Behind the Veil E11: How to save your relationship with Marriage Coach Mariam Arafat 

If a stranger removing her niqab affects you this much, you might have some work to do on yourself sister. May Allah make it easy for you.

Niqab isn’t compulsory so I don’t understand why people are having such a negative opinion on the matter, so if she takes it off, it isn’t sinful, and on top of this it has nothing to do with anyone, it’s between her and Allah. Leave well enough alone and mind your own business in the most respectful manner.

@@aattii.x7086 All four madhabs hold the view it is Wajib in times of Fitnah & when Fitnah can arise from being barefaced. Which is in Today's Time as Moral Corruption has been spread. Hanafi, Maliki and Shafii hold the view it's Sunnah outside of times of Fitnah Therefore to us all, it is infact Obligatory as we are living in these times. If you're in a country that has banned Nigab then blame can't be put on you as it's done against your will.

@@aattii.x7086 Is the difference of opinion on the nigab being or not fardh an excuse for women not to cover their faces? Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan was asked the following question: "There is much talk nowadays about the ruling on a woman veiling her face. There are some women that rely on certain statements of scholars who hold that it is permissible for a woman to uncover her face, and thus place their cloaks on their shoulders (without veiling the face) claiming that there is a difference of opinion on this matter. The question is: Does the fact that there is a difference of opinion (amongst the scholars) in each issue serve as an excuse allowing us to take the opinion of whichever scholar (we feel like)? Also, what is the ruling on the French 'abaayah?" (Aabayat Faransiyyah) He replied: "No one uses the difference of opinion amongst the scholars as a justification except for the people of desires who love to follow their whims. As for the one who fears Allaah, he does not use the differences of opinion as an excuse. Differences of opinion exist amongst the scholars. In fact, there is almost no issue from among the issues of Figh except that there can be found a difference of opinion amongst the scholars on it. This is why Allaah has commanded us to refer back to the Book and the Sunnah. 'And if you differ in anything, then refer it back to Allaah and the Messenger if you truly believe in Allaah and the Last Day.' [Surah An-Nisaa: 59] So differences of opinion exist. However, it is not permissible for us to (only) accept the opinion that conforms to our desires and aspirations, whilst rejecting the one that is supported by the evidences just because it contradicts our desires. This is not permissible.

@@aattii.x7086 Is the difference of opinion on the nigab being or not fardh an excuse for women not to cover their faces? Shaikh Saalih Al-Fawzaan was asked the following question: "There is much talk nowadays about the ruling on a woman veiling her face. There are some women that rely on certain statements of scholars who hold that it is permissible for a woman to uncover her face, and thus place their cloaks on their shoulders (without veiling the face) claiming that there is a difference of opinion on this matter. The question is: Does the fact that there is a difference of opinion (amongst the scholars) in each issue serve as an excuse allowing us to take the opinion of whichever scholar (we feel like)? Also, what is the ruling on the French 'abaayah?" (Aabayat Faransiyyah) He replied: "No one uses the difference of opinion amongst the scholars as a justification except for the people of desires who love to follow their whims. As for the one who fears Allaah, he does not use the differences of opinion as an excuse. Differences of opinion exist amongst the scholars. In fact, there is almost no issue from among the issues of Figh except that there can be found a difference of opinion amongst the scholars on it. This is why Allaah has commanded us to refer back to the Book and the Sunnah. 'And if you differ in anything, then refer it back to Allaah and the Messenger if you truly believe in Allaah and the Last Day.' [Surah An-Nisaa: 59] So differences of opinion exist. However, it is not permissible for us to (only) accept the opinion that conforms to our desires and aspirations, whilst rejecting the one that is supported by the evidences just because it contradicts our desires. This is not permissible.

JazakAllah Khair Lovely 🤍

Wearing a niqaab is not compulsory upon any woman in Islam. I have not removed anything that is Fardh upon me. I have not in any way demoted my modesty and I am still covered as I should be under the laws of Islam. Your views and opinions are your own and are not factual on the basis of what Islam teaches, please do not comment on my haya and imaan when you have no idea Allah knows best & may he guide us all

@@thehealedsisterReally? Removing niqab is definitely a degradation of haya and modesty. If you want sisters to listen and heal from you, strive to be like those role models who are considered to be the best women of Islam.

@@afiazahedee Exactly! The best women of Islam never came infront of men to give dawah or fatwa. It was all done from behind the veil.

@@thehealedsister All four madhabs hold the view it is Wajib in times of Fitnah & when Fitnah can arise from being barefaced. Which is in Today's Time as Moral Corruption has been spread. Hanafi, Maliki and Shafii hold the view it's Sunnah outside of times of Fitnah Therefore to us all, it is infact Obligatory as we are living in these times.

I listen to her content and have found it beneficial as well as many other sisters. This episode is still consistent in content as her episodes with the niqab. She is dressed modestly as the sister guest who is wearing hijab. If you are this bothered you don’t have to watch her videos

Why should she? How about people learn to focus on themselves instead. Gosh, people are so entitled! Subhanallah

when you are 60 you will say that exact same thing. Everything has a starting point. Just grab yours.

@@khairulashraf8258 Wise words Sister. May Allah (SWT) continue to guide us all. 🤲🏽

Niqab is not obligatory sister Alhumdullilah 😊

@@aminah761 it's better to hide your face. Hazrat Aisha R.A Hazrat Fatima R. A also hide their face in front of Prophet Companion

Let it be people, it's people personal choice , between them n Allah. Why question?

@@dariyabadra9804 Imam can not be measured through eyes. it is within the heart which can be only seen by Allah. Niqab or hijab or non hijab never could be a deciding factor for a person who has an iman.

@@dariyabadra9804dont assume