This was so rich! WOW!!! I cried after I watched this. Then I watched it again and took notes! My husband and I get along great but hearing all that you have shared has opened my eyes, as a WIFE, on how to be a BETTER wife to him. The Holy Spirit convicted me of some things I had done and it surprised my husband when I came to him and apologized to him for some things I unknowingly did to him early on in our marriage and even last week! He then watched this video. We both sat down and had a very honest conversation. I took notes so I could reflect, remember, and pray on what my husband shared with me. I have NEVER taken notes while talking to my husband before! He shared ALOT and I wanted to be sure I remembered it all! The things he shared with me I never knew about him in my 20 years of knowing him! This unlocked something in our relationship that we never knew that we needed and we were able to begin to grow from just 1 conversation! We have more understanding, we are stronger, and dancing in the rain together! We definitely will be talking more because this a lot to take in! Thank you Pastor Jerry, Issac Curry, and Ezekial Azonwu for your HONESTY as men! We DO NOT HEAR THIS ENOUGH IN CHURCH!!!! But I am glad that we heard it here! I don't know if this helped anyone else but it helped us in a HUGE way!! This word was just for us! I know now how to pray and how to SPEAK LIFE INTO MY HUSBAND! Thank you, thank you......THANK YOU!!! God bless you.....all the way from VA!
When I tell you this will hit hard...🤯🤯🤯 . So deep and needed for both men and women. Thank you men of God for this word. May everyone who sees and hear this message be feed and take action in themselves to transform for the better.
Every man isn't ready to hear that. He MUST be mature and have emotional intelligence in order to truly understand the magnitude of the statement. Alot of men today, not understanding the context, will be offended. Know your audience and understand the possibility of needing to explain.
Currently 🥺 and he’s still legally married it hurts but I’m accepting kind of what happened now .. also the accountability thing, don’t we need to hold people accountable if there abusive and lying and hurting us.. or maybe they aren’t for us. Confused on that.. but definitely narcissist was one not for it 🥺😩
Men Need Encouragement. He Needs that Extra Push to Fill in During the Gap Between Where He is and the Goal He is Trying to Achieve. Speaking Life Without Doubt into Men will Change Our Communities and Families.
@@RhenaLoveTarot Yeah. You are right. He do need Jesus, but we need to learn how to be gentle, loving, and patient towards them. We need to come out of the whole good woman mentality that have been passed down to us, and not operate from a place of control and manipulation. And we have to choose to really get out of God's way and let God be God in the midst of that situation. And we have to make sure that we are to be partnered and connected with them on a romantic level. By going to God and seeing if He's the man that He created for me, and presdestined and preordained for you to be with, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Like they was saying in the video you have to have grace on you for that assignment, if it wasn't God's will for you to be with that person, then you need to let him go altogether. The problem is women try to make themselves god to and for a man, and that comes from a dysfunctional society and dysfunctional and toxic family teachings and way of doing things. And what we need to be doing as people is turning our attention toward being healed from the inside out, and learning how to develop a whole, healthy, genuine, loving, authentic, and complete relationship with Christ and self. Well before we even consider trying to develop a romantic relationship or become friends with someone on a deep level. It's impossible to be loving, kind, gentle, and patient with others, if you haven't mastered to be that way for yourself.
When Pastor Jerry said God will surround you with people that will make you feel “ that little girl is safe here” that hit different, it’s not out fault that in childhood some phases were skipped…
This is a powerful message! I get it now...I used to wonder well how do I know when to give someone a chance or if it's a true red flag. Listen to the Holy Spirit. God is not the author of confusion. And to learn the generational damages that have been to our men. To all of us. We have healing to do and thankful for hearing this message today. These men give me hope.
CMON!!....DEFINITELY HAVE TO SLOW DOWN!! lord please forgive me for not heeding the red flags 🙏. Thank you lord for saving me from the fowlers snare, and bringing me out of darkness.
This is such a good message. In this day and age, men don't even like to come to church or their view on manhood isnso different frkm God's. As someone who knows men in the world, people are so wrapped up in their own lives but when things like church challenge their normalcy, they get weirded out. There needs to be more men rising up, especially in this generation
As a woman of God, that seeks the Lord. We listen to our pastors because we want to know about the Lord. Our husbands should be the ones washing us in the word of God. Most of the wives I know, their husbands want read the word. We all are made in God’s image, we all need love, affirmations, respect and appreciation.
What a word! What a word my brothers in the ministry. I am so full for what I heard shared to the men of GOD. Start to finish I pray men and women will listen. Glory, Glory to Our Father!!
I’m listening to this 2 years later and I have the biggest smile on my face. I have an almost 5 year old son and I always thought that it starts with me on how he will become a follower of Christ. I need to submit to God and allow Him to work through me so my son can see how you should walk with Christ. I am a woman and cannot teach him how to be a man, but I can teach him to be a follower of Christ and how to treat a woman. I also allow him to express himself so he isn’t a man who shuts down when he is feeling his feelings. I’ve taught him that it is okay for us to feel our feelings but to not dwell in it because it is just a moment of your life NOT your whole life. I teach him that it is okay to fall but to stand back up because of Proverbs 24:16. I am divorced and one thing I will never do is teach my son to hate his father. Why? Because Jesus told us to love. Also because my son is half me and half his dad. What happens when he starts seeing qualities of his father in him? Do I shut it down and tell him no because of anger? No. I teach him how to accept who he is and to WORK on how to become a better version of me and his father. He may not have a present earthly father but my son has a Heavenly Father who will never leave him nor forsake him. Thank you for this message y’all, it was beautiful. May God continue to use this platform to reach out to others. All glory to Him 🤍
If the Woman is more connected with God and passes messages to the Man then he needs to pray and let God guide him. It's so important to have a Man who is willing to pray 🙏
Yes, women aren’t suppose to lead the man in culture but in Timothy’s case and with a lot of godly single mothers the faith and wisdom that’s passed down can be very valuable to guide him. See 2 Timothy 1:5
No and yes!! We dnt want to have to compete within our own households. A lot of Women dnt take notes in their relationships in order to speak life into the relationship
Thank you Pastor Flowers this was EXCELLENT! I see the 'little boy' in men a lot. Honestly, I just wrote them off because I concluded they were immature or emotionally unavailable so I wasn’t about to ,waste my time' but I really appreciate all you’ve explained on this. I now want to be part of the solution to this issue. Can you provide us with the tools to to speak to the boy in the men - a book, a course, something?! We need equipping because there are MANY grown men in our lives from our siblings to our Fathers and husbands that we need to be able to nurture and support effectively! 🙏🏾 Blessings to you and yours 🙏🏾
Oh man, this hit so hard. 😢 My marriage is coming to an end. I wish we knew and learned what we are learning now. I know God is still in control, and its Gods will not our own. He is still writing this story. My husband and i are still in a growing and healing process. I just dont know anymore if we will be together. Here in a month, the court will tell us we are no more. Im just praying God keeps breaking me, helping me unlearn all my trauma and learn Gods truth. And we both still grow. Even if we are not together anymore. And that our children grow and see Gods hand in everything.
Being a Man is a Decision | Destiny Decisions | Part 8 A man is not attracted to a place where he feels he cannot contribute. Resilient means to fail and get back up. We lose honor when we see weakness. Speak highly of those you know their weaknesses. God’s truth trumps reality. Genesis 2:19 Am I graced for them? 1 Timothy 4:7 You can’t be a Godly man and submit to culture. Pursue kingdom manhood. Men are taught to chase achievements. Orchestrate my victories and avoid failures. Find someone who is willing to dance in the rain with you. Women who will walk with men through their trials. Good men work for rest. Great men work from rest. Willingness to learn, admit fault, and grow from where they are. You need the heart & the tools. One who is failing but striving vs a trap 🪤 Red flag 🚩 vs grace space. Relationships are hard work, but they shouldn’t deplete you. A lot of the times were being practical with devil sent people because there is a little devil in us. So we tune out what the spirit says. The only attraction you have is darkness. We end up defending dysfunction. The Holy Spirit never stops, it constantly keeps going. The light 💡 spurts that mess you up. Between 16-24, off of daddy’s wallet and mommy’s breast. What have you stuck with that is uncomfortable but fruitful? The ability to remain through discomfort; long suffering. The very first area that a boy will experience an attack is on his tongue. The root of insecure is unsafe. Insecure people isn’t insecure with everyone & doesn’t feel unsafe in all environments. I love the little boy in you. We’re all affected by what happened & didn’t happen to us. That is good. 1. Be consistent 2. Watch that tone 3. Be a led man Judas is the friend of your enemy. Someone is behind them. Be a mid wife.
Im asking for yall to pray for James c white. he has been going throught what he feels like a curse or bad luck. I ask that you pray for him to be restore and forgive his past and reset his and heart soften it. That he do the right thing!
Whoa. Pastor Flowers. Don't help the enemy kill them. Lord have mercy. That is and was very powerful. God bless you and yours in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
This was so needed. I have been praying for the men and their identities in Christ. Many men are stuck in brokenness and don't walk as kings as they should be. This in return stunts the growth of the Godly legacies that can come from them.
Well said I'm encouraged thst we women needs to build up and not tear down tge lityle boy in our men. Teach us to see them just as they were created in the image of God. May we listen more and talk less. Anticipating more teachings of man. God bless yoyr ministry
My nephew just expressed his anger to me about his parents. It has been in my heart because I have been sending him since he has been a child. He is my God son. This has helped me so much. I feel like time to join a church for him! 💯❤️
Whoooooo lawd…”don’t kill the little boy in him”!!!! Lord help me to put down my knife, on my tongue and in my actions, spark a flame of prayer in my heart because he is not my enemy! In Jesus name, amen!
This is fire! I'm speechless! You're blessing all the way to Germany 🥰🌻❤️🔥 My heart is overflowing with thankfulness from this message and the examples y' all are setting! Thanks for walking in your callings, for your obedience & vulnerability 👏I am amazed by the ways of the Lord! ❤️🔥
This is groundbreaking ministry, I am here because I am ready to apply this teaching and wisdom to my life. I keep your ministry in my daily Prayers. Blessings
Hmmmmmm. That thought that came to my mind when Pastor Curry was speaking was the song that fifty cents sung named 21 questions. Will you still love me due to x,y,z? Whatever the x,y,z is. I pray you all's strength in the Lord in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. The name above ALL names. AMEN. ❤❤❤
Praying always Mr. and Mrs. Flowers. Found you all at the beginning of the pandemic. Sermon's got and still get me through. I thank the Lord for you two and family. Many blessings to the two brothers that spoke too!
Having a good (Godly) man in the house hold who is present and alert to the spiritual, emotional, physical, and mental needs of his children and wife deserves an applause 👏. Most men don't love themselves enough to be able to give to his family. But acknowledging the lack and changing to be better can reserve the generational curse and give our family's future generation blessings on top of blessings.
Ooooo weeee!! Bless you brothers this was so powerful and it taught me how to handle with my future husband.. every single lady desiring marriage should hear this. Wow. Wow... Jerry and Tanisha (amd family) you all are in my prayers. You're such a power couple and have messages that the world NEED to hear.
This was sooooo good on so many levels. Powerful. Thank you for dealing with this topic about MEN!! Lord knows I am a student of the Man until I become a wife that is Graced to weather the storms of life with him!!!! God Bless you MIGHTY MEN OF VALOR!!
I have such a heart for men especially in the body of Christ. Every 3rd Tuesday of every month my Bible study group focuses on the men. We have a man lead the Bible study so they can walk more into their gifts in the word of God and we as women pray over the men and speak life over them ❤️🙏
The fact that Jerry had the foresight to ask the question at 42:49 that he KNEW would would be on the minds of (and be a point of confusion for) some listening is exactly why I appreciate this ministry. That’s another level (Holy Spirit led) of wisdom and understanding. Thank you my brother 🙏🏾.
There's nothing wrong with loving the little boy or girl. Just it's discernment. With narcissists who are abused the child puts up a wall, sins and if repeat sin the soul can't be found. I spent 14 years trying to love a 6 year old boy, but all there was was demons.
