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Best Dating Advice For Finding And Attracting The Partner You Want | Neelam Verma 

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✅Discover the future of education with Mindvalley’s own Vishen Lakhiani in this FREE pre-recorded live zoom call. Click here to watch it now:😊👉 go.mindvalley.com/vCYmmHtN
Best Dating advice and relationship advice for better relationships.
In this video, Vishen has a seat down with Neelam Verma, a relationship expert and they get talking about all things dating. They discuss all topics related to love, e.g., healing from a breakup, why online dating doesn’t work, and even how to make your relationships work. It’s a full circle.
When you watch this video, you’ll learn the 3 most important steps to getting yourself ready for the dating scene. The three steps include: Discovering yourself, transforming yourself, and eventually becoming yourself. You’ll also learn the seven pillars that Neelam recommends to do the inner work on yourself to be a good partner.
Watch this video now to discover how you can pursue dating with intentionality and integrity, how to be authentic, and how to create a conscious conversation with your partner to elevate your relationships.
About Vishen Lakhiani:
✅Vishen Lakhiani is the Founder of Mindvalley, an award-winning education movement with millions of students worldwide and growing fast. Through Mindvalley, Vishen has spent over 15 years reimagining the human experience -- to explore the
science of helping humans reach their fullest potential.
✅As the hands-on CEO of Mindvalley, Vishen has created Mindvalley Quests, A-Fest, and Mindvalley University, which help shape lives in the personal transformation field.
✅He has led Mindvalley to enter and train Fortune 500 companies, governments, and millions of people around the world to live their most extraordinary lives. Vishen’s work in personal growth also extends to the public sector, as a speaker and activist working to evolve the core systems that influence our lives - including education, work culture, politics, and wellbeing.
✅Vishen is also the New York Times Bestselling author of The Code of the Extraordinary Mind and The Buddha and The Badass, both of which reveal how to think like some of the greatest non-conformist minds of our era and create new rules for life AND work so you define success on your own terms.
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@MindvalleyTalks
@MindvalleyTalks 3 года назад
Which of the seven dating pillars did you love most? 😊 Join Vishen Lakhiani in this FREE pre-recorded zoom call to discover what Mindvalley is doing to change education around the world. Click here:👉go.mindvalley.com/ziqwa0B2
@shannaricker
@shannaricker 3 года назад
I am so excited about your daily introduction feature coming to Mindvalley!
@logangomez1209
@logangomez1209 3 года назад
@@shannaricker what is that about?
@entrepreneurpodcasttv1239
@entrepreneurpodcasttv1239 3 года назад
The world has it all backwards with relationships. If learning to love yourself was taught from a young age, it would change the world and end hate.
@love_dove_
@love_dove_ 3 года назад
“You attract what you are from within” love it 💗
@grammargalaxy7091
@grammargalaxy7091 3 года назад
I tell ya- the universe has to send you the match; 'it' knows your heart!
@sealesparadigmshiftltd.9928
@sealesparadigmshiftltd.9928 3 года назад
Thank you
@chandanirani1372
@chandanirani1372 3 года назад
Arigato
@monicalight7177
@monicalight7177 3 года назад
Love is who and what you are. It is your birthright. It can never be taken away. Love flows through you and in you.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Absolutely true happiness comes from loving yourself unconditionally and knowing who you are
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
Says who?
@david.walters
@david.walters 3 года назад
If you read this, doesn't matter where you are right now on this planet, I wish you a wonderful night and a happy peaceful life where all your dreams become true.
@pennypocket5463
@pennypocket5463 3 года назад
Uniooooooo🎶💛🎶💛🎶💛🏞️🌲🌏🌎🌍🌟have a great day, dude😎💜🎶🎸💫
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I said the same thing today when I was listening to Dr.Joe. The exact same words. Synchronicity
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Exactly you are 100% right on I’m so proud of you you’re so young and you’re so smart
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
This is a fabulous addition to your platform your entire business is my favorite. Mine Valley has the best educational teachers and the most Chris Maddock entertaining at the same time
@sorann8419
@sorann8419 3 года назад
I think if we follow our intuition, we will be led to the right person.
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
Sure, but most people will need to develop it first
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I also was in the same career for most of my life as an actress and a fitness model. Doing many interviews on different topics and I totally agree with what you’re saying. In order to have a great relationship first have to know who you are and living your truth. It’s absolutely necessary to have a relationship that’s really going to work out and It’s very difficult when you’re involved to that extent to find somebody that also is compatible. Especially today with what’s going on with the Covid
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I love that, that is what I want and I won’t settle for anything less
@lakeboww
@lakeboww 3 года назад
Thank you Vishen for bringing value.
@deeric3367
@deeric3367 3 года назад
This is some of the best life advice I’ve had the pleasure to tune into. I feel more comfortable and confident now. I am grateful thank you 🙏🏽 for this experience.
@GLesbihonest
@GLesbihonest 3 года назад
I've always been a person that has exclusive relationships. I'm not a person that dates multiple people at once. I haven't been in a relationship in about 10 years because I've been working on myself and waiting on that one true mate. That forever love and relationship. Our energy must vibe whole heartedly. Thank you!🙏🏾😊
@carotxauxi8409
@carotxauxi8409 3 года назад
Wow, so impressive. Me also, waiting for true love within more than 10 years. And self love is truly important. No matter we can find our soulmate or not, if we love ourselves enough (of course not selfish love). It's a true gift already.
@sanghitalks8985
@sanghitalks8985 3 года назад
Soulmate Myth 😂😂
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
10 years is too long. If you had the right information, you would have found your soulmate by now
@BeaLentine
@BeaLentine 2 года назад
Absolutely!!
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
You probably know when you meet the person if that person could be right for you or not I would think you sound so intuitive and intelligent that you would be able to pick up on that immediately
@gurudra
@gurudra 3 года назад
Learn to love yourself,if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone else🙏
@avikmukherjee6371
@avikmukherjee6371 3 года назад
how to love yourself man isn't little delusional if you love yourself you have to be two within you ..how can u divide yourself ..don't just pick up keywords and randomly throw here and there ..
@anub2744
@anub2744 3 года назад
@@avikmukherjee6371 It is really possible, at first it will make you feel weird and it will be kinda hard. Once u start doing it, it will make you feel amazing. It always will give you a feeling of fulfilment and acknowledgement that u r loved and accepted and u won't feel bad even when someone doesn't accept u or acknowledge u the way u r. Start with the baby steps. First.. Start complementing yourself for every small or big things that u do on the daily basis. Second... Thank yourself (ur soul, body and mind) and say love you baby or dear to yourself ( u can even say that I am proud of u) when u look into the mirror. Third... This will be a bit weird initially but you will see a remarkable change. Imagine that ur soul is hugging you when u r low/sad and ur soul is kissing on ur forehead and tell that it's alright, it's going to be alright . A motherly love that u can give yourself. After this loving yourself would be very easy and u can invent ur own way to love yourself . Make sure even when u have a negative thoughts or fear think that ur soul is hugging yourself and telling you that it's okay , it's normal and u r just thinking and not acting upon it. And tell yourself that I trust you and I believe you and u r a very good person, u r an amazing person . It's one way of self-love that I am experiencing . It works wonders. I hope and wish it works for you too. Take care...
@anub2744
@anub2744 3 года назад
@@avikmukherjee6371 One more thing. Please in the mean time try to give some love to others as well, even they might be going through what ever we are going through right.
@avikmukherjee6371
@avikmukherjee6371 3 года назад
@@anub2744 thank you for your kind words "ll try for sure.🙂🙂.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Your energy radiates such charisma and love that people are just automatically attracted to you I want to be around you because of that
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
This is great this is exactly what I needed to hear because I had this discussion with Dr. Joe and with Lewis Howes
@sharrennijjar2018
@sharrennijjar2018 3 года назад
Beautiful well said about that physical communication to spiritual communication.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I agree with you 100%
@deutsch_luba
@deutsch_luba 3 года назад
Thank you so much for this great interview. 🙏❤️ I’m new here and I got very interested in your projects. You’re very inspiring.
@tynaturkova361
@tynaturkova361 3 года назад
Amazing plan, great video ...looking forward for this app. :-)
@palmmenendez4188
@palmmenendez4188 3 года назад
Thanks to all for the talk very interesting!! Hope next in Spanish!!! 🤩🎅🙏✨👍
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I know exactly what you’re saying it’s so ironic and it’s so true this is something that you are really going to be helping so many people. You’re doing a great thing and you came up with a great plan bravo to you
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Your authenticity and your dialogue and vernacular the way you present yourself is really charming you’re a lovely lovely lovely woman
@nikitag421
@nikitag421 3 года назад
Mindblasting work u have done!!!! U r very correct,u shud ask d straightforward questions in initial dates itself....rather than dragging things and den realizing s/he is not the one .
@Mikna22
@Mikna22 2 года назад
So true 🙏🏼
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Absolutely
@peace-po1hy
@peace-po1hy 3 года назад
Cant wait for the apl
@sandraguti46
@sandraguti46 3 года назад
A telepathic and conscious relationship is the best.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Intimacy and having such a connection where are the bonds it’s like you’re almost 1
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
What an interesting intuition that you had for some reason but thank God nothing happened and that he did learn what you learned and grew from that. You’re beautiful inside and out
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
When you evolved to the point where you’re at where you’re both that and I’m not myself your whole world changes you see everything completely different. When you live in a state of love, peace, happiness, compassion, kindness, joy, bliss and gratitude the world is your oyster but it’s a very beautiful and the ultimate way of living
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Yes I agree with you 100% I just actually said that I had this conversation with Joe and Louis to
@hannaraoul7731
@hannaraoul7731 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing, so nice app
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I specialize in that too and Joe is a friend of mine he takes me often on as a guest speaker and podcasts and on his RU-vid
@peace-po1hy
@peace-po1hy 3 года назад
Amazing
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Do you have that type of connection with somebody the sax is mind blowing because the connection in the heart the intimacy that you’re sharing makes everything so much more intense it’s so beautiful it’s much different than the other
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I’m taking your course I’m already there I thought point where you have the lessons to teach people how to get to that point I’m there everything you said but I’m going to take your course because I need to learn what to do after that
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
You always have to be true to your self
@studiosingyourstyle
@studiosingyourstyle 3 года назад
So what is the app you referred to?
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Fascinating this is a great story you’re going to be an amazing teacher
@laurafahey542
@laurafahey542 3 года назад
Yes ask those questions for your time n energy she’s right
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
That’s beautiful
@SagCuspofRevolution333
@SagCuspofRevolution333 3 года назад
Funny I was just thinking of starting a dating app for people who are spiritually conscious and have done the necessary work on themselves. Regular dating is just not for conscious people anymore. 25Dec2020
@linda5754
@linda5754 3 года назад
Terrific idea
@noemie1873
@noemie1873 3 года назад
I was thinking the same 😉
@pennypocket5463
@pennypocket5463 3 года назад
💜💛💜💛💜💛💜how thrilling And emotionally intelligent education networks!!!, Wow...xitd.. Giving me Great faith in our futures, what Lovely lovely people!.
@roshianderson
@roshianderson 3 года назад
Yes! You have to become who you want to be with! I have videos on my channel about this as well 💕♥️
@NotUrAverage786
@NotUrAverage786 2 года назад
Great talk, thanks for sharing. Sometimes when dating it's very possible to confuse showing up authentically, with showing up in order to be liked (people pleasing frame of mind). How can we practice being more authentic and in our own frame and discerning of whether or not to allow people into our lives, instead of being overly concerned with having others like us?
@radhekultura5484
@radhekultura5484 3 года назад
Are you using Vedic Astrology with this program? If not, I have had a similar project in mind for sometime and would love to work with y’all.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
And if you’re truthful with yourself living your truth and you have that knowledge about energy you can read people immediately
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
If they’re capable of handling that and also being on the same level that you are and coming from the same place that’s the issue or that’s the gift
@kylebraxton2668
@kylebraxton2668 3 года назад
Haha who would of thought, truth is the key to a good relationship
@laurafahey542
@laurafahey542 3 года назад
Yes dating apps yeah
@davescott9062
@davescott9062 3 года назад
I tried to go to the integrity.dating site but it's not working, do have another way to contact your guest?
@tetmartin3366
@tetmartin3366 3 года назад
Is Neelam’s program in the Mindvalley membership????
@genneyescalona5031
@genneyescalona5031 3 года назад
Before answering, it should be clarified :ex ; what about it is condependent? etx how?
@AnnanyaBanerjee
@AnnanyaBanerjee 3 года назад
❤️❤️
@Luvely17
@Luvely17 3 года назад
👏💎Great Advice! In the midst of this now and doing the innerwork✨
@patrickolson7390
@patrickolson7390 3 года назад
I enjoyed the different approach to dating. Honest question: how does one do dating during a pandemic safely?
@justicemoody
@justicemoody 3 года назад
You wake up to the scam, then attract someone who also knows it’s a scam.
@edt8378
@edt8378 3 года назад
@@justicemoody facts! I wouldn’t want a partner who lives in fear and isn’t knowledgeable enough to know this is a plandemic. I don’t want someone stuck in the matrix
@justicemoody
@justicemoody 3 года назад
@@edt8378 Yep!
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
Put a drop of thyme essential oil inside your mask and viruses won't go near you
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
And it’s like they’re pushing it they’re trying to make it happen and not just letting it happen. I mean is it as though that person was out there looking for you and you guys just met
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Let me ask a question I find that being an attractive woman has many benefits as a gift but it’s also a curse because it draws attention to the wrong people and it can at times be very dangerous
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Do you need these people on dating sites I mean do you do that at all
@CarlitoFluito
@CarlitoFluito 3 года назад
38:38 Vishen, your screen reminds me a lot to my screen. Dozen open tabs, with dozen bookmarks :) It lifted me up thinking that it is still doable no matter the level of ADD. Best of loves, CF
@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724
@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724 3 года назад
❤️❤️❤️
@jollyjames30
@jollyjames30 3 года назад
She seems very intelligent and articulate. From watching this video, she said she was chasing fame, success, travel, etc. From listening and trying to understand this, it seems that after competing in Miss Universe, she felt she would have a bright future in Mumbai as an actress. She might've met some dude who might've claimed that he had connections in the film industry. And he promised her the world and they had a sexual relationship for years. It's strange in Indian culture that any female would stay in a relationship for 10 years without any actual commitment. Normally after 1-2 years of dating, you get engaged/married. She was perhaps blinded by her ambitions of wanting to be famous and successful. Later she realized that she had wasted 10 years of her life on some guy who was only it it for the sex and not much else. The guy probably was having sexual relationships with numerous other ambitious and hopeful actresses and was promising to help them in their careers too.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
How to work for you how do you feel about that
@janessaalexandria8294
@janessaalexandria8294 3 года назад
Awesome 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
This is the problem when you’re young and beautiful and I’m sure there’s millions of men after you all the time. But finding someone compatible is so difficult because it’s finding the needle in the haystack
@pennypocket5463
@pennypocket5463 3 года назад
Stacey....I hope u don't mind me sayin, I think we kind of act like little love magnets....so just think about wot yu totally groove with, the Best Qualities of All the rel"s u had, like times infinity...+have fun, Etc, 😂and I think it's s bit like magic, coz all that excitement sends sparks into your direct Field of energy, from which you eminate your frequencies 🌸🎶🌸scents🎶?+?presents?🎶and in no time, the bumble bees will be partying nearby, ha 🌸🎶merry wishes
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
@@pennypocket5463 I’m totally with you! I love what you wrote thank you so much for sharing. You’re amazing XO, Stacy
@pennypocket5463
@pennypocket5463 3 года назад
🌻ah, Thanx Stacey,Happy 2021🎶
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
@@pennypocket5463 Wishing you an incredible year too. Xoxo, Stacy
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Well you’re in powered by what you went through I called is empowered by adversity from what you went through. I’m just wondering where you find these guys that are within that compatible level
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Absolutely but how do you go about finding these people that you would be interested in dating. I know that many men as you out all the time probably in supermarkets and drug stores walking down the street that’s how it is when you’re a beautiful woman. But finding somebody seriously that you could be compatible with and it’s not worth going out on a date it’s enjoyable when you’re this is evolved how do you do it
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
I specialize in epigenetic’s and quantum physics. I meditate several hours a day my heart I work on my shoppers my energy Field and everything my meridians my heart and my brain are completely open but I can’t find I’m not really looking I’m just hoping it’s just gonna happen because it’s the right time and the right person
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
That's not how the Cosmos works. Nothing happens by chance.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
You sound exactly like me and Tony Robbins is my coach this is this is hilarious
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
Tony Robbins didn't find his soulmate by following this advice
@adrianaulici7027
@adrianaulici7027 3 года назад
Where can one meet valuable people? I don't believe and don't use applications. Are there any places or applications to meet people that might not be a waste of time?
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
You come across the right people in the streets, supermarkets, etc.
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
So what happens if you’re at that place because I am but finding the right person how do you go about that? I mean there’s 1 million cars out there and dating is an a problem there’s enough plenty of men that asked me out but I won’t go out with them because I know they’re not the right person. It’s really complicated
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
The same way Tony Robbins and George Clooney found theirs
@Haradeas
@Haradeas 3 года назад
For my feeling she doesn't connect with the people she is talking to, she clearly cant help them. She stays very shallow and she cant deeply explain the aspects that matter or how to see them and use them in a practical way. Her heart is on the right place, I hope she goes deeper in herself so that she can really help other people. Notice Vishen not aligning at all with what she says, but I understand you cant really compare different standpoints while trying to help a 3th person.
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
Neelam is an amateur. I've been studying soulmates for over 10 years and she has just begun. Hence the quality of her answers.
@katara4955
@katara4955 3 года назад
her ex being "out of integrity" with her...does that mean he cheated on her?
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
Why would you want it any other way does selling your soul
@GeraldSmallbear
@GeraldSmallbear 3 года назад
Maybe it's Millipedes.
@khatazamalate2433
@khatazamalate2433 3 года назад
Is that App ready and out??🤣
@stacyrosman5563
@stacyrosman5563 3 года назад
That will do it. I’ve also had the same experience and seven weeks ago I was brutally attacked kidnapped and brutally attacked to the point where I was unrecognizable. But I’m a trauma specialist I specialize in that and I have been studying it for 30 years. So I had PTSD for three weeks and it’s seven weeks now and I’m back to being 100%
@harshvaishnav4363
@harshvaishnav4363 3 года назад
My take away from Neelam sharma's "integrity dating" 1. Know/love urself 2. Set STANDARDSDS for your u n partner/ be who u r/ no mr. Nice guy / Authentic/ Transperant 3. ask DEEP questions to find the one quickly Eg - what does falling in love/ love means to you
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 2 года назад
👍🏼🙌🏼
@Ok-kh5qq
@Ok-kh5qq 3 года назад
Who has 47 minutes to watch a video about this? Someone please summarise for the adhders
@anniemedicalmassage
@anniemedicalmassage 3 года назад
It sums it up in the first 30 seconds. Be in integrity with yourself and you will attract people of the same.
@keshav_p
@keshav_p 3 года назад
Another adhder here too! I draw thier talks into notes..that helps me to stay focused and Creative..hope it helps u too🌟
@tolgabey6284
@tolgabey6284 3 года назад
I saw you so distracted, Vishen🤔 is everything ok? I hope that we will finally meet you this year and drink ayahuasca tea basically💏 #filizuygan
@laurafahey542
@laurafahey542 3 года назад
So how much 500 can u make payments or will this online college be affordable can we just do the dating site ??
@changeyourself3404
@changeyourself3404 3 года назад
I think Vishen was upset by Neelams answers
@sanghitalks8985
@sanghitalks8985 3 года назад
Soulmate Myth 😂😂😂
@michaelmarian9987
@michaelmarian9987 Год назад
yeah took the red pill given up on marriage and its waste of time divorce rate is 100%😁😁 and unfornately that airplane did not crash neelam is stay alive.
@jamescasperdonaldson3186
@jamescasperdonaldson3186 3 года назад
Yes thank you ☺️ Casper jamescdonaldsonfacebook
@oluwaibukunzebulon1026
@oluwaibukunzebulon1026 2 года назад
I realize men are not willing to be transparent in the beginning.
@sandraguti46
@sandraguti46 3 года назад
Just becoming 5D and date someone who is 5D too....
@pennypocket5463
@pennypocket5463 3 года назад
Oh l😎ve this, Sandra 🌸🌠
@amarahluwalia7501
@amarahluwalia7501 3 года назад
Such a boring speaker much the standard Mindvalley has set is so high - even Vishan looks so bored no clue why is he even doing it .
@peace-po1hy
@peace-po1hy 3 года назад
Amazing
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