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AWKWARD WEDDING NIGHT || YOUR FIRST TIME TIPS || WAITED TILL MARRIAGE 

Victoria Fash
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Hi guys!
Welcome back to my channel, I am so excited to have you here again! Today we will be going into the details of what happens during the wedding night and how to prepare yourself especially if it's your first time or if it's been a while.
Please note that this video is only for people who are 18 and above.
Thank you and enjoy!

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@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
FOR EVERYONE SHOUTING PAIN 😅, I HAVE A NEW VIDEO THAT WILL HELP YOU... 👇👇 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qUtizMM33jo.html
@estheroriah9680
@estheroriah9680 3 года назад
Okay, thank you ❤️❤️
@KateTriumph
@KateTriumph 3 года назад
Victoria tell us how you enjoyed that night on a scale of 1 to 10. I am looking forward to inviting you to my RU-vid channel.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
@@KateTriumph 0.5 😄
@KateTriumph
@KateTriumph 3 года назад
Hmmmm now you are talking. Victoria you are spoilt, good girl, your husband made a good choice.
@leonietaylor7054
@leonietaylor7054 3 года назад
A minute? Say 5 seconds.
@francisahamchukwu667
@francisahamchukwu667 3 года назад
I’m a 31 year old male-virgin and I’m not ashamed to say that, although waiting till marriage is deemed old-school nowadays but our society have fallen short of the benefits and virtues of waiting till marriage. Anyways, I’ve sometimes imagined, or rather fantasized on how my first time would be. Glad you broke it down for it to be assimilated. You just gained a sub!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm really glad to hear this from a guy!!!! Weldone sir! 🥰
@mariefrazier9920
@mariefrazier9920 3 года назад
Good for you! You won’t regret it.
@namgospelandpraisevideos705
@namgospelandpraisevideos705 3 года назад
👏👏
@liliankaylee
@liliankaylee 3 года назад
Do you have a girlfriend
@thelmaepole318
@thelmaepole318 3 года назад
@@liliankaylee 😅😅😅
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186 3 года назад
Men pls take it easy with your wife esp if she's a Virgin. Never force your way through, its a gradual process.. The hymen is stretched every time you try... It might take you up to a week to achieve full entry.. Patience is key. For the Bride, Lubricant is your best friend.. Pls apply generously... Buy it in bulk (not just one or 2 per time) Couples.. PLAN YOUR HONEYMOON. It's too important that you do
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thanks for this!
@TeacherBeatrice_
@TeacherBeatrice_ 3 года назад
exactly what we'll said
@kennethfok
@kennethfok 3 года назад
If a man loves his wife, why would he want to force his way through? The act of sexual intercourse is also known as making love. How is forcing your way through even an act of making love? It is better to go slowly and ensure your wife is getting the pleasure.
@valenciasaintilus9573
@valenciasaintilus9573 3 года назад
most women don't even have a hymen by the time they lose their virginty especially if they were active and played sports. There is not a physical difference between a virgins and a non virgins vagina. Please don't spread misinformation
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
@@valenciasaintilus9573 I think you should know he meant the Vjay stretches... not Hymen.
@victoriawamina8294
@victoriawamina8294 3 года назад
I love your modesty. It made it so easy to watch and learn. As a Christian this is not a topic that one would hear often yet we have so much media spreading fantasy around the whole issue. Beautiful work... I salute you 👏🏼🙌🏻
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Exactly! Thanks for watching sis!
@amapeeps1253
@amapeeps1253 3 года назад
Exactly!!!
@chidorainspires7109
@chidorainspires7109 3 года назад
Yes oo. My sister
@kmills7453
@kmills7453 3 года назад
The first time for everyone is not the same and it does not have to be painful. My husband is far from being mini mouse but he took his time and I already made up in my mind that God made me for him and him for me so its going to be the perfect fit. I kept that mindset because before that I was terrified and I think that mindset and his patience made it a beautiful experience.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Love your perspective...
@paschalinedavymor5930
@paschalinedavymor5930 3 года назад
Wow
@meezursrule
@meezursrule 2 года назад
If you're tense and nervous, it might well hurt. But if you take time together first to explore each other, turn each other on etc, it might not hurt at all. If a woman is turned on , sex is a totally different experience to if she is not. And force/lube is not necessary! I know someone who was a virgin on her wedding night.....she and her husband waited a few months .....they spent time just getting used to sharing life, home and bed with another human being. They also spent time getting used to cuddling, caressing, being naked etc. When they did eventually have sex, it just happened naturally with no emotional pressure, or tension..
@franklynalozie8350
@franklynalozie8350 3 года назад
I am glad you kept your bed honourable. Trusting the goal was to honour God, kudos!!!! May Jesus be pleased.
@peterunwana5177
@peterunwana5177 3 года назад
😃😃😃😃🤣🤣I just love this lady, the way she is explaining and laughing 🤣she is really saying it from experience, but thanks for sharing
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thanks for watching 🥰
@praiseariamaseke8504
@praiseariamaseke8504 3 года назад
Yea 😂.....She's really funny
@pinkvanillakitten
@pinkvanillakitten 3 года назад
Thank you so much!!! As a young christian woman who is choosing to wait for marriage, this completely changed my outlook and I actually feel so much more secure and happy with the idea of resting on the wedding night and waiting to chill out, instead of forcing ourselves to do it right away that same day! This really made me feel more secure and confident on what to do to prepare, in ways I didn't know I needed to know until I heard them. Thank you sister 💜💙
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm really happy to hear this! Thanks for watching ❤
@praise3700
@praise3700 3 года назад
This is the most honest wedding night video I’ve watched. Thank you!!
@bidemiabiola8097
@bidemiabiola8097 3 года назад
Me too
@deborahomeche9084
@deborahomeche9084 3 года назад
Ikr...you can literally know this is the fact
@eushaundawells6064
@eushaundawells6064 3 года назад
I am an African Am. and I was raised with the same aversion to the body. So I genuinely appreciated this video. I felt like I was listening to my big sister. Thank you. May God bless, keep, protect and prosper your family 🤗❤️💐.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm really glad. Thanks for watching dear
@eushaundawells6064
@eushaundawells6064 3 года назад
I wish I could have give you a heart but, it not an option on my screen so❤️❤️❤️🤗. Take care.
@faithmartins7436
@faithmartins7436 3 года назад
Gosh I'm cringing 😭😭😭.... I'm just praying cos I hate pain!!! Holy spirit will see us through... This was so informative!!! I've started to prepare my mind! Thank you so much❤️
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Awww... don't worry, you'll be fine. Just don't over think it. Our body is made for this, just relax and you'll be amazed at the wonders your body can do 😉
@nursetinalouise
@nursetinalouise 3 года назад
There doesn’t need to be pain if you are treated right and your body ready.
@fatherhoodgist_with_favour
@fatherhoodgist_with_favour 3 года назад
I'm getting really scared oh The pain is what I don't want😢
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
@@fatherhoodgist_with_favour please watch the new video I uploaded to give you tips to reduce the pain
@jessieturks391
@jessieturks391 3 года назад
@@fatherhoodgist_with_favour it's not always painful oooo each person and their own body my friend told me she didn't feel any pain for her own and I understand cause everyone has their own body
@arkohgeorge9136
@arkohgeorge9136 Год назад
I just love to listen to u..though i have been married for 11years i still refresh my memory with your lectures....you are a real gift..u make it so simple ❤❤❤
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash Год назад
Aww... thank you 🥰
@andreadoprado6988
@andreadoprado6988 3 года назад
Her smile is so refreshing 🥰💜
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you 😊
@LivingBoldlyWithUyi
@LivingBoldlyWithUyi 3 года назад
Girl I ain’t gonna lie! This was the realest video I ever watched on this!!! I really learned something today!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you so much!
@nancykinyuy8343
@nancykinyuy8343 3 года назад
I love this video and I have learned a lot but I will like to say that couples should learn to do it in their home the first night then they can move to the hotel thereafter cause we don't know the type of people and the spirits they carry that have slept on that bed
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
This is a good point. Thank you
@SirInyene
@SirInyene 3 года назад
HE was bruise for our iniquities.... so no bruises for my love in Jesus name. Amen 😂😂😂
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ity1223
@ity1223 3 года назад
I am so done!!! hahahah
@eniolaolaniran4546
@eniolaolaniran4546 3 года назад
Epic
@mafengshombot2284
@mafengshombot2284 3 года назад
I'm finished 😂😂😂😂it's the scriptural reference for me 😭
@blessingomoruyi7964
@blessingomoruyi7964 3 года назад
Hahhahhahahahhaa 😂😂😂
@folasayo1829
@folasayo1829 3 года назад
Love love love this! Thank you so much. It was truly informative, so humorous, educational and to be honest it was really freeing for virgins who don’t know these things and can be apprehensive towards the wedding night. Not many people are able to teach this with such purity as you did here. I learnt so much. Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm really glad! There's a new video on this, be sure to watch that too 🥰
@thelonesoul968
@thelonesoul968 3 года назад
Her smile is contagious, beautiful,blessed and cute 🤩❤️
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you!!
@busingerita6626
@busingerita6626 3 года назад
Wow! I'm not yet married and hope to get married. OMG. Thank u for this talk. It's very enlightening and important. I usually shy away from such talks but I'm glad I listened till the end
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thanks for watching ❤
@hauwausman5310
@hauwausman5310 3 года назад
This is the MOST honest s*x discussion I have heard. That L*be part got me. Im so PROUD U are able to discuss this openly. Thank u Mrs Wole
@youngpearl7439
@youngpearl7439 3 года назад
I'm scared oooooooo😱😱😱 I love the bluntness, truthfulness and Openness. Thank you.
@Ms_Omotayo
@Ms_Omotayo 3 года назад
Me too
@dannyphantom3090
@dannyphantom3090 8 месяцев назад
I'm 21m waiting for marriage its really hard with modern hookup culture but i know it will be worth it one day to only have that intimate experience with my wife and say i learned everything from her and her learning from me.
@kisakyegelder7051
@kisakyegelder7051 3 года назад
You covered all the points, and it was well explained.I think the only other thing I would add is to have fun with it. This area of marriage can be very enjoyable but if it turns into a chore/ task it will become a nightmare. So ladies set dates,cook those nice meals, watch those movies that get you excited together with your husband, research positions together, mood light the house. What ever makes you comfortable try it. 😊. On my sixth year of marriage now
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thanks so much for this!! ❤
@FShexa
@FShexa 3 года назад
I think first time couples should be encouraged to use a Lubricant
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I agree
@nakwazyan.220
@nakwazyan.220 3 года назад
I very much agree 👍🏾
@Parqaleeta474
@Parqaleeta474 3 года назад
My comment is only this; that I ask blessing for your wonderful husband for the loving environment you two have created around you. God bless you two and blessed your home.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Amen. Thank you so much 💓
@israelorigbemi1901
@israelorigbemi1901 3 года назад
Woman, you can talk o😂. She literally kept my company to and fro throughout my journey and I couldn't stop laughing. The whole video is just full of positive energy🤣.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
🙈🙈 Thank you! 😊
@elizabethbarasa8906
@elizabethbarasa8906 Год назад
just three weeks to my wedding as a virgin and am happy to know the truth different from what i knew
@carolinekajuju2978
@carolinekajuju2978 3 года назад
The level of confidence is on another level.
@estherthompson5829
@estherthompson5829 3 года назад
Jesus! Marriage sweet o... Look at that "I'll beat you o" , and "fish" comment. It felt like you were saying I love you instead. Ah! God when! 🥺🥺🥳🥳🥳
@juliannesharpe3066
@juliannesharpe3066 2 года назад
I am So Proud of the male virgin who commented here is Not ashamed of admitting that he is a virgin and who places value on himself enough to want to wait until marriage.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Absolutely!
@shii7795
@shii7795 4 месяца назад
My God this powerfully my first night it gonna be crazy jesus 😢
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186 3 года назад
My wedding night was quite memorable, we weren't too tired... Had a great time together.. It was my first time and painful.. We couldn't pull through that night ... But we did subsequently.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Aww... glad to hear that 🥰
@armandrenaudngaamounana2311
@armandrenaudngaamounana2311 3 года назад
You smiling and laughing 🤣😂, that's refreshing.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you 🥰
@mmangaliso9641
@mmangaliso9641 3 года назад
"Sister, it's not a matter of ouch!" Scared me and made me laugh at the same time 🤣🤣🤣
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣 Thank you Sis 🥰
@thatoolga
@thatoolga 3 года назад
Not me laughing like that when she said this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
@@thatoolga 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@girlyessencee5273
@girlyessencee5273 3 года назад
Thank you sis, we need to talk about this topic, is soo important! I'm not married yet and I'm celibate, but I'm taking notes. Thank you for keeping it real with us 🥰😊
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome 😊
@godkene9896
@godkene9896 3 года назад
Thanks God for keeping me a virgin for 30years it's not easy all the stigma and co... Ur video is a source of encouragement to me. One day I will share my own testimony
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Amen! Thank you for sharing
@fajanayemisi9960
@fajanayemisi9960 3 года назад
My wedding, night,we were so tired ,we couldn't do anything,I remembered that my husband slept off in the sitting room.hahahaha,I slept off in another room ,but on the second day ,after we have taken out bath,my husband make a romantic love making to me,even till today,I didn't forget it.On the to 3rd day,we moved to Abuja for our honey moon,we went to different places.it was so fun
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Aww... it sounds really fun 😍
@teekaysdiary9778
@teekaysdiary9778 3 года назад
I wish I came across this before I got married. The pain ehn. Let's thank God anyway for the journey after😁 Lovely video. Thanks for sharing
@royoloruntimilehin3548
@royoloruntimilehin3548 3 года назад
Men too can get bruised! and it can be very painful. Patience is a big virtue here. For men, the bruise can linger on much longer in healing especially if it's the first time. This could happen any other time in the union.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're right! Thanks for this ❤
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186
@queenndubuisi-godwin7186 3 года назад
Well done Victoria Fash. Very useful tips . Wanna mention that your wedding day doesn't have to be so stressful.. We make things a lot complicated for ourselves as regards wedding celebration... Keep the wedding simple (especially for you as the couple ) your focus should be your marriage(which is for life) not the just the wedding (which is one day)
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
True this!
@kennethfok
@kennethfok 3 года назад
Many couples spend a lot of money for the wedding day which only lasts for that day itself. Marriage should be about the union of two individuals to become one and to be able to fully enjoy life together till death.
@eushaundawells6064
@eushaundawells6064 3 года назад
One more thing😊 First I want to let you know I am Christian married woman of 19 yr this yr of ‘21. My mother always taught me it is a compliment for on a husband when his wife is beautiful. Your smile and how you all flirt fed my soul❤️❤️❤️. You are your husbands glory. So, please tell your husband “GOOD ON HIM” for being part of the reason you smile & keep Up the good work🤗❤️ Blessing on your marriage & future
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Awww... Thank you so much 💓 I'll definitely be telling him this 😄😄
@adaajafaith5835
@adaajafaith5835 3 года назад
I love your originality. Thank you for putting Nigerian content out there ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. Proudly 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you!
@Temiladeiye
@Temiladeiye 3 года назад
Omoooo, I enjoyed this video oooo, unfortunately I didn't get to see it until like 3 weeks after my wedding but most of the things you talked about were and still is my experience, you're so real and modest in your presentation....... Well done sis, I'm definitely subscribing to this channel
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Aww... thanks so much!!
@estheroriah9680
@estheroriah9680 3 года назад
😀😀😀 thank you for sharing,this is really educative... God bless your home with happiness,love and peace
@EstherIkede
@EstherIkede 3 года назад
After all the pain you said don't be afraid 😭🤣🤣🤣
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Yes nau... pain will come and go, enjoyment is for a life time 😅😅
@Cute_Stuffs
@Cute_Stuffs 3 года назад
Lol
@gabrielabostan8442
@gabrielabostan8442 3 года назад
I never comment But I just had to say I LOVE YOUR ENERGY AND CONFIDENCE. Thank you for making my day!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Aww... thanks so much for watching! ❤
@man-observing-world
@man-observing-world Год назад
If every parent could speak to their own children like this, the world would be a more sensible happy place!
@I.am.outspoken
@I.am.outspoken 3 года назад
And i was there waiting for a fairytale honeymoon. Thank you, this was so informative
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome dear
@emmanuelokpanachiisah5108
@emmanuelokpanachiisah5108 2 года назад
Mrs fash...I'm so blessed subscribing...I'm 23years, although I'm still single and nt in any relationship(virgin by God's grace) but I must say dat all dis u are saying ba will really prepare me ahead of time...God bless u..no with all dis ur teaching ba I can't make mistake...I thank God for u be a blessing to me and world at large..love u ma..💝💝
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Awww.. thanks so much ❤
@omololaanthony2128
@omololaanthony2128 3 года назад
I am just seeing this.. I love the fact that you are real.. Its all absolutely true. I have been married 5yrs plus and u made it real... Good to know people are now talking about it now. I never really heard many people talk about it except my pastor during counselling. But I made sure I counselled my friends to be very well prepared. Especially the hurt part, people never come clean about it. Thanks for been real. New member on your channel. Kudos to u... Keep it up.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you so much! I love hearing from people who have actually experienced it 🥰
@scottbrandon6244
@scottbrandon6244 2 года назад
I like the fact that you use humor. It is also good to see the awkwardness for couples from other cultures.
@djejey1
@djejey1 3 года назад
Thank you so much for your honesty. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this as a Christian woman. Thank you
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome @
@adegbolatemitope7945
@adegbolatemitope7945 2 года назад
I love it that your husband was interfering. I learnt a lot. Thank you ma
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Thank you ❤
@olorunsolafemi8842
@olorunsolafemi8842 3 года назад
I love this Victoria. Kudos and congratulations to my brother for having a lovely lady. Your home is blessed and you will continue to be relevant.
@wendymaphisa7671
@wendymaphisa7671 3 года назад
Girl you are funny😂😂😂. Thank you for sharing this for young Christian women. It's important to be real.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you! 😁
@gistwithtina3380
@gistwithtina3380 3 года назад
I just love the genuinty and humour...I am a photographer and I tell my clients to relax as well that night and enjoy the next day....
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Great!!! Thanks Sis ❤
@preciousjayeola
@preciousjayeola 3 года назад
Love the way you served the truth in a flexible way with the dash of humor 😂... New subbie✌😚
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you Sis 🥰
@berliantisalamahu730
@berliantisalamahu730 3 года назад
Feels like i'm listening to my older sister giving me first wedding night tips lol
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm glad 🥰
@NeakM
@NeakM 3 года назад
New subbie, seconds in!! Thank you, I am 28 and looking forward to meeting the right one to share this moment with, taking notes cause I know the day will catch me sooner or later. haha, thanks for the laughs. God bless you and your hubby!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Amen!! Thanks so much! All the best!
@olayanjuaanuoluwa9541
@olayanjuaanuoluwa9541 3 года назад
This was well said, I love the honesty and playfulness and the points were well articulated. Kudos 👍
@lizmariequinn
@lizmariequinn 3 года назад
Surprisingly my first time I was on top. It actually helped bcuz I culd control the force and it didnt hurt as bad as missionary. The angle for some reason was too painful in missionary lol.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Hmmn... thanks for this. Heard this just now too...
@iniobongekpo1638
@iniobongekpo1638 3 года назад
This is innovative
@iremiawolumate6735
@iremiawolumate6735 3 года назад
Actually, I was on top the first time also and trust me, it was less painful. It's advisable to be on top as a first timer, it's way easy that way.
@damilolaodesola2248
@damilolaodesola2248 3 года назад
Thumbs up woman! You got all points quite well and your energy is top notch.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you 😊
@seunjuxe7777
@seunjuxe7777 3 года назад
I loved this.. so beautifully delivered. thank you. the fact that you were laughing all through made it non-awkward and fun for me
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Aww... thanks so much 🥰
@OreoluwaAremo
@OreoluwaAremo 3 года назад
grateful to youtube for recommending this channel. thank you for being so honest.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome
@mrlucky4441
@mrlucky4441 3 года назад
I slept off at the hotel haha 😂 I was too tired after the wedding and my wife still talks about it after 7 years 😂😂 I didn’t eat on my wedding day! I guess I was too stressed and busy.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
😄😄😄😄 Rest is needed jare
@mrlucky4441
@mrlucky4441 3 года назад
@@VictoriaFash defo…. Keep up your good contents 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@justineshikudule3548
@justineshikudule3548 3 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@oceanne1056
@oceanne1056 2 года назад
🤣
@enny_adams
@enny_adams 3 года назад
Anyhow, children are being raised to know all they should know nowadays.
@nishahaymond6711
@nishahaymond6711 3 года назад
I got married on the 13th. My husband made sure we didn't stay out too late, lol. Although we had talked about that night for months I was nervous.... I've never screamed so much in my life 😂😂😂 We make fun of me yelling "Ouch" now though, lol
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
We still do too 🤣🤣
@leylahg1108
@leylahg1108 3 года назад
When you say yelling do u mean of pain?😳
@nishahaymond6711
@nishahaymond6711 3 года назад
@@leylahg1108 Definitely not in pleasure. Lol. I was screaming in pain! Someone probably thought I was getting beat or worse from the things I was screaming out. 😂
@leylahg1108
@leylahg1108 3 года назад
@@nishahaymond6711 was it bc of the pace you were going at do you think? I'm sorry but seeing your comment got me nervous about my first time even more and I'm just trying to get clarify 😳😟
@nishahaymond6711
@nishahaymond6711 3 года назад
@@leylahg1108 The first night we couldn't go all the way because it was hurting too bad, we tried for an hour. Not to go into too much detail, but just trying to get the head in was killing me, even tho he was gentle. I think the fact that I feared the pain made it even more painful. My advice to you is to don't think "I'm about to be in pain" just try to focus on connecting with the one you love. Be relaxed and as comfortable as possible and that might make things easier. . . Hopefully 😳
@jessicawest224
@jessicawest224 3 года назад
RU-vid has been popping up this video to me again and again and I finally fell for it, here I am!!!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
💃💃💃
@Prettyjane212
@Prettyjane212 3 года назад
First of all let’s talk about her beauty she is pretty no cap 🧢 and her content is mad 🔥 I truly love your channel please keep the energy going because am definitely here to stay 👏👍
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Awww, thanks so much
@hanitube8737
@hanitube8737 3 года назад
I’m 20not ready to get married and watching this lol 😂
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
😄😄😄
@ivygacheri5629
@ivygacheri5629 3 года назад
😂😂😂me too😶😶😂😂😂
@namchuckskay9818
@namchuckskay9818 3 года назад
Same😂😂
@raphaellesikila8418
@raphaellesikila8418 3 года назад
Same here
@oliviaumwali8284
@oliviaumwali8284 3 года назад
😂😂me as virgin lol
@funmilayooyekanmi
@funmilayooyekanmi 3 года назад
Super informative. All my assumptions have been debunked😅. Thank you for keeping it real.
@iamblessingani
@iamblessingani 3 года назад
Ahswear 😂😂😂
@adebimpeayodele5813
@adebimpeayodele5813 3 года назад
First timer here and I'm loving it. Great lesson
@favyscorner
@favyscorner 3 года назад
The way your husband appeared to greet us after the serious talk ehnn 🤣🤣🤣 I struggle to film my videos seriously when my sisters are close by so I don’t know how you made this video seriously in front of him 🤣 I feel like I would have laughed throughout and it wouldn’t have allowed me film well 🤣 It was informative 👍🏽
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Trust me, I chased him out of the room more than twice 🤣🤣 Thanks so much for watching!
@patienceadekunle8171
@patienceadekunle8171 3 года назад
I just stumbled on this video today which is 2 weeks after my wedding... Thank you for saying it as it look.. For someone like me, who has a low pain threshold, I'm still scared of doing it with my hubby but thankfully, the lub has been helpful. I'm definitely subscribing to your channel for more content. Bless You!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Awww... I'm so glad people are saying the truth... I promise you, it gets better!
@priscillianzerem5827
@priscillianzerem5827 3 года назад
You'll be fine my dear. Just take things slow and use the lube generously
@the.l0la
@the.l0la 3 года назад
😂 I thoroughly enjoyed watching this! Definitely sending this video to the hubby!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you 🥰
@meezursrule
@meezursrule 2 года назад
You've made it sound like a terrifying experience and extremely painful. Assuming a woman has normal anatomy (no FGM etc), it doesn't need to be that way at all. There should be no need for force and definitely no bruising. Really liked your advice to get to know and appreciate your body before your wedding night, and your advice to communicate.
@watitduful
@watitduful 2 года назад
Very true. This is why, in my opinion, there should be sex eduction in the church specifying this within the marriage ministry.
@amyfionna
@amyfionna 2 года назад
Kamal? Are you a man? Why are you telling a woman what her body should feel like?! You can’t possibly know. Newsflash, Kamal, it most definitely does hurt. A lot. There is lots of uncomfortable pushing because the hymen is in the way. The penis is effectively stabbing through it. There’s blood. There’s pain. She’s telling the truth. Young women should know the truth. Men shouldn’t have an opinion.
@meezursrule
@meezursrule 2 года назад
@@amyfionna No, I'm female....and was really shocked by the idea of pain etc
@amyfionna
@amyfionna 2 года назад
@@meezursrule That’s the reality. Get used to the idea. We all have to go through it.
@meezursrule
@meezursrule 2 года назад
@@amyfionna - it does not have to be that way. I'm sorry if it was that way for you.
@temitopetalabi9246
@temitopetalabi9246 3 года назад
I really enjoyed this video. Can you please do a series on the traditional wedding and the cultural meaning and the beauty of the whole process. Thank you.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I will look into this
@man-observing-world
@man-observing-world Год назад
Key concept, give yourself time.
@REALJANET1Vlogs
@REALJANET1Vlogs 3 года назад
Your laughter followed by "sister it not the matter of ouch" 😂😂😂
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
😄😄😄
@matshidisomoloi3759
@matshidisomoloi3759 2 года назад
J love your authenticness and openness in this video,I enjoyed watching you.Please keep them coming✌🏾.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Thank you so much!
@lauryngriggs2383
@lauryngriggs2383 3 года назад
I’m not surprised this came on my feed lol I’m excited to watch
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you! 😁
@joshuabolude9636
@joshuabolude9636 3 года назад
Wow.. so real and honestly delivered. Thanks for sharing. God bless you.
@officialmarysavio8166
@officialmarysavio8166 3 года назад
Ya smile n laughter is contagious 😂. Thank u for this
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Anytime! 😁
@Temitope_Lawal
@Temitope_Lawal 2 года назад
I'm glad came across this content. I'm 28 and this scares the shit out of me! The pain alone will make me stay clear of it 😂
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
😄😄😄 You'll be fine 😁
@ololadeolaleye2372
@ololadeolaleye2372 3 года назад
This is informative and eye opening. Thank you and weldone.
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you! 🥰
@abigailcharles
@abigailcharles 3 года назад
Newlywed here and you are speaking FACTS!
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you! ❤
@sundayoluwatoyin9158
@sundayoluwatoyin9158 3 года назад
This is my first time seeing your video and I love you already. Wao! This is sooo educative... I love your smile, I love the fact that you are real, I love the fact that you play with hubby at intervals.... Keep up girl ❤️😘❤️💓💗🥰💕💖🔥😍🤩🥰💕💖😚🤩❤️
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thanks so much 🥰
@oreoluwaleshi3679
@oreoluwaleshi3679 3 года назад
Me too, this is my first time seeing her And it's lovely 😊
@julietsamuel7201
@julietsamuel7201 3 года назад
Honestly my first time..but love her already ❤❤❤🥰
@estherthompson5829
@estherthompson5829 3 года назад
Oh my! Gotten to the end. This is super helpful and amazing! I stan mehn! You were so diplomatic and very insightful. Well done! 💛💛💛💛💛💛 Lmao! When he came to introduce himself and the post credits too. You're amazing, Damola. You've always been💛💛 thank God for you and your home🥳🥳🥳🥳
@Nelly-dozzy
@Nelly-dozzy 2 года назад
Please how old are you?? Guys are just making our lives miserable with this no sex before mariage. Just seems like all the cute comfortable guys are no where to be found when u choose celibacy.. Just olld Men .. Ayam tired😥😥😥 but i wont give up
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Please don't give up. It'll be worth the wait.
@iwinosaabu2494
@iwinosaabu2494 2 года назад
Your laugh is so infectious. This was really informative. Thank you sis.
@veraobi1621
@veraobi1621 3 года назад
I love the humour in this video 🤣🤣 And it was truly informative 😭
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Thank you!
@sumayamohmed244
@sumayamohmed244 2 года назад
You are the only person who tell us the truth may god bless you sweetie 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Amen 🙏
@selassirsawyerr3169
@selassirsawyerr3169 3 года назад
First time here! I love your personality 💓 I'm really learning a lot. Thanks for this
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome!
@jenniferwilliams1999
@jenniferwilliams1999 3 года назад
Thank you for your excellent presentation! God bless you!🙏❤️🙏
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Amen! Thanks for watching 🥰
@lifewithtee25
@lifewithtee25 3 года назад
This is really helpful. You're literally so real. You gained a subscriber🤣💖. I wasn't even looking when I bumped into this. Thank you 💕
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 2 года назад
Aww.. thanks ❤
@wesleyjean8641
@wesleyjean8641 3 года назад
Why am i watching this?? I just finished high school lol🤦🏽‍♂️😂🤣 I'll come back to this video around 7 years later
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@wesleyjean8641
@wesleyjean8641 3 года назад
@@VictoriaFash Thank you so much for the video🙏, I've saved it in my playlist to watch 7 years later😂🤣
@beulah7981
@beulah7981 3 года назад
Beautifully communicated, fun to hear. Thanks for sharing 😘
@rachelowhonda2913
@rachelowhonda2913 3 года назад
🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I just feel scared. I have low threshold for pain. God will help me. Thanks for sharing
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
Don't be afraid dear... you'll be fine 🙂
@rachelowhonda2913
@rachelowhonda2913 3 года назад
Thank you
@dosh780
@dosh780 3 года назад
Same here oh
@deborahafinjuomo2940
@deborahafinjuomo2940 3 года назад
Same here. But why na😭😭😭😭😭😭
@favyscorner
@favyscorner 3 года назад
When you introduced yourself with your maiden name again I started laughing. You’ll get used to it with time. Don’t stress yourself 😁
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
I'm actually now used to it!!! Glory to God 😁
@Temiladeiye
@Temiladeiye 3 года назад
Like I've written my name on an attendance with my maiden name over and over weeks after my wedding 😅😅😅
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
@@Temiladeiye I still do that 😄
@hsuniquecrochetaccessories9532
@hsuniquecrochetaccessories9532 3 года назад
Great lesson on tips on this topic . Some person let you feel wired when you tell them nothing happens the first night. That night that’s when you are really tired. Good tips
@VictoriaFash
@VictoriaFash 3 года назад
You're welcome 😊
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