Become Irresistible in YOUR Relationship! (Here’s How) 

A word!!!🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽

I told that to a guy and he still wanted some woman who couldn’t do a thing without him. I kept walking.

@@emilypacheco2074 good thing you walked away. Surely, he'll find a woman who needs him.

18:57- protect- willing to die for her, die to your flaws, ego, things done your way. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 And it goes for both! Love this

Sooooo sooo good ✨✅

Sad thing many think marriage is 50/50 and that’s not what God is saying. Your living 100/100 with Christ over both for each other, in Gods scriptures.

@@NeoMoses phew! Preach! The 50/50 mindset is actually selfish when you break it down. It also implies that each person should still consider only their desires rather then becoming “one-flesh”.

@@alexisforteza_ big facts! 🙌 can’t have a half way thinking and think a home will stand. That’s actually allot of feminist I know saying that, and it’s getting worse! Smh

Mostly true except for the Christ part - that's not just why it's attacked - marriage existed thousands of years prior to Christianity if we're going to keep it all the way funky and true.

Independence in women was bred from feminism. And feminism is only seems to exist in modernized countries. For whatever reason, modern women have the fervent belief that "I can do better...". Odd how it's come to men being optional in the minds of women.

Facts!!

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Well said💯!!!!

Wow! ❤️ this.

You said that perfectly 👏🏿

Indeed it was!!!

Get back to me when you fine your other.

I see your comments everywhere... Love your channel keep it up !

Aye bro haven't I seen you commenting on the black hokage? XD you really everywhere

@@Prezboy98 Yessir

@@ocean645 ❤️

Thank you from an avid note taker! Lol

Thank you. While I'm not saying they are wrong, it is important for men and women to do these things in the way the describe it in the video, but to me I think all of these are good for both genders to follow and provide for their partners. Depending on your relationship it would vary how it'd be applied

Correct

They’re literally saying the same thing that KS does🤔

@@Thecairopractors ks is disrespectful, unprofessional. His approach sucks

Aman I second that emotion

Yes!!!

@@gingerfab funny enough,Mr Samuels is even more professional,than they can ever be in a thousands years. For crying out loudest, please y'all should stop subjecting the masculine nature and male figure to the image of a female y'all had created in your head, that has no basis in nature and do not conform to the structure of reality and existence. The universe is a market place, and life is about people,thus relationship. Because,nature is relative and relationship is based on nature's need for value. There is a business aspect of relationship, which Mr Samuels was articulate,professional and gracious in awakening black community to,cuz that was what was needed but was lacking. There is a proposal in marriage- proposal,and that's a business term. And in religious term it is offering, which the proposition of value is:offer. The default setting or set up of the structure of life,reality and existence,is the opposites in conflict. That's what the bible conceptualised as in the beginning was chaos, and out of chaos comes order,upon which you found and build upon.

Mike drop situation

“What am I helping you to met if you have no clue?” that was good!

I agree I found her 3 "F's" kind of problematic. I don't like when married women pass the responsibility of the success or failure of a marriage onto the woman. She mentioned faith, nothing wrong with praying for your husband but he should take the lead in spirituality as well. Fitness - She mentioned a man's wandering eyes. Nothing wrong with health and fitness but too many people give husband's lack of faithfulness a pass...

Right I agree with you on the postpartum & even if a man have a woman that's fit he will still look at something else.

That is the exact dynamic. It can be a blessing and a curse if not proportioned duly!!!

Seriously. One of the best quotes of the episode.

I SCREAMED when I heard that!! It made too much sense. The best line yet!! I had to write that down

I LOVE THIS👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we can’t just submit to anyone Man, we too get to choose whom we want Submit too tfffff!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 great point!

@@ChicStrands Thank you! When I re-read the story of Isaac (Genesis 24), it totally reframed for me the concept of submission. Abraham's servant went to Rebekah's family with gifts and his goal was to woo her, to entice her into choosing to follow him. It was never to force her to submit. Then her family asked her if she would like to follow the man (Genesis 24:57-58) and she agreed to it. She was very clearly meant to have a choice...

You shouldn’t be submitting to a boyfriend.

True I don't need a man I want a man

That statement is coming from ignorance or pandering. A woman,do not just want a man,she needs a man, emphasis NEED. Just like the subconscious mind, she is non selective and non personal,and as such don't understand the difference between the opposites in conflict nor has she the values, abilities and resources to percieve the need and problem in and of nature,to make sense of it,articulate and communicate it. Thus she needs a man to create, build and provide her a structure and identity,to be able to unlock,take or make the best choice,for her desired outcome. It takes the identity and structure of a Creator and builder to be intentional, purposeful,creative and strategic in decision and choice making or taking for a desired-outcome(vision). Women are choosers, but women are generally not good with decision making,cuz that requires a structure,purpose, process and rule(rule of construct and engagement). But women most often than not do not really know nor understand what they want and why.

I think it's less of an issue now. I can't really understand guys who need to have more/make more than their partner, especially in marriage when it's community property. My wife has a bunch more degrees than me, makes a little more than me, and I'm so proud of her. There's no downside to more money coming in that I can see 🤷🏾‍♂️

seriously, right?!?

When you marry your God ordained mate. Your visions will align. That will be a clear sign from God that you are with the right person. Your vision and purpose won't be in opposition.

I heard TD Jakes say submission simply means to SUBMIT to the MISSION. That made it crystal clear.

@@bohosoul13 Don't tiptoe around TD Jakes, self-appointed "bishop". Study and meditate on God's Word instead to get a clear understanding.

A man makes the proposal of marriage, and that simply means the proposal is a proposition of value,aka offer. Then she accepting the offer and being binded/pair bond with the principle,value and rule of construct and engagement that marriage is founded or that proposal of marriage is founded on/upon,is simply submission. Love is value, that's what the concept of a man's proposal is.. And submission is acceptance. The dating phase is the negotiation , and that's value conversation.

I’m so sorry

@MariaRChiJones I’m sorry that this happened to you, but I would encourage you that if you’re still here, that your story is not finished. I’ve been through a similar disappointment... and I have learned now to include of Godly community and be willing to listen to them in my decision making process. God has been restoring all that was lost. He healed the hurt of the past and I truly believe in serving Him and in my dating... I’m interviewing to see if He is not only saying he serves God, but also showing fruit as well as has a community that can verify that this is his character. I believe I have the right to remain soft hearted and won’t move unless my daddy God says ok. Praying that God sends people your way to walk you through the rest of your journey including the situation with your son. G.O.o.D. Wins dear. I’m intentional about my studying and reading as well and even for a while about staying single. I listen a lot to Dr. Conway Edwards at One Community Church in Plano, TX and Redefined Tv out of Houston, Anthony of course, and spend some time reading and in worship. It’s ok to lean into the pain so that you can get through it love. Praying with and for you🙏🏽

Thank you both!! He left in 2005 and he ended up getting custody of our joined son while i remained with my son from a previous relationship.

Update: I still resent him. He still has custody but that was my decision. And now that he's 18 I have bigger things to worry about .. since I'm now debt free and our son is about to go to college! Yes ma'am Or yessir my son is about to go to college.. university to be exact lol

@@MAHWL praying with you and for you. As we are forgiven as we forgive, I ask God to reach down into my heart and take the things out that are deeply rooted. I give Him my will to forgive and ask that He takes it from there.😂🤷🏽‍♀️. Congrats to your baby boy! I have 4 gifts and 3 are grown… one is 18 heading to college too. One more middle schooler and his dad has me talking to Jesus and praying this prayer regularly😂😂❤️🙏🏽 Just remember to thank God for every day that He’s made a way and kept you in your right mind.

Thank you for saying this no one addresses the fact that in modern times in America bm have been moving the goal post of provision constantly. When black women said they liked providers. Bm called them gold diggers and said they want a woman independent woman. The bw goes out and gets independent and gets her own he tells her I don't care about your accomplishments or money I just want your femininity. So now women say well I bring femininity to the relationship and he says how are you going to pay half the bills with that you need to bring more to the table.....and now we're back to square one women confused and men moving the goal post...🥴

My partner has recently bought this to my attention and yet I have no idea where or how to begin to fix it. Any pointers on how to make your partner feel wanted/appreciated and make him feel like the protector?

@@divathedivinegoddess8001 it’s really just letting him lead doesn’t mean you agree with all his decisions or voice your opinion. But that and also it takes both people just to compliment the small things. That damsel in distress is what we need sometimes

You better say that again!

If one of the wife's responsibility is to help the husband become all that God wants him to be then that falls under faith. (Ephesians 5:33) She needs to cover him with prayers, a wife should pray her husband as much as she prays for for her children.

@@vavou509 us covering men and not both of us seeking to protect the other is the retail that has black women in struggle love. I wish we would choose versus in the Bible that show that men to should lead and guild their family... on a spiritual, economic level. Please stop putting the burden on the backs of women this is a concept that keeps us feeling we are not deserving of a better type of relationship. Plus this formula is not working because if it was divorce rates amongst black couples would not be so exponentially high.

@@valeriecarre8967 There are plenty of verses in the Bible... that whole passage AROUND Ephesians 5:33 begins with vs. 25: "Husbands, love your wives AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH, AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER." The Bible sets a VERY high standard for men who are to receive submission from their wives: Christ, Himself, is the example... but see, that SELF-SACRIFICING part is played down... Another way of looking at this: the book of Proverbs is all instruction to MEN all the way down to Proverbs 31:9 -- and after a man is learned in ALL WISDOM from first learning to honor the Lord as God (thus NOT trying to be god himself), avoiding fornication, choosing good company, learning to work diligently and preparing to leave a legacy for his children and children's children, and honoring God with his success, THEN AND ONLY THEN, in Proverbs 31:10 is he shown the ideal of the virtuous woman. The man has to master THIRTY CHAPTERS of divine wisdom FIRST. The New Testament is a LITTLE EASIER, but even in Ephesians, a man has to master everything down to Ephesians 5:21, reads the two verses saying that wives are to submit to their husbands, and then gets put BACK ON THE SPOT by Ephesians 5:25, where the Scripture says that husbands are to get up to CHRIST's level of sacrificial love for their wives, CHRIST's level of nourishing and cherishing for those wives, CHRIST's level of holiness and purity and COMPETENCE (Proverbs is the guide book for mortal men) so that they can lead their wives and families in a Godly direction. I wrote a lot there, because men are SLOW to reveal Biblical truth on THEIR responsibilities while pointing at the FEW verses written to wives specifically. All that is predicated on us not reading and studying the Word for ourselves -- so go ahead and read ALL of Ephesians and Proverbs and know that if a man thinks he is worthy of your submission per Ephesians 5, he needs to meet all of the qualifications.

No you aren't the only woman. I would like other women to stop lying to themselves about this also.

black women don't submit period