I used to get hurt alot, even cried for a new online friend. You are speaking nothing but the truth, I was purposeless. The day I became focused, I stopped giving a fu*k. Thanks big bro for sharing real value
Totally agreed sir..♥️ Focus on yourself & career ,because now I realised No one will help you when you are left with problems. so plan how to face the crucial situations alone. God doesn't give a problem which you cant solve.
Loved this point "ladko ko daant sakta hun sab mere chote bhai ki tarah hai", yes sir sab aapki chote bhai ki tarah hai.. Your daant have changed many life. Thank you sir ❤️
Wish Chetan sir had made this chennel a few years back 🥺 90's students sufferd a lot , there was no one to guide in this age of soo many distractions 🥺
Hello sir , Though I am a girl I get to learn so much from u . Ur words and thoughts are so valuable u r so humble and broad minded . Lots of love and respect to u . And sir it's not only girls who ghost boys manier times it's also boys who ghost girls . Many times it's boys who friendzone girls . And all the these relationships are on emotional basis and emotions are unstable . Sometimes u r high sometimes u r low and u don't even understand ur own emotions and u end up messing serious relationship also . In my personal view one should not give hints to another gal / guy until u r very much clear with ur own emotions . And those people who simply make casual friends after a breakup or enter into another relationship make a huge mistake . They should give themselves some time to heal in loneliness , sometime to understand their own mistakes and settle with their emotions . Few people are so much messed up with their own selves that they simply mess up other people 's life too.
If someone follows all what you say , that person will be limitless. All these things seem to be very small but I think these are the biggest obstacles which Stop someone from excelling in life. Thank you sir for guiding us of all such problems which others think to be silly . This channel deserves to be subscribed by entire youth ! ❤️🔥
NO offence but sometimes the person is nice but he becomes too clingy at time and we don't want to hurt that person so girls often ignore their texts to secretively let them know that we're not interested in them. However, some girls like to play hard to get, that might be the reason I personally feel I'm more attracted towards guys who are hardworking and ambitious and dedicated towards their goals, so i guess being clingy won't get you girls but your personality being hardworking or ambitious will get you both success and someone to share your success with. So don't chase girls, chase your dreams and not only girls but everyone will be attracted towards you. PS : just my thoughts, don't get offended because this might not be true for everyone :)
I have been following your content sir ...i find it based on practical and realistic issues... Regardless of the gender... Hearing from you always relieves me,heals me for some reason... !
Today I felt same thing it's to painful when you give to much importance someone in your life and they ignore you but thanks sir your videos are eye opener when ever I feel stuck in my life your videos are always there for me thankyou so much 🙏🙏
Amazing sir 👏 I am girl & I love you watch your lectures, Sir this same situation with me I have a crush on boy I decide to tell my feeling to him without any filter whatever I feel I texthim on Instagram but he seen and didn't reply and my mind stuck to him . Sir I text him in Oct 2021 now 2022 I try a lot to forgot him but day by day my heart told me aesa kya likh diya ya itni buri hu kya ki ek reply bhi nhi diya In jam 29 2022 I again text him he again didn't reply This hurts me a lot but today I feel jaise bde bhaiya ne samjhaya ho thank u thank u so much sir
Some girls do this because they want attention. They give importance at first because they were lonely and wanted to pass time, but then when they got the attention and importance, the guy don't matter to them. Whether you're a friend or anyone in their life, it was all a lie. They will find someother person. Try not to get attach to a person until a certain amount of time or certain level. And when you reach that level, treat her good, but make sure you receive the respect and love
Too many messages hote hain toh miss ho jate hain. And after a while, it doesn't feel appropriate to answer an old message. This is how even I have ghosted people. Feel bad about it now.
Ladko ko kisi ek ladki ko hi duniya nahi bna dena chahiye.., attitude aisa rakhna chhaiye ki... तू नहीं कोई और सही, कोई और नही कोई और सही, बहुत लम्बी है ये जमीं, लाखों मिलेंगे यहाँ हंसी, एक तू ही थोड़ी ना है इस दुनिया में हंसी। 😂😂 and must focus on career👍
Actually it's not her fault, it's totally his fault. Because nowadays the boy who are making them valuable like Queen of his life, Jaan ,babu & sona etc........Just nonsense is happening nowadays in all over the world instead of thinking about future.
Some boy's also do the same :( even if we ask some studies related stuff they just not ans it completely u write five lines of an explanation and in return get only two three words ..kya acha ruko.. n never get the ans .... Problem is not girls or boys...some girl also answer girls even though they call them one of their close friends... Problem is less morality in people..they just want to prove themselves superior to u by not replying... No one is so busy that if can read a msg then can't say I'm busy I'll tell u later... It's just they want u to feel bad.... And this is what today's generation thinks coolness... Sbko lgta h ki ase busy hone ka drama or kuch msg ka jawab na dene krke vo khudko cool and focused proove krskte hn ...
Its stringing along... be ghost for a while, meanwhile talk & flirt with other guys.And just in case if it feels like going back to old person you always have backup. (I am not this personally but i hv seen it)
Big fan Chetan sir it's a humbly request.Please make a video on how to deal with unruly teenagers.They don't have any sense of respect and basic etiquettes.
Yes sir as i am girl it happens with me but after 2days i realise it's a stupid things 😄....just focus on our career that makes the sense ...do not chase anybody in our life if anyone who actually deserve they comes to in our life
Sir, kaash Maine ye video aissa krne se phele dekha hota toh 💔 ka utna dard toh uss time nhi hota it's been 3 years since then 😹😹......ye video 3 years phele thi hi nhi 😹.....
Girls do ghosting but I think boys also do. Ghosting is not gender specific. I do ghost my friends as I have a big family, I need to study to get a job, I have some day to day tasks and some daily problems also which made me ghost very important people of my life and people always have one important person in their life with whom they can talk about anything to everything then they avoid other people of their life but its not like that they are gonna ghost for life but for some time only, once the things are on track and life gets normal they are going to talk normally like before. Give time and have patience. Goodluck❤️
Guys wheter it's boy or girl they just don't worth it people just leave you for no reason literally for no reason and trust me no one worth your tears and you time just focus on your growth
Despite born in a generation of no internet, you very well are aware of nitti-gritty of negative effects of technology, esp. on teenagers. I really wish even kids born in 90's were aware of this. :(
Sir you're very good at understanding such big problems of life, of which nobody talks. Your content is highly relatable to every teenager or adult. It felt like you're our big brother and guiding us.
oh Chetan - you are so funny :) Personally I wouldn't Ghost as long as the guy is not creepy. And if the guy is nice to me , then I would give the reason to him before fading away. Having said that, Guys Ghost girls as well. Ultimately its all about how much respect do you have in another person's eyes. I 'd say Raise your standards by Ghosting them back!
Best video ever I have scene on YT 💯.. hats off 2 u sir🙏 much needed and really eye opening.. Conclusion- girl is not interested(she is not the one) Action- Build your worth, work on yourself... have a purposeful life... Your self-respect first... Become deserving rather than desiring #aukat
Reason is girls gets many messages, so they just miss or ignore. Girls talks to every way in nice manner, and boys things they talk only to him in that way😃 GIRLS DO YOU AGREE?
@@harapriyamohanta5557 naah I think most of the girls are like this only. There's nothing bad about it in fact it's quite good if you talk to everyone in a nice way but hum launde launde hi rahenge we think we are the special one and end up getting hurt in the process
Sir competitive exam pr ek video baniye I'm consistent and self motivated because of you ..❤️ still working 9 to 10hr /day but want some more stuff from you!😊