This was *GLORIOUS*! ✨… 2 “whole” pple come 2gether = solid unit … NOT two “halves” trying to fix/compensate for each other ‼️ PLEASEEEE 🙏🏾 make more content around planning the wedding? (If you have one) ❤ and *daily life challenges* ,because that’s where the _rubber meets the road_ !!! 🎉 👏🏾 CONGRATS!!🎊
She better say yes I have been married for 30 years everything she said makes sense She inspired me to continue refresh my own marriage Best wishes et à bientôt
I SO love that Lewis says "Te Amo" and Marta says "I Love You", because our language is deeply engraved in us, it runs under our skin, so each one needs to hear those words in their own language. So Love That!!!
Unfortunately, Most men aren’t willing to do the work that Lewis has… it’s rare. Congratulations to this beautiful couple. I had tears streaming down my face, completely unexpected and involuntary, just pure happy tears, their way with each other is so genuine.
Yes, very true! Most guys wouldn’t even admit they have problms. My ex used to shut me down even when I told him I have problems. He didn’t even allow me to admit mine let alone admit his…. There is zero hope in some people
Imagine being affirmed, empowered & uplifted by your future fiance in this way publicly & minutes before you propose to her! Lewis you hit the JACKPOT! That must have been the easiest question to ask after she poured her heart out in this interview. Thank you for sharing your blessings with us. It gives us hope 🙏💍💙
That is the way it should always be in all aspects of their life especially together forever, in good times and bad if they come their way, they can OVERCOME every obstacle.
As a woman, it is so refreshing to hear someone like Martha, talking from a place of so much love. Different from what we hear today in social media that is like a gender fight and a search of who has the fault of the suffering of the other. Beautiful
Don’t make others suffer. Don’t be the reason for someone else’s suffering intentionally or unintentionally. If you have been told that what you’re doing is unacceptable, crossing boundaries, rude and not on, don’t do it. Then you won’t be responsible. Won’t be remembered in bad words.
I had keep in my tears in at the end. Lewis and Martha, thank you so much. I’m 20 and currently single at the moment but I have no choice but to have gratitude for it and view it as a gift, a time to keep bettering myself, and knowing that I will attract someone that reflects me and my beliefs. This video and all the others with Joe Dispenza really changed my life. Thank you Lewis, and huge congratulations on you and Martha!
@@marthahigareda8 Hi Martha! I truly mean those kind words, I have nothing but excitement for you and Lewis. I’ll be going to a wedding for my first time for my half-brother in a few months so I’m very excited to see what that’s like! Keep us updated on your guy’s wedding!
The fact that you both made a conscious decision to never get angry with each other is HUGE I love that. So simple but so powerful. Every couple should consider this
Seriously? you think every other couple actually wants to get angry with each other? And it's unrealistic as fuck, we're humans, we can't just choose to never feel anger towards other person, what matters is how you deal with it.
Upon second listening I think what really helped me understand the difference between getting angry and getting frustrated was you can love someone and still be frustrated with them. We are humans, yes. But anger is like rage … a full blown fire that will burn down your relationship if it is not kept in check. Like he said you might be stressed with work, not sleeping enough or having everything go wrong that day and your partner does or saids something that irritated you in the moment so you said or acted frustrated or irritated. But usually frustration and irritation doesn’t last very long. Its quick. It happens and goes leaves quickly and you apologize right away and take a second to self regulate. Getting angry is ruminating and it’s much bigger than frustration. Anger can take time to heal and that’s what cause relationships to strain and break apart. I told my bf last night when he snapped at me out of frustration that I now understand the difference between that and anger. Whereas in the past I would’ve shut down and ruminated. The anger would’ve consumed me,how dare he snap at me who does he think he is? Etc etc and ruin the whole day out of something so small. I’m glad I was able to express to him how I felt and for us to find a solution without blame. It’s so important for couples to be able to be vulnerable without blame. Again this is not to say you will snap at your partner or be annoyed, it just means how quickly you both can get over issues together and be each others support, that will only bring you closer. To choose love and peace over ego and addictive negative emotions and it’s been proven anger is addictive. And usually anger can be one’s own insecurity that’s just projected onto the other person and that’s our own responsibility to heal.
So, a very new couple giving relationship advice after spending only a few years together. :) I see her being a lot into him, but not him being so much into her. Like he found finally a bit of peace in love but peace and constant therapy are not the main pillars of a relationship. I don't see him with the same sparkle in the eyes and he's not even a little bit jealous...I hope I'm totally wrong because they are cute together but we will know it with time. Anyways, congratulations and may you have a happy life together!
Marta is a very solid, mentally put together person, able to do all the mental health work she needs to do with whatever her life brings her. She’s a solid strong woman. More and more Strength to her.
Man @LewisHowes you didn't give me any warning. I was already tearing up at the love being displayed between you two and now I can barely see my computer screen because you got me crying my eyes out with joy! Congratulations you deserve it!
Literally one of my favorite interviews ever. The value in this conversation is incredible. I see why Lewis chose her for marriage. I will 100% follow this marriage for years to come to learn from.
@@lewishowesSuggestion! Do you think it'll be possible to get at least some Spanish subtitles on these videos so I can share with my Spanish-speaking community that want to understand the GEMS that Martha and you are sharing?
@@karina-gallego Yes, of course. It's very easy to get subtitles in almost any language. Go to "configuration" (the button on the upper right side of the video - la tuerca - ) and then go to Subtítulos > Traducción Automática and finally choose the language you need.
What a magical interview this is. Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share your biggest takeaway. Make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again ru-vid.com
yes..its a grand finale to all you touched on being in an accepting, caring, understanding relationship to be at peace w each other. This podcast is the best for us all to be at our best to accept who each other are to treat each other so we can be loved & live in peace.
Ella se ha trabajado internamente, es una mujer sana y el ejemplo de sus padres es gran cosa. Desarrollo personal no veo apego , condependencia conveniencia . Y Lewis un hombre un hombre Con conciencia alta . Feliz matrimonio amigos !
Yay!! After 7 years of marriage, 9 years together, I am still IN LOVE with my husband. I believe that couples can remain IN love. Soy Mexicana y los felicito! ❤
Congratulations. You both started on the same page and put the effort in to understand each other and find your path to true happiness. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness together.
Damn. Martha just opened my eyes to the main issue in my failed mairrage. Her trying to change me before I was ready to change myself caused so many more issues than it solved.
What an inspiring couple! Both with a high level of emotional intelligence, same values, healthy relationship patterns. I wish you guys many blessings! ❤
As a Mexican-American I grew up watching a lot of Martha’s films, and recently her law of attraction videos. A few years ago I was in a very low point in my life and discovered Dr. Joe Dispenza, which led me to Lewis’ content. I am so grateful for the two of you, but most importantly HAPPY! Congratulations, and thanks to both of you for everything!!
This made me weep! You're strangers to me and yet I felt so much joy for you both! I hope I can find a love like this someday. Thank you for sharing this moment! Congratulations!
Perfect explanation to why people and mostly women stay in abusive relationships. “We accept the love we believe we are deserving of”. And we are also “rescuers” trying to rescue others from their misery. Impossible task. It’s good that these subjects are no longer tabu❤ Thank you
@@marthahigareda8igualmente para ti, toda la felicidad del mundo. Son estos mensajes los que nos abren los ojos, cuestionamos y nos damos cuenta de que lo que no sirve hay que soltarlo. Como una papa caliente😊❤
"I wanted to see the distance you had toi go before you ran in to love. i looked and saw you on this road, . But I noticed you stood still at halfway, and I wondered what I was seeing. Then I watched your show, and everything made sense." I watched your podcast, and everything fell into place. Your ideas resonate deeply. You both communicate with your third eye, sharing the same vibration. This is a divine relationship-perhaps even a power couple, whatever that means." good job, i thinks so
This is an example of a healthy relationship ❤️. The way you look at each other: with love, admiration and respect. Thank you for showing the importance of being vulnerable to create/ build a concious relationship. It's pretty obvious that u both have worked a lot to heal ur inner wounds and you have improved in your personal areas of life as individuals. That allows u to stay in harmony and same vibration to have a lovely relationship. On the whole: it doesn't mean healthy couples don't have difficult moments, but they work together as a team/ partners in crime ✨.
Not me waking up just when I was feeling very drowsy. Your relationship gives me hope. Nothing is more special than a relationship between 2 healed individuals who happen to be also beautiful and successful.💚💚💚💚What a way of starting my 2024.
This is an amazing example of how people should approach dating in the new world! ❤Beautiful expressions of pure love. Thank you for sharing yourselves!
Soy Muchologa 🇲🇽 !! I am so happy to see this beautiful relationship. My fiancé is a huge Lewis fan and I am big Martha fan. Watching this interview was perfection, you guys deserve nothing but greatness❤
WOW!!!! The amount of power, love, joy and compassion you both possess individually and together is what amazes me. My biggest takeaway was when Martha was explaining balance in a way I've never heard before. I cried tears of joy, your love for each other is so wholesome to watch. I never would have guessed Martha was your partner in life, your fiance and the one you chose to share your life with. She's such a bada** actress. I LOVED her performance in Altered Carbon. Congratulations to you both and to many more years! 🎉🎉
Congratulations! My husband & have been married for 27 years. It has been a journey of ups & down. We have set goals small, big and with Love & dedication we have accomplished them. Every day is a blessing. We have two beautiful children who are in their 20's & they love going camping with us every year. Cheers to you both for a happy journey. Felicidades!!! 🎉
This video is a keeper. A good blue print for two people serious about coming together. This isnt for the light hearted....this is for people that are tired of the games and ready for a true life with a partner. Thank you for sharing and God bless you both.
Okay wow! That intro and final question was amazing!! I have chills all over when Lewis popped the question. Hands down best proposal. Congratulations 🎉❤
I am so happy to see a conscious loving couple sharing their wisdom…and standing in their Divine Feminine and Masculine energy in harmony and balance..gives me hope❤❤
Good for Marta, that her father never hit her or humiliated her. Still trying to find a perspective that excuses my father's abuse. Still this is a very sweet interview. I wish Lewis and Marta love and happiness.
There is never an excuse for violence as abuse. Not everything has to be forgiven. But you deserve to lay down the burden..because he chose those actions and that was out of your control and so ultimately it doesnt have to continue to be your weight to carry forever.
I watched this episode twice taking notes as a diligent student. How beautiful and powerful to have examples like this, even if it's just on RU-vid and hardly close to me, I now know what to aspire to! Happy tears!!! 😍
Guys you’re awesome. Happened to me too. When you put the stop on relationships, is exact moment when you attract your soul mate. Exact thing happened to me and many others ♥️♥️
Hey Lewis. When the pandemic hit in 2020, I began a spiritual journey that made me question my entire life as a young adult. You were there at the very beginning. Your podcast and your book - the Mask of Masculinity set the foundation of this journey that has taken me to amazing realizations and actions. Although I no longer watch your videos as often as I used to, I am always grateful for what you and your content represented and how much it helped me. When I ran into this video I couldn't help but watch it. I am truly happy to see that you are fullfilled and not alone. Cheers to a happy life for you and Martha! PS. Martha is amazing, I would marry her too :D
That’s true..they are both amazing 🎉❤ If every relationship will be like this one or at least having the will to have therapy especially the people who are diagnosed what a better world will be! I’m thankful that I’m also doing therapy 🙏 Hope 2024 will be filled with love and happiness!!! 🎉😊
The way Lewis & Martha look at each other speaks volumes about their mutual love. This gives me hope that love truly exists. So happy for you both. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together ❤
This was beautiful ❤ Thank you for sharing your love and this moment with all of us! I had been long waiting to see it! So many blessings and congratulations to your loving conscious union! As a follower subscriber of your channel since 2019, this brought me tears and happiness in a time I feel myself heartbroken with my 20 year marriage falling apart, but hearing Martha here gives me hope and a direction to look for also, that I will still one day be blessed with such a love like yours!
I have been broken as in my childhood and I have been broken by the wrong men a million times but this video and many other of your videos Lewis gives me hope to a bright future with a wonderful partner. You have such a beautiful relationship that encourages people like me to never lose hope in finding yourself and finding love. Congratulations and happy new year Coach!
Wow! I'm blown away at the courage and authenticity you both have to share your lives. You both are so precious! Thank you for bringing sweet tears to my eyes...I have done a lot of work as well and know my partner and dream life IS ALREADY DONE. Keep on with THE GREAT WORK. MUCH LOVE & MANY BLESSINGS!!
1st, Happy New Year to you and Martha! 🎉 2nd- I am so grateful to have come across your incredible content a little over a year ago. I've learned so much that has positively impacted my life🙏 3rd and most important. The joy I feel for you two Amazing people and the lessons you are giving us on relationships and self love is immeasurable. I love you guys! Bring on part 3!!!!!!!!!!
i love it when they are actually learning from each other rather than, one is better than the other . so much love in their eyes.Awww..so sweet beautiful couple.
I’m a big fan of your work, Lewis. This was inspiring. I’m happy for you and see the same for myself! Thank you for sharing yourself and to Martha for allowing us to receive this intimate conversation and time with you both.
I cried watching this. I wish you both all the best in your relationship. Your story is beautiful and I deeply admire both of you individually and as a couple. ❤
Thank you for all the wonderful videos, in 2023 Lewis 🙏🏼💫. May this next year bring you continued success, peace, happiness, and continued opportunity to share your gifts, lots and lots of moments of great joy and abundance in everything that you do🙏🏼
I felt like crying when I started listening to this. Earlier tonight I was reading Heal your bodyCure your mind! It’s sad what our past memories do to our adult years. I hope God redeems the time for you!
She is right, God needs to be always on top, you make Him a priority and He takes care of not only you, your life, but your house, your family, your loved ones, thats actually a promise. I know you'll have a very blessed marriage bc you are a blessing to others. So happy for you.
After 3 years in darkness, after 3 surgeries in 3 years, I started dating again and thought, that those kind of conscious relationship would be weird to start, but you gave me strength! Happy new year@ all and a lot of love to you both and all others :-) AND SHE SAID YESSSSSS! Juchuuu!
Lewis, I know you probably won't read this, but I've been following you for a while, and I've heard you talk several times about your struggles. When I saw you propose, I burst into tears. I am SO happy for you. You're ready, and clearly she is the one 🎉🎉🎉
Brings a tear to my eye too at the end!! ❤ congratulations, really an example of how to have a healthy relationship, the way how to work on that. What I like about Lewis is he being humble enough because of keep on investing in himself as a human, self development. This you can feel. I am doing Toastmasters now too lol ! 😅
Sometimes you just need to have a leap of faith and keep growing together. It’s still better than do nothing and be twice less productive. At the end it’s about how you choose to show up in life and to preach your values, not just look like you figured everything out. Solve problems at the time of their arrival and don’t take everything personal. Because you can be most prepared, but nobody knows what live throws at you. Part of the journey.
I Can’t!! They are so cute together!! It makes me feel empowered and inspired. Despite age and previous experience, we can find balance and harmony in life. Thank you, Martha and Lewis, for sharing your meaningful and personal moments🙏💛
This was so refreshingly beautiful and inspiring. Lewis, I love your podcast, and have heard you speak fondly of Martha many times, but this was the icing on the cake. My biggest takeaway was Martha’s acronym - BALANCCCED. It is now another tool in my relationship toolkit. Congratulations to you both. Cheers to the best that’s yet to come 🥂!
This was a beautiful episode, I am so happy for the both of you. Please do a yearly anniversary show to remind people to stay present in thier marriage work and not take each other for granted.
I love the way she looks at him whenever he speaks.. holding conscious space & awareness. It's beautiful to watch 😊💚 And he must have been quite excited & slightly nervous underneath, knowing he has one important question reserved for the end.😉🍀 PS: I had to re-watch the end & cry along in joy haha
I absolutely adore both of you! I am so glad you both exist and found each other!!!! I think the idea of entering a relationship alongside “therapy “ or guided conscious communication is a great way to grow all the way around. I believe you both to be cosmic students and I am deeply grateful for you both. All the love from my family to yours❤
Congratulations to an extraordinary couple! Your journey together is a living testament to the profound values of love, discipline, and mutual growth. Your commitment to personal and interpersonal growth is truly inspiring. Beyond just sharing theories, you were able to give us practical insight, showcasing the steps taken to find one another. Your patience and unwavering belief in love are a beacon of hope for others. May your union continue to be a shining example, radiating love and blessings to everyone around you. Many heartfelt blessings on this joyous occasion!
What a great model of how to start a relationship. For those of us who were not able to "succeed" in our first mariage, some of what Martha in BALANCCCED was learned the hard way. Other lessons still need to be integrated. But looking forward to meeting someone amazing and have a beautiful relationship based on acceptance and shared values. Thanks for all that you bring to us, Lewis.
BIG CONGRATS to you two!! 🎉🥳 It is very inspiring and truly helps me stay on top of my healing. I felt so unreasonable asking my now husband to go to therapy at a year in and a few fights with us still being in the honeymoon phase. But I'm so glad we started the work when we did. It uncovered a lot for us both and was really hard for a little while, but the breakthrough has been beautiful. Our blended family is way better off, and we're better people individually.
Lewis, all your interviews have contributed to you becoming the man that can create such an honorable relationship. Please continue to be the leader for other men to understand this. Many women do this work but not as many men know where to turn. Create your school of greatness where you, alone, speak your insights. Teach them your books read, exercises to do, challenges faced , with a FB group to support each other on the playing field. Time to be the team captain. You can show men how to have this too. Much more generous than a part 3. Game changer. Your Beloved would be a blessed teacher also for women. Congratulations on all the miles you have run. What a great prize. LOVE 💖💕💝
