I didn't get the vibes that Alexis is in love. Instead, it felt like ALR was constantly crying and complaining about tommy to Alexis, then restarting the relationship and disregarding her friend until the next breakup. This cycle shows a complete lack of consideration for the friend. Speaking from my experience as a straight woman, I was in a similar position when I was younger, but I eventually when I get older I could not cared less about such 'friendships.' However, I'm not sure if it's the same for lesbians.
@@musicsonlychild In my early adulthood, I had experiences with some female friends who would happily throw me under the bus for their toxic partners. Sometimes, I wouldn't even say a word against these partners, yet they would spread false claims about me, and my friends would validate them. I believe this behavior is part of a socialization process where women are conditioned to prioritize their partners, sometimes to the detriment of their friendships. To be clear, I'm not referring to having less time for friends due to being in a relationship-that's expected. Rather, it's the complete lack of consideration and respect for a friend once they have a partner that I find troubling. And when they broke up or have no friends anymore, they come back as nothing has happened. Not generalizing, I have never done this to a friend or my friends of more than a decade would do this. However, these experiences in my early 20s have made me very selective about my friends now.
Yeah it’s a classic bpd friend move to complain about a partner and how toxic they are, then secretly be loving the disfunction and go back to idolizing them and if you remember the bad stuff you’re the bad guy.
Hey Alex, just wanted to tell you that your lives are part of my routine now and I sometimes laugh out loud along with you, it's like a gossip session with a friend, I love it!
The call with Alexis is a great display of Amber’s mental gymnastics and thought process of how she continues to justify things just for her own gratification and tries to avoid accountability
I feel like some or all of Amber's recent drama/"life updates" have been staged or planned at least in part. I'm sorry I'm just not buying that all of this is 100% real and not for revenue. Doesn't change the fact that all of the people involved are a disaster
That Alexis fight tho. It was because "concern for Amber" then "she gets put on the backburner" then "she doesn't always show her love for Alexis" then it was because ALR "brought up her partner". Wtfeeeever gorls! First off, if the beef was real you'd KNOW why and the tension would be real, you wouldn't be making your other friends wait and y'all be late 2 HOURS for a concert. It's convenient timing to garner more positive vibes for Alexis, allegedly, in my opinion. Imagine if ALRs bestie ever ACKSHUALLY betrayed her to Haydur Nation...oh lawt!😂
i’ll stand by that amber isn’t smart enough to orchestrate all that. she just surrounds herself with immature silly people because she is that as well.
I think all of it coming out when she went public with tommy is also a part of the cycle, while she’s in a relationship and after she gets out of one she’s still singing her partners praises until she starts a new relationship. After that she flips and starts talking bad about her exes
I think Amber will move out by Tommy. Tommy will quit working and depend on Amber. But Tommy does not have full custody of her daughter , so this is not going to be a big issue in their relationship.Tommy may continue to engage with other people secretly. I think Tommy is more dangerous than Amber and believes that she can con people into believing whatever she wants.
The way ALR is defending Tommy SO hard. Did Tommy ever explicitly apologize tho? Like, did she take ownership of how what she said/did during her poor mental health? Beeeet she diiiidn't thoooo
I think she was using Amber's playbook. I loved my deceased partner so much, now I just want to be with her. Really? And you're on these social media channels trolling for the next person? I think that at this point this Tommy is better at these mental games than she is.
I just remember accusing another ex of dv to ruin their life. She was surprised Casey came out to refute it so she should be concerned that Faline comes out. Amber will then blame Alexis for using her real name (as if we don’t all know). I think Alexis went to Jordy for backup when Amber throws her under the bus and blames her for something going wrong in Amber’s life.
Amber acted like no one knew her name was jade. The way she reacted to Alexis was so stupid. Your not fooling anyone with that amber we all know her name
I'm not going to start liking Alexis just because she dragged Amber in front of us. Alexis is just jealous and that's what this is really about. Alexis seems just as unstable as Amber, and I think they both trauma dump on each other. In another video, Alexis had talked about what a good friend Amber was, and she had always been there for her. Alexis wants Amber's full attention 24/7.😂
I hope your life goes the way you hope. You may think negative thoughts some days, but they're feelings, not facts. You're wonderful just the way you are ❤❤❤
Amber and alexis are the same, if you're not giving 100% of your time and attention you're giving nothing And SKIN LIGHTENING PRODUCT FROM TEMU?!?!? noooooo chantal sooorry
The California Kitchen Barbecue Chicken Pizza is my all time favorite frozen pizza!!! It actually leaves me feeling full and satiated which is very rare with pizza 😂
She deleted it to take back control. Alexis insisted on the live call and held her accountable publicly. ALR has basically said eff you this is on my terms not yours 😂
What bizarro world are we in that a woman is upset over losing her friendship with ALR? That's wild LOL. Through the many trainwrecks of ALRs online existence, one thing always stays the same and that is she can't and will never see someone else's perspective. You either agree with Amber or you're wrong. Get out while you can, Alexis girl. Ruuuuun. 🤣
You know all those times amber came on camera and said only the people in her real life know how she truly is?? That's the only true thing she's ever said. Only they knew just how manipulative, childish, and awful she really is.
Did Alexis know Jade or Amber first? Alexis says she was in a relationship with Jade for a month after they broke up. Was Alexis responsible for Jade and ALR breakup? Is Alexis now trying to cause a breakup with Tommy? Did Alexis cause the breakup with Valentine? How does Alexis fit into this puzzle?
They're all giving explanations for everything they say and do, and not giving anyone else concessions for their unique experiences to the situation type deal. They all stonewall each other while demanding understanding. 🤣🤣 I licherrly can't right noawur you guyzz
I know everyone likes to support anyone who goes against ALR, but Alexis is SUPER manipulative in this situation, too. Ultimatums and trying to control who your friend dates is CrAZY. They are both a mess in this.
I love Philadelphia. I lived there from 2009 to Feb. of 2008 when my mother past away and left me her home in NYS. I also spent a year in Philly from 1984-85. I was fortunate to live in Center City, loved the access to buses and subways and walked my a** off shopping at a great Italian deli, going to the farmers market, Whole Foods on South Street and Trader's Joe's on Market Street. I lost maybe 40 pounds walking around the city, enjoying wonderful foods and markets, preparing my own fresh food at home. I know some things have changed since I left, but nothing stays the same. We have to relish the good things we have known and not be angry because times change. I hope things have not changed that much from what I knew.
Whoops, I meant Occtober 2001. I left NYC within a week after this happened and only went back to pack up and get out .I was living in NYC in Brooklyn Heights within view of the Twin towers and sadly saw the whole thing that happened with the planes. I got PTSD from this as I knew some of the people who died who went back into the Towers to rescue their employees. I couldn't hear about it mentioned again within crying. We could not leave our homes for nearly a week. No food was being delivered. No one knows our stories, We saw people jumping rom the buildings, papers that floated down and coated our stairs and our homes. It was horrible and I will never forget or forgive it.
“You never like anyone I talk to” “I did like Jade” “WOW YOU LIKED HER WHEN YOU KNOW WHAT SHE DID TO ME?!” 🙄 so she needs to like her gfs but not jade and she needs to hate jade cause of what she did to Alr but can’t hate tommy for what she did? Ooooooook girl
Depends where you’re at. Being a teen in 2011 I was buying “Reggie” for 20$ a dub & for “hydro” we were paying 35-40$. - Fast forward to now, our state is a legal state in the Midwest and we’re selling mid 8ths for 25$ and some of the better quality goes for 35-40$. I think the most I’ve ever paid for a 8th here was when we first opened for medical. 70$ a 8th 😢 oof!!
I don’t know why I’m so pissed off by this but it’s absolute bullshit that Chantal is using surgery as an excuse for dropping out. Unless she had some major operation that required months of recovery and rehabilitation it wouldn’t affect her schooling. Even if she did have something major they have medical leave available for situations like that. The beauty of modern surgery is that the recovery times are very fast and only take a couple weeks to return to normal daily activity like school or work. Its just Chantal being lazy as always and looking for any out she could find to get out of having to learn.
This is how it seems to me too. She was satisfied being ALR's friendzoned lap dog waiting for Erica to get out of the picture only to have ol Slommi swoop in first.
OMG California Pizza Kitchen! I live in the UK now but I loved that place! Interesting they sell it frozen now. I’m sure I used to get one kinda Asian inspired with chicken and peanuts on it? Yum!
I don’t think Alexis is jealous. I think she’s tired of Amber making poor choices and going to Alexis constantly with her relationship drama and when things are good she forgets about her.
Amberlyn has all the excuses for everyone all the way until it’s over-over. She’s basically saying , Ya Emily has been abusive and said horrible things to me( after Two weeks or whatever) but it’s because she’s struggleen with hard mental health type deals cause of the INTERNET. She took that out on me and i cried to you but like she’s perfect and everyone is so wrong about her ! So hectic
I know this video is old but I have to say as a member of GenX I am EMBARRASSED by the whole “rise up” thing! Stop it! Why are we acting like it’s a flex that our parents didn’t give a sh*t where we were half the time, and we pretty much raised ourselves. I’d be ashamed of myself and the mother I was to my son he explained his childhood like that. I mean, yes it’s true. We were kind of left to raise ourselves, but why is that something to be proud of? All it really is, is the reason most of us have mental health issues and the internal struggle about getting help because we were taught that “crazy people” went to therapy or took medication. Not really something I’m proud of I can tell you that much
I thought the best part about Gen X was that we were always left out of the meme wars. Inserting themselves to hate on the generation that would be our children screams Boomer.
