God you are here! Thank you so much for all your sacrifices and hard work to help others. Xx
@natalie9185
@natalie9185 Год назад
Affects
@amalksuresh286
@amalksuresh286 Год назад
I usually find it opposite. More happy with 5-6 hrs sleep, and depressed when 7-8 hrs sleep
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hello! I've crafted self-help therapy tips from trusted sources (link in the bio). Your feedback means a lot! 😊
@ElizabethMcAllister
@ElizabethMcAllister Год назад
0:50 ways to decrease depression (the hard way) 3:16 make small, incremental changes 7:27 simplify habits with a system 7:53 use a habit tracker 8:38 pick one from list of “ways to improve your mental health”
@missblue4699
@missblue4699 Год назад
🙂👍
@Nyx773
@Nyx773 Год назад
Thank you for posting this. It is invaluable for those of us who want to re-review content. I just don't understand why this channel doesn't realize that they would get more views if they included timestamps. I've added to your list: 0:50 Ways to decrease depression (the hard way): - Daily aerobic exercise(75% effective) eating healthy (35%) - Changing how you think (e.g. thru therapy, 60-80%) - Treating insomnia (87%) - Therapy light - Meditation 3:16 Make small, incremental changes. Slowly develop and maintain habits. A 1% change will make a 37% change in one year. 6:39 3 Principles of Change: 1. Pick the low hanging fruit first (simplest, easiest). 7:27 2. simplify habits by creating a system 7:53 3. use a habit tracker 8:38 Pick one from a list of “ways to improve your mental health”: - Light therapy (lamp, sunlight) - Take a complete multivitamin/mineral - Probiotic/fermented food/supplement - Do something outside - Add vegetables to your diet - Daily gratitude list - Express appreciation to another - Watch less news - Follow uplifting social media accounts - Improve sleep - Practice mindfulness (steady breathing and doing only one thing at a time) - Set limits on screen time - Brain dump actiivty - 1-minute meditation - Walk daily, steps goal - Practice self-regulation - Spend time in nature, add plants to home/office, view nature pictures - Deepen relationships you already have - Set tiny rules for yourself
@janicetribbiani7535
@janicetribbiani7535 Год назад
@@Nyx773 Another would be to not waste time re-writing other's comments on a RU-vid channel. 😂
@Nyx773
@Nyx773 Год назад
@@janicetribbiani7535 1) I didn't just re-write, I added to it 2) I learn by taking notes, therefore, writing it out helped me to remember 3) Your snarky comment reflects poorly on you. Makes you sound petty and mean. Best of luck having a fulfilling life with that attitude. I recommend deleting your comment so that you aren't advertising to the world that you are the antithesis of this channel.
@dragonflyparade8143
@dragonflyparade8143 Год назад
Thank you. Over 5 minutes of yak about what these tiny habits are going to do. Just thank you!
@ellyrenee
@ellyrenee Год назад
Finally something I can actually apply. Sometimes the advice I read online is so frustrating because it seems like they don’t actually understand depression and anxiety. Even things that seem easy to some people can be so overwhelming to me. This is so helpful and just reminds me that nothing is wrong with me. Thank you❤️
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hello! I've crafted self-help therapy tips from trusted sources (link in the bio). Your feedback means a lot! 😊
@RB-yt6rx
@RB-yt6rx Год назад
I use to be better at managing my mental illness but work stress and new financial troubles are leaving me stranded with no coping mechanisms that work. Ive just kind of given up on myself as a result... Its been about 6 months of this new horrible stress and ive been so miserable.. This new year i want to try and take care of myself again. I want to try again
@francesrobertson4377
@francesrobertson4377 Год назад
Sorry to hear of the set back, but if you've managed better before, you can do it again.☺. Best wishes
@moonxshakti
@moonxshakti Год назад
I'm sorry. Start where you are. Be kind and encouraging and supportive to yourself. You can do this. Hope you feel better soon.
@user-yv6xw7ns3o
@user-yv6xw7ns3o Год назад
You've got this, even if it tends to feel overwhelming for a while. Proud of you for showing up for yourself, acknowledging honestly makes a big difference.
@nehalilisays
@nehalilisays Год назад
Deleting the instagram app & the news app from my phone has already helped me to have more time & mental energy. I used that to spend more time tidying, cleaning and minimalizing my living spaces (such a good feeling). I also created a checklist for one month, so that I can draw a nice little green checkmark whenever I take supplement xy, drink another liter of water or go to sleep before 2 am, 1 am or even before midnight (that would be 3 checkmarks in a row and a big success for me).
@MarshmilloJB
@MarshmilloJB Год назад
I’ve been adding tiny habits one by one, slowly and carefully, over the past few years. It feels so pointless when you do the first 3 reps, but trust me, after a year, you see how far you’ve come. So put in those pointless 3 reps. I now eat healthy 95% of the time. I exercise 6 out of 7 days a week. I put my phone down to sleep at 10:40pm every night. I work on my relationships constantly. My mind is a garden where I’ve cultivated positivity and gratitude. I’ve built up the muscle that is expressing gratitude, even when it feels fake. Others appreciate it though.
@The.Crown.U.K
@The.Crown.U.K Год назад
Sadly in the U.K. it's incredibly hard to get therapy , I have been housebound with severe anxiety and agoraphobia for 14 years now and can't get help, but I'm going to follow your advise and hope it helps
@philbell5774
@philbell5774 Год назад
Read Self Help For Your Nerves by Dr Claire Weekes. It will give you a non jargon based explanation of everything that's happening to you physically, emotionally and psychologically.
@achilles8356
@achilles8356 Год назад
Really sorry to hear that. I can slightly relate. I'm not completely house bound but in recent times especially thanks to lockdown throughout 2020 I've been less enthusiastic and a lot of the time very anxious about going out in public now. Also doesn't help I've been working from home which has a lot of benefits but it doesn't help with the outside stuff. Get to used to being indoors and isolated. I've got a supermarket just a 3 minute walk from me and at times I struggle with just that. I'm sure you already know this but stay off things like caffeine, sugar and alcohol if you can, I know that's not easy if you enjoy tjem things. Also I recommend cbd oil I've been taking that recently and it does help with anxiety a good bit I've noticed for myself. Of course if you're on medication consult the gp first. I've been off meds for a while now, slowly came off them but I'm curious to know if cbd is something the gp can prescribe for you.
@annaberg1200
@annaberg1200 Год назад
Same in Sweden
@trulysensitive5620
@trulysensitive5620 Год назад
You will get help. This therapist is truthful.
@Chickaqee
@Chickaqee Год назад
​@@philbell5774 Also "At Last a Life" is a really good book
@Safe_Place_MentalHeath
@Safe_Place_MentalHeath 6 дней назад
Love this perspective! Viewing mental health on a scale gives us the power to improve. Huge changes can be overwhelming, but small, consistent steps lead to lasting results. Thanks for breaking it down so clearly!
@ms.rivera7898
@ms.rivera7898 Год назад
I use an app called “Strides” to track my daily habits. They include simple things like: 1. Morning prayer 2. 10 minutes meditation 3. Morning stretch 4. Affirmations 5. Study something 20 minutes (increased from 10min.) 6. Walk 7,500 steps (increased from 5,000 steps) 7. 10 minutes motivation As the weeks go by, I gradually may add a “new” habit, or, increase one of my habits, for example, from 10 minutes to 20 (like my studying). There are definitely some weeks where I may be feeling extremely weak because I am ill, or it’s that time of the month. And I give myself grace, and simply decrease the minutes (for that week), or skip some habits all together for that day or couple of days.
@DeezN-jp7hf
@DeezN-jp7hf 9 месяцев назад
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@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@iTzJimBoi
@iTzJimBoi Год назад
My small mental health energy saving goal this year is to spend more time with friends. Isolation has been the theme of this world for the last 6 years. I'm going to slowly remedy that with more time spent with likeminded people. Hope you had a great holiday! Happy early New Year. Another activity I will try to add is: watching mental health videos on RU-vid to start my day or watching during downtime at work. If I surround myself with positive systems, there's no way my intrusive thoughts can take hold.
@alyssashirey1536
@alyssashirey1536 Год назад
Good luck to you! Your comment is reminiscent of my goal plan as well. I tend to isolate and I get drained from people quickly. But like you I found I don’t think many people I surround myself with are “like-minded.” My goal is to make more of an effort to do things that are social with friends. Best of luck to you on your endeavor! 😊
@potatolover5436
@potatolover5436 Год назад
Perfect timing, thank you! For some reason the holidays always make me feel a little low
@karlagilliam4298
@karlagilliam4298 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for your videos. I care for my mother with dementia 24\7. I am quickly spiraling down because I see no light at the end of the tunnel. I only sleep when she sleeps, I have to wake when she wakes. EVERYTHING in my life revolves around her and her well being. I'm hanging on and wanted you to know how much I appreciate this video. Someone told me the other day that caregivers die before the ones they care for.....I believe it.
@user-vh5ss8ty5l
@user-vh5ss8ty5l 10 месяцев назад
Hi! Where do you live? I have some experience with caregivers and i would like to help you find a resource!
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@oldmews
@oldmews Год назад
I had just started reading Atomic Habits last week and I wish I would have read it sooner. Realizing many of the things I have been doing have helped greatly, as I'm trying to get over my agoraphobia that I've had for the last three years. I still have quite a ways to go but recognizing good habits that I have already had established has made it easier to set better ones. Thank you so much for your videos they have also been a tremendous help throughout my journey. Much love!
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@Freespirit3211
@Freespirit3211 4 месяца назад
Currently in therapy reading this book and watching a few channels on YT … changing my life ❤
@vitornb4197
@vitornb4197 Год назад
Be careful with "positive thinking". Positive self affirming can be effective for people who already have a good self esteem, but countereffective for those who haven't (Wood, Perunovic, & Lee, 2009). In my experience, positive affirmations can create false expectancies, a feeling of momentaneal happiness that vanish as fast as it appeared.
@ElvinaJeffers
@ElvinaJeffers Год назад
This therapist is amazing. I just finished listening to the Atomics Habit chapter on self-control and was so excited I called my sister to suggest she read it to help with her mental health. Get home and the next video in my RU-vid stream is this one. So grateful for you Emma. Looking forward to taking your courses in 2023. Thank you and all the best~
@dianeatpeace337
@dianeatpeace337 Год назад
Also Highly recommend Emma's 31 part class on Processing your Emotions. Truly life changing!
@ladybird3518
@ladybird3518 Год назад
Thank you so much for taking the time to show us many strategies to improve our mental health, I really appreciate these videos❤️
@dani-moves
@dani-moves Год назад
Hi there! I am a therapist too and make videos about mental health! I just discovered your channel i LOVE WHAT YOU ARE DOING!! This video is very valuable. I agree with you that thinking about our mental health and doing what helps creates a true transformation in our life 💗
@TheLover4626
@TheLover4626 Год назад
I have attempted to meditate many times in my life and prior to this CD the only success I've experienced is with live guided meditation. ru-vid.comUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq This is the first CD I've used that cuts through my unmedicated ADHD and enables me to truly relax and experience a quiet and energizing interval. The instructors voice is very soothing and pleasant to listen to. I am easily able to sit successfully through the entire CD, and for quite some time after. I cannot adequately express how tremendously helpful this CD has been on my spiritual journey!! Two thumbs up and 10 stars!
@LenaLovesgoodStories
@LenaLovesgoodStories 11 месяцев назад
Great! My first choice for this month: stay hydrated 😊 I used to have the habit of putting 2 liters of sparkling water on my desk every morning and drink them during the day, but since I'm on parental leave, I always forget to drink. Listening to this video, I just realised what a difference that makes to my well-being. I will restart this habit and put the bottles on the kitchen table instead. 😊
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@carolynvenema1019
@carolynvenema1019 Год назад
I really loved this one Emma! Thanks so much! Blessings to you & to your family.
@corylcreates
@corylcreates Год назад
I understand the concept, but my biggest struggle is identifying what "one percent" even looks like. I look at my day, and I have a lot of these small habits already (making my bed, opening curtains when I wake up, not reading the news, limiting screen time before bed, timers for apps on my phone to limit screen time). And it feels like any more habits will be too much, and I struggle to stick with them.
@vanessatrinh9793
@vanessatrinh9793 8 месяцев назад
Maybe in your case you don't need more little habits, you need to focus on 1 habit that will make monumental change. For me it's practicing self regulation: pause and breathe.
@ssutherland9019
@ssutherland9019 Год назад
Loved this so much I listened again and wrote a list. I already do a lot of these so have now added a few more! A good reference when supporting others. Thanks Emma your incremental approach is so helpful!
@Erin78G
@Erin78G Год назад
You are so good at communicating. I really appreciate your videos.
@HewittH
@HewittH Год назад
So many great ideas! We went to Disney World the first week of December, and I felt so much better there than at home, I decided I was going to try to cultivate joy and vigor in my daily life. I've been doing a little exercise, eating a little better, inviting friends over once a week, and working on my self-talk. Already feeling better and ready for more change in 2023!
@TherapyinaNutshell
@TherapyinaNutshell Год назад
That is awesome!
@onlinecourseforme
@onlinecourseforme Год назад
I love that one of instead of watching the news, use that time to do something simple that brings good into the world
@jamestomlinson2247
@jamestomlinson2247 Год назад
Been doing stuff like this for a while now, WORKS! , hope you’re having a good day Emma
@rooyajabarkhil5260
@rooyajabarkhil5260 Год назад
I'm SO happy I stumbled across this video. Thank you! I'll keep coming back to your list of things I can implement for better mental health. Starting with light therapy and taking my vitamins every day...
@nata3467
@nata3467 10 месяцев назад
I have to just thank you for taking the time to be posting all these incredible ideas I am learning so much from you and already have made changes that have allowed me to feel overall healthier mentally and physically
@serenasaystoday
@serenasaystoday 9 месяцев назад
My atomic habit to change my diet has been to just add some veggies to my lunch that are easy, like cucumber slices and grape tomatoes. I don't have the capacity right now to make an entire overhaul, bit by adding some extra vitamins and fiber to my diet I feel like it's more possible to eat healthy!
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 8 месяцев назад
That sounds like a good plan! Maybe check in once in awhile to let us know how it goes.
@madcatlady590
@madcatlady590 Год назад
Emma, thank you so much for sharing such helpful information! Time and again you continue to blow my mind with your compassionate, insightful and empowering videos. Thank you for all that you do 💛
@pamelasmithson4303
@pamelasmithson4303 Год назад
Thank for this video. I found it very helpful. I appreciate all your videos.💕
@samdp42
@samdp42 Год назад
As always, this video helped me reset. I’ve been feeling spun out recently and just needed to remember getting on track doesn’t have to be starting at the halfway mark.
@plainjaneproud
@plainjaneproud Год назад
Love the idea of gentle goals. I had decided this year to just do New Years "adjustments." Basically picking things I'm already doing and improve them little by little or pick some things that I need to get back on track with. Then as I start to see more progress I can add brand new goals.
@duncimanci
@duncimanci Год назад
Thank you, Emma I love your videos. They're always packed with value, and I llike the pace, the tone, the fact that if there is any music it's not overpowering. Just listining to you has a calmin effect.
@rebeccajones9757
@rebeccajones9757 Год назад
Great timing for this video! I just started habit tracking and I am at a point where I am starting to see a difference from being in therapy for a year.
@aroset
@aroset Год назад
Your videos are just what I need. You have such a kind, gentle and loving nature about yourself that it really comes across. Thank you.
@briancoyne6700
@briancoyne6700 Год назад
Quite possibly your BEST video yet! Thank you!!
@marywidener1409
@marywidener1409 Год назад
These are great recommendations and I can’t wait to start implementing them! Just bought a mood light ❤ Thank you for all you do! You’ve made a HUGE difference in my life! 🙏
@mariailie6392
@mariailie6392 Год назад
Thank You so much for your good teachings! Happy and healthy Year! 😇🙏🥰
@KAUTIONMUZIC
@KAUTIONMUZIC Месяц назад
I started making music to get thoughts out of my head. Today it plays a huge role in managing my mental health. I hope everyone finds their eacape and remember you got this 💪💪💪
@vikmnatsakanyan
@vikmnatsakanyan Год назад
I'd be grateful if you could make a video specifically for those with conditions like fibromyalgia or chronic fatigue. All you say makes a lot of sense but things are so much harder and complex with those conditions. Thank you 💜
@Selfgro_
@Selfgro_ 9 месяцев назад
Hey there! I've created self-help therapy guidelines using reliable methods (link in the bio). I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
@biancamacias7476
@biancamacias7476 Год назад
Thank you for this video. My depression is so overwhelming some days I just don't want to do anything and any task seems daunting. This is a good easy approach
@rubyus7332
@rubyus7332 Год назад
Thank you for those small habits. I’ve been doing many of them but haven’t been thinking much about how they connect to each other. I like how you put them into system so we can really appreciate ourselves for doing something small but powerful in a long run. I believe many will benefit from it not only who has anxiety or depression 😊❤️
@lilarose9348
@lilarose9348 Год назад
Thank you very much for the free habit tracker download ❤. I love all of the tips you’ve given. I tend to make a ton of changes at once and get stressed. Simplicity is key. I suffer from panic attacks and the unplug meditation app has helped a lot. At night writing a few things you’re grateful for and I write small wins. They could be as small as I was able to drive without a panic attack or I got to sit outside or go for a walk. It helps especially when you feel defeated. Walking daily has helped tremendously, wish I knew this as a kid.
@tamarahgrace3115
@tamarahgrace3115 Год назад
Really good info! It's similar to some of the daily activities of life advice I've gotten in counseling. This is such a good reminder to use the tools I have available to me. I'm sure to utilize these practices in 2023 and I thank you for posting them
@MegaSnail1
@MegaSnail1 Год назад
Thank you so much for your down to earth and caring ideas. I will be sharing your presentation with my friends who are struggling.
@sandylynn9834
@sandylynn9834 Год назад
Thank you for doing what you do and making these videos. I find them very helpful and the strategies easy to incorporate into my life. Appreciate you!
@mae9064
@mae9064 Год назад
Thanks Emma. What you do helps so many of us. ❤
@susannastratford5847
@susannastratford5847 Год назад
You are a gift to the world! Thank you for your insights and practical applications!
@hannw7
@hannw7 Год назад
Thank you, Emma!! These are such great tips. I haven’t watched network news since January 1st and it’s been a game changer for me. Also, I silenced my LinkedIn account and trashed Facebook a few years ago which has helped a ton in regards to anxiety. I only use one social media platform- that’s it. I’ve learned a lot from you. You have such a clear and easy way of talking which is super helpful especially when you give your examples. I’m so appreciative of you and your channel! THANK YOU!
@sargam2556
@sargam2556 3 месяца назад
Emma ...your advice is workable and practical. Keep doing the good work...
@janelandry6584
@janelandry6584 11 месяцев назад
I love this channel so much! Thank you for this!
@chh6128
@chh6128 Год назад
Thanks for this channel. You are the only RU-vidr that isn’t annoying and I can listen to for a long time. The others really get on my nerves. You present well with proven information. Love this channel ❤
@Jackson.Miller
@Jackson.Miller Год назад
Out of curiosity, do you mind sharing some of the annoying things other RU-vidrs do? I'm trying to share my own experiences with mental health and want to stay away from sounding like the RU-vidrs you are referring to. Any insight would be appreciated!
@sanjavukovic169
@sanjavukovic169 Год назад
My thoughts exactly. It is so hard to find someone talking in normal voice and without background music, regardless of topic.
@sanjavukovic169
@sanjavukovic169 Год назад
@@Jackson.Miller I popped to your channel and tried to listen one of your videos. When recording it is important to setup audio volume not too high to avoid distortions. Distorted sound is one example of annoying thing.
@Jackson.Miller
@Jackson.Miller Год назад
@@sanjavukovic169 thank you for the advice! I'll make sure to adjust it for future videos😁
@katejones2172
@katejones2172 11 месяцев назад
I was going to say the EXACT SAME Thing😂😂😂 that was in reply to @chh6
@StormyIness
@StormyIness Год назад
Going on long walks has been amazing for my anxiety. 2022 was a really stressful year for me, so I started going on evening walks every day and after half a year I feel better. Can't say that walking made me a different person but on really stressful days I feel less overwhelmed.
@Annamalaibatsha
@Annamalaibatsha Год назад
This is great video. Thanks for helpful tips. I wanted to show my appreciation by posting this comment. I generally never comment on videos but today I decided to do this tiny thing like you said to feel positive. I have been watching your videos quite a bit since December I was diagnosed with anxiety and taking medication too. I suffered stroke during thanksgiving and I was told depression usually follows stroke. I recovered completely from stroke luckily and this anxiety and depressed feeling is haunting me since. Thanks 🙏 a bunch for all your videos. You saved my life here.
@sarahzuver5725
@sarahzuver5725 Год назад
Thank you for these great suggestions/reminders!
@debraraby4376
@debraraby4376 Год назад
What a joy you are. Just watching you and your lovely calm voice and beautiful manner makes me feel a bit better. Thank you
@kcjd8659
@kcjd8659 9 месяцев назад
Watching less news has helped me SO MUCH!!
@etc032000
@etc032000 4 месяца назад
I just wanted to say how much I appreciate you I watch your videos and they've helped me immensely right now my family sort of tight with money and being able to access this is huge thank you for what you do it means more than you will ever know and reaches so many people❤
@phaedra7285
@phaedra7285 11 месяцев назад
I absolutely loooove your videos. They are incredibly helpful.
@sarrystylesofficial
@sarrystylesofficial Год назад
Great ideas here!!! Your work is immensely helpful.
@jordipolo84
@jordipolo84 Год назад
Your videos are fantastic, they have helped me greatly. Thank you so much for doing this.
@tinytinaa1111
@tinytinaa1111 Год назад
you're videos are absolutely amazed. thank you so much for posting and sharing all of your expertise!!
@ReinaKamper
@ReinaKamper Год назад
Thank you very much, you are an angel for our mental health. Virtual hug from Argentina.
@victoriadescalso6580
@victoriadescalso6580 Год назад
HAPPY HOLIDAYS & NEW YEAR BLESSINGS EMMA TO YOU & YOUR FAMILY with GRATITUDE ❤
@Hannah.-_-.
@Hannah.-_-. Год назад
This video was perfectly timed! I asked for the Atomic habits book for a Christmas present and received it. What a great book! I plan to implement tiny changes throughout 2023 and I can't wait to see the amazing cumulative, positive effect. Thank you and Happy New Year! 🙏🎉🥳
@claremiller9979
@claremiller9979 Год назад
Such a great idea. Pick a thing that feels to small to make a difference, I think that's the key. Small things over time add up, like drips in a cave forming a stalactite. I chose journalling daily, as it's something I've wanted and tried to do many times but always fallen off. I have a stronger purpose this time so I will call in that to help me when I inevitably don't feel like it. Thanks for all you do here for us, and happy new year
@garry8390
@garry8390 Год назад
Eating a carnivore diet and doing multiple mini workouts throughout the day not only made me lose weight and become happier, it gave me the feeling of control over my life I needed to start a business and get back dating again. Big things come from small beginnings.
@ilnacastelyn6310
@ilnacastelyn6310 Год назад
Great timing! I was just thinking a few days ago that I'm not going to set some great goals for 2023, but in stead are going to focus on small doable actions for each month. I am going to get that book, it might just help me with those atomic habits.
@SeleneC.
@SeleneC. Год назад
I just discovered your channel and I want to thank you for making these videos, you are changing my life.
@anastasiab5980
@anastasiab5980 Год назад
thank you so much, I wish you the best for the New Year,
@rohitbarman7642
@rohitbarman7642 Год назад
One of the best channel in the whole you tube.
@savvy25aggarwal
@savvy25aggarwal Год назад
Thank you so much for sharing this advice. It feels very doable and practical.
@-1lovethesea
@-1lovethesea Год назад
Thanks, your the best mental health coach in RU-vid ❤
@ShinyFeathers54321
@ShinyFeathers54321 Год назад
I’m so grateful to have stumbled onto your channel! Really appreciate you sharing your beautiful gifts ✨
@Kyle_spores_on_IG_sells696
@Kyle_spores_on_IG_sells696 Год назад
Hit up 👆 the handle..He ships 🍄🍫💊💨…..
@mellowyellowcello
@mellowyellowcello Год назад
So positive and helpful! Thank you!
@ssutherland9019
@ssutherland9019 Год назад
Great video with lots of suggestions. I have just bought myself a light as I find mornings hard. I love it! Going to start doing exercises too but was feeling overwhelmed with the amount I was given so going to choose 3 to start and work on them. Tks for all your comments very helpful.!
@boydegg
@boydegg 7 месяцев назад
Subscribed. This woman is AMAZING.
@FatTitsFatStacks
@FatTitsFatStacks Год назад
Thank you again for yet another video ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TorringtonFernandopulle
@TorringtonFernandopulle Год назад
Thank you so much for the video !!! ... your explanations are very crisp and perfectly clear !!! ... 🙏
@Coco-zu9ob
@Coco-zu9ob Год назад
I'm sure most of us, if we've been following Emma's vids, have already been doing some (or tried all) of these things. The key is consistency. I'm guilty myself of just not sticking with things, but when I do I do notice the difference.
@gracevalentine1666
@gracevalentine1666 Год назад
I review these kinds of channels for fun. This is the ❤ channel for really getting better - thank you!
@Omar-rb9jb
@Omar-rb9jb Год назад
Happy New Year Doctor. Thank you for all you do to help us, Love you so much!!!
@sanjavukovic169
@sanjavukovic169 Год назад
I really appreciate the tone of voice you deliver your message. I don't even mind the guitar, I can't follow what you are saying in that first segment but the sound of guitar and your voice is soothing.
@billieboo08
@billieboo08 Год назад
Thank you for this ♥️ happy new year!!
@Sybellaish
@Sybellaish Год назад
God bless you! Your wonderful videos and your calm nurturing voice are helping me a lot♥I could listen to you all day!
@dnaturalartist546
@dnaturalartist546 Год назад
This was incredible. Thank you for all of these suggestions and references
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