Nope, you can’t. But I like that I accept that they will, in my awareness of it, and showing my confidence by laughing at the stories about me and knowing if people are that weak, it just makes me stronger and more desirable when I show that it doesn’t effect me. “ I can’t control what you believe about me, and it doesn’t really matter to me”, makes them admire me. And attack me. Lol. 😂😢😮
I feel that way too. 😂😂😂 Good way of putting it. Sometimes I forget how trapped in their egos they are and assume they are just as conscious as I am and am very quickly brought back to the realization that they are soul-less.
Ficking sh!thole for reelz. Everyone around me is just not aware and they project their bs on me. They have to insult to make themselves feel better. I love being alone but not talking to a person is tough and if I don't talk they turn it around and thinking I'm the one that is high on myself...again all projection.
I'm 43 Iv'e been solo since 2015. Small businesses owner my 100th time trying at a business but I never give up. I try to smile every day, I say hello to neighbors I create the positive energy all around me. That's all we got . Have gratitude, and know that there are a lot of people out there that are homeless, and don't have a dollar in their pocket. Make sure you have a good running car, and make it to work on time. 80% of success is showing up. Never give up✌️
@Tom I hear ya. I've been alone for a couple years now but they have been far better than the 30 something years of living with narcissists, sociopaths, or just plain negative weirdos who seem like the only pleasure they get is to try and push your buttons.
@@quasimode9038 And I meant on a more personal level. I do understand what you are saying and actually agree with you to an extent. Thanks for your responses. Have a lovely New Year for 2024!
The same I am the same and I rather be alone and I don’t not trust anyone and it’s good to be on your own and you can do what ever you want when you are alone
The bible says trust no man. Trust Jesus, He teaches you how to trust yourself. I know who I can rely on to get things done, but I only trust Jesus, hence myself.
I've been alone since 2002 when i was 18. My so called friends almost got me killed by instigating and create conflict between me and other people which lead to me being jumped and physically beaten really bad. I still got PTSD because of that. I became a different person after that & lost my trust in people forever. All these years have teached me that i don't need anybody!
Alot happened to me aswell.. seen alot felt alot in my late 20s and I'm so done with fake freinds and fake supporters and people being jealous of me I litterly just dissappear n become isolated. Feels like the only thing I got is my faith in God and my purpose. 🙏
Yes! 💯. Trust is earned. Years ago, had a feeling my boyfriend at the time was cheating n sure enough was with my best friend. Being recently divorced from a narcissist after finding out he was cheating its been such a eye opening experience for me and forced me to focus on healing overall, getting myself right. Hermit mode to focus on myself, my kids n getting us ahead. So important to prioritize self love, get in better shape n YOUR goals. Everything is a learning experience. Now at 31, more cautious of who I allow in n give my energy to. Listening to my gut more than I used to n what a difference it has made. Positivity above all! Growth mindset propelling you forward.
Many people cheat, some partners find out after many years in investing in that relationship, Even sending nudes is Cheating, doesn't have to be the end of the relationship. However if they keep on doing it- they stop respecting themselfs, they stop giving a f , they neglect their partner- become abusive narsasist traits, violence, then its time to say goodbye. Many people cheat. Sometimes its the convinientcy of them making themselves known/ available to the other person. That ex friend of yours, never let that tart in your life AGAIN because she will also be dumped n used.
I find the similarities in both men and woman to be this comparison. We all need to hold back more than we give. I too was a victim of a narcissistic woman. I’m 51, divorced by her a year ago. A real blindsided attack. By looking into the darkness I found the light. The answer was the same. Give to those who deserve your gifts, and deny them if they don’t. It’s kind of weird knowing that if my ex wasn’t a narc, and gave more, we would be on the same page, and if I turned into a narc, we would also be on the same page. Giving verses competing. Healing is trusting in self, so that we can possibly trust someone again, but not by their evidence, and more of our strength. I’m saying that valuing myself enough, will allow me not to be so attached or dependent on a fairytale of their perfection and loyalty. If I distrust them, that’s fine, because I trust myself to be aware and more defensive, as well as capable and successful. For me, the fairytale is over, and now adjusting my own delusions of how I think it should be, rather than how it is.
Sometimes you can’t always put it off on evil spirits. Humans are inherently flawed and wicked beyond belief, you see and experience it everyday. I pray and repent genuinely for the simple fact that I too am a human and how frightening it is to breathe the same air and share the same existence as others who look like you, but are black holes on two legs.
I stay to myself i love my peace with no drama in my life with me trust isn't given but earned,great video,well said Terry thank you,Happy holiday's to you!
I love the opening statement because most people are an enemy till they prove their not in my world unfortunately. I know they're good people somewhere I just haven't run into any hardly.
You're a smart man. I'm 41 and I've just come to this realization in the past 4 years. You are ahead of me. That being said, I also apparently have years of experience with people and everything you are saying is spot on. Stay to yourself and trust no one!
One thing I see is trust isn't forever and you can never fully trust anyone, your family would most likely turn you in if you killed someone. Let that sink in.
Heck I got sick of family I don’t even talk to them anymore just cause your same blood doesn’t mean you should get along it’s there personalities that are toxic
I don't even want Christmas presents from people anymore. Because, they give me things I didn't ask for. And, THEN, I have to reciprocate an equal amount. My sister-in-law bought me a big box of presents. Sweet, right? But, I don't have room for her gifts, didn't ask for them, and didn't need them. And, I had to pull money from my savings to reciprocate. I want to save money, not have to recipro- cate her presents every year. Be- sides, I want a little more distance between she and I. An exchange of Christmas cards is ideal for me.
I DID tell her that. She wasn't happy about it. I don't mean to ruin Christmas for her. But, I am not as healthy these days as she is. Shopping, wrapping, and shipping her presents is more than I can really manage at present. And, I do want a little more distance between she and I. She was becoming too bossy and controlling.
I've had many friends. When I started to really know them...most of them got curt off. Now, I don't have anyone to call a real friend. I'm glad I am alone...Not lonely....I am much happier being alone.
@@lifeisabadjoke5750 Yes actually. God will judge the living and the dead - children born in impoverished areas and the poor will be saved. Matthew 5:3 Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Mark 10:21 And Jesus, looking at him, loved him, and said to him, “You lack one thing: go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.”
I agree 100%. You cannot trust People freely At this point in time You must earn the right to be in my space. And it is an honor for a chose one to be in your space. Reciprocation respect integrity and character aint much of that out here. why I'm alone I will not and can not Put up with the nonsense and then disrespect out here. Well done, my friend much love much appreciation. Much respect blessings on your journey.
Thank you for sharing! I have been going through this spiritual war for years, and had a true deliverance away from everything. Such important advice, and even with all of the reasons not to share, I'm grateful you are spreading the message.
Iused to have " friends " ...when you are 20 is ok ...after ....the knives and the teeth are out ....even my own brother hates me ...but this is from day one in this planet
@techtalkwithgregory I relate with you, glad this Channel exists because the topics he speaks on I generally can't find in Christian communities, I don't want meme based thinking or people pretending like everythings alright all the time; my hope for this Year or next Year will still be for the Rapture in order to heal, I know others feel the same way, God bless you by the way.
I've been watching you on and off for a year or two. What I like about you is your calm demeanor with taking your time to talk to your audience. You have a guy on here named Nubreed saying you are stealing his ideas and style. Pay no mind to the distractions and keep doing your thing.
So true and well said sir I can honestly say this past year has hit me the hardest with a narcissistic woman that’s trying to make my life a living hell friends that betrayed me I own it I fell for it I trusted them all idk why probably cause i believe the good in others but sadly now a days you can’t and I needed to learn this the hard way 💯💯💯 god bless
All true . . . been through everything said here, from women (attention, needy, fux anything that moves), family, friends, etc. You have to focus on you and the value you give to the world/market, invest, ignore what chaos and pysops out there. It's never been more toxic now, have to focus or you'll slowly die. At any time things can change thats the stomach wrenching part of life.
