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I hear you. The truth: genetics. Some of us age unusually slow. There are people in the media who abuse this natural advantage and pretend they are using some miracle product! Don’t waste your money or time anymore. Sounds like you’re getting the stage where you’re above all of this and good for you!
@@gigidayz6936 Because it makes the model seem more beautiful, and some people believe they will look more beautiful if they use a product that is used by someone who is beautiful. I’m a former male model and they used my face the most - I get it.
I even enjoy simply the way you talk. There’s no over pretentious and dramatic talk, your talking is so soothing and most importantly, so genuine and authentic. We need more influencer like Jen!!!
Agreed! I’m literally exhausted from being bombarded with this supposed “perfect” look…. The eyes, the lips, the cheeks, the lashes…. It’s literally become boring. And trust me, this is not sour grapes lol, it’s literally over exposure and desensitization. What catches my eye lately is unique looking women who I can relate to, like Jen. And you know why? Because they look like themselves. That’s what’s actually beautiful. Thank you, Jen. You’re exactly what we need and I will continue to follow you until you no longer create content. 🌺🩷
Yes. Im so so happy at 28 I didn’t get the procedures I thought I needed at 18. Young girls please, your body changes so much past 18 your individual features and beauty are already enough give yourself time and love they just want to sell you things.
@@heirloomacres7445 I somehow managed to miss out on the overplucking trend. However, my eyebrows are unruly, probably because I have wavy/curly hair. And some of them grow straight out or straight down - not kidding. But I try to trim them rather than pluck them.
You made me cry. I think you said it so well. We all want to be pretty. Cosmetic surgery has been around since before color TV. If you legitimately had something that you REALLY wanted or needed to have fixed, you could find a way. But it wasn’t accessible or accepted or EXPECTED in our day like it is now. We were told to learn to love ourselves the way we were. We learned to play up our best features and be unique. Now, everyone just takes the easy way out, and ends up looking the same.
@@JenPhelps Yep. As I recall, from the 70s to the 90s, procedures of various kinds were more for models, actors, and actresses - people who made a living with their faces. The exception might be braces although given how expensive they were (and are), I'd guess they were mostly for correcting bite issues. I think the wedge in the crack was breast implants which became more of a thing for normal people in the 90s.
Did you know 'plastic surgery' has been around for centuries, and the first 'plastic surgeons' were butchers. As punishment, people had Noses and ears cut off, it was the butchers who sewed it back on (if family grabbed it) or reshaped some more skin to give them a nose or ear... but the biggest advance was in WW2, when men were horribly burned but survived in fighter planes. Doctors invented all sorts of amazing surgeries, they even had a group called 'the Guinea Pig Club' as they really were used as experiments to save their lives and to give them faces back
Did you know 'plastic surgery' has been around for centuries, and the first 'plastic surgeons' were butchers. As punishment, people had Noses and ears cut off, it was the butchers who sewed it back on (if family grabbed it) or reshaped some more skin to give them a nose or ear... but the biggest advance was in WW2, when men were horribly burned but survived in fighter planes. Doctors invented all sorts of amazing surgeries, they even had a group called 'the Guinea Pig Club' as they really were used as experiments to save their lives and to give them faces back
One of the reasons I love your channel is that you are natural and you don’t have fillers and Botox. You are naturally lovely and are aging so beautifully. I’m 38 and committed to aging naturally and gracefully. I want to take good care of my skin, hair and body, but I’m not 20 anymore-Praise the Lord, because I don’t want to be.
I watch to the end every time. I want a real person who isn't shilling for some company, someone who without fillers, lip tattoos, laser treatments, and perfection. I appreciate reality more than filters and phoney perfection. Keep being real and beautiful.
I can't believe people have a problem with your teeth and eyebrows? You are beautiful Jen. Thank you for putting so much thought and integrity into your videos!
As an older female, granny after all, I have lived through trends since my teens. I learned long ago just to be me and wear my makeup the way I like. Now I'm into the very light makeup because it easier and too much actually makes me look silly. You are the only one of you ever made. Just rock it.
I'm 66. I used to read plenty of magazines and kept up with the trends. I even tried a few. But being yourself is so freeing and wonderful. Trends come and go( and even get new names for old trends) . Enjoy your life.
Oh Jen you touched my 💔 with your story. It builds character to understand what it means to be on the outside. As the saying goes "Beauty fades, dumb is forever".
I don’t think it’s ever okay to leave negative comments. Why do people think it’s okay to tear each other down when we should be lifting one another up and celebrating our uniqueness? I appreciate you Jenn and your positive outlook. Thank you!
Anyone over nineteen is, or rather, needs ti realise they are a woman, not a girl, and how creepy infantilizing the girl nonsense is. A girl is a juvenile, not an adult.
I just love all your videos. I find that I'm skipping over videos of a lot of my long time subscriptions, but I always watch yours. It's a combination of your honesty, sincerity, true love of makeup and enthusiasm for it, your calming voice and demeanor, and great content. Please never change!! ❤ you!!
So, I’ve never noticed your eyebrows being uneven and I don’t care. Trolls are the worst. I’ve never noticed your teeth either. You are lovely inside and out. The best thing about being in my 40s is that I feel comfortable using makeup to highlight my unique features and really leaning into it. I realized I enjoy seeing people who do that and I can do it too. Stay wonderful Jen! ❤
The thing is, mine are uneven too, my nose isn’t straight my skin isn’t perfect but why do people think everything has to be FIXED to be okay? Can I not just be okay as I am? If you think I’m ugly how is that my problem to fix 😂
I'm in my mid sixties, and I have been told by multiple beauty operators that it is not natural for eyebrows to be identical. Which is good because mine aren't. Half of my face is paralyzed, and that's okay as well. I'm alive, I have a volunteer/relief job at my public library.
Please put more videos like this. I enjoy the awareness with overconumption on makeup that's emphasized on social media and dealing with insecurities at all ages.
I LOVE that you are natural. I hate it when people think they have to change their appearance. You give ladies the confidence to be themselves, and that is so rare in this day and age. Thank you, and you are absolutely beautiful!!! 💖
I worked at Ulta for 6 years and I am just tired of makeup and trends in general. Wearing makeup in fine, but I cringe at the amount of money that I spent or the unused makeup that I have. Please love yourself and your looks!
Jen we’re the same age. I graduated in 1995. I’m so glad we didn’t grow up with social media. The pressure I cannot imagine. Plus the editing of pictures and comparing yourself to fake ppl. It’s sad. Btw you’re so beautiful just the way you are ❤
Love this video. My granddaughter is a preteen and I see the influence of these celebrities on her even at her young age. You are a beautiful, real woman and that’s why I love your channel. Thanks for keeping it real.
I was a goth girl in the 1990s so looking like everyone else wasn't a priority for me, which was actually very freeing. You can hide all your insecurities under a lot of makeup and fishnet stockings and no one is the wiser. And yes - I don't have eyebrows cause I plucked them out. Beware of trends!
Aww I hung out with a lot of the goths. My parents wouldn't let me dress that way but I had many goth friends. And you're right...they were very free and didn't feel like they had to conform.
I was a punk girl in the 1980s and it was incredibly freeing to go through my teen years not trying to fit in with beauty standards. My goal was to look nutty with thrift store clothes and wild hair colors...it was an easy to achieve goal😂
I hate it that I'm so old that I missed out on punk and goth! By the 80s, I was stuck with a conservative appearance when I worked at a conservative Fortune 500 household name consumer goods company. Sigh. Never too late, I guess...
Oh man, your comment resonates w me so much. In 8th grade I started wearing all black everything head to toe bc I read in a Cooking Light or a Redbook or something that black was slimming, and I thought I was so fat. Years later everybody still talks about my goth decade. Y’all I was just trying to hide.
@@lorrainespear1210 I loved sticking out from the crowd, and never felt down in myself if someone thought my style was ugly. It wasn't meant to be appreciated by everyone
I soooo connected with you about always wanting to have that perfect beauty in high school…I got teary eyed. Jen, you are gorgeous and whoever has the nerve to tell you to fix anything must not have anything else to care about in their life. I just don’t understand people who have others’ features. Very sad. We love you and your channel!
You're SO right. IDK if you've ever heard the history of how Twilight Zone was started, "Serling had been trying to delve into material more controversial than his works of the early 1950s. This led to Noon on Doomsday for the United States Steel Hour in 1956, a commentary by Serling on the defensiveness and total lack of repentance he saw in the Mississippi town where the murder of Emmett Till took place..." long story short, the creator made the whole series concept into science fiction so he could comment on things they would never let him speak on at the time. Absolutely ahead of it's time.
Your journal entry brought tears to my eyes. I felt that way too. And I have teenage daughters now who literally say the same thing. Why do we do this to ourselves?
I started watching beauty videos back during COVID. I had built up so many channels, and then recent,y I unsubscribed the majority of them but I kept yours! I love how you just talk to us like we were at lunch. You are naturally beautiful and don’t let anyone put you down. I just turned 65 and I try to keep up with the trends but stay true to myself. You continue to be you! You are beautiful inside and out❤
I’m convinced I kept Hard Candy in business in the late 90’s. I painted my nails 3-5 times a week and had a metal lunchbox full of polish in every crazy color available. 😆
LIsa elderidge did a video a few years ago explaining how to conceal the corners of the lips and not taking lip liner/lipstick to the corners of the mouth. This was a huge game changer for me. I'm 56 and my lips have really turned down at rest a lot over the last decade. This is a great pro tip :)
I notice that Lisa, Wayne Goss, and Hung Vango’s videos rely on their talents as professional makeup artists and actually work to enhance beauty instead of following trends.
So excited for this video! I'm only at the beginning but UGH- nails tapping on products has to be one of the most annoying trends anywhere on the internet. It makes me irrationally ragey.
I think it's especially bad when they're showing 15 products in a 1 minute video and tapping on ALL OF THEM, or when they have to take the lid of of all 4000 little jars in the video. I always dislike the video and scroll
I think out of all the trends you mentioned, the one that I wish would go away the most is the over-the-top fake eyelashes. It just doesn't look good on most people, especially in real life. Someone called them "muppet eyelashes" which I think is a good description. I don't mind false eyelashes that look close to natural, especially if it is just a few individual ones added to the outer corners -- that usually looks good. Second on my list would be contouring and highlighting the nose, with the bright white glowy powder on the tip, so it looks like the tin man's nose in the Wizard of Oz.
I related to your story of feeling ugly when you were younger. I felt the same. Recently I looked at one of my old yearbooks (I'm almost 67 btw) and the girls I thought were so much prettier back then really weren't. Thankfully with maturity we don't make those comparisons when we're older but appreciate inner beauty more. Thank you for this video. Very insightful.
I've had the same experience. Looking back, the "popular" girls were average at best. Now that I'm older I've realized that it's not about looks as much as it is charisma and personality...that's more likely what made them popular. Confidence also!
I felt the same. The older I get, the more I like how I look. My peers and I are all in our early 60s and look pretty similar re: aging. I never got into tanning, so my skin isn't as spotty as some people's. But I don't have the concept of competing with anyone else any more.
First of all, I honestly NEVER noticed your teeth being anything but beautiful! As for these horrible trolls who have nothing better to do than harass people on the internet over superficial things? Disgusting. Jen, you are so beautiful inside & out. You're also incredibly relatable & honest. Seeing your diary entry from childhood is so poignant. I remember being a 12 yr old who didn't fit in with the other kids (esp girls) & always feeling like no one liked me!
@@TracyD2 It's a sad old world and always has been. The difference is that we have social media and technology that allows essentially instantaneous communication of all kinds of information all over the world. How that's going to play out, I can't say. I believe the Internet is the greatest invention of the human race, but it may also be our downfall. I speak as a person who was an adult by the time the Internet became a thing for everybody. Some things are better now, some worse.
Silent but dedicated watcher here for a while. Just wanted to pop in, respectively, watch another one of your great videos till the end and say hello. For the algorithm 'n stuff, and also cuz youre amazing. 🙌😎💯 Much ❤ to you beautiful lady.
I LOVE your teenage pictures, so relatable, and you were adorable. I also disagree about the overlined lips; they look terrible on camera as well. Sometimes I wonder if these 'influencers' watch their own videos, or look in the mirror. Makes you wonder where they got the idea they can give beauty advice when they are hardly in the position to do so.... You, instead, keep it real. I enjoyed this video! Thanks.
I waited tables for a long time and had to wait on someone with the overlined lips. She was really sweet, but I didn’t know how to handle the lips! I didn’t want to stare, but it looked so bad.
I think in the future non perfect features are going to be considered the most beautiful because people are all trying to look perfect and the exact same and eventually it’s going to get boring. Love your channel and you are beautiful the way you are :)
Jen, I was the “before” picture too! I was an ugly duckling who grew up with a beautiful mom and sister. That was hard! I divorced in my mid 40s and thought dating would not go well- but wow! Men loved me! I had the BEST time dating and 4 years later I met the love of my life and just got married a month ago to a very handsome, kind, successful, amazing man! Being an ugly duckling probably made me more interesting in some ways! I’m definitely happier than my mom and sister, who haven’t aged well. I always had a round, chubby face and that has helped me look younger at age 51 than a lot of my peers.
As someone who works in cosmetics, I see this. Sometimes I want to tell people "makeup isn't magic". It's not going to transform you into these social media influencers and that's GOOD!
Hi Jen! Thank you so much for not cutting your "long tangent" about unique beauty and why it's important that if it's considered to do any cosmetic procedures (or invisalign!) that this is something we're doing for ourselves vs pleasing others. I haven't finished watching yet but had to comment bc this part of the video is so impactful and important! You are beautiful inside and out ❤ Thanks, Jen!
Thank you for your vulnerability in this video, Jen. It takes courage to put yourself out there and the overwhelming positivity in these comments are a reflection of how connected people feel in the community you’ve built. Also, I love the behind-the-scenes info you share about the world of influencers. It’s fascinating!
I just wanted to say you are absolutely beautiful, inside and out! I have really taken to watching your content within the last year, but your kindness and genuinity is what really draws me in. Your statement "Embracing the uniqueness in people" ❤ I just LOVE it! You are NOT like other influencers, and I am here for it!
I read a few days ago that MAXIMALIST MAKEUP was the hot trend for 2024 and I am absolutely HERE FOR IT!! As a makeup lover with an enormous makeup collection I could not be happier, the "clean girl" minimalist trend just was not for me😂
I was going to say exactly the same as @COgirl394. I've never followed a trend in my life. Only accidentally, when berets were suddenly in fashion a few years ago, and I all of a sudden was 'in' when I wore one of them (I have a big collection of berets, fascinator, vintage fascinators, and vintage hats from the 20s, 40s, 50s and early 60, and have had that for over 15yrs). I did the natural look when it wasn't in and will keep doing so when it isn't. I'll do a dramatic look when I feel like it, in a style I'm comfy with. Just embrace yourself and what you love most. It's freeing and really helps you feel your best. Eff all those trends. It might be a bit harder to find the type of products you need when trends change (as I had to shop in Korea before that was normal because I couldn't find enough cream and liquid products that looked much better on me), but as you have a large collection, you'll not have to worry about that. At least not for a long while 😉. Enjoy your maximal look as long as you want 😘.
The nail thing is interesting. I was in school in the 70's and I used to wear a different color of polish on each nail. Not sure if it was Cutex, but they had all colors at the time. I did it because it was fun. I would like to see more people comfortable with themselves. Great video, Jen!
Max Factor had a whole line of pastel and bright colors in the 70s, several different blues and greens, even a black and different gunmetal greys and silvers. Wet n' Wild had all the colors, 2/$1 at Woolworths in the 70s and 80s. I had holo polish in the 90s from Sally Hansen.
Wow I don't remember that at all! Maybe they didn't offer those shades where I lived (it was a more rural area). I remember my Aunt buying me a blue Wet n Wild nail polish in the 90's and my parents freaking out because you just didn't see it anywhere!
I wore Max Factor pistachio green nail polish in 1972 to match my pistachio green tee-shirt dress. I think the anonymous aspect of commenting on YT emboldens people to be mean and rude. I appreciate the vulnerability you showed here. ❤
@@JenPhelps Oh yea, the freaking out was definitely happening! Colorful polish wasn't anywhere as mainstream as it is now but we rocked it... mostly on the weekends. LOL!
I 💯 agree about contouring. Especially when influencers insist that heavyset women like myself can sculpt their non-existent jawlines with bronzer. It just looks like dirt, no matter how it's applied. Just STOP!
@@feelthejoy it doesn't matter if it is something designated as contour or cool toned bronzer (which I own and use on my cheekbones). On my non-existent fat jaw, it's DIRT.
If people make hurtful comments just to be hurtful, can't you block them? I've been thinking about trends and aging and stuff lately. I'm old enough to be your mother. Let's just get that out of the way, I'm old. What I hate to see happening is that videos are made to "help" us conform, not to inform us. I set my own trends. Sometimes I'm demure, or playful or dramatic. Sometimes I really don't care or want to put on makeup. So that's how I do it. Eyeshadow is for old ladies? Great! Watch me wear it and love it! Why should the kids tell the adults what looks good? They don't have the right to. They haven't gained enough maturity to know what actually looks good. Our youth driven society has lost respect of others and worships young, androgynous perfection. This is a sad version of reality. You ARE beautiful! You are gentle and sensitive and caring. Your face reflects that. I often think/comment about your beauty. It's those minor things that make us special among all the rest of the world. They aren't flaws. They are "beauty marks"! Thanks for being real and informative. Love your channel.
The "eye shadow is for old ladies" thing is a way for the younger people to differentiate themselves from us. (I'm 62.) Just like we had our things back in the day. It's a trend and will pass. The difference is, there will be documentation of their rebellion. Yes, there was of ours, but embarrassing old photos can have "accidents" or be lost. 😉 The Internet is forever! I think that, as younger girls and women move into the workforce, they'll want a more sophisticated look and will go back to eye shadow.
@20thcenturyrelic I agree that this is what is happening often and you're right that every generation does it in some way. I just don't like it that women are feeling pushed to look younger all their adult lives. I want the kids to look up to the elders and aspire to be more mature and poised. We "old ladies" are beautiful and have so much to offer to the young-uns. We have learned what works for us and I vote for everyone appreciating the age they are. As an artist, my taste has changed and mellowed. I'm still very different from other women but I'm not trying to prove anything by using a certain look, or trying to look younger. I worked hard to get here and I'm content. I hope others can join me.
Jen you are naturally beautiful just the way you are. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you aren’t. Those are people putting their own insecurities on you. Hurt people, hurt people.
OMG 😲 😱. I paused just to write this: the twilight zone episode!! It's one I also always remember when looking at beauty trends. It seemed almost prophetic. It's a constant reminder that I'm unique and no one looks like me. It took years to accept that my unique traits made me stand out. I'm 46.
I’m a contour lady. I am 46 with jowls and it really helps a lot to contour around the face. I love your transparency and honesty, I love how your reviews are honest. Keep going sweetie you are amazing
I am also, one of four kids. All of us were in braces. I was always aware of the financial strain that put on my parents. I am always and forever very thankful.
Wow. My mom thanked me one time (when I was an adult) for not needing braces! Fortunately, straight teeth run in my dad's family. I've worked with several people whose parents couldn't afford braces, so they got them as adults when they started working.
I agree with all of the wonderful comments about YOU! You are authentic, honest, smart, articulate AND beautiful. Your beauty is fresh and you are a breath of fresh air!! Lovee watching you so so much!!! I have always loved drug store makeup. That's all i could afford growing up! Thank you for being YOU and again just love watching!! I'm 66. God bless!
Jenn you do not owe these people any explanation! People are just cruel and they get off on sending disrespectful disgusting ugly comments! People are jealous that’s ALL it is and not for nothing but who cares what people think and say. Jenn I enjoy watching you💜
This video really helped me. You vocalized so many feelings I also have. I can’t wear the lashes either. I tried extensions and took them off in two days. I need to wash my eyes. Fake eyelashes are too heavy for me too. Many women around me have huge lashes and it detracts from their beauty in my opinion. We are all being sold things and I’ve been influenced to buy things too many times that didn’t add up to the hype. It’s one of the reasons I love your channel. I just read about the problems with filler and how it doesn’t dissolve - it migrates. We learn to love our aging faces while doing our best with skincare and makeup if it’s enjoyable I feel you give an honest opinion and I appreciate that.
I feel this. I wish the whole fake eyelashes with everything would go away. It’s like, you spent so much time building such a detailed eye look, only to slap on a strip of huge, obviously fake, eyelashes and lose all the details you just did behind your lashes.
I so agree with you that everyone HAS to jump on to these trends. I saw just last week, a couple of influencers doing a review if the Tir Tir red cushion and they were applying it incorrectly, which it feels like everyone has seen it and the viewers were giving tips on how to apply it 😂
I'm a cool-toned girl and I am so tired about brands calling everything cool-toned if it's not dark orange or yellow gold. Most cool-toned products turn orange on me. And hearing complains about the pink trend while it's actually a peach coloured shade, mades me mad.
You presented these trends in a heartwarming and comprehensive manner, Jen! Good addition of images to share to demonstrate each trend. Your explanations were touching (in a good way) and I am glad you shared this video with us. Your stories about your youth mirror so many of us who have gone through the same thing. I appreciate your honesty about products and your life. You have matured into a beautiful woman both inside and out. So glad I found you on YT.
Your story resonated with me so much. I didn't get into makeuo until I was 40. I'm 49, and I had the frizzy perm and the glasses in gradeschool/highschool too. I look at all the teens today and how everyone wants to be airbrushed and perfect, and part of me pities them, and part of me is envious because I never had access to what they have now. Your realness has made me subscribe. Thank you for the video. Also, you're beautiful!
Aw thank you! You make an excellent point...I feel the same way. I both pity and envy them at the same time. It seems like teens today don't have an awkward phase.
I just subscribed, this is the first time I watch one of your videos and I loved your message I wish more people were as honest, thoughtful and kind as you were today.
Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable with your story. I think most of us have similar things we can go back to. Being a decade (or more) older than you, we never had the expectation that I could ever fix the things about myself that I felt insecure about. BTW, YOUR BROWS ROCK IN THIS VIDEO 😂😂
I suffered 2.5 years with braces and many years with a retainer. I still remember the mouth wounds and the line-shaped sores from rubber bands and aching with each tightening. Never again. People don’t know how lucky they are to have these medical advancements. I have to agree with the lip filler and overdrawing. I have med-sized lips so I’ve never needed filler, but the drive to have donut-lips led me to think people think they don’t have nice lips without them. No matter what size, there’s nothing wrong with your lips. And yes, all hail the drugstore. I completely faded some bad sun damage with products from the ordinary and Timeless.
May I ask what did you use to fade your sun damage, I have a few age spots that I would like to fade, I’ve tried different products but nothing has really worked. Thank you
@@BlingyBea I think it was a combination of things over time honestly. I think the most important products I used were niacinamide, vitamin C and the retinol I added later. I used them religiously and it took some time, but it faded eventually.
I would love to see fewer (or no more) videos telling me what I’m doing wrong. Gee, thanks, I don’t get enough of that as a woman, a mom, someone with a somewhat invisible disability (MS). Thank you for this video. I appreciate your honesty and relatability!
I’m so glad to finally find a normal beauty influencer my age. Someone who looks normal! People are childish & they’d rather watch fake edited content than get real reviews from natural real people. You actually have a very classy look that I admire
I believe in individuality in makeup, fashion,etc. I don’t let trends take over my life. I’m a mix of the 70’s (early teenage years) through 2000’s with my makeup, clothes/shoes, and home decor. All that matters in this crazy world is that we like what we see for ourselves 🩷
The differences are what make people beautiful. You are beautiful as you are! Now...the trends that turn me off are the long fake lashes that look fake, the long pointed nails and definitely the over use of lip filler. I might can see an older person doing some but when they are young and already have beautiful lips. SO over it! Thanks Jen❤
There's also the one - not sure of the title - where they're trying to do surgery on a woman to make her look like everybody else. She has bandages over her face until the end, and they don't show what everybody looks like. In the end, they take off the bandages and tell her the surgery failed. And they show everybody else. By our standards, she's beautiful, and they're all ugly. She ends up going to a sanctuary for people who look like her.
Girl the way I spit out my water when you mentioned you're 46??! I'm absolutely baffled I would've said no more than 35. I'm 28 and only in the past few years I really started not caring anymore about beauty standards and always looking my best. I vividly remember when I was a teenager I could not leave the house without mascara on, and a proper styled look. "you never know who you're gonna meet". I wasted so much time and adventures being uncomfortable for something so useless.
Hi Jen, you’re a very sweet honest person and I hate you have to deal with insults and criticism. We all should be supporting women instead of insulting and being so hateful to others. It’s not really about you, these people are unhappy with themselves so criticizing others makes them feel better, It’s really pretty sad. 🌷
I love your videos, sweetie you are a beautiful lady and you were a beautiful child. Beauty is not just skin deep, I really enjoy all your videos, and I started Korean skin care because of you, and I have to say all lot of products are amazing. Love your honesty , never change .
Watching you in the middle of the night. Trouble sleeping. Fell backwards down the steps. What a joy to wake up and see this! Love your conversations. Very thought provoking
This was so touching, Jen! Made me emotional, talking about younger you just wanting to be prettier 😭 I'm so happy you don't feel that way now, and it makes me sad for the people that still feel they need to look a certain way to be accepted.
I love, love, this video content and message. I am a full face makeup girl. The no eyeshadow seems to be with the trend in fashion. We are becoming a very informal society on how we dress and present ourselves. I say do what makes you feel good about yourself and who cares about trends. Love ya Jenn.
I chuckle when people have been talking about using bronzer where you would naturally catch the sun, as if it's a new trend and not how we always used to apply bronzer before it got confused with contouring. I don't contour now. It's designed for stage and tv makeup or if you wear heavy foundation that can make your face look very flat. It's too much for my everyday life.
So true ... I was thinking about unique looks recently. A great example is the original Footloose movie versus the remake. In the original the actors were attractive and relatable. The new version seems too perfect. Not relatable at all.
Yes, actors and actresses feel like they have to have all kinds of procedures to enhance their careers. That's always been a thing, I'd guess since maybe 100 years ago, but I think the pressure is greater now. I can't say of there's more pressure on actresses, but I'd guess there is.
I remember when I first heard you mention the uneven eyebrow thing. I looked in the mirror the next day and realized I had that, too! So sometime later a group of us were sitting around at work talking about about things like who could move their ears, roll their tongue, etc. I brought up that I apparently raise my left eyebrow so much that they're almost permanently uneven and we all thought it was freaking cool. Maybe it's one of the perks of all of us being in our late 50's, but we all thought those kind of things made each of us unique. Of course, I was made fun of my whole life for having red hair and pale skin, so I definitely understand insecurities! You're beautiful, Jen!❤
I'm still stuck in the 80s. I dress like I'm from the 80s, do my makeup like I'm from the 80s, lol. I don't like trends. And I have misophonia. Some noises make me irrationally angry. Growing up, I had such a hard time, since I was 10, I've always worn black. I'm goth and always have been. I had problems with my weight and hated myself for so many years. I was always told, "You have such a pretty face for a fat person," or "You'd be even prettier if you lost weight"
I am stuck in the 90s. That's when I was in college. I wear Justin Ropers and listen to 90s country. I did think about having my hair feathered like I did in high school in the 80s but decided against it. I was always thin until I had three knee surgeries in five years. I gained some weight. Not a ton but a lot for me. I remember my brother's friend telling my SIL that I'd be pretty if I lost weight. She told me about it. She and my mom thought it was a compliment. I replied that he'd be handsome if he had plastic surgery.
I am generally not into Q&A kind of videos but when ever I hear you talk it seems so interesting about every thing and so relatable that taking it to the end is so easy Peasy ... Tha kyou for saying it all out everything seem to be what ever is in my head ..❤
I loved that you shared your personal story of feeling like you weren't pretty enough. I can sooooo relate to that. That diary entry made me teary-eyed. Social media has allowed me to see that those "pretty girls" that I was so jealous of in high school, are now some of the most unhappy people on my feed. Their lives are a hot mess. I am good with who I am now and am grateful for the life I have led.
Yes!! The popular girls from my school have very messy lives right now and many of them didn't age well due to poor lifestyle choices when they were young. I wish I had known that back then. ❤️
Jen, you are beautiful. It’s so funny how we are taught to desire what we don’t have. I wanted to be blonde and blue-eyed when I was a young teenager. I am Native American with golden skin, dark hair and eyes, I am happy with my coloring now but I’m glad my mom knew that I did not have the complexion to pull off blond hair 🤣
Everything you said touched me. Other's opinions (especially strangers!) just don't matter. I had to do Invisaline a few years ago because menopause caused some of my teeth to move out of line. People gave me a hard time about straightening my teeth, even though it was necessary. You just can't please everyone! If it's worth it to you, or your dentist recommended it, go for it. If not, then don't worry about it!❤
This is frustrating! It's why I only trust your opinion. Someone with a VERY popular YT channel that shall remain nameless (but her name starts with a T and ends with an I) really pushes her products. I really want to trust her but can't. Love yours and your integrity!
