These woman are extremely mean spirited and unhinged for doing this. Then attempting to gaslight everyone into saying Amber was completely at fault? Nahh fam.
I could not believe how many people were defending these two clowns just cause they don't like thinking of Amber as not guilty in this. These two are crazy
i think it was more of like a personality reveal nd conformation also what theyve done is no bueno but the tac tics amber used when a person doesnt wanna mess with her anymore is craazyyy
@@vannamaae it was way more than a personality reveal! He used good points! He didn’t feel bad because they trolled her first. Everyone’s like poor Erica when she went behind her wife and kept texting Amber and on top of it as I’ve mentioned they trolled Amber first. Other people only saw Amber reaction but Alex looked past that and realized Erica full of it and could be manipulating her/us. If Erica wife didn’t see that message on her phone, they probably still would’ve been talking. Erica was the one being sneaky and even lied to Amber and said her relationship isn’t serious. There’s way more to it than Amber’s personality. Most reaction channels focused on the tic for tac because Erica made it seem like Amber had a g*n to her head and she couldn’t tell her no (to try and save her marriage) when the reality is she hid a lot of things from her wife. Erica caught feelings and her wife had to stop it! Erica is full of it. She seems like one of those people who gets bored and wanders off. That’s probably why she’s keeps a leash on her! This is the wife karma too.
I unfortunately side with alr on this. Convincing someone they are loved as a joke is so disgusting, and can have lasting effects on that person. Obviously alr shouldn’t have gotten involved with a married woman. But these women knew ambers mental state and abused that
I’m sorry, but the absolute nerve of them to accuse ALR of manipulation, etc. when they conspired as a couple to catfish her! Wtf can you even say about it?? 🤯
@@dianahutsel7101I’m tired of the “she knew she/he was married” lmao because the wife forgot all of a sudden… that’s the same ish yall say about cheating men😑 they even said in the beginning they downplayed their relationship just like men do when they get bored and cheat. Start holding the actual cheater accountable because the single person always takes a blow when these married people are the ones acting single. Stop infantilizing people especially masculine energy like they can’t say no LMAO it happens all the time.
ALR is a manipulator, they are just manipulators as well. A lair can recognize another liar and call them out on it, it just takes critical thinking on wether to believe them. In this case, accusing Amber of being obsessive, clingy and manipulative all tracks, she’s proven in the past to be all three. Remain skeptical as to why Erica and Brittney did what they did, what did they have to gain from it? It sounds like they’ve been trying to go public with this for a while and Amber revealing Erica as Valentine was the perfect opportunity. In my opinion they wanted attention and they got it.
@@TheSpiritRoom23 hold up, when this started it wasn’t Cheating because the Wife Brittney was in on it. I doubt she cares about her marriage if she’s okay with Erica who was already unfaithful in the past pretending to be in a relationship with Amber. Once Brittney was annoyed with how clingy Amber was being and how much of Erica’s attention this was taking, she said stop the game. At some point Erica admitted to developing some type of feeling towards Amber and continued to message her behind her wife’s back. At that point it became cheating. By then Amber was trying to invest further in the relationship, but was confronted with the information that Erica and Brittney are a committed married couple. According to Brittney she confronted Amber directly, and there’s a phone call of this, that Amber needs to back off, and that she and Erica are together in their marriage. According to Brittney Amber continued to pursue a relationship after the phone call, and even thought it was appropriate for her and Erica to remain friends. I’ve heard people saying, you can’t change how you feel about someone, once you caught feelings, but Amber was lied to, and I agree with her perspective cheated on. If she was told Erica was romantically available to be with her, but the entire time was having relations with her wife, that’s cheating. I don’t feel bad for Amber because she too was cheating at this time. Tommy was in the picture while she was trying to convince Erica to leave her wife, according to the couple. According to Amber, she believed the marriage was an open marriage, which makes her concerns about Erica being intimate with her wife strange. Based on how Amber speaks about Brittney she seems to still dislike her strongly, and still feel jealous about her position in her relationship with Erica. Amber also said she did suggest to Erica to leave her marriage with the assumption that if it’s an open marriage, then Erica must not be happy with just her wife, which is an extreme violation to open marriage. Timeline: In the beginning Erica was cheating on Amber with her wife, according to the couple. Erica told Amber she wasn’t in a romantic relationship with her wife when she actually was. According to Amber she was aware the couple had an open marriage so Erica being intimate with her wife wouldn’t be cheating. Next, Brittney wanted Erica to call things off with Amber, Erica continued to communicate with Amber and admits to developing feeling out side of their arrangement to hurt Amber. Amber corroborates that Erica did indeed have feelings for her, and is unclear if this was ever a prank to begin with. At this point Erica is indeed cheating on her wife Brittney. According to Amber there was a heightened level of explicit material being shared between her and Erica behind Brittney’s back. Finally, Brittney Confronts Amber and it’s clear to both parties that Erica is in a committed relationship with her wife. According to Amber she believed they were in an open relationship and once that was corrected, she wanted closure, and to remain friends. According to Brittney Amber was still seeking a romantic relationship with Erica after the confrontation. I agree, hold Cheaters accountable, Erica cheated on her wife and that was horrible. But Amber also admits to encouraging Erica to end her marriage because she wanted her, which is also immoral and of low character. And Brittney conspired with her wife to troll Amber in a fake relationship which is sadistic. I don’t think Brittney was being protective of her marriage, and I think Amber was actively trying to destroy it. Erica lied and cheated on her wife, she entered a fake relationship with the intention of hurting Amber as a joke. No one is innocent in this scenario. But honestly, I think Brittney and Erica are deeply disturbed, Erica even more so for being the one to smile in Ambers face while laughing behind her back.
@@dianahutsel7101she was told originally they weren’t in a real relationship. I’ve never been with a married person myself but I don’t judge people who are after being lied to. After months of being live bombed Amber was told the truth. It’s emotional abuse. I don’t like amber but she is the victim in this situation.
This is so mean, gives me the same vibes as asking the dorky kid on a date as a dare . Also, this person sounds like she’s threatening ALR in the second call, wonder what she’s so afraid of..
Erica and Britt are unhinged. I don't like Amber, but these two are vile for trying to make her the villian in this. Amber was not the one who started the relationship. Amber was not the married one. These two loons actively "trolled" her for laughs and fame, and then Erica fell for her, and somehow Amber was at fault? Erica would have never been "manipulated by Amber" in the first place if SHE DID NOT MESSAGE AMBER FIRST!!! Totally craaaaaazy. These women are in their 30s and tried to troll Amber like some mean tweens. What a wild time when Amber seems like the most sane person in the room.
@@Adrian-qk9jhno one is denying Amber's past crimes, nor am I comparing situations. But, in this case- Erica and Britt are the villains. It is okay to not like Amber and still call out other people for their hideous actions. More than one person can be vile. It isn't a contest
@@onceuponanexploration6048 Erica didn't "Catch feelings" she's romanticizing it to make her seem the better person. She was just a bitch and she doesn't want flack for it.
She’s a “therapist”? I feel bad for her clients. She was okay participating and encouraging the victimizing. But then claims victimhood when it blows up in her face. The righteous anger just doesn’t make any sense here from her.
I agree! And who is that whispering in the back ground? This is really disturbing and I feel sad for ALR and while she is problematic, they invited this in and manipulated a real persons feelings here. Truly shameful.
I could be wrong but my gut feeling I've got, is that Brittany and Erica wanting to string Amber along for gifts/money get some tea and blackmail her for more. No wife is going to tell their S.O. to tell another woman that they are available... as a "troll"? No not buying it.
Or Erica could’ve been sneaking behind her wife back because she caught feelings for Amber. If her wife never caught those messages they probably would’ve still been talking…
I’m not sure if I understood ALR properly but it seemed as though the wife was physically present in one of the sexual videos Erica sent ALR. She said something about seeing a foot in a slipper. Maybe it’s a weird kink too? Ugh I don’t want to think about it.
I think Jordy is a little too naive. He's believing their story and I just don't believe a lot of what they're saying right now. I think they're trying to do damage control. Also reminder, they, or at least Brittany, has been reaching out to reaction channels way before ALR even mentioned Erica's name. Now they're getting all worked up about the exposure. Make it make sense.
Maybe it's one of those cases where they feel like if they say their own names then it's Cool but since amber did it first and not to mention she promised to not dox them apparently, that makes them upset bc that is a fd up thing to do and amber knew what would happen if she said either name to her yt audience
After today’s video and the call he had with them he’s started to become more skeptical like we all are now. Their shit isn’t making sense. Brittany’s superrrrr suspish in my opinion. Amber was in the live chat and while they were on the phone Amber put in chat “what about the 2400$” and Brittany was like you can talk to me directly about that and didn’t go into it anymore and stopped any conversation further on it. Erica was like what 2400? And Brittany was shutting it all down saying just contact me directly about that
An addiction counselor isn’t necessarily the same as a therapist. I’m guessing she’s more on the addict becomes the peer support sort of addiction counselor side than masters level therapist specializing in substance abuse. It would be a very bad look if she’s an actual therapist.
She still deals with people with mental health (In this case addiction) so to emotionally manipulate a mentally ill person is disgusting and she needs the higher ups to review her job.
I have been posting similar opinion as you, I am a mental health provider (DNP). We have ethical standards to adhere to and it’s honed into us during our training and education which culminated in licensure. No sane and ethical mental health professional would ever risk having their license getting suspended or revoked by potentially harming a person with mental health issues? Her story is sus
They're continuously contradicting themselves, it's absolutely nuts. "I've read all of their messages" "My wife never goes through my phone", "I'm not a therapist" "I quit that position voluntarily"... They can't even keep their own lies straight. I never thought I'd be on Amber's side, but here we are. They're possibly even worse people than Amber, what a shitshow...
I hope Amber brings out the screenshots and buries these two. This shit is irritating me because it’s just straight up bullying an emotionally vulnerable woman. Amber seemed pretty genuine in her live. These two never have.
Their mistake was that they thought they were going to be SO JUSTIFIED and loved because it was bullying against hamby hahaha it's hilarious to see them scramble. Truth is that they are all peas in a pod 😂 Pathetic 😂😂😂 And Brittany has now left the fb group but I indeed saw there yesterday, the post were she calls hamby a planet.. and it was recent, not "20 years ago" like they implied.. They are all full of shit 😂 I'm glad that they were put on spotlight, that bit when Erica checked "her notes" about the exes and Jordy didn't want any of that shit, you could feel them panicking 😂😂😂 Trashy as it's finest, 10/10 season.
What I find no one is really mentioning, is that after Brittany orchestrated this trolling, and told Erica to stop talking to Amber 2 months later, that's when she messaged all the reaction channels. She wanted to give them fabricated tea, but no one paid attention to her until Erica continued to fall for Amber, and the truth came out that they were still talking, and Amber dropped her name.
I’m so relieved at these comments. Your audience is actually able to admit that these people were in the wrong. In many reaction channels’ comments sections, people are still saying Amber was in the wrong. Don’t get me wrong, we are haydur nation, but imagine being so socially/emotionally stunted that your biases don’t allow you to think objectively. Imagine the creepy hatefulness of people who are angry at ALR for being the sympathetic figure in this storyline. It’s so weird and uncomfortable. It’s just as bad as American politics. 🤦♀️😂🤣
Regardless of Amber being wrong and she is, how tf are they playing victim when their entire goal was to victimize her? Not to mention Erica admitted to sending the moon pic that said I love you and the lego. I'm not spending hundreds of dollars on ANYTHING I'm not serious about
You’re the only person I’ve seen lately still acknowledging that Amber is in the wrong for her manipulative behavior. Gorlworld has seemingly lost all ability to realize any sort of nuance in this situation. Yes, Erica and Brittany both suck for what they did, but Amber was still extremely manipulative and controlling. Both parties are in the wrong.
@@annaf2091in this situation Amber is not equally wrong. Yes, she should have ended it once she found out the lady was actually married but frankly it was beyond evil to fake loving Amber. Ericka did what a lot of other cheaters do to the people they strung along for months lying to them. I think that is why people can give Amber some empathy in this situation.
@@annaf2091I think no one is sympathetic to Amber manipulating other people. They are only saying they are sympathetic to her in this situation because it is 100% insane and unhinged to convince someone you love them as a troll.
@@emma2370 and I agree. Yet people aren’t mentioning amber’s manipulation and controlling behavior and are only focusing on Erica’s shitty behavior. That’s gonna feed ambers victim complex and let her think the way she (repeatedly) behaves in her interpersonal relationships is okay. There needs to be a blend of “wow Erica’s shitty but this isn’t okay either Amber” but all I’m seeing is “poor ambie Erica and Brittany are so mean and horrible for doing this to pookie”
I don't get why Brittany believes anything Erika is saying... I think this is all a big cover up for her cheating. It sounds like Erika twisted the story for her own narrative
FUCK I wish you left a timestamp for that! 😩 I'm going back and forth between like 3 different videos that are all hours long and listening at a faster speed (and this is day two of still tryigf to get through it all) so I miss a lot of the funny stuff along the way 😂😅 it's my own fault, but I gotta hear this one!! Do you have any idea around the time he said this??
Me too I saw some channels immediately claiming ALR is a home wrecker. Yea she's not looking good in this whole drama because she's a shitty person but these two psycho lesbians deserve more blame
I have been married for twenty years (and i am a few yrs older than Amber). I cannot imagine encouraging my spouse to start a online ‘relationship’, trolling or otherwise.
💯💯💯💯 I can tell you after listening to the Wife speak there is ZERO chance she is a psychologist, she NEVER would have made it past The interview to get into a master's program let alone a doctorate program. And a fact that being married to a therapist as well as being one myself neither one of us have ever worn scrubs no matter where we were. We also would never have gloves in our pocket she's probably a CNA in a psychiatric facility at best cuz her speech does not indicate any kind of formal secondary education.
P.S. and she said anything to Amber Lynn about her mental health and what she should do such as get off the internet your manipulator she can move her license for that if she had one you can't do that that is a huge no no,aka MALPRACTICE
Exactly. I have been commenting on this when people were saying that Brittany is a therapist. There is no way she has anything approaching a professional degree in mental health. I am a psych DNP (PMHNP) and we in healthcare especially mental health have to adhere to ethical standards. For someone claiming to be a “therapist” to troll and potentially harm a person with mental health issues like Amber, and to publicly seek attention from it? No freaking way she’s a mental health professional with actual credentials.
@@GL0580 it's funny, I actually found Gorl World because my husband (whom I met in grad school when we were working on our PhDs)started teaching abnormal psychology as an adjunct and I was looking for videos on eating disorders to help him out for his class and ran into Gorl World it's so fun to watch this and try to analyze😊
@@GL0580my jaw dropped when she said she’s a therapist. Her behavior aside, WHY would you admit that online if you had something to lose? She’s definitely embellishing bc she thinks it gives her credibility
@@beachgirl445Erica said Jade pushed Amber down and Amber fell on Jade’s laundry basket, leading Jade to berate her for it. She also said that at one point Amber had to take a knife from Jade’s hands. And then at another point Amber slapped and choked Jade.
Its not okay for Amber to discuss the releationship, that she got tricke into, but its okay for bub to talk about how wifey and Amber was in a domestic voilent releationship? OKKK
Despite what people think about Amber or her knowingly getting involved with a married woman, erica and her wife are horrible! Now they are doing rounds "telling their story" as if they are victims which they are not. Erica states her wife is a victim, but she definitely isn't smh
Okay, if you were a clinician on any level, you take some sort of ethics training. If a substance abuse counselor holding licensure (LCDC, licensed chemical dependency counselor) who goes through college courses to get that license, ethics is a mandated course. Ethics is on the state licensure exam as a subject you have to pass. Either way, a person should hold a certain moral compass. Not saying ALR is any better because they are all a dumpster fire, but no one should come out here with any sort of righteous indignation.
I’ve been put through this sort of situation. The guy that convinced me his marriage was over even had an apartment he was renting and hosting me at. None of it was true. I was just a pawn in the married couple’s game.
I don't believe a word these people say, if you do, seek help. These are the same type of people that one of them has an affair so the other one will demand that they kill the person they cheated with. It's happened thousands of times with crazy people like these two.
the weirdest part for me is why start a con on someone (trolling alr) that you dont have the guts to follow through with? why act like you can steal alrs heart and then (i assume the plan was to) break it when you clearly cant?
You deserve to be loved how you want to be loved. Don't settle for something that makes you unhappy. Allow yourselves the happiness you have every right to have ❤❤❤
Pardon..did Brit say she is a 'VICTIM'?! She's not- none of this would have happened if she hadn't told Erica/Erika to message ALR to begin with. Brit, girl this whole thing is YOUR fault. She's not 'victim', she's mad she got karma'd.
Wow, they thought this would make them look good? The apathetic faxx video destroyed any remorse I felt for Brittany. I feel like she blackmailed Amber for $$ after all this mess even tho she started it.
I’m sorry but ericka and Britney sound absolutely unhinged. I don’t think Britney is actually a therapist but if she is her license should be revoked. I don’t like amber as a person but this is really deplorable.
Erica is a clown. She expects us to believe that she was trying to troll Amber but instead got manipulated into falling in love? Very strange. And even if that was the case, even if you don’t like Amber catfishing her and leading her on is an evil thing to do to someone
Obviously I’m here for the tea but exposing all the crap she talked about her friends/family doesn’t give Erica the credibility she thinks it does. It just shows she’s willing to throw anyone under the bus to deflect off of her. We already knew ALR is disingenuous about the people in her life, Erica just looks petty and it comes across like she’s lying and has nothing else to say
you know what I think? tommy moved in with her under the condition she would tell youtube they broke up and pretend they weren't living together. i'm not sure if tommy's aware she's giving us all these hints that they're living together - if she follows her channel, probably so. can you imagine if she wants a wiper so bad but still wants to let us know she's got one so bad that she loses the woman again? crazy
Alex whispering “I lived a double lahfe 👁️ 👄 👁️ “ TOOK ME OUT 😂 If reacting goes sour I will follow your ASMR channel babydoll. Also I’m sorry but Brittany is kinda the most fucked up to me. She claims she’s a whole ass therapist and out here gaslighting people for what?
This is all wild. However, for ALR to be in love with someone, planning their future together being this serial monogamist who is fully devoted when in a relationship. To break up and within a week be in love again and flying someone to your state. Is unhinged and cheating behaviour.
Amber has a lot of issues but she seems sane in this situation. What type of person convinces a person they know is mentally Ill that they love them as a troll? This is beyond unhinged.
@@emma2370 oh not excusing them at all. Just asking how a serial monogamist who wasn’t apparently entertaining other goes from being in love and commitment to one person and a week after breaking up you’re in love and having someone fly out?
5:28 watching replay - oh my gosh! When I was watching a video about the first call with them I was like “who the heck does she sound like. Why is it so familiar??” YOURE RIGHT, THEY SOUND LIKE BECK!!!!!
I don’t like Amberlynn and she’s so unhealthy in relationships but these 2 are wild for this…. At the end of the day they contacted her first and played along “trolling” they just weird. I think she is downplaying Amberlynn cause she’s embarrassed etc and the wife mad at ALR instead of her wife. They all just weird lol
I honestly think they’re STILL trolling. They didn’t start this troll together and Brittany just forgot about it or whatever and then got caught “off guard” over their situation. I think they are getting exactly what they wanted from the beginning. Attention and being side character molments. They just wanted to bully her. I’m glad ALR handled that weird ass phone call well.
Laws are different in every state, but I agree she can't sue because 1. They never met in person and 2. They admitted to deciding to troll her together..and then shared it in a voicenote to Zachary Michael which is now public 😂🤦🏼♀️ 😂 they are dumb and they are making empty threats! Also- unrelated fun fact, my youngest son's name is Zachary Michael!
Everyone involved in this stupid scheme needs help, especially that "therapist". Also, if anything this timeline just shows that she was still talking to Tommy while her wife was still alive and most likely knowing what we know now, she really was just waiting for her wife to die.
Re: investments, I was just thinking about how its actually insane that Amber still rents and hasnt even CONSIDERED buy a home. Like even a one story rancher would be good. If shes sooo independent she should invest in a house. Fr.
Not everybody wants a permanent address/settle down in one specific place. Amber was forced to move a lot while she was growing up and never had a stable home, I can relate to that because I also moved so many times in my life and I would only want to buy like a small cabin in the woods or a camper van but I don't think I could buy a whole house/ranch anywhere in the world because I don't know where I'll be living next year so that is too much of a commitment for me and I guess for Amber too.
I think it's perfectly fine for someone like Amber to rent. Owning a house or even a condo is a LOT of responsibility. When you rent you dint have to think about anything, you can move whenever you want etc. Amber's "lifestyle" so to speak isn't suitable to own property.
at the end, erica just fuckin rambing on about how amber doesnt like this that and the other, trying to get personal bringing her mom into it, lmao erica you are making it worse on yourself.. she's giving me anxiety with every voice rage and anger go further.
I think Amber lies about ex abuse to new parters to garner sympathy, attention, and a victim “protect me” vibe. It’s honestly disgusting. I wouldn’t believe all this about jade at face value…
Here are my takeaways from this: 1.) I believe that Brittany and Erica saw Amber's tiktok about liking "Masc and possessive girls" and thought it would be funny to send Amber a message because Erica is "Masc" and see if she responded. 2.) Amber immediately started responding and once it became obvious that she was going to continue talking and it seemed like she and Erica were connecting, Brittany told Erica to stop talking to Amber. 3.) Erica said she would stop and Brittany thought that was the end of it, but Erica actually kept messaging Amber in secret. 4.) Even if Brittany DID watch Amber's videos, she probably didn't realize that Erica was Valentine because she trusted her wife and thought they had stopped talking when she told Erica to stop. 5.) Erica at first told Amber that she was married but mostly for financial reasons and that she and Brittany didn't really even live together. Later, Erica told her the truth, but it didn't matter to Amber and they continued their relationship. 6.) Brittany found out that they were still talking, and THAT is the reason she started reaching out to Zach and other reaction channels way back when... because she had just found out, was hurt that Erica lied to her and was angry that Amber continued talking to Erica even though she knew she was married. She wanted to expose Amber then. 7.) Erica obviously ended things and she and Brittany told Amber that they wouldn't expose her if she agreed not to talk about them or put their names in her videos. Amber agreed, and moved onto Tommy instead. 8.) Amber outed Erica by saying her name in her video to prove that Tommy and Erica were not the same person, despite promising Erica and Brittany she wouldn't. So they came forward to spill the tea on Amber in retaliation. I honestly don't think Erica and Brittany originally wanted clout or to monetize this- I think if Amber had kept Erica's name out of her mouth they never would have said anything. They only came forward when Amber reneged on their deal. They might be enjoying the clout now, but I don't think that was what they intended on doing originally. I think Erica really did have feelings for Amber, and they just wanted to put this all behind them. They are being kind of gross now, yeah, but I think Amber did this all to herself by saying Erica's name on camera. Also.... I have a sneaking suspicion that Alexis is the girl that Amber "fell in love with" immediately after she and Wifey broke up..... Anyway, sorry for the novel! Just trying to get this confusing-ass timeline straight and though it might help someone else!
Brittany set erica up to do it and when she realized she was losing control and erica was actually catching feelings she wanted to put a stop to it. These two are sick and brittany is the leader
