Being a Perfectionist almost ruined me.

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wanted to share a bit of my journey in being a perfectionist. Now I truly think we should do the best we can but often this holds us back from even doing anything or sharing and if that Is the case. I always say it's better to be in motion and because of that momentum you learn more and reach perfection.
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tags : perfection , content creation , self love , perfectionism , how to be consistent , how to stay constant

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@HINDZSIGHT 2 года назад

love ya'll 🍵

@care4rami 2 года назад

likewise fam 💫

@hrathweg 2 года назад

Beautiful start as always

@chrisbaumgardt6965 2 года назад

love you too my brother

@_Moks 2 года назад

Love ya too Hindz

@cashflowandy 2 года назад

Love you hindz

@care4rami 2 года назад

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending💫

@Ihavemadeit999 2 года назад

THANK YOU

@servantofallah5400 2 года назад

Ayo Rami

@SuperClau1990 2 года назад

❤️

@idrineee 2 года назад

AMEN

@unknown_chillhuman 2 года назад

Love that

@melaniegriesemer 2 года назад

“When you hold yourself back, you are holding US back from receiving you” I love this!!

@QuanTheAlchemist 2 года назад

Perfection is the enemy of progress. You can't make something better that hasn't been created yet... Great video!

@naiomimariefan 2 года назад

good point

@nadiarambles 2 года назад

“My goal isn’t to make things perfect. My goal is to express myself.” Love that. 💜 I held on to my first few videos, edited and edited them, Eventually, I realized that I just had to hit publish, and am working on developing a creative routine now. You inspired me a lot with that!

@XxEtHaN39xX 2 года назад

Fuck man, every single video you create is exactly what I need at that moment. This video has landed for me in so many ways, thank you for the reminder to consistently show up and be seen. Thank you for helping us, me, we be better human beings.

@ICEcoldJT 2 года назад

“No single thing is perfect by itself. That’s why we’re born to attract other things to make up what we lack. I think we start walking in the right direction only after we start getting our counterparts beside us.” - Itachi Uchiha

@care4rami 2 года назад

nahhh Sakura Ackerman said that

@arinaabdrakhmanova7046 2 года назад

This man is literally fixing my soul by just being 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@adrienne3272 2 года назад

I've been thinking the same thing!

@oliviamartin5944 2 года назад

Yo same ✨🤟🏾

@raquellashanti5074 2 года назад

OMG this really is a gift from the universe, this is EXACTLY what ive been struggling with the past days. THANKYOU 4ever

@raquellashanti5074 2 года назад

and honestly my whole life

@mabelsmith8040 2 года назад

FACTS

@ProdByMallDidIt 2 года назад

oooo i just got the chills reading this....im absolutely in the same boat. it's kinda scary how fast the universe can confirm things!

@stayhappylittlemermaid 2 года назад

I have no regrets in my life. I think that everything happens to you for a reason. The hard times that you go through build character, making you a much stronger person. 😁

@care4rami 2 года назад

One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again. 💫

@dantepepper 2 года назад

Nothing wrong with doing the best you can but when it harms your mental health you have to reevaluate

@denisecaparn9068 2 года назад

True

@HoneyBunRoad 2 года назад

Seriously! I started selling before I had “perfected” my brand. It look about 6months until I was happy about the logo, packaging and all that. The product was solid though! So by the time my brand was perfect and aesthetically pleasing, I already had a bunch of loyal customers. SO I ENCOURAGE YOU TO START TODAY ❤️

@naominichole91 2 года назад

The main reason I haven’t uploaded my first RU-vid video because I always think it has to be “perfect”. I know I’ll find knowledge through this video as I do with all your other videos!

@nadiarambles 2 года назад

I feel this! I worked on a video for six months, mostly editing small details and cutting it down because I was nervous it wasn’t “good enough.” Eventually, I just had to let it go, and hit publish. I bet your video is excellent, and that you choose to hit publish. 💕

@ayushmaandureja6943 2 года назад

I have been going through the same thing, I think I am just gonna publish my first video whether it's perfect or not. Also, I have a fear of being judged by people that I know if I upload a video. I don't know how to deal with that.

@adrianac2580 22 часа назад

Just what I needed! 💚 Perfection is also a great fear of being seen in our flaws. But, what is our humanity without the mistakes and the downs of living? Not being alive. That’s why living and being in motion go together.

@CrystleSky 2 года назад

I needed this video. I know what im posting has nothing to do with this video but this video brought me some piece. My soul mate of 20 years left me a week ago behind my back he built a new house got a new car, new girlfriend, and a new phone with a new number and while at an appointment he texted me with the old number he was leaving. After he texted me he turned the phone off so I couldn't reach him. Just the week before he left he told me how much he loves me, I'm his favorite person and how I help him. He also said he wanted no contact for 90 days because that's how long it takes to break a habit. He also took out all the money out of the account. He left me with nothing but a house of memories. I'm deeply sad and painful so just seeing this really brought a small drop of piece on a sad day. Thank you for that.

@kayyla5 2 года назад

its the way i was thinking about this topic literally an hour ago...

@dazewithin 2 года назад

We are elevating into a mutual frequency its time for us to tune in, because your comment was my exact thought.

@SakiTavi 2 года назад

Honestly, perfectionism has stopped me from doing many things that I want to do in life. It keeps me stagnant because my fear of something not being good enough, which somehow outweighs everything else. My only regret is not doing things when I knew I should so I could’ve made my mistakes and learned from them. It is only there where I would improve..

@snowmandashowman 2 года назад

I’m learning this now, I’m a perfectionist..shit is depleting & kills your goals in the long run, kills your life too. You start to feel because you’re not perfect that your life isn’t & you start to let doubt creep in..but for me, taking time everyday to be grateful helps me train my mind & lift myself & my spirits. I hope it helps anyone reading this 🍵🙂

@AmaraAnigbo 2 года назад

*"My goal isn't to be perfect, my goal is to express myself and through that I reach perfection."* A WORD. I needed to hear this, I am new creator here on RU-vid and it is so hard to create sometimes because I find myself being hypercritical of my work but this video reminded me it is not about the destination, it is about the journey. Keep sharing your love and light with the world Hindz! :)

@brittanyerin3352 2 года назад

I needed all of this. I create so many videos that I don’t post on my RU-vid and I’m stopping my own growth. Thank you my Pisces brother.

@YaliciaRamos 2 года назад

You’re in my head Hindz !! Grateful for the alignment 💯✨

@Winis_World 2 года назад

The timing of this video is PERFECT!! Thank you Hindz❤️

@bigwavemedia658 2 года назад

U got this!

@Winis_World 2 года назад

@@bigwavemedia658 aww thank you so much❤️

@aureliere 2 года назад

This has been so encouraging to hear. As a "recovering" perfectionist, I am learning like you to work with it and around it. Just going to go ahead and keep doing it even though imperfectly.

@kenderalauraomanga7244 2 года назад

Thank you for your words of wisdom. I am that Person, Just this morning, I was telling myself that I need to create something everyday for the next two months with the supplies I have in my home and the ideas within me. To complete my art pieces, work on my books, challenge my illustration capabilities, design on paper, sew with the African fabric my sister sent me, finsh making the jewelry.... I have often thought that I needed to narrow down and perfect one or two creative ideas because it can get overwhelming. We know how that ends. Which ones? Then I think about these gifts God has blessed me with and how they really are to be birthed and shared. Today, I make that commitment. To allow my creativity to flow and to photographing and journal my progress every day. To be kind to myself as I embark on this beautiful journey. I love what you told you brother, "Do everything. Everything that's on your spirit...."

@izzie8910 2 года назад

I really needed this today. I've been starting my own art business and I'm still figuring out what I want to do for it and I've been making content to start out with but been way to hard on myself to make perfect content which has been preventing me from posting anything. I'm definitely taking your advice and going to post stuff that may not be perfect but is still something. Your videos have been helping me so much this year I'm excited to see what else you do!

@WithCarrinay 2 года назад

Dont you be hard on yourself, i myself going through the exact same as you, thanks to hindz an you that motivated me today to not give up an keep going.

@c.wander555 2 года назад

I went through such a breakthrough regarding perfectionism last semester! I turned in a project I hated with all my guts because I felt like It was a 3/10 job and my uni teacher loved it he put a 100/100 lol. I sat there thinking...well that was unexpected. What is not perfect for me can clearly be for someone else.

@valerialopez8384 2 года назад

I needed this thank you! I struggled with OCD tendencies and it’s difficult to let go of control in life but mindful mornings have been helping me so much. Your videos have guided me in this journey

@SophiaShinAhreum 2 года назад

"sharing my mind in real time & i'm evolving these ideas... i'm going to get better in real time so people can see the growth..." 🤯 these words resonated with me so much ✨ -- it's starting to shift my paradigm from "let me show my most perfect work NOW and with every moment i must perform to meet all of my expectations" to "i'm acknowledging that i'm human and the moment/thoughts/self i have right now is fleeting so let's capture that and transform as we go and do the work each day." thank you for the wisdom and words of affirmation & inspiration!!

@ShanitaKumar 2 года назад

"You don't know what we are going to love about you." Yes!!! 💖💖💖

@lenairene206 2 года назад

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@janetclaireSays 2 года назад

I've struggled with the dark side of perfectionism most of my life. Not when I was a little kid. I think then I didn't expect it of myself or didn't even know it was a thing. But I have been paralyzed by perfectionism as an adult. This is such a valuable video for me, thank you! Also, I love how your 2nd photo shoot turned out! You have a great eye!

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@BriannaDiez 2 года назад

Hindz thank you so much! This came right on time as I’ve been analyzing my relationship to shame and perfectionism. :’) I appreciate your perspective and I’m putting those ideas in motion starting today! Much love

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@denisarich 2 года назад

This was really eye-opening. Thanks to your video I just realized that I still struggle with perfection. So grateful you made this, thank you! 🙏🏻✨

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Thank you Hindz ✨🙏🏻 I’m glad you are expanding your love 💗

@Delala 2 года назад

You are such a role model to me! Thank you for the wisdom, the insight and relatability of this video! Keep the flow going 🧘‍♀️

@iat136 2 года назад

Learnt so much from your video...I love the way you explain things with so much wisdom so effortlessly...thanks for sharing ❤️

@marisolceja4367 2 года назад

I really needed this🙏🏽act and do it with emotion to fully express myself🧚🏼‍♀️

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Hands down this is the best advice for anyone that wants to create. Bless! 🙏

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