Best Friends Get Brutally Honest About Their Bodies | Iris 

the pregnant comment hit me right in the heart :(

Wtf, they're both extremely beautiful!!!! Ugh this hurt to watch 😢

I wouldn't last 5 seconds before I would have to go and comfort my friend and tell her she is beautiful and that she doesn't need to change for anyone.

I feel like if dudes were to do this it would end up in a naked fist fight in the middle of time square

I cried an insane amount. An insane amount. Everything they said has run through my mind so many times

the scene is SO much better than BuzzFeed!!!

They are both beautiful girls. It's so sad they feel that way.

damn she is double crossing her legs. i honestly thought i was the only one that could do that 1:54

I'm female and I find both girls beautiful. I can't believe that they feel this way about themselves. They live with such torture everyday, and I can't even imagine how that feels like.

Oh my God I didn't read the beginning and thought they were saying what they thought about each other I was petrified.

I'm not trying to make them feel better but they r really beautiful!!!

This just sounds like a chill ass roast session.

lmao i thought they were talking to each other

The girl on the left is like me in almost every way.

Ohhhhh they're talking about their own bodies

This video actually made me tear up because I can relate to Alyssa SO much. It hurts not loving the way you look but sometimes you just can't help it, especially if you suffer from body dysmorphia or anything similar.

bruh if my and my friend did this we would not only cry but i think we would cry our eyes out

this fucked me up so much.

Fuck, that's so sweet.

"Why don't you look like her". That hurts. How I feel about myself

oh my lord, i'm crying over this. this is so touching and beautiful

It should have been kept secret until the end that these things were actually about themselves

aw I like that quote, be a bestfriend to yourself!!

I respect them for that it takes courage. #truefreinds

Because you are your own person and they're someone else. And you care for them. That's why.

Two years later and this still impacts me. I made a commitment to treat myself the way my best friend would treat me when I first saw this video, but since that time I've forgotten my commitment to myself. I'm renewing this commitment now, and I expect I'll renew it later, too.

Just imagine hearing about how your best friend feels about her body... I'd be so sad. I live their friendship though! The way they keep holding their hands and comforting themselves. The way the smiled and laughed at the end so sweet.

I'm literally crying... this was pretty powerful

omg they are literally 2 of the most genuinely beautiful girls I've ever seen this is so sad to watch

I watched this video with the thought that they are saying these things about each other and I imagined how I would have felt so disappointed when my best friend would say that. Then I found out in the comment section that they actually said these things about themselves, I started to cry immediately. It's so sad how they make themselves down and worse. I wish they could see the beautiful things that other people see in them. Dear myself, please follow your own advice too and don't be so harsh to yourself, so that it will hopefully affect other people in your life and change your and their way of living in a much more happy way.

if my best friend ever said anything bad about her self i would lose it. she's so stunning inside and out i love her so much

Ya'll shoulda done more than just one pair of friends.

me and my best friend are always supportive of each other. we both have a past in depression and eating disorders and though we put ourselves down a lot we are always there to pick the other one up, encourage the other to eat more when we don't feel hungry or haven't eaten in a few hours (though we didnt know each other in those times), we joke around a lot, and its just honestly the best. I'm so grateful to have her in my life because I don't know where I would be without her. She's made me more confident as a person and helped me in so many ways. This video, I think would be a great thing for anyone to do as I can see how it helps. we all have flaws. And I think practically everyone has cellulite, It makes us who we are

This duo! Hope to see more videos from them. You can just tell they have a great, supportive friendship. AND they are beautiful inside and out!

Honestly a best friend is a gift from God. I love how open these two are with each other & how they seem to have each other's backs. Hope they can find some inner peace and see what I see--two very stylish women with a lot of inner and outer positive attributes.

Ugh this hurts to watch! You both are beautiful inside and out, beautiful skin, body shape, face, hair, etc. Do you know how many girls everyday try to make their butt's bigger, bigger lips, hips, breast, and so on, just to have the same things that you have? People who say that are actually haters of themselves!

Honestly when I look at them both, I can't understand how they dont love how the look. I know that sounds completely cheese but they're both so beautiful. The brown girls lips are amazing, I love the way her eyes look when she smiles, I admire how she can pull of everything, including her nose. And the white girls is honestly really lovely, shes so perfect looking, her skin is clear, her hair is healthy and shes such a perfect weight. I cant believe how they dont like how they look, but i think everyone experiences this, we always want to be someone else, and when we realise that we cant, then we start to absolutely despise ourselves. But the thing is, even the people we want to look like want to look like someone else, its this never ending cycle of wanting to change. I think that the only way that we can be truely happy about ourselves is realising that we are who we are, sure we can get nose jobs and drasically change the way our face looks, but in the end its never going to be enough. when we realise that theres no hope, that Im going to look like adrianna lima or that youre never going to look like johnny depp i think that thats just the start of self love is accepting that you are who you are and that theres no one exactly like you. There may not be any reason as to why we're here on earth but Id rather go out everyday loving myself and not caring if others love how i look or not than staying in bed and not wanting to go anywhere because Im scared that someones going to judge me on how I look. life is short and it shouldnt be wasted on things that dont make you happy

they are both beautiful, how can they think this of themselves?! i’m so shocked i can’t even get over how pretty they both are!!

what the heck they're both so sooo beautiful. how can they do this to themselves. they are so perfect

Regardless of what society tells you, you both are beautiful and strong women!

i would never think or say that to my friends..

I don't know if they'll ever read this, but they are some of the most beautiful people I have ever seen. Not only are they beautiful on the outside, but you can tell that they are amazing, kind, strong, smart, and open minded on the inside as well.

Almost all of these hit me in the heart.

Me and my best friend would 100% laugh if we were in there place for no reason

before i had watched this video i had finished watching the video with them talking about race and the whole time i kept thinking that they were both so pretty and then i watched this one and now I'm so sad they feel this way about themselves but i completely relate

This was very eye opening. I hate the way i look. But i look at those ladies and i think "wow! They r both STUNNING! why would they feel this way? It makes me want to raise up the people in my life, cause u never know how much they are tearing themselves down. A simple "u look beautiful today" can really make a difference

they’re both so gorgeous and beautiful. It makes me feel so sad people can think these things about their body.

They're both beautiful. Wtf.

I hate this, but I love this as well.

Friendship is one of the most beautiful things ever. It is a place of love, of support, of allowed vulnerability. To all good friends in the world: love and peace and congrats. To all who are seeking a friendship like "that": be a good friend and let it come to you. Love and peace.

I'm crying so bad they deserve so much better they're both strong and beautiful women

Why was this so mean they got more aggressive the more insults were said.

why do people hate themselves that much

I really like the quote that we should not say things about ourselves that we wouldn't say to our best friends. We need to be our own best friends too. My best friend is one of the most beautiful people I know and everything about her is just amazing and I would never say anything different to her because it would be untrue. I like that message and hope to think more positively like that. Maybe when I look in the mirror now I will learn to be more kind to myself.

That was surrealistic. You are your own best friend and cheerleader no matter what the world thinks of you.

PSA: When you compliment someones insecurities , it doesn't ease it.

DAYUM SON THAT COLD

That's incredible how much people have insecurities about their body and yet you find a lot of beauty in them. We should all, in an utopian best world, openly talks about our insecurities without fearing anyone judgment. Really, because insecurities like that could destroy someone's life or confidence in the long term :(

This is common in a lot of people everyone has their struggles and no matter how much you tell someone their beautiful it never works it'll put a smile on their face but when it comes to eat or to dress or to take photos...its gone. That smile is no longer there and neither are the words "you're beautiful". Some people can call someone else beautiful but not themselves and thats not true because you are beautiful..yeah YOU! Not your friend your mom your sister (them too but this is about you) but YOU your 1 in a million smile 1 in a million voice and 1 in a million body. YOU are beautiful.

at first i thought they were calling eachother that becuz i cant read lmao

they both look very pretty

What are we doing as people that makes these beautiful women feel so badly about themselves. They are both beautiful and seem like really genuine people.

Regardless of what these women say about their bodies, they are still beautiful! God bless them.

Two men and this is a roast competition.

Goddamn... this is powerful. ❤️❤️

They are literally friendship goals

I am a brutally blunt person. Not on purpose. I was just born with out a filter. With that being said, these two women are so beautiful. Not just on the outside either. I hope one day they can see what I see when I look at them. They’re both gorgeous in their own ways. Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors! That’s what beautiful is, it’s being different, looking different. Anyway just my opinion lol

This video is so important.

oh this hurts...

This truly made me cry to know that each woman goes through their insecurities and we know it, yet we can still manage to find a way to judge each other, compete with one another, and not work together. You are ALL beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you, because we are all made special - different.

They are both beautiful and young but sometimes we have to admit that we really need that someone who would tell us honestly what are the good and bad things about us.

01:06 Look at that slight change in her facial expression :(

great video

this really made me cry a lot.... they really look just great, they have no idea... This is just so sad it hurts.

A true friend could never fathom these type of views and beliefs toward the other.

Damn

i’m gonna cry

These woman are incredibly brave. I couldn't imagine vocalising the thoughts I have about myself, especially to someone close to me

Yeah I hate literally every dimension and detail of my body, including my smile and voice so it sucks a ton to feel this way about yourself. I can relate to where they're coming from.

Well Damn Can They At Less Say One Nice Thing To Each Other

if your pregnant your nose spreads?!

The way they looked at each other

These are honestly the best best friends on the internet. Fight me but it's true. This is such a wholesome video.

This was way too far wtf.

Omg this was hard to watch wtf

Those two made me cry. I always think of that everyone has insecurities. it's just important not to be controlled by them. Easier said than done sometimes.

THEY ARE BOTH SO GORGEOUS. It's so sad that women and men both think they have to look a certain way to be loved and appreciated.

Wait are they judging each other or themselves

why would they do that ?

bro I would just stop if my best friend started crying

When she said “he wouldn’t have cheated if I was skinnier” really made me wanna cry😭😭

This friendship is so cute and priceless 😍😍😍 they both come from different backgrounds😍😍😍

wait, your nose gets bigger when you get pregnant?

woow

I love the message of this so incredibly much

Omg their friendship is so beautiful

Be happy with yourself. Macdonalds is just round the corner.

Okay am i the only one that sees that neither of them are ugly?

I love these two women. Their friendship is beautiful.

I love their friendship! I wish they knew just how beautiful inside and out they both are.