This has to be a dark spirit the way they are all the same. In the beginning my ex sniffed me out and targeted me like a pro . She was mirroring my personality and spirit which made me believe she was perfect for me right off the hop. Once the relationship got more serious and we became closer I started learning more about her secrets and her demons. She later admitted how miserable she was all the time feeling zero self worth and emptiness and the need for constant validation and reassurance and the abuse she had experienced in her life constantly dumping her trauma and exploding over things that were so petty, I walked away in the moments when I saw her become a ruthless bully to myself and those around her, but as I would leave she would literally chase me and promise to change her demeanor making the relationship full of highs and lows (the addictive strategy). The naive and co dependent me just assumed it was depression and anger issues which a part of me found sympathy for. I've always been empathic, feeling and absorbing energies, I naturally have the urge to help others that are in dark places but this was the biggest mistake of my life underestimating how evil some people can be. Towards the end the mask came off, she became a demon trying to devalue me constantly, (I wouldn't have to do a single thing wrong), zero communication, horrible spending habits, irresponsibly spontaneous, unappreciative, rude, disrespectful, would start fights and attack me based off of how she would forcibly interpret a situation and complain about my pure and kind energy as if that's a bad thing. I come to find out she deals with BPD and she had daddy abandonment issues and current mother wounds. I was under a spiritual spell and I pray all you guys do not make the mistake I made trust your soul and not your flesh it's NOT worth it. I'm definitely not the same person I was before. Currently in therapy and hitting the gym hard, but I'll bounce back I've always been strong willed/minded individual that prioritizes health and fitness and mindfullness but this is out of my ability to fight off alone and anyone in the same place most likely will require professional help. God bless you all and im sorry you learned the hard way like i did. There is hope please dont give up you're not alone.
I'm alone but I am not single she left me and it's not just up to her when I get back with her when she left first.and now she has been gone so long she has would have to take a disease test and Im so revengeful that say she was just nevermind I know who i am and I'm j not into sluts who sleep around I have standard's
Everytime a girl tells me she dosnt want to continue a relationship with me I just stop all communication and attention. And it drives them mad! But I actually don’t care 😂 she could tell me she made a mistake and wants to continue a relationship with me and I’ll just be like cool. Let me know😂 like it dosnt matter to me. They lost my disrespect probably trying to entertain another guy😂 it’s crazy
The vast majority of men don't fall under any of these demographics: 1. Are asexual or aromantic (or are both like me; although I did question being gay due to not really having any interest in women) 2. Are extremely religious 3. Made some strange ascetic vow 4. Generally have a seriously low sex/relationship drive 5. Prefer fpping to actual sex So when you put it that way, most guys that are single are circumstantially/involuntarily single as opposed to being single by choice (men on incel forums being a good example of this, as a lot of them struggle because of looks). I for reference have been in a few relationships, but didn't feel any sort of thrill in them although nothing was off (and I've had chances to get more, but I decided to miss them. Seems I only like people as friends and nothing else, as I don't have and can't develop crushes)
When you're heads being pumped full of shit from drugs to toxic mfers who are on them to the phone we are all on rn, you have to remove yourself to figure yourself out, or fall in line and be nothing of significance to anyone, not even yourself. Guaranteed. And you wonder why people are crazy?
That's why it's called influencers, people that is easily influenced, gets influenced by dumb people online and the outcome is not great. The amount of people i know with 120 month car loans, because they don't want to look broke, is depressing.
120 month😅…. i’ll tell you a secret i used to have a really hot guy friend, I never dated him because I knew he was a player but he was very attractive we were friends for years. I never knew how he had any money I never really got into his business but one day when we started talking about it he told me he basically sells his body to gay men for money to pay for his life style! He only had a very nice expensive BMW that I think you had to pay three grand a month for something crazy like that I have been seen him in a while he ended up doing drugs I guess to cope I was so shocked I don’t know where else to leave this but here I will.
This video was one of my favorites! We are kind & give people a fair chance but we are able to discern & see through the fakeness & once we do, we just cannot unsee it & we distance ourselves . Its so offputting .. Then they get mad at us because their fakery doesnt work on us like they had hoped & they can't pull us into their delusional toxic world with them. Real can only be with real.
It's truly a mess , Brah....We just try and be kind...And , when LIFE knocks us down....We don't toss the towel in ...We dust ourselves off... Continue to move forward... 👍
Truly, you cannot force a vibe or pathway that isn't congruent with yourself. It won't last. And then the person you were acting in-congruent with will be mad at you for wasting their (and your) time. Time that we can never get back.
The good thing about the pandemic is that since I was so isolated I forgot how to fake it. The bad thing is that everyone else is so I don’t know how to talk to most people
Media and television/media, drugs, period laughter is good, but at a young age, when watched in cartoons, or w/e the f'k, it shoehorns in beliefs/ideas. leads to self delusion. usually comedy is laughter at someones misfortune. it's weaponized. leading to believe the watcher is superior. self delusion. hardy har har har
Does anyone feel like they just realized that the casino they’ve been loosing at for years has rigged tables? I mean it would be naive to think that it hasn’t been that way to some extent since the beginning right? It’s just now it’s gotten blatant.
I started to notice this during Covid-19 pandemic 😷. I know that it’s hard to know who you are especially with the day and age we’re living in. I really do think 🧐 that inflation has either helped or hurt 😔 😢in one way or another. This is the world 🗺️ we’re living in today. I feel like it’s hard for me to get a girl these days and I went to Catholic school. I am American 🇺🇸 so we are celebrating 🥳 Independence Day from the UK 🇬🇧 July 4th. The way the USA 🇺🇸 has changed is not in a good 😊 way. We need Trump back in office now more than ever. If you don’t think 🧐 9/11 changed our country think 🤔 again. Everybody seems like they are letting women take over men
