Thanks. This was so good. At 63, single no children, I needed this. I attempted to explain to my 36 year old niece that first your Aunt is a Christian. I can not and will not accept any old thing. If God hasn't endorsed it, can't be a part of an ungodly relationship. Kingdom Vibes Only!
Amen @Jennifer L. Jones, MAOM. This is the message I'm teaching the young ladies I'm called to on my YT channel and why I wrote my e-book. Too often we get the wrong advice in our youth and we build on it in young adulthood, but how much better and peaceful our life is when we live it the King's way. #beblessed 👑queens #kingdomminded 💕
Me too, I watched with my husband and found myself hugging him, listening to him and thinking I need to learn to love him better and from a different place. This is so necessary
... I was so trying not to keep typing, but I'm exploding about this friendship thing ... society has made friendship a four letter word. I firmly believe that the way to a man's heart is through friendship. I firmly believe that men will only be vulnerable, authentic and real in a friendship, where he feels accepted for who he is absent the need to impress. The minute a woman taint that relationship by surrendering her body (against God's way), the man will immediately feel the stress and pressure to be something he is not and will shut down; either physically, emotionally, or mentally. Sometimes it's demonstrated by ghosting and sometimes not, he just stays for the ride, but generally, it will not evolve and if it does, it will be that much harder to tap into his soul and know the real him. Sorry for the ranting ... I believe the Holy Ghost took over. I'm thirsty for this, I'm blessed by this ... I'm being fed by this.
We look to each other to mirror back what’s hidden inside of us. When an unhealed man is feeling like they have to win and prove their worth, the unhealed woman who he is rejecting interprets it as “she’s not good enough” which then dictates her own feelings of worth. When we look to God to mirror our worth, then we can never lose. This is for both men and women. Both will be healed through HIM.
This is the realest male panel I've witnessed. Your comments and input are thoughtful and mature. Thank you for providing great examples of what it means to be kingdom men, and living it. May God bless you all.
Nothing more attractive then open transparent & praying men. These are MUST have conversation, especially for our community. Keep up the great works men of God!
We ALL a Mess!! That’s why we NEED HOLYSPIRIT! I know I’m a mess and still need work!! I NEED “Real Talk” like this... that GOD is using to fix me!! Thanks Men Of GOD!!!👏 I really do appreciate this!!!👏👏👏
I want to be so close to God that I just know when it is him and only him speaking to me ! 🙏🏿 I reflect on what Pastor Flowers says a lot and try to use it in my day to day life because Pastor Flowers you are PREACHING ! You are really helping me to view life how life should be viewed and that is if it’s not of God then it is not for you. If God is not in it, leave it ! Thank you pastor for just teaching me the kingdom way. My desire is to be intimate and close to God and do his will I believe I’m on the right path. Sometimes I get discouraged at times and idk if he’s speaking to me or not but when I think about how great God is I can’t help but to think positive and know that he is still working on me. When good comes out I just know and feel it is of God because everything of God is good. I just wanna thank God because he is just amazing !
Yes, brother, this life gives us many challenges and the testing of our faith is one of them. Hang on and keep your hand in God's hands and He'll lead you the way you should go.
😮💨🥺@12 when that bro said that is one reason it took me so long to get married, “I got married so old because I was afraid to lose”. This cut me deep, like I can’t even shed a tear. Everything he said about not taking tests, believing he had to be perfect. Every single important decision I have made in my life was a fear response. A counselor said I was selfish for not wanting to marry. A pastor’s wife told me Only Jesus was going to be good enough for me because I kept backing out of relationships. While the whole time I didn’t even believe I could be a good wife nor mother. 😮💨 The amount of healing that will take place just because of this dialogue.🙏
Y’all Brothers are POWERFUL!!!!! Thank you ALL for your Transparency!! This “Real Talk” will cause Sinners to want to come to Church Now!!! cause now they can feel like the Church won’t point Fingers👉🏽 As a Christian single female....I’m learning soooooooo much!!!! How to have a healthy Marriage one day!!! Thanks-a-Million👏
Father, Before I watch this, I pray that you let me use this conversation of men to serve you better. Open me up to perspectives and to be vulnerable with myself and honest. Thank you for these struggles with self, I humbly appreciate the pain Father. Thank you for this journey. Amen 🙏🏽
I'm used to women always talking about relationships, men, etc... but there's nothing better than when men of God discuss the beauty and depths of Godly relationships. I just love their God given authority, and I'll be honest..I have much more respect for the topic when it's discussed by STRONG Christian men. 💁🏽♀️🙂
Yes, I think as a man you have to be bold and unapologetic about your beliefs because to speak so candid you must truly be in right relationship with God and willing to be open with sharing your story, which includes your shortcomings, fears, and insecurities. And in our day in age it's still being preached to young boys growing up they need to bottle their feelings and emotions, which they often continue in adulthood.
What's really a blessing here is that as of today (10/29/21) there are 1,654 views and only 334 likes; that means that at least over 1,300 persons who cannot say this is good or give this a thumbs up heard this message or was introduced to this truth and transparency. Do it God! move on their hearts and minds to be transformed by this authentic truth.
I had to pause at 57:44, I'm sooo impatient but through this message God is revealing to me that what He has already SHOWN me, is FOR me but teaching me how to be patient in a way I never deemed possible!! This is reflective of experiences & conversations & especially arguments/fall outs that I have been through with who God has shown me is for me in order for me to learn how to play my part because I try to dive into it. I'm already wrecked. God is so faithful!!
Generational...thank you...God spoke over me very young but the generational curse fell upon me with rejection from my earthly family for exposing. My youngest said only me, "Mom you need God more than most people." He & nature were my only safe place. No matter the pain, I am forever grateful He gave me the heart of a Lion to break it & change the trajectory of my children & their children. This is something in my experience I have found the "black" (& forgive me if not spoken correctly") acknowledges that my "white, perfect" culture does not. I am grateful. Continue to speak over the hidden to free the broken hearted.
Thank you for your transparency. The brother that shared his story of thinking God was going to get him. I felt that and have been there. I pray all that hear this grow closer to our Father.
This has to be continuous I love this series and thank you Pastor Flowers for your obedience and consistency...I know this is for kings but this hit home especially talking about vulnerability and remembering God's love for us (me) and his mercies being new every morning... so many scriptures show us God's love and his grace towards us most of all Jesus's life...he gave himself for us...I kept hearing 1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love [dread does not exist]. But perfect (complete, full-grown) love drives out fear, because fear involves [the expectation of divine] punishment, so the one who is afraid [of God’s judgment] is not perfected in love [has not grown into a sufficient understanding of God’s love].
*Out the gate @ **00:08** ~ "Kingdom men look for attributes, but carnal men look for avenues (to get in the bedroom ... to manipulate)."* 53:26 ~ Bless you for this!
JERRY!!!!! The fire of God ended that session. I LOVE these. More please. More Please. MIRE PLEASE! A series. But mix it up a little perhaps.. add a singleton, a divorce perhaps for balance. Dozie and Lateras would be great! God bless you!!
Man, this is amazing. I have grown so much in listening to this ministry and for sermons like this one. Love that the body is growing in the direction that God wants for His children 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This was PURE fire 🔥 Holy Ghost was all over this and both Kings and Queens can benefit. There were sooo many highlights and points but what stood out is how much men do need genuine support and prayer🙏Will be praying more for ALL men
Y’all are changing the world! Jerry please be obedient and continue to shed the light in this area because this information is almost foreign to many of us..
For real. Men and women need to hear this, and it's so flabbergasting that the Church goes silent on these issues. This conversation in addition to God's help can and will lead to freedom in Christ. True freedom. Not what people think freedom is. But freedom in Jesus
It's just a blessing to see these men break down the Word and offer such transparency. Wow. This is what Kingdom men look like. Lord I pray a special blessing of revelation, wisdom and knowledge in these men. Continue to order their steps and I praise you and thank you for their obedience and for all the Kings they will be instrumental in molding.
And Another One!!! God is amazing because he can put Men like this together to bring his word. I’m so thankful to God because no one deserves all the glory like him! Thank you God!!! Thanks to my brothers in Christ for helping me heal as I continue this journey ! 🙌🏾
I've never been so early!! Very excited for this cuffing season. I discovered your channel around a year ago and started with cuffing season 1 back then. I've been binge watching your videos and they have impacted me in so many ways that I can't count them even if I wanted to. Just wanted to say thank you!! Thank you so much for teaching us the kingdom agenda and for your obedience. It truly is tied to someone else's deliverance (not just mine haha)
Not even 20 minutes in and I’m fully captivated. I love to see this. I love to hear this. Amazing Men of God on this panel. The transparency and articulation….immaculate 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amazing amazing amazing. I promise you there should literally be relationship courses in college courses. Maybe even high school. They’re kids who are growing up in dysfunctional homes and entering dysfunctional relationships. We need men like this in our schools mentoring young people.
Wow I'm always blown away from hearing from Kings that show honesty and transparency. It highlighted that men and women have floors we are all working progress. Im excited for when God send me that Godly husband 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I'm surely in preparation 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Man this was soo good and informative , it brought tears to my eyes. Love seeing passionate men of God talk about the Word and their personal experiences. This was soo good imma have to save it and watch it again !
This is soul winning 2.0 ... this is what preaching God's truth in this century looks like, people need to hear the unedited TRUTH, y'all DID THIS !!!! This is HUGH, this is life changing, mind transforming and just the plain truth!!! Oh MY GOD !!!! thank you Lord! ALL of the points as to why people are not marrying were on point. Thank you for your obedience and boldness to help people. This is real and I know Holy Ghost inspired. I believe this is just another way God is trying to get to his people, draw them near and back to HIM.
Woooow.... 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯 You all got me in Thaaaanking God for knowing the Bible, and learn even more with the breaking points of how to learn deeply the word of God, and get a relationship with God. I keep learning in my singleness to stay strong in the Lord, keep collecting more information of how to live my life according to God's will and not my will. I can honestly say, I'm glad I haven't meet my husband yet because I keep seeing the areas I have to keep working on myself. I want a man of God, who loves God so much and he is able to acknowledge God in everything in his life, just as I keep learning to do the same. We definitely need continuation of this message.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥💯 Thank you again. Many blessings to all of you and your families.
That prayer to close the service just moved me. I haven't heard a kingdom man pray, ever, now that I think about it and I'm just moved because kings really still exist.
I felt this whole conversation. Want to thank you all for this transparent talk. I truly needed this. I've been suffering from the thinking God is going to get it back...what a word🥰🥰
I truly appreciate these talks! Thank you so much Men of God for your transparency and golden nuggets! This ministry has truly changed my life to strengthen my relationship with God and to detox from bad theology! It also showed me how much I projected my bad earthly experiences on our perfect Heavenly Father, He Is not a man who lies or is spiteful or any of that!!! Kingdom men do exist and want to do what’s right in God’s eyes!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Our young brothers on the streets need to hear this so they stop murdering one another and learn how to treat their sisters. Other than that it’s good theater.
Its so refreshing that men of God are so vulnerable and willing to leave everything on the table to just be open and honest. We need more men to lead and have a vision. As a woman its so important to become friends with a man than be anything more. As his friend, he will slowly become vulnerable around you making him opening up to you easier. God speaks on friendship in the bible; that a friend can become closer to you than a brother. So be intentional about your relationship with God and as women we need to cover men who may not have it all together in prayer and learn to become friends in the process or if your already in a relationship, its never too late to unlearn, to relearn, to learn and apply what your being taught; to do things kingdom.
This gives me a different perspective on men in their mindset on marriage. Also, just wanted to say that the bad theology is also a misrepresentation of Jesus in people's lives. Our parents are the ones we imitate as children and they are to be - in God's eyes - a representation of Him! - so that's why it's such a big deal when it comes to how our parents raise us, how they are together, the dynamic they bring to the table.
THIS!!! Was a blessing to me. When I got married I struggled to see my husband as a person with feelings needs and insecurities. I didn't believe that he loved me but was obligated to me. A lot of my thinking came from past relationships and hurt and I projected that to him. However, I thank God that over the years God was able to soften my heart and he used my husband who is a godly man to do so. It's been 12 years and counting and we are stronger then ever. I see him, feel, him and love him strongly and I believe he feels the same way about me. I can't wait to share this video with other women and men I know.
This talk had me crying... You can preach, you can pray, but can you say I'm Sorry? 🥺Just so much truth in it... Why is there not more of this, men must come together often. Bad patterns needs to be changed cause there are good peoples out there; they just need more of these interventions. Thank you guys... May you forever be blessed.
Listen this cuffing season with the Kings is blessing me. If so many of us would use the principles of GODS word relationships would be so much better. These gentlemen are open, honest and transparent with their traumas and life experiences they are able to navigate in their relationships differently. I've leaned all the way in to this Cuffing Season. Thank you Jerry and all of the gentlemen you are appreciated!!!
Thank you so much for you guy’s transparency and the revelations given from you guys bouncing the Word off each other! I am learning how I can be a helpmate for the man God has told me is my husband (he told him years ago but I ran for a long time). It makes me realize and stop doubting myself and His promise. I just need to remove that self-doubt and continue activating the care, support, peace and love that he needs while he figures out his way
Oh boy, this is hitting every nail on the head. One thing I have noticed all my life is that there's no discipleship, no spiritual mothers or fathers taking someone under their wing or taking it seriously, and even worse its lacking with men stepping up to teach men in an honest manner, rather than expecting someone to look all perfect on the outside to pay them any mind. It enforces generations of people just putting on a show for an audience rather showing their heart, scars and all. But I know God can give knowledge, understanding, and revelation about marriage to someone if they seek him, before ever meeting the one. And so many times I felt that it should be obvious to men how to lead a woman... like, seek God with all your heart daily and be prayerful, apologize with sincerity when you mess up, listen to the woman's point of view without getting defensive or seeing her as competition, speak life over her and your lives, read God's word daily and obey God, love deeply and passionately, be gentle and compassionate, and make God your fist love together. I never thought christian men didn't know this deep down, but rather they sacrifice these good things to hang on to their ego and their uncrucified flesh. They think they're taking the easy way out of everything, but don't realize they're taking the destructive and hardest path.
The Lord is preparing me for marriage, and this conversation really gave me some revelation on some things. He wants to make sure I am a good steward of my marriage and family. Thank you Father.
I appreciate this. I have been studying what it means to be a biblical wife, going through about 13 scriptures , looking them up in the Strongs. I have been single for 17 years and I have been learning and growing in my relationship with Christ. I believe I have to be faithful to the Lord, so I will be faithful to my husband. I have been learning a lot from my elders and waiting in the Lord. Gif bless you brothers
