I enjoyed watching this video. I've encountered your page several times, but felt I was too young for the "do the do" talks😂. I had the ideology that it is bad, but got to understand that it's God's special gift to married people and it's best when the bed is undefiled. I'm older now, and I always wonder what it would feel like. Basically I fantasise about it and sometimes I have the urge to test the waters but, since I heard there is pain attached to it, my mind cancels the idea. Seeing this video, it's clear that the mind acts as a factor to the pain. Thanks for the update. By the way, I'm waiting for that special someone, and by God's grace I'll wait patiently. Amen.
My love, God will bring his person to you when the time is right. I am glad you're holding on, temptations will surely come, but trust me, the wait would be so worth it.
I got married November this year, we were both virgins by God's grace but I must tell you this sex thing is not an easy something, it took us 20days after our wedding before my husband could enter Jerusalem because of the stress and long journey of traveling back to our base, the wedding was done in the west while we live in the east, again we both fell sick that we even visited hospital because of it. Hmmm the day I was disvirgin eh, I cried my heart out because the pain was so much , I could see the joy on my husband face now that he's penetrating well now, he told me one day that the thing is so sweet but I must tell you the thing no be seresere, I pray I will enjoy sex well because I still use to feel pain once in a while even though he does foreplay before the do!
Yes this is me,even though it's been almost 5 month I got married as a virgin,but this month,I prayed about it and God heard my prayer,I've stopped feeling pains and I've started enjoying sex,my husband even commended me that I've improved
Let me comment because I will need this encouragement when I get married. I got a pelvic injury, and I can imagine if normal body is painful 😫 how about mine... or even it blocked 😂😂😂. God help me!
Thanks for all you share. It'll be nice if you link the videos you make reference to for each new video cos sometimes it's difficult to know which video you are referring to. I love that you are real, wweldone❤ ❤❤❤
My first time having sex, on my weeding night, i literally bled for two days, that ogah was inpatient. Ahhhhh guys come and listen dont be like that ogah
Good day Mrs Victoria, I do and listen to your videos and I loved them alot. But I have a question for you. Please, I'm still a virgin but I and my fiance are getting married in the next two months from now. I just want to know how it feels to break virginity for the first time and for how long does it takes for the blood to stop, and or how long does it takes to get back to normal self. And also what are the changes will I have after the day of disvirgin. Must I go out the day or second day after breaking my virginity. Thank you
Thank God for your life and its sustenance. Quite an ages,but thank God you're back, may God continue to watch over you 🙏.I've learnt one or two things from this content, even after about 3decades that I've been into marriage, that will be of help to me.Prior marriage there's no one to give a health talk like this to educate a first timer like me then,my friends who also waited till wedding night also roughened it, so not much was given as experience to lessen pains associated with first time doing the do.But thank God hubby too was a first timer this enabled him understand the pain,its like ,his gentleness and patience and been kind eased the related pains before the body adjusted to it.But now I can educate others in my shoe by sharing with them this video (girls getting ready for marriage ).Thanks Vicky for this content 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤.
Don’t they have a spray called Dermoplast? It’s a numbing spray usually used after baby. Actually why not do the postpartum routine? Ice,heat,spray & rest that poor lil thang. Get him off another way.
I immediately click on dis..Never had sex before, always paranoid and thinking about the pain over something i haven't done😂 ..let me enjoy the video, Always trust ur insight about matters.
First time here... I have the honestly same I am scared to have sex again because it has been almost 10 years since my ex passed away and I haven't had sex since so I'm really scared now 😂
I am waiting but my experience getting a Pap smear that was enough for me to know the type of pain I would experience. Pap smear pain is enough I couldn't imagine anything more HA LOL
Nice teaching but if I may advice if u can avoid lubricant do becos some of this lubricant has some chemicals that nutralises the strength of the semen expecially if you are trying to convince. Learn your partner and know the forplay that works for her
There are lubricant made specifically for people who want to conceive and have difficulties. It's called "preseed". Meanwhile, lubricant doesn't neutralize the potency of the semen.
